Not lasting long in bed :(

Hi bros, ever since getting fit Ive been getting a lot of attention from the grils and last night I had much trouble again.

First of all I couldnt get it up when we got back to my place. When we were out dancing and making out I didnt have any trouble, but the minute shit starts getting hot and heavy I get no response down stairs. she tried the succ and i did the old natty lickaroo to no avail. She was very understanding and I dont get much ashamed in the moment, at least not consciously. I was drinking alot, but that didnt used to be a problem many years ago. Ive been kind of incel for many years and now usually sleep with a new girl every other month or so. im 24 years old btw and its 4 years since I had a gf

So we agreed on being intimate in the morning and sleeping together close, she loved feeling my pecks and such all night. It was nice with some skin on skin at least, so I enjoyed it and slept well. I woke up with morning wood and we started going at it, for maybe a minute. I started slowing down but it didn't help and I came while just being inside her. Im so damn sensitive down there (non jew\burger) it doesnt take much for it to blow. do you guys have any tips for how to last longer?
Do I need to have more sex than maybe once every other month? I dont really think nofap would help, but maybe no porn?
Im also looking at desensitizing lubes and such, worth a go?

Girl from last night wants to meet again and give another try, but I think same things will happen as usual and I feel Im letting her down and ruining my reputation

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look for thicker condoms. most ribbed ones are thicker than normal and help with lasting longer. also some of the ones that say 'pleasure for her' come with desensitizing cream in the condom so you can last longer

yeah that. or jerk off few hours before sex. with my gf i last like 3-8 minutes at night before going to sleep, but in the morning after i could easily for for 10+, sometimes it even takes too long and it really turns into 'cardio' instead of romance. bottom line is that you last longer just limited hours after cumming.

thanks, it is a problem mostly when not using condoms like last night. she used that stick thing in the arm that supposed to be the safest way to go. I of course said "heh, its been a long time since not wearing a condom", obviously lie to play it off

When I do have a boner when drinking it usually dies while i try to put the rubber on, so Im often hesitant to even try

it's normal to only last around 5 minutes, girls don't actually want more than that

Nigga get your ass some cialis and keep a tablet in your wallet at all times.
If you feel like your having an issue go in the bathroom and pop it, 20 mins later you'll be fucking her like a pornstar and she will worship the ground you walk on afterwards

Go to the porno store. Buy a boner pill called Black Hammer. This will take care of the booze issue. Take a perc 10 and drink a sixer and you'll be able to go all night.

good tip, thanks.

she didnt complain or anything, said shes only cum twice in her life, so the pressure was kinda off.

short greentext of what happened tho since you bros are giving good tips

> go to girls pre party because one of them has been trying to meet for weeks
> I brought extra drinks without knowing they were running out, revived the party
> some new girls there I didnt know, talk to them all
> they ask if Ive been working out, continue complimenting my arms
> go out dancing, I actually manage to have some fun dancing without the girls
> dance floor starts going off and I take off to buy drinks
> another girl keeps messaging me asking where I went every time I go for a drink
> girl I know was interested from before found me on dance floor and starts flirting
> calls me a tease for not calling back when shes been trying to booty call
> make out with her and tell her we can do something about it tonight
> her friend starts flirting and dancing as well original girl leaves for a short moment
> make out a bit with her as well and dance dirty
> original girl comes back, telling me her friend says Im interested in her as well
> tells me I have to choose, tell her idgaf, kiss her, ask her if she wants to sleep at my place tonight
> she says yes and goes to tell her friend Im choosing her
> her friend comes to me a bit later, saying she wants it and asks if we can go now
> I shrug and say fuck it
> bouncer has seen everything and is laughing his ass off

girls friendships sucks compared to ours brehs


have you done it a lot? might look into ordering some


whats a perc? the pill?

Yes. It's a painkiller.

What you resist persists. Focus on your pleasure and try to make yourself cum as fast as possible. See how that works out.

Not the boner pill. Take that an hour before the sexing. The pain pill and booze will help with endurance.

ah ok, sounds like a winning combination, thanks for the tip!

I think my record time is like 4 seconds, not sure how that helps. when I lost my vcard I just got inside and blew the load with my then steady gf.

Reading this thread now I know why girls prefer to have sex with black men.

Don't lift more than 3 days a week and do HIIT on rest days.

>and booze
I usually heard that alcohol makes it harder to keep a boner up. It never helped my though. Screwed up a few instances because I drank too much and it just wouldn't work until next morning.

For the endurace, Durex has these 'Extended Pleasure' condoms that has this stuff in the tip. Make sure to put it on a few minutes before penetration because it needs some time to work. It will feel weird though, kinda feels like your dick becomes flaccid except it's not.

