>Tell fiance I'm excited to go to the gym tomorrow.
>Want to lose weight to finally see abs and be able to climb more than three flights of stairs (6'3, 200 lbs). without getting out of breath
>Fiance doesn't, at 5'6, 150 lbs
>Been going to gym almost every day, trying to get better
>Fiance does not understand
>"user, I don't see the point in trying to change something you can't. Why not just be happy?"
>...
How's your day going, bros?
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>>"user, I don't see the point in trying to change something you can't. Why not just be happy?"
break up while you can user
Bruh you need to backhand the stupid out of that bitch.
Tfw slow newbie gains
Tfw car broke down
Tfw no gf
>"user, I don't see the point in trying to change something you can't. Why not just be happy?"
Self improvement is something one can take pride in, and be happy about themselves. It's an incredibly basic principle. She should understand that because she may not have interest in it, doesn't mean you don't. Get joocy af and make her realize that going to the gym will be a blessing for both of you.
For myself?
>Just got out of class
>Going to work in about 20mins
>Feeling pretty good,
>just got a job I really like
>lifts and physique looking good
>tfw no gf (broke up)
We're gonna make it - but I am not there yet. We are all just travelers in this board we call Veeky Forums. Depends on when you decide to stop. Don't stop user, the view is always better a mile down the road.
Lads I can't progress in any lifts at all
ok, this will hurt like a motherfucked, but imma be honest with you my guy
She does not see you as all that user, and her attraction has already faded too much to make it profitable to invest into saving it, you relationship is dead, you will never be what you aspire to as long as someone so close to you fucks your mind up like that.
Shell keep you down, and WILL leave you when better prospect appears, if you break it now, you might have chance in a future again after you better yourself, hovever, than you wont even want that bitch.
And jesus fuck, ive just seen this, she is only a fiance.
When she is still just a fiance she should be head over heels for you, do you think it will get better with time, do you really wanna marry this bitch?
Try different variations of the lift (decline, incline bench to build a bigger bp). Focus on dumbells and supporting strength.
>Fiance
It's not too late user.
I have been, dumbbells don't increase in small enough increments, all my lifts are at 35lbs dumbbells (yes I'm a skelly)
> "I'm never going to have a flat stomach, I don't see the point in killing myself to look good."
Do I leave?
yeah, she will never make you work to achive your full potential, even worse, she will block you and sabotage your tries.
If you remain with this toxic bitch, which would rather hold you on stat qou, just so she does not have to move her fat ass a bit and make something outof herself, you will, sometimes far away from now, look back and wonder what would yourlife be like have you had your balls today.
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That's okay if you're skelly. Just keep working on the dumbbells get to the point were you can rep out 35 then 40 then 45. Try not to go to big (Im skelly too) that's when sports injuries happen and you'll be back to square one. Be patient, and slowly build up that dumbell strength it'll help.
When do I move from dumbbell to bar? Total amateur btw, genuinely don't know
She's just projecting her own insecurities onto you. Have you talked to her about why you're doing what you're doing? Hopefully she's mature enough to communicate her feelings and understand your needs. How she responds will give you a better idea of where to go from there.
>tfw had another dream about my oneitis last night
i see her at my university all the time, fucking sucks and she often says hi to me so i have to say hi back but we never really have conversations
idk at least i still have the gym
you shouldn't be out of breath at that weight, i'm two inches shorter than you and the same weight and that doesn't bother me at all
you need to work on your endurance
Nigga why haven't you asked her out yet.
She's no where near as good as she is in your head user. Trust an user who's been there, done that. Just download tinder and fuck a random and she will be out of your mind (good thing)
i have. we went out a couple times, you could say we were a "thing" for about a month. she was my first kiss.
then she said she didn't want to go out with me anymore and that fucked me up for a while. most days i'm fine with it but it sucks when i have fucking dreams about her
Just find some tinderella, senpai.
well theres your problem, all experiences with girls you only achived with one chick so far, when your brain thinks about pussy, kissing, or girls in general, it bases images based on her.
Go through couple other chicks, and turn around, youll be suprised how insignificent this will seem
> gym candy comes at a certain time
> try to align my time with her
> she comes late on Sunday
> stay longer to enjoy peeking at dat ass
> tfw too dyel still to talk to her
>listening to women
Your first mistake incel
I'm in the same boat. I met my fiancee 6 years ago, and she has put on 45 pounds since. She is 5'4" and 185. She has no interest and even gets mad at me for asking her to exercise, even just trying to get her to come golf with me. I just resolved to split up with her, now I just have to figure out how to afford breaking the lease and getting into my own place.
