Wide hips

workout your abs and obliques and shoulders

You're just fat. And trim your gross happy trail

This.

From the photo I'd say you accumulate more fat on the legs than most dudes, that's why you think you look like a woman.

Start lifting you pussy. You'll grow MUSCLE and get BIG and that FAT will go away.

Dumbass, this just means you have a rectangular physique and not a triangular one.

Lofe heavy and you and your hups will look great.
Functionally, your build actually lifts better, wrestles better, cycles better. The triangles are better climbers, swimmers etc.

Lift heavy*