Tfw still live with dad

dumb foreigners wouldnt understand

almost same as me, except i am 10 years older, have no job, and am a dyel

Yeah i've got problems too, but it's Halloween and you're not going to bring me down at best time of year.

>What would you do in my situation?

Go watch Rick and Morty or Ted or whatever switch-your-brain-off comedy is on TV, get a cup of tea and relax. There is literally nothing out of the ordinary about your life OP, I and a million other guys are in a similiar place.

Because the US is fucking huge and unless you live in a major city you need a car.

wow son what the fuck did you major in gender studies? or something more autistic like astrophysics?

youtu.be/h0aA2dQqt08
youtu.be/iMEYMU4IkHs

No excuse. Sort yourself out. Make a plan, practice weekly, get in contact with your desires for the future and yourself and act as if that coming to be could be the most real thing.

What kind of job provides that though?

you like lifting, dont like people?

work construction

way better money

Woman these days are problems; not solutions. Just like everything else in this life sex isn't as great as it's made out to be.
A job is a job and imagine your situation without a job.
No friends means there's noone to disappoint.
One would hope you don't own a car because you can't drive. Two of your biggest problems in life can be removed with a simple driving test. Fuck, if you're in America you could probably find some awesome 60s muscle car and drive that for nothing.
If you're a bloke and a virgin and it's that big of a mental problem for you; simply make it up and say you have. ~If you tell a big enough lie and tell it frequently enough, it will be believed
-Hitler

>muh americans this, americans that
Why are non-Americans even on this website

>the absolute state of modern men

It's crazy how normal stuff like this has become. There's definitely something wrong. I'm not in much better condition but I understand OP. I'm just ready for this shit to come crashing down.

Lots of girls are stuck in low wage jobs like restaurant work when they are 25+ as well. Although they probably have an active social life, friends, bf, sex ect.

Based.

Difference is girls can live a lot more comfortably on minimum wage especially since they can easily find men to help support them.

No. The drivers test is just that hard.
For some of us.

Where are you? In your situation I'd do the following:
>learn to drive
>get your EMT-Basic certification
>this will give you social gains cause you'll be stuck in an ambulance with someone for a 12 hour shift
>not a lot of money but more than 16k
>use this to advance into a job in a hospital

lol

>23
>Drive own car
>Finishing undergrad in STEM
>Still DYEL
>Never had GF
>Have a single engine piston flight certificate
>Work part time for a bank, help them with code

How do I rank?

Work construction or go to a trade school to get a decent physical job.

If you're mildly intelligent or have an actual passion (guessing you don't since you're in your situation) then pursue some schooling in college or something.

School is probably your best option right now. You're only 24. Get some schooling, get a decent paying job and then fix your shit from there. Being at your dad's house is probably better right now since you can save money and use that towards your future.

Don't be a faggot.

>why are non-Americans on a japanese rice harvesting forum

height?

Wrong. Getting a car is enslavement. You end up working to pay it off and maintain it, insure it etc.

I have been much freeer since I got rid of my car and moved closer to the city. I can cycle or use public transport, or rent a car if I want to go somewhere obscure for the weekend.

Also why are you suggesting night schools are you retarded? OP said he works night shifts. Also the only bullshit you learn in night school is how to make pasta potraits and dog grooming.

5'9" 175 cm barefeet

I know it's manlet but it could be worse t.b.h.

>parents and state look after girls more
>gets shit bought for them all the time
>eats less etc

How do you even fail driving an automatic i learned the morning before my exam and passed

hahaha, fucking manlet fishing for compliments in someone else's thread.

>How do I rank?
You will always be a manlet.

correct. you literally cant score pussy if you dont have a car.

LONDON?
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Or UK?

flyover state resident detected.

>Crashing down
Yeah you know you're just gonna wash away, slowly, a grey blip of nothing. There is no crash just more compromise for people like you

Quit being such a fucking pussy

im even worse than you op

tfw still live with parents (one of most expensive areas in world to live but still)
tfw cant drive (literally just failed driver's test a week ago for rigged bullshit)
tfw no car but even if i get one nothing will change
tfw work shit pay entry level job for 3 years because cant get into grad school
tfw 25 year old kissless virgin
tfw no friends since middle school
tfw only time been out socially was in college when roommates pity invited me out
tfw lack of any social life or social skills makes me not want to even try meeting people

>19YO
>6'
>Lifting after breakup, 2 months
>Work in shop, best customer service because I just flirt with everyone
>Easy to get girls numbers because I'm a flirting machine
>Can't fucking do anything with numbers because if it's not in person I'm an autist

Got a girls number last night on the train, started with an opening of what tee should i wear to a group of 3 girls, then when two left to go to the toilet, I had a laugh at the last girl who was putting fake nails on. She called me over to sit beside her and we chatted shit and I was like well this is the point where I get your number isn't it, she was like oh are you asking, got her number, but then proceeded to get fucked up on booze and she hasn't replied?>Redpill me on texting/sc game please

