Chill thread

Yeah, stay the fuck away from alcohol or drugs
Also don't make important decisions when you are not at baseline mood.

Or learn it the hard way like me

Stop wanking and watching porn you idiot

What helps you the most? For me it is socializing, staying away from booze and having a stable sleep schedule

>eating disorder
>has scars from carving in herself
>sex addict (once a day)
>extremely passive
>obsessed with me even though I treat her like shit

My dad saying I’ll amount to nothing and my will to prove him wrong and shove it in his stupid fucking face motivates me
Also surprisingly Veeky Forums

>eating disorder
>scars from carving herself
I would nope the fuck out of there nigga
>sex addict (once a day)
lol what? how is that sex addiction, stop jerking your dick user and cum for your girl

Quads of untruth, i dont watch that much porn but i still cant cum for shit with her.

I want to fuck random bitches but there are none where i live so i gave up the chase two years ago and then she stumbled into my life and wanted to be my gf, i said no and ignored her but she kept coming back

She is a girl so ill let this play out, she will prolly find a new guy any day now

>I don't watch that much porn
but you still fap? stop that

Basically wish I'd tried harder at school, 23 with a degree in economics, resat a year at college and resat a year at uni because I thought having a degree was my ticket to a cushty job and skated through. Had some serious childhood trauma with my dad beating us hen fleeing the country never to be heard from again and then my mum killing herself shortly after. So neither of my parents raised me and I was passed around by distant family and friends who just let me sit on the computer 16 hours a day to cope as it was my escape, I never had discipline instilled into me as I was mollycoddled so it's taken me far too long to figure out I'm not getting everything in life easily.

Bitch, i fap around once a week and i need to or ill go fucking insane
its not a fapping/porn issue, its a plain and simple issue of her not being able to provide me with what i need

You're not her boyfriend you're her psych nurse. Bail before she baby traps you and then offs you both.

If you can't cum from drilling your girlfriend's pussy then you need to stop pulling your meat dude

Sitting on the bus to meet up with my fwb at a museum. Got a 3 year work contract, moved out of my parents place and into a pajeets family home. They're pretty cool and don't smell too. Lifts are slow and steady since I'm a recovering skelly.

The thing usually on my mind is how to find my passion. I have interests but nothing really that ignites the fire inside. Any advice on that?

Prof told me I basically can't go to grad school. I spent all undergrad working in research labs and neglecting class. Basically only have a chance to get into really low-tier schools despite publications and years of research experience.

Lifts are slowing down, bulking isn't working very well. I did squat 1 pl8t and 2 for deadlift 1.5 months in.

might be in love with gfs friend, she's so fucking hot.

Because...why exactly?

I fap because she cant make me cum, youre putting the horse before the cart mate

Really could just use a hug

fuck your prof. and ask the grad admission if you have a chance

eat more nigga

don't do it unless your gf is shit . it's not all about looks

It's gonna sort itself out, user.

>Lifts are okay-ish, been having problems with squats but I know what I'm doing wrong and how to fix it.
>Uni is okay, I'm combining it with an internship and although I'm busy as fuck I like it.
>Social life is almost nonexistant, I don't have time during the week. If I'm lucky I'll meet some friends every saturday.
>Love life is even worse than social life. Rebooted tinder with a shirtless pic, got some matches and they talked first, even got numbers. One girl ghosted me, another does not seem really interested and girl no 3 hasn't even ansewered to my proposition of grabbing a drink. Exgf is the only one who lusts after my body and wants to hookup every week. If it was not for her I would have been on a dryspell for more than 6 months. Not mad about it, tho, I know I'm shit when it comes to girls kek.

Overall I'm doing fine, this saturday is one of my buddies bday and I'm buying his present tomorrow. I really want to see those fuckers.

Thanks for listening brehs, I'm lifting for y'all tomorrow

Those digits don't lie

Fucking communicate with her. If she can't make you cum it's probably her that is lacking in bed and you need to tell her what works and doesn't with you

Just started school and my social life is eh. I have friends but our schedules don't work out so I'm just going to and from school.

My girlfriend is at a university 5 hours away and I'll be a guaranteed transfer to the same their for next year if I don't fuck up, and I'm no slouch but the stress is mounting.