Look her in the eyes and ask her
>are you genuinely happy?
>Im starting to hate my office job
>no windows at work
>massive project due by years end means I've been pulling 50+ hour weeks
>stress eating
>high stress+bad diet+no vitamin D has lead to terrible skin breakouts and suborheatic dermatitis flair ups, leaving my skin pasty and pimply and my scalp itch and hair thin
>still no social life in new city besides occasional dates/tinder bangs, no friends
>gym has been progressing really well (280lb bench whatup!)
>but feeling so so self conscious about my skin and hair makes me want to skip going every day
>every day at lunch I look at my range before I'd have to fill up on gas and think of just driving away
I think I'm just going to start going innawoods every weekend. I've spent the last several just depressed and watching football on my phone and laptop, and all that screen time is starting to wear my eyes out.
Women don't understand happiness, men achieve happiness, women are told when they are happy
>"user, I don't see the point in trying to change something you can't. Why not just be happy?"
Basically, I don't want to change myself so you're not allowed to change either.
Don't turn the fiance into a wife
Upgrade as soon as you're fit
>Never developed the ability to comprehend stress
>never prepare for exams with my friend group
>they spend hours in the library stress eating and studying
>day of midterms
>they ask where I've been
>"the gym"
>I can tell they all pulled an all nighter stress studying
>they ask if I even prepared
>shrug
>friends all tell me my life is falling apart
>as far as I can tell, it's exactly the same as it was before
>I knew the answer to every question on five exams without a doubt
>one girl left the test ten minutes in crying
>mfw she answered the first three then bubbled C for every answer
No one else understands this feel
>feel like shit all day
>had a cigarette after lunch and disappointed myself, I havent had one in 2 weeks
>get to the gym all pissy
>start doing some incline dumbbell presses
>two lads next to me, they looked younger but not by much (Im 23, they looked about 20ish)
>they were doing the same thing but with horrible form
>briefly check them in the mirror and notice that the one who isnt on the bench is watching me
>no big deal
>his friend stops and asks him if he did it right
>overhear the one stood up say sorry mate I was just watching what this guy is doing
>is he doing it the right way?
>hes doing something right, look at the fucking size of him
>I turn my head and try to hold in a laugh because I didnt expect him to say that
>he asks me if theyre doing it right and I spend the next couple of minutes showing them the proper way to do it so theyre not going to hurt themselves but also nicely work the chest
>they thank me and I finish what I was doing
>as Im walking out about half an hour later I make eye contact with one and he gives the old nod, I nod back
Well it went from a dogshit day to a pretty decent day lads, Ive never really been complimented in the gym before so it felt good. Sure would have liked it if it was a qt patootie grill but Ill take the compliments where I can get them.
Still quite disappointed about having a cigarette though, I need to quit this filthy habit.
>6'3, 200 lbs
thats not fat though user
good advice, but i don't fuck with hookups
if i want to get my dick wet i'll just jerk off or some shit, but i cant jerk off my heart
>studying in a group
Literally never understood this meme, I mean, if they all gathered in a fucking symposium with a mentor, possibly wearing peploi, and pushed and helped each other then I'd get it
But what's the point of going to the library all together to just read in perfect silence while being distracted by constant BO and the occasional thump or cough?
From what I can tell, it's an excuse to show snapchat how much time they spend studying because ugh woe is me
In reality it's just a pizza and coffee fest for 13 hours with 10 minutes of studying
Is that some sort of a shitty university? I dare you to come to mine and try to do this. People in Germany and especially in ''Exellenz Universities'' in one which i am, tend to study on hardcore mode for 10 days before the exam and still some of us fail.
Not that i am underastimating your intelligence but you have to consider at what level you are fight your way.
