Since guys generally have a higher drive than girls how does sex with your wife/gf work...

I'm able to fuck virtually at all times. She generally pulls me away when I'm in the middle of eating, so I know there's something important. Ejaculation has never felt better.

I think my gf has a higher sex drive than I do

mixed feelings

>middle of eating
fucking useless gf

I'm always eating, user. Besides, I get pulled away from my ribs and in to her meat cavern. I'd call it an upgrade.

My gf has literally no sex drive... she was always prude and disinterested in sex growing up, claiming that in school while all the other girls talked about their fantasies, she could never relate and wondered if there was something wrong with her because she doesn't think that way.
We lost our virginity together (at the age of 25 - we both wanted to wait til marriage initially but neither of us have ever been in such a deep love so we failed at chastity once we fell for one another after a year). The first two months our sex life was new to both of us and amazing, she sent nudes, talked sexually and flirtatious which is out of character for her and so on. After the "newness" of it wire off, she stopped perusing any sexual intimacy. Since then, hints been two years, I feel like she has sex for my sake only. She NEVER initiates, but seldom turns me down.

Feelsbadman.

She has such an amazing body too, size 4 at 5'7 128lbs. Well proportioned breasts and a round butt. Me on the other hand, I'm a recovered fatty. Was once 285lbs that went down to 185lb solid muscular build. In have a great physique now and it's because of it and my face that I was even able to score her, but I have loose skin in my abdomen. She says she doesn't mind but her lack of sex drive tickles my insecurity and I wonder if it's me.

Then again, she was sexually assaulted (tho not penetrated) by a person of high authority during her sophomore year, it went unreported. I wonder if maybe that has to do with it.

Either way, it sucks being then only one in this relationship that is interested in sex. What should I do fellas? Advice please.

be more attractive.

>TFW you actually go through with this and figure out even the ugly ones are subject to the same low libido.

Your only salvation is dread game via spinning plates and being polygamous while requiring monogamy.

she should put out when you want it.

She has a low libido with you. Witch Chad? She'll suck him off in the back of an alley.

This

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what does it mean if someone average approaches you? does it mean you are average, above or below? Do they approach up as well as date up?

Whatever you do don't feel entitled to sex or hassle her about it. It'll make it worse. I know from experience.

Wife has less drive. Especially now that I'm cycling. Don't really know what works but generally if I don't bother her about it too much she'll come to want it. I still initiate it though most of the time. Long term relationships are hard going bros

My gf developed self image issues and we had sex about 4 times this year.

Don't know what to do anymore, is driving me nuts.

>cycling
what you on currently?

Lucky for you that this crisis cropped up during the gf period and not wife period

either you find a comfortable common ground or you move on

I'm in my mid 30s. My last three girlfriends have all had WAY higher sex drives than me. If they could get it two to three times a day they'd be happy.

Yeah... worst thing is she doesn't really look bad at all. She just hates some features about her.

Thing is, I can't keep jerking off before going to sleep or spend time with her, or otherwise have a constant hardon all time im with her

gf has much lower sex drive than I do, we used to have sex once every couple of days, 4 years later I'm lucky if we have sex once per week or two.
she's gained maybe 5-10kg of fat in the last year and I've tried my hardest to get her into the gym but instead of seeing the weight gain and feeling motivated to lift she'll maybe workout once every few weeks and then eat ice cream later the same night.
I think my little jokes about her stomach or working out more have ruined her self confidence as I only get more muscular, she might feel beneath me now I don't know.
She doesn't let me jack off either so this seems to be heading for a sharp turn in the road.

>She doesn't let me jack off either

Never seen anything more pathetic if this isn't trolling

she caught me on skype with some random bitch jacking off and ever since has been really sensitive to it.. doesn't want me watching porn I should have said but still, if we're only fucking once a week what can I do

>High sex drive
You cant make her gasm. If she says she is shes lying
>no sex drive
Abused
>same/low sex drive
Normal person, satisfying sex

You're a bitch boi. Have some self respect and stop wasting both of you guys' time. Pretty soon you're gonna be stuck with a couple of kids, a growing planet shaped like a woman, and a pathetic marriage. You want to be that guy at Hooter's pretending pretty girls think you're cute because you crave validation that you're gross wife doesn't give to you? You're fucking up bro

I had a gf with a pretty high sex drive. We'd probably fuck about once every 4-5 hours we had time together until my dick was too sore.

Later I learned that she kind of had a forced sex/rape fetish. So then even if she wasn't interested in sex (98% of the time she was), the thought of being force fucked turned her on that she got really horny.

That's genuinely pathetic. Move on my dude, the bitch is a goner.