I'm typically down and more depressed most of the time, but a month ago I started hitting the shitty gym (just machines) at my school because it's free and am seeing rapid development. Plus I feel a little happier when I go

I'm also struggling focusing on reality instead of my phone

>really could just use a hug
DELET THIS

>Overall I'm doing fine, this saturday is one of my buddies bday and I'm buying his present tomorrow. I really want to see those fuckers
You are a good friend user, have fun for us

>lesbos
no thank you...

Also I don't know how I feel about my gf she's nice and loves the hell out of me, but it seems the feelings come and go at times depending on my mood. If I'm in a positive mood I can look to her and smile otherwise I feel as though we are just together because we don't have a good reason to break it off, thing is I don't want to break it off

Ex broke up with me about a month ago. Been using it as motivation to get my life together.

Working out and losing weight quicker then I thought. Just landed my dream job (where I get paid significantly more then my ex).

Only downside is that I'm trying to make friends and failing. My anxiety and depression are rearing their ugly heads.

Thanks brehs, I guess I'm just in a weird place right now. There's really just this one program that I'm excited about gonna talk with the director soon.

Gf is okay very much a spoiled only-child and always has me do everything in bed. she won't initiate a fucking kiss it doesn't feel great.
The friend, in addition to being hot, is just a really nice girl much higher energy and I've got a lot more in common with her than my gf. sucks man. Just wish I could've had a chance to meet the friend first.

She isnt really my type first and foremost and secondly im not the same type of guy now that i used to be so its fucking hard to cum

This isnt a problem that can be fixed, i want to fuck randoms but like i said i gave up on that because there are none and now she showed up but my heart isnt in it anymore

Hey guys, is it creepy to just randomly go up to a girl after class and introduce yourself and flirt? If so, how does one get the chance to make it now awkward? I'm super attracted to this once chick in one of my classes, but I sit all the way on the other side of the hall, and haven't really ever talked to her. I've only ever dated girls that I eased into a friendship with first, so... Pls advise anons

Made a friend who is a girl off of tinder and I'm pretty happy with it.
Not gonna get laid because of circumstances but it's the first time a girl has given me her number and actually seems to enjoy talking to me.

I know you guys are gonna call me a fag or whatever but she's actually cool and funny and it's the first time I've had someone "accept" me for my powerlevel (I haven't revealed all of it of course, but she has one too I think).

she can't make you cum because you fap user

I know this EXACT feel and it’s not going well.

She's the only person I've felt cared about my emotions and she's so infatuated with me that I don't know if we could be friends if we broke up.

I feel like I sometimes treat her like shit without realizing it and that she shouldn't have to be with me. I sometimes wish she would ditch me so I don't have to fuck up her life by saying I'm done

Similar situation myself, so far the easiest way to earn money is to go into the service industry, since it has flexible hours, cash on hand from tips, and doesn’t require a ton of experience. If you do that and spend your spare time practicing monologues, putting a resume together and using money to search for roles and get headshots, you can get some work.

needing daily sex without going insane is pretty much sex addiction. I had to leave for work for a weekend and she got pissed because she could sex for 2 days.
Ive been trying to break up for a while but pussy is really nice.

Not to be mean but if you have to ask this question here, you will most likely make it awkward.

Preddy good tonight. Eating lean high protein cheese burger pizza for dinner with some IPA, can't complain about that.

Deadlifted for an hour on monday, Squats yesterday. Was pretty hard doing squats two days after DLs because my back was shot, but I think I did well considering. Going to slam core and lats tomorrow.

Pictured, dinner. Made with 96% lean ground beef and light mozz, with Flat-Out crust. Not pictured, the rest of the beef which totaled 63g protein total.

okay this is going to be hard to do but if your serious you need to admit to the friend first that you like her
if she likes you to then you carefully break up with your gf and take whatever happens (yelling to lamp throwing)
then you start dating the friend but make sure to not be awkward around your now ex and be her friend

GET OUT OF MY HEAD.
I’m the same route brother. Tell me more about it.

>le nofap meme

What's it like to be at the bottom of the beta-male genepool?

thanks bro
>backstage really wants people to get naked alot

Read

>le obvious porn shill

Think that fat waste of spunk in your pic isn't fapping 4times a day? If he can even get it up or find it under his gut?

should I just not even bother then? Just getting sick of being the only single person in my group of friends...

