No hobbies other than lifting

Why are you doing this to yourself? Just accept the fact that you're autistic and stop giving a fuck about society.

Taking dance is a meme. You'll be exposed to hot women and shit but clearly your changes need to happen on a deeper level

Wasnt this thread posted like a week ago?

how old are you user? if you are 25+ there is no hope and you may as well commit to being a wizard.

Maybe try having fun and stop taking yourself so fucking seriously.

>''just have fun bro''

>showing up to dancing classes by yourself as a male
You dun goofed they probably all think your a creep OP

>Far right
Giv

Olivia Munn

well since he clearly avoids women, even ones who approach him, they probably think he is gay

there are other guys who do it alone though

the girls too

>i dont say anything during the dance, before or after. overall awkward experience

You see that's where you fucked up. You want to talk to girls and be liked, but you're too scared to put any effort into it. A really simple way to get this started would just be to say something like "Haha, sorry I don't quite have this down yet, I just started taking classes." or something along those lines. Starting a conversation is easy just as long as you start it on topic and just go from there.

People will like you enough if you're just nice and willing to open up dialogue, and then you can develop your social skills there through trial and error.

Also a really easy way to continue a conversation with anyone is ask an easy open-ended question about themselves and go from there. People LOVE talking about themselves and if you even pretend to be interested in their lives they'll like you more.

thanks

it's hard to start a conversation during class because they are teaching steps, and we switch partners every minute or two. so just have time for introductions really.. which i often don't do unless the girl introduces herself first. i literally say nothing sometimes

and after class i just leave. i dont really have a reason to stay and talk to anyone

dude, the biggest thing for me (25 year old friendless khv) when it comes to talking to people is. what happens if when you have no hobbies or friends they start asking you about what you do?

what the fuck do you plan on doing if they ask you what you do in your free time? when it becomes clear you have no friends? and even if they dont know, what happens if you ask one out and she sees that?

The reason you have to stay and talk to people is because you want friends and social skills. If you can't talk during the lesson, that's really going to be your only opportunity. If a girl introduced herself during the dance, then you've already made a small social interaction which you can jump on afterwards. Mention something about the lesson, ask how long shes been dancing, etc. It may work out, it may just be awkward, but it get's you in the habit of talking to people which gets you in the habit of being good at it.

You must have SOMETHING to talk about. This is Veeky Forums, just mention you really like going to the gym and working out. Or you can just make a small joke about liking to waste your time on the internet (a hobby almost everyone has). But even if you don't have anything to talk about, it isn't the end of the world. You can casually mention "Oh, I don't really do a whole lot, but I've been trying to find more stuff to get into." You can turn that into a conversation about what hobbies you should start based on their recommendation, it gives the other person the opportunity to brag about themselves.

Maybe remind yourself that you're there to have fun. Beyond that, stop thinking so much. Just talk to her. Keep it light and friendly.

>implying that dancing is fun when he is a virgin with no hobbies
hes there because he is probably a social recluse and he laboriously forcing himself to interact with normies so that he can improve his social skills and try to interact with grills

thanks

should i try talking to guys too? there are a bunch of younger guys there, but they have friends already in the class

this is correct

If the only thing you do is talk to girls, that makes you transparent. Getting social skills means being social with everyone, and talking to guys will definitely help that a lot. Guys are probably going to be easier to talk to, since you don't have the pressure of trying really hard to impress them or wanting to fuck em.

Don't be too afraid to start conversation with people, you'd be surprised how many people are just relieved someone isn't crazy and is generally nice to them.

What are good hobbies for women? That me find attractive?

Not the guy you're replying too but talk to everyone bro. Fuckin everyone.
Except the scary creepy people. Ones who drool on themselves mid sentence and shit - yeah nah.

I remember reading something this bloke wrote (forget who) but he says "flirt with everyone you have a social encounter with. Literally everyone. Adjust it to suit the person, for example you would flirt with a young attractive girl more than you would with your boss, but do it with everyone. It's the easiest way to break down social walls, show you're a nice person and engage in positive communication"

I dont think I've ever heard something more true in my life

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man you gotta stop posting these pics. I'm 5 days into nofap and this shit is making me harder than futanari scat porn.

thanks

i will try to ask people (both guys and girls) their name and what they think of the class

>those pictures
>that writing style
I know exactly who OP is, he has posted numerous threads like this before.

giv blake butt

Thats a great start, and remember even if you fuck up, you made progress, its like lifting you gotta add 5 more lbs to the bar, just a little bit more at a time

Damn Lauren Southern is getting old