The boner pill takes care of that. That shit worked so well I was getting rock hard even thinking about naked broads for a second for two weeks after.

are these pills something you can buy in regular porn stores in europe? I feel somewhat awkward having to resort to chemicals to have a part of me function the way Id like

>have you done it a lot? might look into ordering some
Yes been using this method for years ever since I discovered i get whiskey dick

It’s called wiskey dick.

I think its weird how its usually all good down there when dancing and drinking etc., but when the moment comes, the boner does not. maybe theres a fine balance I keep just over stepping. I dont get shit faced but I drink a decent amount so I feel like it should be good..

you guys dont tell the girls you """cheat""" like that right?

I don't think the girls care whether you "cheat" your way into a boner. As long as she gets some good dickin'

Dont do fucking percocets they can be addictive as they are opiates jesus christ user

I don't know. In the states all porn stores have like thirty different brands. This one was recommended by the proprietor and did not disappoint. I bought it because I drank too much and had an issue and then was out of town for a few months and the girl wanted to try again and I was worried I had psyched myself out too much so it was an insurance policy.

I do not tell them. They probably don't care, but I think it's embarrassing.

If theyre addictive and strong like that its probably not possible to get without a prescription here anyways.

guess its just another case of us having to leave our ego behind for our own sake

I see. I could use a "win" in the sheets again so I should probably give it a go.

Jesus Christ. One perc 10 isn't going to turn you into a junkie. Grow up.

thanks for your honesty friend

You need a prescription here, too. But they're really available on the street.

Readily*

Is there a way to train yourself not to cum? Like without drugs or condoms?

thanks for all your advice bros. Im gonna get some sleep before leg day tomorrow. Will look at the thread again tomorrow if you have any more comments or tips.

Stay strong bros! And thanks again, if it werent for you Id probably still be super incel

how can i get some cialis bros?

Tell your doctor you're having trouble getting a hardon

touch her pussy, lick her pussy, wait till she comes with foreplay, stick your micro penis in and she will be happy even if you last a second

how did this not turn into a threeway?

> Says this to ex junkie
> t. Dude advertising opiates to last longer in bed

If hydrocodone is easily available through a script in your country I'd be surprised

>ex junkie
Well, clearly you can't be objective about this subject. Why do all recovery guys think that nobody can take drugs in moderation without ending up with a needle in their arm? Just because you don't know how to exercise self control doesn't mean the rest of us have to be boring squares.

You know what? After further consideration on this matter, I feel I need to qualify my advice.
OP, don't take a percocet every time you're going to have sex. The Percocet should be reserved for when you have something to prove. Once you give her one good night, just the booze and the boner pill will be enough.

>Do I need to have more sex than maybe once every other month?
Yes.
>(cont.)

>(cont.)
Eat more protein, sleep more, workout more/harder than you already do and fap more when otherwise not having more sex
>chaosandpain.blogspot.com/2014/10/the-simplicity-of-dieting-it-really-is.html
>ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3529694/#!po=57.9365
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>ajcn.nutrition.org/content/42/1/127
>breakingmuscle.com/healthy-eating/why-all-humans-need-to-eat-meat-for-health
>chaosandpain.blogspot.com/2013/07/no-fap-more-like-no-fucking-way.html?zx=1998e8879819f700
>chaosandpain.blogspot.com/2010/09/enough-already-sex-and-baddassery-are.html
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>webmd.com/prostate-cancer/news/20040406/frequent-ejaculation-prostate
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>m.joe.endocrinology-journals.org/content/52/1/51.short
>answers.webmd.com/answers/5004889/what-nutrients-do-you-lose-when-ejaculating-or-masterbating-do-you-lose-testerone-
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im 24 tho

What's the worst that could happen? He says no? It's not like he's going to ask you to prove it.

are there any serious sides for a younger guy?

Not really, the reason they make you go to the doctor is to make sure it isn't a more serious issue you're covering up. They'll soon be available OTC here in Australia

For me, having sex often really is the trick. My GF and I work night shifts so we don't always get it in during the week. When sex isn't regular, I'll cum in 3-5 minutes unless I edge a ton. Lately, we have been waking up and going to bed with quickies even on work days, and I last way longer if I want to.

I've also noticed that when I actively try not to cum, I tend to cum faster than when we're having a quickie and the goal is to cum fast so we can get out the door. Really not sure why this is, but maybe it has something to do with anxiety. When you tell yourself not to cum, you aren't as relaxed and into the sex itself, it just becomes a mind fuck about you and your problems.

Being really turned on really helps, too. Work on your foreplay and on building the mood with stuff like teasing, spanking, stuff like that, whatever you guys are in to. When we are both very turned on, I not only last longer but the dick is diamonds. Take breaks mid sex with foreplay.

With sloots, you might also try not giving a fuck if you cum fast, unless you plan on seeing them again. You don't owe anyone anything, and being in the mindset of actively wanting to cum fast might actually make you last way longer. You might think that you'll feel bad because you came fast, but that's because you're actively trying not to.

Don't lie to the poor guy