Of course you have no idea how to fix it, man, it sounds like you've only began to look into the problem. Break it down into smaller problems, tackle each day by day until you have a full solution.

>i dont watch that much porn but i still cant cum for shit with her.

you should work on that low-test of yours, bruh.

I told a Colombian cam whore a joke. She wrote back "jajaja"

Zombie Mode just going through the motions. Feeling worn down and restless these days, like I need to get away but I've got no desire to go anywhere... so I just work.

m.youtube.com/watch?v=m_0qHRwU_sQ

Got a Cabbage and Leak soup on the stove with onion, celery, and cubed chicken breast boiling down. Had a protein shake for dinner. Trying to recover from a brutal upper body workout this week, doms in my arms, shoulders, and chest... just fuck my shit up... but the pump feels good.

My soul is sighing.

okay brehs I'm gonna do my best. Wish me luck, I'm gonna need it.

Thanks man, yea the problem was actually just found this week so tackling it piece by piece as most troubleshoot but the problem here is now the design might have to change for some things which makes this a bit more complicated......

>find out girl I was with at the time had been cheating on me with her ex for like three months
>ghost her
>tells all her friends I ghosted her and now I'm the bad guy

All her friends knew about this dude too. And they think I'm shit for cutting off all contact. Women are fucking gross little sociopaths and if I could be gay I would, but I like pussy too much

what a legendary picture

For all means try if you feel like it, but the answer is to become comfortable with talking to women in general, something which requires repeated exposure and increase in "difficulty" so to say - if you have social anxiety or feel socially awkward around girls.

The gf and i have been arguing a lot recently, but we settled all that shit so I'll see how it goes and desu I think it was just a rough patch so feelsgoodman, also the diet is going well and lifting regularly as usual so feelsgoodpt2 keep your chin up brahs it'll all be okay

So-so. Trying to get my shit in gear, get on a regular workout/study schedule but this semester is destroying me.

Plus I'm trying to chat up this tiny 5'0 math major (my type) but she keeps talking me in circles

Why did she cheat
What I want to know, is do women cheat on good looking, fit, smart guys who treat them well but are not clingy or beta?

Test levels are normal

don't know
why would you cheat?

If I was in a relationship, I wouldn't

>wanna ask this girl ive been getting on with out
>wont see her for 2 weeks and i doubt shell be interested then

also how do i get this horrible heart wrenching feeling to go away

"normal"

Women are disgusting, I completely agree, and gay men are the exact same way.

Might I suggest just merely jacking off and spending your time and sanity on more important shit XD

Just do it man. Someone has to make the first move, it might as well be you. You only get one shot at this life so lift, chat to women, and pursue your goals.

I'm doing good OP. I started going to the gym last month and doing starting strength. I'm in three times a week, and I'm stronger than I've ever been.

Thanks for asking. How are you?

I will never know. All I can say is that we had a good relationship, enjoyed similar shit, and had a lot of good conversations. She never made me cum once though, so honestly I don't feel like I lost out on this one. I just enjoyed having a girl to do shit you can only do with a S/O desu. Gave great blowjobs but I never came for her once

Navy PST tomorrow! If I can perform well enough I get a ticket to SEAL school, wish me luck, boys, I'm chasin the dream.

Did the whore and get a good girl. You'll have to be confident AND nice, though

There is nothing wrong with my test levels, dumbfuck

I show NO signs of having low test, not one so forgive me for not trusting some random asshole on a nigerian camel hoarding forum

yes but think about it
if the relationship is toxic, demanding or even just dull you can't just power through it
you date to find a partner in life not for the fun of it, and if you have no compatibility with the person the obvious answer is to break up, but some people don't know that you can still be friends so they are scared by the thought of losing someone they also care for
this would probably leave you very conflicted

>not that much
It's literally impossible to not cum for long periods of time. If you quit masturbating you'll cum for her

>I just need it, okay
>I can't stop whenever I want
>addiction to masturbating isn't real
???

Go out into the woods and bring nothing to communicate with anyone. 100% solitude and sit there. The mind and its ideals are like that of finding an animal in the bush. Maybe if you sit there quiet and still the animal will appear.