>Not buying it outright
>Knowing jack shit about cars so you buy a shitty beater that won't last versus one that does
This is also why you're pathetic this isn't some omniverse of surrealism you can't navigate learn about the world in which you fucking live god damn you guys piss me off sometimes WHY DOES NO ONE HAVE ANY DRIVE TO ACTUALLY FUCKING DO ANYTHING STOP FORGIVING YOURSELF YOU ARE NOT GOING TO BE OKAY

Go tradie, you're already strong and with some common sense you can easily pull bank. At 17 two summers ago I made 5k for two months of work for an HVAC company. hard work but met cool people

Veeky Forums is so melodramatic

You're me except I can drive
What are we to do user

At least you don't need a car to work faggot.

i dont even know man. i just have zero hope about anything.

the social thing is bar none the worst part about life. i dont want to try to meet a girl because ive never done it before and know i wont know what im doing. then when she sees i have no life, well that sit for me with her. and honestly i dont even want to try to meet people as friends because when they see i have no life theyll drop me too. hell i dont even eat lunch with my coworkers because all i do is sit there quietly with no input since im a shut in autist

i assume that at some point im going to kill myself but i dont even think about that. i dont even have "feels' about how pathetic my life is. i literally dont even care

Stop giving a fuck. You've nothing to lose so what does it matter if a girl laughs at you for trying to get a number or some shit. Just lift and go out with somebody to a club, just fucking anybody.

Then he won't have energy to lift and he'll become a DYEL possibly even fat. Oh wait he's on roids nevermind. Yeah no reason for him not to get into labor.

geez id legit kill myself. you sounds fucking pathetic dude. I felt pathetic that I didn't get my drivers license until I was 19, but jfc 24 and still? and still living with daddy? 16k is enough to find a place of your own, ive fucking done it on less and live in one of the most expensive places in the US. I think you're legit mentally retarded by the sound of it

Dude I live in a city with a good job and lifts that probably exceed yours. I have a girlfriend so by many people's qualifiers I've "made it".

Either way you are paying off a car. Either way you are probably paying £1000 a year at least for a car; even if you buy it outright you have still saved that and have to save that in future. You then have insurance on top of that, road/car tax, fuel costs, and then maintenance as well. You are usually spending £2.5-3k pa on a car and that's not even a decent one.

Owning a car is choosing to pay a tax in order to get to work or have the illusion of freedom. If you think you need a car to have freedom and to "make it" you will never have either.

Have a car if you want but its not idiotic to not have one. I choose to put my money elsewhere.

Hello

>24 years young
>Haven't felt a cuties touch in like 2 years
>Start smoking weed everyday
>Lifting like 5 years but manage to still only be 145lbs spooky skell
>Hit rock bottom, fucking a trap
>Convince employer to give 68K salary
>Stop seeing trap
>I'm still 5'7"
>Girls don't acknowledge me
>Jaded AF red pill woman hater
>Might actually be clinically depressed

Do people seriously drive like 45 minutes out just to participate in clubs and sports? I want to get into dance or some shit but not fuckin dedicate my life to driving back and forth.

I also want friends that I actually admire. How do I get Chad to like me?

Sucks.
For me personally, people actually talk to me because I can act funny but I'm such a boring shut in private. I'm also embarrassed I'm still at a shit job (with a degree) while having to help out at home (obviously). I don't know what to do. I'm obviously not depressed because I work out and can still act normal every now and then, but I still have no meaningful friends.

>For me personally, people actually talk to me because I can act funny but I'm such a boring shut in private. I'm also embarrassed I'm still at a shit job (with a degree) while having to help out at home (obviously).

me as well man, i always make people laugh (have always been able to) but no one has ever wanted to turn that into friendship, probably because im just annoying

maybe people like us share traits or something

damn dude give the guy a break

How unfortunate. I've actually been asked out multiple times, but I'm so fucking insecure I've turned them down every time. My family hasn't given up on me and that gives me hope sometimes. Damn we suck. I hate when people say l
>at least you're smart and have your degree user!!!
Makes me feel worse desu.
To make it worse Im about to get laid off my good temporary job.

>Yeah you know you're just gonna wash away, slowly, a grey blip of nothing

Just more of a reason to anticipate our decay.

>There is no crash just more compromise for people like you

But there will be as more people "like me" continue to grow. There is an unprecedented amount of NEET's right now in society and they are continuing to grow. Once the bubble gets big enough and pops there will be problems. Does this mean you should just give up? No. You should always try to better yourself but others don't always have that mentality.