>be me army medic fag
>doing sick call
>cute girl waiting to be seen by the doc
>doc tells me to take her to the room and get vitals
>I managed p make her laugh a bit while I'm doing my job
>she's telling me about all her problems about waking up at 4am then going to bed at 8pm and NCOs passing out and pissing in her bed when thinking its their bunk
>I get started on the soap note and ask her what's wrong
>she tells me she's been feeling nauseas because of her pregnancy
>bonerdestroyed.jpg
>doc comes in and asks her questions about if she wants to keep the baby or not
>she says she doesn't know yet but is leaning towards abortion
>doc tells me to get her contact information to keep in touch
>I kept the number and text her 4 hrs after and tell her I know she's in a dark time right now but always remember life always gets better
>she thanks me
Fuck me bro. She might kill that kid and he doesn't even have a fighting chance. I know its not my business but fuck man what if that were me
you're fiance is a fat cunt and literal extra baggage, drop her like used smack needle
I'm pretty smart but do people not just pay attention in class? That's usually enough for me. Granted the class average was like a 70 and I got 100s
holy shit.
Do the right thing man. at least try and convince her to keep it. would you be willing to find a home for it?
Aye my lad, thats a tough situation. I would lean towards texting her and just trying to make her feel comfortable with her situation, she probably feels alone and that an abortion is her only choice.
It's not your responsibility to be a father or anything but maybe just a good friend, just get her talking about her feelings
Well if you have a 3 hours long class and after that that you have 2 more with 1,5 hours each with a small pause for 30 minutes, being concantrated might be a problem. It's a big deal in Germany for students to study afterwards at the library because you can keep on track with all the shit going on.
Yeah I texted her "well I'll see you later medics lead the way!! XD" and she hasn't texted back. If she does I'll tell her if she needs someone to tlk to I'll be there or something around that line
It's probably a multiple choice test
>>I kept the number and text her 4 hrs after and tell her I know she's in a dark time right now but always remember life always gets better
Kind of unprofessional, can't you get in trouble for that?
Just be smarter xD
In also seriousness though ya I'm an outlier but my point was people need to get that stress under control. Pop some xannys or something
Yeah I probably will but fuck it
Turning 30
Feel like I'm losing it. Planning on buying a new truck, also want an 80s Mercedes to take me back to my childhood. Also want to quit my job and make 50k less . Will any of this stuff truly make.me happy again?
Yeah mate, what's a career compared to some girlie that was nice to you once when it was socially appropriate to be.
I'm not in the military (yet) but can you go find her on base tomorrow or something and go talk to her or something or call her in for a check-up.
It's a very fragile situation and i personally despise killing unborn children but if you try to do to much you risk your job or hers.
Last resort would be to guilt her into not having one but then you risk your job. Talk about the lasting damage of an abortion how the pain never goes away and how she will think about what she did in the future, or tell her how most women regret them in the near future
Can't progress in life without her Lads
Nigga yeah you can lmao
get her drunk and shag her, wear protection tho
I can not
I alread did without
then what are you upset about
Ditch her but don't be a bitch about it. Tell her that she's fired and has until friday to provide and train a replacement. When she asks "what? just repeat it back at her. Whatever she says next, just keep saying what louder and louder while pushing her towards the exit door of wherever it is you live. Don't forget to slam the door in her face and yell praise the sun, then go to your favorite czechoslovakian mining consortium and post it in greentext format.
She's not there anymore man, my drive is gone
Some people studied for 10 days hardcore before an exam in my cattle tier uni as well and still failed. Brainlets gonna brainlet.
I feel spoiled to hell and back with my Ex-Gf being seriously into lifting
Every other girl looks so Normie, flabby, chubby, no muscly
>tfw flu season is going around
>been sick for about a week
>worst of it is over, still feel numb and shitty
>waiting to completely recover before lifting
>tfw was /saintmode/ before getting sick
>tfw didn't touch my penor for almost a month, doing good in school, volunteering at church and making gains
>tfw first 3 days of being sick was an unrepentant fapfest
its been a shitty week guys
good shit user...it sucks to break a clean streak but the shame is a good deterrent from smoking in the future.
Iktf, hate to say it mang but the only thing that heals all wounds is time. Keep improving yourself and keep to a fucking schedule, and use tinder to fuck sluts when you get your drive back.
Thats a recovery plan
Fuck tinder senpai, not the type of guy to swing his dick around like his heart
Why should i lift now if i have no one to share my gains with
>quit gym
>build home gym
>haven't squatted in months
>start lightly
>get incredibly horny when hitting depth
>dick gets hard and precum starts leaking in my underwear
Jesus I must surround myself with decent self-improving people but what the fuck? How delusional and ignorant does someone have to be to genuinely think this shit? Are all you fat fucks like this?