I'm sick and still depressed.
Also the job hunt isn't going well.

sounds like good shit honestly

That sounds kinda gay but might give it a go thx

y you depressed user
always make me feel better to talk about it

>recovering fatty
>weight is almost down below 230
>was able to complete a set of 1pl8 rows earlier today

I'm gonna make it, anons.

>school
it's okay, midterms in line with my GPA, except the course in which 100% of the grade is the final exam. Getting pretty stressed out, especially given it's all a bit ambiguous there.

>training
lost over 20 pounds since Sep when started laughing, but progress slowed down signficantly. Raise my working weights every session as well.

>social life
Gone up shit creek. It's fall, so everyone's busy, but last year I found several new long-term friends at about that time (been a bit over a year since I moved across the country). So getting nervous about that, and friends have become more reclusive too.

>love life
Had feelings for a girl who was taken and with whom I know it would never have worked, confessed it all - for the first time in my life - a month ago, got rejected as I was expected. Haven't spoken to her since (but we'll probably stay friends who'll see each other occasionally, because common social circles), still rebounding, don't really want to tinder or anything. Think I should just not worry about it for the next couple months.

If things don't improve overall, I'll fucking end it.

>That sounds kinda gay

please explain what is gay about going out in the woods and trying to think about your passions. Are you 19 or just very immature

If i dont fap i wont get any sexual pleasure and then ill get mad and sour, it will ruin my overall mood and if i wait long enough ill ejaculate at night

Not not addicted to fapping, you idiot. i have a natural sexual drive that i can only release through fapping

i browse /x/ way to much to be at peace with that

> How you holdin' up Veeky Forums?
Doing well bro, thank you.
>School/ Work
Classes are going great and I just started a new job at this library, so that's going well too!
>Social Life
Could be better, I have friends but we hang out once and awhile. Happy to have a few buddies.
>Love Life
Just matched up with this qt on tinder. She moved here from another country and I hope she's a good catch.
I am down to listen to some stories.

University is going well, made the swim team and made lots of new friends. Getting used to living on my own now, teaching myself how to cook properly, which means I’m getting bigger too.

Relationship with the gf is strained a little, she doesn’t like being stuck back at home while I’m out here living. I sent her some roses as a surprise and she rang my crying and saying how much she missed me. Finding it really hard lads, but I’m going to see her next weekend, and then before the month is up I’ll be back home for an entire month.

Kind of happy and kind of cautious, I don’t want to lose her but I’m worried that either one of us will eventually find it too hard to keep it going.

>>find out girl I was with at the time had been cheating on me with her ex for like three months
how did u find out

I get seasonal depression about this time every year.

>natural
>can't release during sex
Either you're gay, or you have a porn addiction. Let us help you.

And you won't have a wet dream if you hold out for like two damn weeks and start filling up your girlfriend, holy fuck

>Either you're gay, or you have a porn addiction
Its alot simpler than that
I dont have that type of attraction to her that i need, ive never had problems with any gf prior to her so the equation is simple

i dont care at this point because she isnt fulfilling my sexual needs but there is noone else who can take her place and do it either. There are virtually no single women of any sort where i live so im fucked, in that sense

I know what I need to do to get my life back on track and in order

Sadly, I continue doing the same fucking thing even though I know the answer for me to go back into society and be happy again. WTF have i done and how much time have i lost already? im not doing too good.....

I worked in shitty jobs all through out high school and college. I ended up dropping out of college a few years ago because I could handle it. I continued to work in shitty job for the next few year because that was the only thing I knew had to do.

A few weeks ago I applied for a small office job at a hospital. The requirements were very little and I felt like I knew I could get in. I went in for the interview and kinda spazzed out, but still finished through with it. I thought I wasn't going to get the job, but I was wrong. I start in a few days. I'm just kinda scared to work in this other job now. I've never had a "real" job before and I'm scared that my coworkers won't like me. I'm also scared that I will fuck up and get fired. I've fucked up a few times at my shit jobs, but it wasn't a big deal, so I wasn't fired. If I fuck up at my new job then I'm scared they will instantly fire me.

How do I get rid of this fear that no one will like me and how do I stay calm while working in a more serious setting? I finally got my ticket out of the hellhole of minimum wage jobs.