SOCIAL HEALTH

Did you only fuck that one time? Or how many times have you done it? If it's only been a handful could be general inexperience or not having the right partner. Sex is 10x better if you love the girl

lucky bastard, I have to hide a boner every time I kiss my gf.

I had sex with two girls, the second one was a 9 month relationship. she had a beautiful face, but wasn't a sex bomb. looked like a tomboy I guess. I don't know how to explain it. I liked having sex, but wasn't really turned on by it. also she was super duper wet. literally too much lubrication.

>too wet

No such thing. You're just gay.

started chatting up a chick that had feels for me forever, i let her escalate stuff over chat and some romantic shit was said.
so i tried dialing it back a bit after realizing just how badly i fucked up, so then we meet for a "friendly" afternoon out, nothing happened.
now she keeps fuking messaging me every fucking evening, and also its an emotional rollercoaster. one minute she tells me to enjoy my trip tomorrow, minute later she goes all passive agressive on me because i gave her a vague answer when she asked if were going out again next week.
shit man, i thought i give this fucking relationship thing a shot and it just annoys the fuck out of me.
fuck do i do brehs? this is fucked and i want out

Tell her you think she wants something different than you and this won't work.

No such thing as too wet

Got my first kiss and lost my virginity at 26. There's still hope for you

dude kissing is like the best part.

This might sound like a really dumb question, but is it at all realistic to be as cool and suave as an action hero IRL? Or will you just come off as an autistic wannabe?

I've never seen anyone IRL who I'd describe as 'suave' or anything, but then against I'm mostly surrounded by druggies and grown children.

21 year old kissless virgin checking in

I made out with my mom. Twice, in fact. Kisses are really nice man. I made out with my cousin too. Our teeth touched.

The fuck is wrong with you? You have to be kissing 1.5/10s or be a closet fag to not get rock the fuck hard from the mere thought of kissing.

How the fuck is kissing fun for you guys? All I want to do is suck on some tiities or pussy when I'm with a girl. Kissing is boring and not that stimulating if it doesnt move quick

Kissing is the best part you inbred chimp

u gay or wot

>tfw I've autistically overanalyzed kissing to such a degree that if I ever even get to kiss a girl in my life I will do it 100% manually step by step like a damn programmed robot machine
I'm now officially more afraid of my first kiss than my first sexual experience, if I ever get to experience any of the two.

>two months into college
>still no friends or acquaintances

I don't know how I fucked up this bad.

>kissing is the best part

You are the gay one sir. I want to just fuck them and your beta ass will fucking kiss them for hours. Kissing is for teenagers. I want see see her naked stat.

>no one has answered the question in the OP

this desu. who doesn't like some good kissing

Vacation in Thailand

I thought I'd be the same way but it comes very naturally you'll be fine user.

>thinks kissing is only about what you do with your mouth and tongue

do you think boxing is only about punches as well?

explain, massa

a lot of people are under the misconception that kissing and making out all about the lips and tongue. That's just the surface. You got hands that can do cool shit, too, you gotta use them.

If I were literally just kissing a girl it would get boring fast.

If the problem is that you found your partners unattractive you've probably raised your standards too high for yourself by frequently using pornography.

>first kiss at 27
Felt almost nothing. No excitement, no arousal, nothing towards her, was mostly on autopilot and just went through the motions even though I'd never done them before.

I don't know what I expected, but at least I didn't make an ass of myself

yall need to halt your viewing of midget tranny BDSM cuckold porn asap.

yeah. mostly because there's two people involved in kissing and whatever you've planned out is going to be thrown out the window. kissing is much more mutual than fucking and depends on chemistry more than technique. the best kisser in the world isn't the one with the best technique but the one who can gauge the other persons style quickly and adjust to it. even then they're not going to be as good as two people with chemistry.

My first kisses with women are when we are horsing around. Then just like the movies we roll over and our faces are close enough to smell her shampoo. I bring my head down to kiss her. When my face is 3 inches away, i tilt my head 25 degrees to the right. I make sure that i begin tilting when im 3 inches away and finish tilting right as our lips touch. Practice makes perfect. When you get a chance you can use a ruler to measure 3 inches between your face and a wall/mirror to practice.

I hate kissing too. Shit is gross. Also unless she's never sucked a cock, her mouth has been on another man's cock. Pretty gay desu.

>text a girl this afternoon (we've spoken on and off)
>no response all day
>Is it bad I naturally assume that she's getting railed by some "better-than-me" chad right now? It's probably true desu.

Are you me?

I like kissing my bf way more than having sex with him.

Red pill me on kissing, how do you do it the right way?

Homo?

fuarrk my cock. Would risk std for

Most girls brush their teeth.

I said red pill me on kissing, you fucking faggot

Only if you have the natural personality for it, faking it will make you look autistic. I think it's best to just find out what your life philosophies are and try to become the perfect version of it.

yes

that "girl" has a dick, doesn't she?

Yes.

Well to be fair, your mouth has seen it’s fair share of cocks as well.

>implying it would matter

>Get invited to party
>Turns out my ex is gonna be there and the guy she cheated on me with who used to be a good friend of mine
>Get uninvited cause the host thinks I'd get in a fight with him
>Ton of mutual friends going
>See on snapchat my friend who was close with me and talked with me through my break up and agreed they are terrible people taking a shot with them two
>Here I am alone on a Saturday, when everyone I know is partying with my ex knowing she cheated on me
Where is the justice in this world? The iron is my only friend now

>get hucked out of a girl because she likes chad better
>get cucked out of friends because they like chad better too
>turn to weights because you have nothing else left
>chad can lift more too
>post about it on the internet
>get laughed at because artists like chad better too

good, women are better off without you

the iron will never lie to your dubs

You're supposed to kiss a girl you love. First get to know her and develop feelings, then start kissing. Kissing the girl you love is the most amazing feeling. If you "party" and go for "hookups" then you're doing it all wrong.