Yeah dude, you've got it all figured out

>She doesn't let me jack off either
time to go

I always initiate now, sometimes don't get sex for a month and maybe a handjob. It gets quite frustrating as she doesn't understand how it feels for a guy I guess, when she gets around in underwear yet I can't smash it.

I am really ashamed to say I cheated last Saturday, she didn't deserve that. I feel so bad.

Honestly, I feel really, really tempted to cheat even sometimes.

I won't do it, but man... having a gf that isn't willing to have sex gets really, really hard.

Wtf is the difference between what you have and no GF besides the inability to meet new women?
Even if she is good person, your relationship sounds more like friend than gf.
Are you that afraid to be single?

If you're a catch she wouldn't be refusing you.

love, support, and companionship.

It makes it worth sometimes, but not having sex really puts a dent on everything.

>puts a dent on everything
Would find this to be an insurmountable difference myself and break up, but if she is perfect in every single other department I guess you could do everything the same live with it.
Alternative is to ask her to see a Dr or talk to psychologist... Or tell her this isn't working and you need to find a compromise.
But mostly you can break up and find something better

Well, she isn't perfect in everything else, but she stands me, and gives me what I need, minus sex.

We've already talked about that, and she's looking into getting plastic surgery (I said I didn't think it was a good idea) and started a spinning/dieting regime that she has been keeping up (to my surprise) for two months now.

I think we may be able to get through it but sometimes it is hard. Even more now that she's developing a bubble butt.

Weird thing is that she jumped straight into the surgery option, despite it being expensive as fuck, and ignored pyschological threatment, despite being free due to her healthcare.

My Gf wants us to wait until marriage. She's a virgin, I'm not. I've been having sex with an ex-gf on the side. It's hard.

>She doesn't let me jack off either

It's not a fetish you cuck

Ur going to pay for/subsidize her to look like Stacy, who will then get Chad

How so? I'm not spending any money on it, it's all on her healthcare.

Not every woman in earth conforms to the chad meme.

I initiate sex but she usually initiates affection. I might just lying on my bed browsing the internet and she'll come and snuggle up to me which leads to kissing which leads to sex. She has a pretty high sex drive though so I don't doubt she knows what she is doing when she comes in for cuddles.

What the fuck is it you need from a girlfriend besides intimacy, sex, and family? It sure as hell sounds like you got no kids yet, so the only thing you got left is sex, which you ain't getting, either.
There is no kind of "support" a girl could ever give me that any of my bros couldn't do 10x better. Feeling down? Boys take me out fishing. Just failed something important? Fuck it, let's go hunt.
Chaining yourself to a celibate relationship is desperate.

Have you ever tought you could be a friend to your girlfriend, and vice versa?
If you feel satisfied going out to fish with the boys to cheer you up that's amazing, I just happen to like to have a female friend to do that. And she happens to be my gf, too.

romance and sex is half of a relationship. If either partner is dissatisfied with that aspect you should break up. like really. break up with her.

Youre talking about how you fuck your girlfriend but Im still not sure whether youre gay or not.

>jacking off with another woman while in a relationship
you are the problem.

you are a fucking beta retard, dump that bitch and go fuck some other women

I'd bet you post either frogs or chad memes

thats what a beta would say lol

>"you are going to pay for it and she'll go after chad!"
>"I won't pay for it"
>"fucking beta reeee"

loving every laugh

>not posting those memes
>being this much of a beta
why are you on this board again?

you wont be laughing when she cheats on you with someone she actually finds attractive, you are literally just a tool for her now, she doesnt desire you. get the fuck out and be a man.

The sheer number of assumptions you make is funny.

Why are you here ? You obviously don't want our help, you just want us to nod in agreement with you that she still loves you. You can't make a rational decision. You're part of two whole generations of men that have absolutely no standards for women and will be grateful for anything they can get.

Nah, I want to read opinions of people that have something to say based on what I say instead of a shitload of stupid assumptions fueled by the chad meme and the toxic mentality this place fosters.

m8 if your gf doesn't fuck you at least 3x a week it's a dead relationship and you need to gtfo

seriously, wtf is wrong with you lmao

>High sex drive
>You cant make her gasm. If she says she is shes lying
My high sex drive is BECAUSE of the orgasms I think. When I masturbate I sometimes go for hours because of the consecutive orgasms, it's almost addicting. When my fiance pounds me, this gets even worse due to even more hormones getting released. The only thing stopping me is that he's pretty big down there and after 3 times a day it starts to kind of hurt and eventually my pussy will barely let him in, but it still feels soooo good.
It actually really motivates me in the gym, because obviously the better I look, the easier it is to get him crazy horny. It does work because he has trouble not constantly groping me, even while I'm trying to make dinner and it does sometimes end up with him putting me on the kitchen counter for a quickie.
I don't know exactly where this comes from, I was asexual before him, didn't really care for sex, so was a virgin. I actually tested my testosterone recently, not high for a woman, just average. I wouldn't say he's a Chad, because he frequents Veeky Forums too. I really only have these urges with him, I'm not even remotely interested in other men. I can't wait to marry because I never want to relinquish that dick, I want it for life.

