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the urge to fuck other women (and them also wanting it) while in a perfectly good relationship

I want to chemically castrate myself lads

Every man ever desu

our sex brain doesn't understand monogamy

I want off this train desu

become a trap on the down low and have men fuck you so you stop fantasizing about women

a. you could do it and be an asshole
b. be don't do it and live your life regularly
c. break up with her and live the single life
those are your only options, maybe suicide but that shouldn't be on the table

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Everytime you think about cheating think about how shitty you'd feel if she cheated on you.

Pretty sure that's how we're all designed.

You just have to fight it if you do indeed care about the current person you're with.

This.

Fun fact about the refractory period:
>It only applies if you're having sex with the same woman

It's called being a man.
I know you're new to it, but it's something that all normal men have to deal with.
There's nothing wrong with those feelings and urges. How you act on them defines who you are as a man.

One day you'll get used to it son.

Don't worry about it

Women will always forgive you for fucking other chicks

But don't EVER fall in love with other chicks

t. Ex-pussyhound

And that’s how western world has fallen. Modern “men” cannot into commitmen
>lol just fuck bitches bro
>REEE girls are sluts these days
I’m happily married and my wife and I never worry about our dishonesty because we’re smart people and we’ll never do it
Just one little excited night fucking up everything we put hard hard work on and ruining our love seems couldn’t be more stupid.

Everyone likes good looking people. However stupid poor people have short sight therefore they’ll be that way and class forever

Just get an open relationship. Noone is meant to be monogamous, its strictly better.

Save your relationship. I didn't want to write this but I think I can offer you some help. I just got dumped. Why? I was being neglectful to my gf. I took her for granted. Why did I do this you ask? Because I started lusting after other women. I would fuck her and think about other girls. I would watch porn. I would oggle babes on the street. This break-up is the most painful thing that's happened to me since my friend died.

Here is my advice. Get your head out of your ass. Imagine life if your girl just disappeared overnight. Would your life be better? Would you regret how you act right now? Funny thing is I wanted to fuck all these girls but now she's gone I only think about her. I can fuck different girls but I dont. When I go I think of her and then get a limp ice-cream boner.
Relationships take work. If your girl is holding you back I would seriously consider breaking up with her now before she does it to you. It might hurt less. If makes your life better and helps you become the strongest version of yourself get your shit together and stop lusting. The best way to stop lusting different women if your in a long-term relationship is to take some time apart. Have a break for at least a week. Learn what life is like without that person. You will soon realize all the good they bring.. It's just how the human mind works. This will alter your lustful desires and restart your sexual urges with her. Good luck dude. Remember if you start getting distant sexually she will start to notice and she will probably take action....

Don't make my mistake.

*When I fap I think of her and then get a limp ice-cream boner.

Good thing I'm a stoic so suicide is always on the table.

I just told my wife I'd probably cheat on her once in a blue moon and she said honestly the sex is good enough and i make enough money/ good enough husband that she doesn't really care.

That's called being a man. The trick is having the integrity to be honest with your partner and tell her what you want, think, and feel. Be loved for what you are rather than play pretend you aren't a man so that someone will accept you.

that's a shit test.
bitches do it all the time.
you just try and see what happens.

I was having a chin wag last night with a bloke about all the women we'd like to shag when we were out clubbing. I'm single, and he's married with a hot wife - beautiful rack.
We were both on the same page about wanting to shag everything though. It's true thats our genetic coding and we will always want to fuck whatever we can but my best advice would be spruce up your love life, as basic and gay as that sounds.

From my experience of girls Ive noticed their bodies change but 90% of them are all the same in bed. Personally for me I rank chemistry and connection over looks. If I'm sleeping with a few girls at once I'll always go back to the one who is the most passionate in bed, not the hottest.

