Ok guys serious question. I'm 25 years old and basically sick of having sex...

Ok guys serious question. I'm 25 years old and basically sick of having sex. It feels like a chore and a performance that I'm too tired and not interested in doing. As you can tell this is having an effect on my relationship of 5 years. I've had blood work done and my test levels are on the higher end of the scale which I found to be strange as I'm always tired too. So I thought my test was definitely the issue but it's not.

I rarely jerk off (even though I prefer it to sex) and I could easily go 2 weeks before I even feel like I'm remotely horny enough to do it!

What do I do guys. I know my test isn't the problem but heard test injections turn you into an animal but I'm afraid of going bald.

What
Fucking
Do
Please
Help

you gay nigga

I am a 22 y/o female and also have this problem. I've had sex with about 120 men and 30 women.

So few people are good in bed that it's really just boring.

Do you even desire your girlfriend anymore? Does she turn you on even the slightest? If yes, get into kinkier shit, no need to go full BDSM and 2girls1cup on her ass, but opening up a karma sutra book will do.

If that's already done, and she doesn't turn you on anymore, part ways.

gays still jerk off

Found the virgin

you are a roastie whore. your jaded sexual lifestyle will never lend you to true satisfaction in a relationship. nor will you ever enjoy a healthy sexlife.

you deserve whatever misery that comes as as result. youve ruined yourself.

Thank you. I would honestly rather just go to fucking sleep.

>Fucked 150 people
Have you considered that you might be the problem here?

mnn, mnn, mnn... This is some tasty fucking bait

>I rarely jerk off (even though I prefer it to sex)

My guess is your girlfriend looks like shit.
I mean how could someone prefer jerking off alone than fucking his beautiful girlfriend?

I do still desire her but obviously it's not the same as a fresh relationship you know. Thanks for your advice in going to look into some kinkier stuff and hopefully that helps

Don't worry OP. I guess you just never really had a partner with whom you really enjoyed having sex. Before you noticed these issues, did you enjoy having sex with your gf?

She's actually very attractive! It's just that when jerking off I only have to worry about my needs and not having to worry about lasting too long or too short, changing positing etc..

Nah you probably just jerk off too much my nigger
Dial it back to once a week max

Thanks man. And yeah I did enjoy it but again I guess I always felt it was more of a performance than anything. Most of the time when I get around to doing it I start to enjoy it but the thoughts of actually starting it is exhausting.

If you have a healthy sex life in your relationship, jerking off should be reduced to a minimum (my opinion). Of course it's still nice to just beat the meat every once in a while, but this should not make up the majority.

>Lasting too long or too short,changing positions etc

No offense OP, but the stuff you post in this thread make it sound like you are complete failure in bed?

Skank

You're right, That actually was a problem before but now I jerk off once a week MAX. I actually try to not jerk off at all so I can be Horny.

I'd agree with the less jerking off the better 100%. And desu I don't think that's the issue as the girlfriend always wants it (so I assume I'm not too bad) the problem is that I don't want to

I had the same problem for a really long time. I always was so eager to please the girl, to make it perfect for her. Never worried about me. "I had fun if the girl did". Don't think like that OP. Sex is between two people (most of the time), so both people need to enjoy themselves. I'm not about to preach NoPorn,but porn has warped our minds. Men think that they need to be this steam hammer, forever potent and just pound away for hours. It's not like that.
The most important thing is to talk to your partner, be open about your concerns and worries (although it will be very difficult for her to not take it personally). Try to spice it up, maybe use some handcuffs,blindfolds. Enjoy yourself.

Not sure if this is good advice. I never had a gf for more than a year, but from all the sexual partners I had, I really enjoyed sex with only 3 of them

People took the bait heres your (you)
C H E A T O N H E R

Thanks user. Im going to have to say something to her because I can't keep this too myself anymore. I think spicing things up is a good idea and hopefully can do some good

Nah dude I wouldn't have the heart to do that. Even though sometimes she pisses me the fuck off really bad

Oh my god it's so easy to get a rise out of you absolute losers.

Not really much.
Kinda under the standard of what your average college girl manages by reaching 20.
Come back when you reach 200. Then we can talk.

An Hero before it gets any worse.

just go cuck mode and let one of your friends fuck your gf while you jerk off watching them and the problem is solved

become a nun and just proclaim the love of Jesus Christ as your only savior til your dead

Honestly you have to pace yourself. Don't hold yourself to an impossible standard. Quit watching porn and try to get your rhythm down with your gf

are you asexual?

>incel for 2 years after breaking up with schizophrenic gf
>lost all desire to seek out companionship from females, intentionally don't reciprocate flirting attempts
>it's been 7 years since I kissed, sexed, or held hands with anyone
Am I a born-again virgin? Should I bother to get back in or should I just accept the false wizard status fast approaching?

This a phase that I'm currently going through too. Just communicate this to your girl and focus on other shit that makes you happy. Your desire will come back, but for now you don't have to be sucking and fucking all the time if you really don't want to.