listen to this guy

surprised how many cucks here aren't able to make hard decisions ... its like you guys have no self respect ... even after lifting

...

Mine only wants sex when im extremely busy like a saboteur. Like ill tell her 2 weeks in advance i have to be at X 3pm sharp or im in a lot of trouble. On that day Ill get ready and panic to get out and she just comes out of nowhere crazy horny. Or i have a ton of work thats due the next day and she just all over me. Days im just free she has 0 sex drive. When it rains it pours.

bro heaps of cunts here don't even lift

How do you feel? Can you live with it easily enough?

he is a lucky man my god

Either leave her and find a girl who will give you more sex, yet be careful of girls who are prone to cheating. Or live with what you have and jerk off all the time like I've been doing.
Do not cheat, if you're in a situation where you're drunk with a girl you've liked for ages get out, I was in that situatuon and it's crushed me what I've done. I can't believe I was capable of it.

when i had gfs, i would always be horny, 24 hours a day and i think they were too.
Most of the time they initiated foreplay with some kisses while watching a movie or just fucking grab my arm and put it around them and on their breasts while sleeping, shit was cool.

I usually started by kissing them behind their neck or grab their asses, that's when they knewi wanted sum fuk

hot

That's a girls way of initiating sex. I took some stupid online survey on Instagram or something about sex lives with my girl just for fun. A question came up that asked who initiates more and she said she does. By that she meant whenever she kisses me or cuddle with me she's initiating sex lol. By that metric she must want sex 24/7.

Gay

bump

larping?

It means you're slightly above average. Gain 10 lbs of muscle, get a new haircut, a new outfit, and a little dash of confidence. The average girls will stop approaching you and cute/above average girls will start noticing you.

Where the fuck are you guys finding women who never fuck you? I always figured women had a much higher sex drive than men. Am I out of the loop here?

I'm a wrinkled, fat, oldfag whose dick doesn't get as hard as you 20-somethings, and my wife still won't leave me the fuck alone for a solid nights rest. I am browsing here right now waiting for her to fall asleep before I join her in bed. If I go in now she will try to fuck me. I don't have the energy for this shit twice a day.

That's because your wife is disgusting and you've settled for her.

I'm pretty sure its very difficult tohave sex if you don't have your own place.

your son is fucking her
imgur.com/a/eSCne

My wife only occasionally initiates sex, but gets very upset if I don't every day, if not more than once a day. She wants it all the time, but wants me to be the pursuer. In my experience this is how most women are.

Nope, just a femanon. I wanted to share my story to kind of give you guys some hope. You don't have to be Chad for a girl to be all over you, and she doesn't have to be unattractive.

Been on Veeky Forums a few months now. An user here actually helped me make my first program. A while back during the fem/fit/ threads Cheekie tried to help me too.

She's very attractive.
Bullshit. When I was a teenager we had sex in the back of my car constantly. Quiet farm road, corner of the mall parking garage, etc. Get creative and have fun.

I'm willing to bet its all the birth control and anxiety meds women are on nowadays messing them up.

Just hire an escort. Once or twice a month is good, the strange keeps things fresh and interesting and you don't get bored of your girlfriend or wife because she is barely having sex.

>femanon
s-shit, didn't think they existed

You know they exist, there's even one with a trip on here, Cheekie.

I think sex is more enjoyable if its a lot of times with the same person than it is once with different people

>wew

Are you me?

Is..is this real?

So hire the same escort. I have two I see once a month each. A brunette 5'6 34dd, and a blonde 32b 5'8. They know what I like.. I know what they (probably pretend) to like.. and I have my partner.

>I'm a wrinkled fat oldfag
>She's very attractive

No. Maybe by your standards, but not the worlds.

She's sleeping with someone else. I'm not joking or saying this to rattle you. I'm just telling you that in all probability she's getting her sex elsewhere.

move on

Eh, I'm being facetious. I've been lifting longer than most of this forum has been alive. Just not as lean as the younger guys who spend all day painting their nails. Wife and I are both very fit, especially for our age.