You'll always want to fuck other girls OP, but try to make it so you know it just wouldn't be as good. Dunno what you and your partner are like but make it kinky.
Wear less clothing that's more teasing. Go out for drinks commando style and just tease eachother all night. Fuck in a nightclub toilet. Make a list of unique places to shag and aim to tick atleast two off per week. Public places are always so damn good.
No one will notice plus the fear of getting caught is hot af.
Get some ropes and blindfolds and shit. Just light stuff that helps to build lust.
Spend like 3 hours on foreplay one day. Really fucking take it slow.
Girls go apeshit when they're tied up by the hands, and blind folded. And you're just ever so slowly working their body over. Fast enough to keep it building but slow enough where you're slowly melting them and they just want to get rammed.
Try hard to change the mentality from "I love this girl and the sex is really nice"
To "Jesus fuck, I can't get her off my mind, I just need her right here right now"

Step up your game op. Make that shit so hot and so captivating that both of you are just texting eachother all day at work about how much you just want to absolutely fucking blitz eachother when you get home.
That's where it's at.

I've been there, sure sign of not feeling loved in your relationship. gotta get out, it'll hurt but you'll feel better.

this

i bet your wife is sucking a dozen dicks right now and swallowing every load while she's at it

Fuck off newfag. learn to green text properly

Just no,don't be a faggot and ruin it for everyone,after the libido wears off you will regret it so much and you will feel like the garbage trash shit you are.

And that's only the beggining

Holy shit get the fuck outta my board you fucking disgusting piece of worthless worm shit.

Just end it right now end your pathetic miserable life and and hope for reincarnation to be real next time you may have more luck and you wont be born as a brainless retarded animal that doesnt deserve the oxygen it's breathing.

I'm dead serious,get out faggot.

>girlfriend is asleep right now
>if my phone buzzes, i will leave the house right now and fuck whatever
>this detached from her
>4 years into this relationship

Not OP, but this doesn't work for me. I've found that the more sex I have with my gf, and the better it is, the more horny I become, which means the more I want to, and do, step out in my relationship.

The best thing I've done is become abstinent. I get angry around women, but at least I don't try to sleep with them or see how far I can go without getting busted.

Lately I've been talking to girls on omegle, and sending anons on tumblr. Which is the first sign of relapse for me. When I download snapchat and kik, then I know its over.

Get shredded, while on a cut your sex drive is low

just finished a cut. I think I'm not stupid enough to actually follow through with another woman, although I have decent genetics so them being interested by default doesn't help.

that is life I guess

Lmao, and you believe this?

dude you could just move to a city and go clubbing a lot with some buds

like fuck man I'm all down for monogamous relationships and I honestly just want a wife and kids

and as much as I hate the degeneracy of sleeping around, as long as you settle down in your late 20s go fuck around clubs for a while man. Be that guy and attract those girls. Just don't do it forever and focus on your goals most importantly.

dont do it brother

I broke up with my gf thinking i could fuck other women and am now alone and regretting it

>tfwnogf
>tfwmyfault

Fuck m79 I know how these feels are.
Except for me there's a certain girl I want, my friends gf. My gf and her are friends too and I got sorta close to her over the weekend while we were alone but didn't smash. I can't stop thinking about her all week now, I want it to stop why the fuck do I have to want what I can't have.
At the same time now I can't think of anything that will make me happy in life if I can't have this bitch and I'm getting all mopey about it like a little faggot.

Luckily for me, nobody wants to fuck me except my 4/10 girlfriend.

being in a monogamous relationship isn't natural and is just a social construct that is doomed to fail.
free yourself of your shackles.

If you want a stable civilized society you need to break away from certain primal urges. The family structure is very inportant for a healthy nation and running around like degenerates would turn a nation into some African shithole equivalent.
I mean it would be a natural urge for you to see some hot slut in the street and just fuck her right there as well, but we can't do that shit.

>using extremes to argue your point
we won't get anywhere like that.
that's like saying if you legalize all drugs, the society will collapse, which from studying other countries such as Portugal, we see that's not the case. Just because it fades from being the norm, doesn't mean the people who aren't already running around like degenerates would suddenly start to do so.

Jesus Christ. Hope you are ready for that deathbed confession user. There's a reason why her "best friend" is at the house so often...

But different to a law though. More of an ethical out human behavioural thing. If every guy gave in to their urges and fucked women and left for the next one society would turn in to a niggers ghetto with angry fatherless kids etc.