Read what you just wrote get a fucking test injection christ mate
I should shouldn't i m8
>never developed the ability to comprehend stress
Fucking this man, but i spend my time at the gym or pissing the day away and then i end up pulling an all nighter like the normies. Study alone in my room and always shock myself at how easily i pick up the subject matter and do relatively well on the test. Never really stress out tho, get alittle anxious when i know the test is less than 24 h away tho
Stop thinking of Scooby while working out.
Sounds like she's worried you'll get attractive and leave her
>germany
>good uni
germany i known for having shit uni compared to other western countries
I used to learn calculus by studying the test itself during the test and I'd Ace it. One kid in my class used to cry before it began. He threw up during the final
eat more
>>doc comes in and asks her questions about if she wants to keep the baby or not
>>she says she doesn't know yet but is leaning towards abortion
I can't be the only one who's disgusted at this. What the fuck
No probably about it
user even said the crying girl bottled it and just put C for every answer
> just home, got called into work yesterday at 11:30 a.m. to 7 p.m., then worked from 11p.m. last night till 2:30 p.m. today
>Took my crew out for breakfast so my IF schedule is off
>Haven't been asleep since Sunday morning
> Was planning on lifting today, but kinda beat now
This paycheck is going to be nice, but wagecucking can really throw the gains train off track sometimes
>decide to get Veeky Forums mostly to get a chance to fuck girls that had previously rejected me because I was a low-test chubby
>mission accomplished
>because of getting Veeky Forums, my standards have risen and at the same time, the girls have aged and started losing their looks
>end up softly rejecting them every time they offer themselves to me and go with younger girls
Women being flippant in regards to human life. Shocking
>Learn calculus
>by studying the test
>during the test
If it was multiple choice I'd believe you. you can deduce answers if you have a basic enough understanding, but my calc tests were written out and required we show our work
>he threw up during the final
Someone needs to post the pasta of the kid that shit himself during a lecture and ran out crying kek
Ours were half written half multiple choice. Still walked them. I'm convinced that it's 100% mentality though. A confident retard will do better than a smart but flop sweating guy who shits himself
it happens
Yes
Yes, she will never be supportive of your self improvement, let alone improve herself. And her attitude of the situation will only create a toxic environment that inhibits you from improvement.
this
>love my fiance, she is a 10/10
>she doesn't handle stress very well at all
>said she is overwhelmed with work, school, bills, our relationship?
>suggests we take a break so she will just focus on work and school (she will stay with her mum, who lives 2 hours away, so no bills for her)
>we still text every day and send pics about how we are doing, phone calls every night
>"If you think what you're doing is the best thing for you, I support you, but are we allowed to see other people during this break?"
>"What the fuck, no? Why would you even say that? Do you want to see other people, user? Do you think I'm seeing other people?"
>she starts acting distant, texts less and less, hardly calls
>act like I don't notice, but getting worried now
>lifts are stalling now, fuck
Did I fuck up? What do I do? I'm started to text her like a beta faggot and I fucking hate it.
OP here, I think I should leave her. She has mysterious full-body pain all the time.
You shit the bed user
I have no advice because I've never fucked Up that bad but shit man good luck
There's a difference between shitting beds and dodging bullets.
It's already dead
>Spilling your spaghetti this hard
Shes gone mate.
this. gl user, you're gonna need it
Well it sounds like he told his fiance he wanted to fuck another girl. Good luck spinning that
When a bitch is being a borderline psycho looking for an excuse to turn things sour anything will do. Yes he didn't exactly handle it well, but when your fiance asks for a "break" the best thing you can do is thank god it's going to be a breakup instead of a divorce.
How do people get this deeply invested in people like anons fiancé? Never understood how you could let it get that far
Shes been fucking other people, which is why she reacted that way when you asked. You just gave her an excuse to blame you and all her guilt turned to anger. Just move on.
That's called being a woman. Doctors have to make up diseases for them just so they'll shut up.
Legitimately every woman I know has this mystery disease
Dude, when a girl asks for a "break" she WILL fuck other guys. Seriously, don't listen to any guy that tells you otherwise.
In fact, when she freaked out because of this she clearly told you so:
>Do you think I'm seeing other people?
She has cheated (or is in the last steps of branch swinging) already and she got on the defensive when you started getting suspicious. What I said is also reinforced with the fact that she is cutting contact.
can you train your arms everyday or will it hurt growth or something. asking here cuz qtddtot is dead