I turn 20 in two days and I'm a virgin. I want to go to the gynecologist for various reasons, but I have a few questions.
1) can I reject having a speculum/finger/exam and be okay with just the breast exam/pelvic exam? 2) can i get birth control for acne if i reject the vaginal exam? 3) will the doctor look at me funny since im an almost 20 year old virgin?
I feel for you Op. come to my house so neither of us can be virgin
Ayden Watson
Yes Yes No.
Brayden Evans
Life tip: when you're feeling anxiety from a social situation, realize you're not special and no one gives a fuck what you do. That doctor will forget who you are after 30 minutes.
Carson Robinson
His assistant remembered me from the birthmark on my ass shaped like mickey mouse
Eli Long
easier said than done user
John Bailey
stop trolling my serious thread ive read expieriences about young women feeling ashamed bc of how the doctor reacted
Ryder Gonzalez
>other people feel ashamed because I do too.
Just rate the doctor badly on yelp or whatever if they act like asshole, hurts them way worse than they hurt you.
Isaac Barnes
Don't let social anxiety stop you from seeking thorough checkups. I have a 1 inch penis and always let the doc fondle my balls.
Adrian Peterson
There is a smaller speculum for virgins.
Also, my girlfriend was 21 and they did forgo the test because she was very anxious about it.
Jace Anderson
Thus shouldn't be causing you so much anxiety as a trap.
Jose Clark
Being a virgin is only a big deal if you're a guy.
Zachary Cook
My girlfriends is 22 and she is still a virgin (she is very religious), recently she went to the gyno and her exam was just fine, the doc only asked her if she ever had any sexual activety before, and she told him the truth.
Honestly, don't worry about it too much, I know it can suck for you girls, but is a common and normal procedure.
Ian Ward
>have hand fetish >but not a black girl hand fetish Oh well
Eli Carter
Birth control use has shown to damage the frontal lobe of females.
Wyatt Fisher
Source? I've never heard such b.s.. Also which pills? There's different kinds of bc pills. You sound more uninformed than anything
Ethan Adams
"Birth control" includes everything from pulling out to actually getting surgery to have your junk fixed, are you sure you have any idea what you're talking about? Sounds like you dont
Xavier Hughes
It's been shown to cause cancer, lower their fertility for the rest of their life, make them mostly inorgasmic while on which lasts well after using it has stopped, make them unattractive to men and change who they find sexually attractive overall.
Not heard about it making women brain damaged though.
Brayden Wright
Just say you're religious.
Joseph Rodriguez
Is this like penis inspection day for girls?
Levi Cook
I'm a male 20 years old virgin. When people discover they act weird, but I just ignore. You need to learn to love your purity.
Adam Sullivan
You're lucky bro, you found a pure waifu.
Asher Ortiz
I'm sorry but again there's not a single source listed. You guys are really bad at this game Don't ever come to this board for legit advice, it's comprised mostly of clueless, bitter, angry manchildren. You'd be better off googling your question and sifting through many sources there
Robert Stewart
Just slam yourself with a dildo. Problem solved
Jace Powell
It's semi common knowledge by this point. Just do a simple google search for birth control side effects.
Evan Clark
>1) can I reject having a speculum/finger/exam and be okay with just the breast exam/pelvic exam? Yes, you can refuse any kind of treatment on you >2) can i get birth control for acne if i reject the vaginal exam? Yes, but they'll explain some risk factors involved >3) will the doctor look at me funny since im an almost 20 year old virgin? No, also they probably won't even know unless you tell them. Just say no if they ask if you're sexually active
Liam Thompson
>caring what others think about you
Aaron Walker
Thought I was alone. I'm scared of visiting a gynecologist
t. another 20 y/o virgin
Nolan Davis
1)You pay the guy. If you don't want to, you don't want to. Just be upfront about it. That said, in Europe we have several sizes, you can ask for the smallest one. Though, it still will be uncomfortable, especially if you're tense. 2) Yes (where I live). I suspect you don't even need the gynecologist to get birth control, your physician should be enough. 3) If he does, change doctor. He probably won't, since they've seen everything.
Luke Perez
could you explain me this bro ?
how is "make them unattractive to men and change who they find sexually attractive overall. "
pills make girls to like even more masculine men, or more femenine ?
Anthony Price
>Being a buttmad christcuck because you couldn't get laid in high school so you just make shit up and hoard studies funded by your local "pregnancy crisis center" Fucking riveting chain of events, surely you are the first of your kind. Let me know when your wife divorces you for your ungodly porn habit and failed attempts to cheat.
Camden Hughes
The pill simulates pregnancy so that the body doesn't create new eggs. It changes what women are attracted to in a similar way to pregnancy. It would make sense that they desire a softer more 'provider' man once they are already pregnant, different than the hyper masculinity women are naturally drawn to.
Oh yeah, they look and smell all wrong to healthy virile men. And the feelings are mutual because they become hostile bitches towards them who don't find said men attractive as well.
Joseph Thompson
They are synthetic estrogens, xenoestrogens and women on it pee it out into the water supply. It is not filtered out as it is eitger they don't know how to, or they choose not to because it makes men effeminate. Why are there so many effeminate beta males and trannies who use emotion rather than their well endowed reasoning skills? Taking a fake hormone that tricks your body into thinking you've had a baby will damage your brain and reproductive health in the future.
Luke Turner
Related question to ask in this rare thread
How embarrassed should i be that I'm a 20 year old (f) kissless handholdless virgin? Honestly I was ugly as shit as a kid and then got social anxiety so i've never even been to a party. Before I knew it I turned 20 with 0 experience in anything. Don't even know where to start
Parker Baker
Tell her what you want before she gets all up in your snatch for no reason at all. I know bc can help with a number of hormonal issues, so be sure to communicate clearly why you want it. Also, be honest with the doctor whatever happens
Nolan Martinez
Heh, kind of like that study that showed that women find more masculine rugged men more attractive when they're ovulating, but "softer" looking feminine guys attractive when they're on their period.
Joseph Watson
Right. In my opinion this makes perfect sense.
Carson Morris
What's funny about this?
Cameron Moore
>3) will the doctor look at me funny since im an almost 20 year old virgin?
I had the assistants not believe me because my mom was there for support and girls will lie about that if their parents are in the room.
I was like "I'm twenty-fucking-three at this point it's more embarrassing to be one" and they apologized. Didn't lose it until a week before I hit 28.
I was pretty much you, but I've since "sprouted" and am nearly 30. Looking back, it was nothing to be embarrassed about. I "held out" for so long because it made sense to me (and was reinforced by stories from both my non-virgin friends and the internet) that casual sex with dudes is usually very unsatisfying for women and sex with a long term partner requires communication and compromise that younger men are rarely capable of accommodating.
Things that helped and continue to help me manage my anxiety and depression: getting Veeky Forums, general apathy toward what people might think of me.
Women are born with all the eggs they're gonna get.
Joshua Wright
>tfw hit 25 in August All in all my wizardry training is going well
Thomas Morris
Why does the woman in your pic have claws?
Mason Torres
This so so so much. Nobody cares about you lol stop making yourself so important. When I realized this I stopped caring about a whole bunch of shit people worry about
Ryan Stewart
>Women are born with all the eggs they're gonna get. Don't even know what to reply to this bullshit.
Chase Gomez
Huh, apparently studies have found this is fake news now. Thanks google. Next time just link something you dingaling.
Jaxon Davis
w8 srs? I take a shit ton of dbol and Trest and that converts to 17a-methylestradiol which is in birth control, does this example my recent lack of judgement and inabiltiy to concentrate??? Am I becoming a pregnant woman?