I turned 32 and I realised I can't get crushes anymore, I just can't fall in love and it feels really sad, first time in my life I actually feel old. My lastest relationships were just methodical process in order for me to get laid with mild feelings involved.

He's not a chad though, he's uglier than me and shorter
That's why it's so fucked, if he were a chad I wouldn't even be half as upset
Also fuck you

Tell her that you don't want to ruin your friendship with her and that she's the kind of girl a guy marries after he's had his fun so if you both are still single at 35, you'll get married.

Nah man that's horseshit, if you limit things like kissing and sex behind a barrier of "I have to love this person" then you'll have an incredibly hard time actually forming any kinds of romantic relationships, because that's how it works in the adult world, sex/kissing usually comes BEFORE a real relationship forms, not after.

As someone whose never had any kind of romantic relationship (ie I haven't even dated anyone) but managed a couple of drunken hookups, I can say that it benefits to separate those two desires.

Listen to yourself, you have no romantic experience.
If you combine romantic love feelings and a real relationship with kisses touching and sex, that's an experience which is much much more enjoyable than taking the two separately.

>He's not a chad though, he's uglier than me and shorter
>takes yo girl
>takes yo party
>your friends have fun with him while you’re posting on a Bulgarian cheese making forum
Sounds pretty chad to me breh

>as someone with no experience in the matter, I feel I have valuable input on this topic

Are you even meant to enjoy kissing? I've always seen it as just the compulsory step before fucking or w/e. However I've been with chicks that want to make out for like an hour. Shit is unbelievably boring.

Veeky Forums in a nutshell.

Oh there's no doubt combining the two would be immensely better, I still desperately want a real relationship with all that entails, but that doesn't mean I have to not have sex or anything altogether until I find love, that just sounds like madness.

To each his own, i expect my woman to be chaste which is why i'm staying chaste, i put high demands on myself and i put high demands on my partner also. You reap what you sow, although i admit male virginity isn't nearly as valuable or important as female virginity.

If you weren't such a fucking beta you'd show up anyway. Are you really gonna let her control your life?

in her kiss is encoded all of her desire. her pace, her rhythm, her style, the seduction......

her kiss says "fuck me", it says, "come closer", "explore me", the tongue more agile than a penis, the savoring and devouring

kissing is more erotic than sense because it precedes it...remember the climax is the point at which the drop occurs, the return to baseline....sex is in the excitement, the anticipation, the beckoning..

Kissing is fun for like 10 seconds. Then it gets boring if you don't move on.

true. kissing is much more romantic than it is sexual.
also you shouldn't be kissing rando barsluts that's how you get sick.

By killing yourself. You obviously don't have a soul and are a sociopath because kissing is about intimacy and normal people like me find it highly pleasurable. You only think about sex, fucking disgusting.

>When an 18 year old slut tries to use you to get her autistic homeschooled boyfriend jealous and he attempts to "confront" you at a party

You sound like you've only ever read about sex and never actually done it.

I mean you do you but do you really think you're going to find a chaste, attractive woman over the age of 20?

i'm only 25 and i can feel myself slipping into this. pls stop you are making me depress

I've already met one so, i can confirm that they exist.

lesbian detected

in the same way the right clothing is more stimulating than a naked body...excitement is peak in expectation...not action..

They exist, there's this mixed fluent
German speaking Psychology major at my work with a gigantic ass. She's only been with like 2 guys. (I know this because she wants my wang).

>mfw qt roomate randomly asked if I wanted to make out with her recently
>said she still wanted to be friends, but we'd just be allowed make out and fuck occasionally

Happiest day of my stupid life.

>I know this because she lied to me about how many guys she's been with

Rape

>fuck occasionally

anything that is pleasurable you will desire to repeat with more frequency LoL

if the desire for occasional fucking remains after the fucking has happened that means it wasn't all that pleasurable LOL

Kissing is empathic. You're either autistic or sociopathic.

one of the gayest posts i've ever read

Got my first kiss at 16.

if it isn't true than what is? let's hear your truth about the subject ...

Iron within, iron without

Kissing is not meant to be fun, it can be fun but the purpose is to reaffirm your intimacy with your partner, its to appease the urge to touch and be close to them, when you get in longer relationships you start seeing things more for what they are and less for what you think they are meant to be.

Having sex with your girlfriend that you have been dating for 5 year is rarely going to be super exciting but its pleasant because its a moment of intimacy and bonding. The pleasure ends up just being a really nice plus.

I mean hopefully it'll get more frequent if we're both still into it. Oh and one key thing I left out is she has a bf but they're in a semi open thing and he's cool with it, so if anything THAT would stop the sexytimes before anything else, but we already established that if it gets too messy we'll cut it off. And I think she's cute and like her as a friend but I've spent enough time with her to know I wouldn't want her as an actual gf, so I think it's gonna be all good.

And hey worst case scenario, still getting laid when I damn well know I shouldn't deserve it.

It's painfully obvious you're a virgin.

>he's cool with it

what turns you on more than anything else?

Your sister for starters

why?