>buying a vehicle for more than 1000 bucks
>not wanting the freedom to travel hundreds of miles every weekend to wherever you want

>3. fuck some escorts
What a fucking horrible advice. Good job you fucked a whore now you're no longer a virgin, but I'd rather stay a virgin than letting my first time be with a whore

>23
>never had a gf
>live with mom still
>be hella poor
>shit job
>starting college next year
>no car (cant drive)
>lifting for 3 months
>cycle everywhere
>social skills improving slowly

is there still time to make it?

Same situation except have car and gf but no job. Shit sucks but I'm close to getting a good job after a dozen interviews this month
>tfw I can tell gf won't move out with me
I actually don't think I'd mind all that much

I work with 100lb sheets all day

You just gotta go home, recharge for 2 hrs then you can hit the gym

Yes. Start reading Meditations by Marcus Aurelius.

Obvious troll, but here's your (you) bc I raged

Americans don’t have public transport outside of big cities. If you don’t have a car you can’t even go to the fucking store, it’s ridiculous.

Autist af
I'm Insta friends with some pajeet retard from college who posts quotes from meditations every fucking day and that shit is cringe

Op watch these two videos if anything else

If you're posting on social media for some sort of recognition you're a child.
Don't equate some limp wrist trying to be profound with actual self improvement.

>thinking you can improve yourself by jerking off to some 2deep4u ebin "conqueror"
And this will cure his autism how?

Actuallyfucking loled
Nice dubs btw

There is nothing deep about meditations.
You're going to meme yourself into a shit life because you believe simple life prose are for autists.

>prose
>definitely not for autists!!1

How did you meet the trap? On e?

Your cognitive bias will get you nowhere.

Wow man so deep. Did you learn that while reading prose? Why have you not married a beautiful pharaoh woman while conquering the fertile crescent?

HA
>being this dedicated to being a dreg

since you dont know how to do it you start with very simple shit

when u get her number you text her something, when i got the number i would usually just write "get home safe" or "nice meeting you" something so they know its me

then i would just text ez shit like

"hi, whats up"
-her reply-
"cool, i want to meet up"
-her reply-
"see u there"

...

I have lots of pent up aggression in regards to Meditations
Next you'll be quoting Seneca

I am a fucking autist like. Usually I only pickup chicks when I'm drunk af, but I hold myself quite well until I just sleep. Should you wait a few days between getting number and texting her if she doesn't text first

if a girl asked for your number, would you like her to wait a few days before texting you or would you like her to text you the very next day?

>pent up aggression because of a book
fucking soy boy

true, next day. So forget gentle convo and just straight ask out?

See i was worried about coming across as desperate

>second thoughts, don't ask number, ask out for coffee then say sure i'll get your number to arrange it

if a girl texted you the next day, would you like her to keep a gentle convo or just straight ask u out?

this

work day ends around ~3 at the latest, you'll be tired but there's nothing better than hitting the gym around 6, having some dinner, and being sore and actually ready for bed by 9:30.

Specifically autists quoting it yes
Like I said, go conquer Gaul or someshit, LARPER

You're not free though. You said it yourself, you live in a city. Without a car in America, that's basically your only option. By not owning a car, you've signed away owning a home, yard, shed, porch, workshop, or any reasonable amount of space. If you're okay with that, fine, but just remember that you ARE major lifestyle tradeoffs to not owning a car.

i read meditations, its pretty overrated

its basically just repeating the same thing over an over again

I recognize this, but I aslo think its pretty shitty that American towns and cities were designed intentionally to need people to be a slave to a car

Fuck it, that's the new game plan. Keep it in person so I don't have to fuck around, just ask straight out. Any idea how to rescue one w/qt that I've fucked up by having convo?

>nobody quoted it
>living this deep into a delusion
wew

i dont understand your question

See
>the bookcel can't even read

I understand why foreigners failed to grasp the importance of vehicle ownership in the United States until I traveled to Asia and Western Europe.

Imagine that American average travel commute consists of 1.5 round trip excursions to your nearest neighboring town. Now, that may be for work, groceries, or even the gym. Please, if you will, also consider the fact that public transportation is all but nonexistent outside of major, popular metropolitan areas.

We need our cars for survival. Our country is large, our towns and cities dwarf yours by incomprehensible magbitudes due to most of them springing up after the advent of motorvehicles.

I would love to be able to walk or bus everywhere like a spoiled European, but I can't. I must drive. Consider yourself lucky.

Sadly there's no real way around it. You can't have a reasonable and cost efficient public transport system in areas where everyone is spread out so thinly. American cities with garbage public transport don't really have much of an excuse though.

>referencing some third party pajeet
soy boy whining about pajeets on Veeky Forums
how pathetic

Been texting a qt but like for a week on/off so I've sort of fucked that one up. Any idea how to re instigate and ask out or is it a straight up make plans sort of thing? And should I wait a few days to not look desperate because I feel like I've been blown off a bit

if you feel like you have been blown off you probably have been blown off.

Yeah it might end in 5-10 years but i would recommend using that time to better yourself and not whine about being depressed, and girls are easier than you think most of them are sluts.