Got Veeky Forums, but have no desire to get girls

this image tho

same, but its mostly that i have an extreme desire for friends because i dont have any, and no girl is going to want to be with you if you dont have friends

Are any of you guys just totally withdrawn? I can talk to co workers and even manage to get through occasional short conversations with strangers without spilling spaghetti but I dropped all my friends years ago and don't do anything social or go anywhere for recreation.

I don't have the desire to pursue relationships of any kind. At first I was awkward about it but as time goes on I find myself caring less and less. P nice desu.

this is the saddest image I have ever seen

it's a reality for so many bros on the 'ch0n

low t

>under armour
I bet he is trying

>be me
>virgin with 21 years old, skinny fat pale, but social
>no driver license live with mom
>no job, suck big time in university, did not complete any exam
be me now 23 years
started lifting (which gave me a lot of energy)
cut alc, cigarettes and weed
did my driver license
have beautiful blonde gf
got better in university
give hot girls German lessons for moneyz
i have contact again with my old friends from school and found friends in university ( I went to university for 2 years without making any friends before)

every time I think about the concept of dancing, it feels stupid. it's just random movements to a beat. how is that fun?

I staged Armageddon

>Be me
>up until mid twenties work dead end jobs, be in bad shape but not obese, just not in good shape.
>women never give me time of day, not even coworkers who are in similar shape to me
>Friend dies in mid twenties, shakes me up, makes me make some changes
>Get ripped, get comp sci degree
>Be now, early thirties
>Women I used to know have messaged me over the last few years trying to meet up
>Am bitter and hateful towards all women.
At least I have a good circle of friends but idk how to get past the feeling that they didn't want me when they were young and similar to me and now that theyve been through the cock carousel and I am earning decent money suddenly they are interested. 0 interest in talking with women at all.

How did you get the social skills?
Plz help a person much younger then you.

You were shit so they didnt like u, now u r k so they have reason to like you. Get it? Like a fat chick got fit and now you like her

Girls are trash, you're not missing much. Cuddling's nice though.

yeah after three years of a relationship with a girl who cheated on me, I haven't had motivation to put myself out there yet.

Had a few mires, couple girls at work I know like me, but they're all trashy whore types, so not really what I'm wanting.

after I found out my girl was cheating on me, I kind of went out and cheated on her with a few different girls before I actually broke up with her, so it's kind of funny to think about me having more sex with more women when I was in a relationship with her, as opposed to the year we've been broken up, and I haven't been with anyone since.

in your prime bro. Don't be a slave to women, but i would also advice some moderation in your opinions of them. Always be a sound lad

This is my biggest fear, the only thing keeping me from being a recluse is my two bro's that I have at school.

yeah aside from work.. i really don't get out much

i got a few RL friends that moved away recently that I play vidya with online, but really a quiet day inside is all I ask for in life.

3 things(I was ultra shy)
- get a hobby
- join a forum or facebook group related to the hobby
-ask for advice, build a relationship with people who write there as well
- make skype call with them
- organize a group meeting (you have social proof because YOU organized it)
-just talk about the topic, maybe drink a coca cola or a beer with them.
- just dont try to impress anyone just be chill.
-maybe you make some friends.

this is a way even hardcore autists can do it.

other tip is, just join an interest group in university or school and you can be calm and shy noone cares, as long as you go to the events and talk a little bit and your tasks, after some time if the people are nice you will thaw a little bit and and it should be easier to talk to them.

and third get a job, and talk with people there.
I am a sofware engineer and I talk about nerd stuff and they can relate my boss plays hearthstone, and i am really good in hearthstone. eazy peazy

you have to own that you are a nerd and it can be a plus (you should still lift...)

It's not bad as long as you don't look the part. If you're a neckbeard, it's hopeless but if you look normal enough you can just let people assume you aren't a loser.

this post was for you

>idk how to get past the feeling that they didn't want me when they were young

You can't, because you're 100% right.

I went through the same thing, and was actually pretty disgusted by the massive increase in female attention I was getting.

Almost the same, except for I don't have a gf, just a fuckbuddy, have finished the uni and got a good job.

>tfw you look like a short Indian Chad
>actually a socially awkward virgin
It's funny seeing how they look at me when they don't know me and then when they talk to me they realize how awkward I am. I was fat and never really cared about my appearance growing up so I never got used to sexual female attention .

Been about 4 years for me. I literally do nothing and I can handle it. It would have driven me insane when i was young.

I can just be alone with my thoughts for hours on end.

I just don't have the patience to put up with retarded girls or their shitty hobbies and expectations, wasting my precious time doing something I dislike just so a used hole let's me put my benis in bagina.
I used to do a lot of partying and whatnot and now that I've mostly quit drinking I just can't do it, I literally prefer staying home reading than going out with my friends and whatnot.
Don't really know how to feel about this desu. I don't think it's normal or healthy but I just can't force myself to deal with thots.

Youre scared to be hurt, which is why youre telling yourself you just dont want girls.

poor guys. I would gladly take them out clubbing/drinking/screwing around couple of times
and ensure every one of them had fun, each and every one would have to hit up on a girl while rest of us would laugh, but we would all try and fail together
as buddies

They're probably dead.

How would I be hurt? You mean rejection? Yeah I don't like rejection but who doesn't? I just legitimately don't have the desire.

Keep thread alive.

dont ever post this again

You're the type of friend that's needed.

You actually make me want to go out and become friends with the loners just to make them feel better. But good lord that's a lot of work. They have years of personal experiences they want to share with someone.

>move out to different country before finishing uni, dropped it after semester
>start dead end physical job
>barely any friends
>25 kissless virgin
>not even my own place to sleep, just renting a room
>lift / sleep / work / repeat

its hard to get out of this rut

Wasn't a problem until i recently acquired social skills, and i just revert to being an autist around any girls i'm not interested in.