How to last longer

I was doing the deed last night. I came 3 times and each one was faster than the last

I tried kamagra the other day and boy it worked to get it up but seems/and did owee small chafe on hoodie gone now- keep it up long also took really long to finish. but half orgasm feeling for 5 mins instead of normal 2 mins before squeeky noises and needing asthma pump worth it

the only way i can last longer is thinking about something else and to not focus on the moment just do it because you gotta do it its less pleasurable but hey at least you make her enjoy then just do a quick release after

Edging training, and teaching yourself to have better control over orgasm. Learn to get yourself close, then back off repeatedly, only allowing yourself to cum after a set period of time. Gradually increase that time, and always finish with orgasm.

But you can always just get a cock-ring and a condom. That's generally a 'quick-fix.'

sorry exagerrated not 5 more like 2 and a half but also spell mistake Hrs not mins- hence sore raw snot snake.

what if you can only edge for a few seconds before you have to back off?

Condoms are what does it for me. I don't think I've ever been able to cum when wearing one. I had a vasectomy, but we still keep a box of condoms around for the rare moment that she feels like a marathon session.

fall asleep

Slow the fuck down.

Second this, I was having some stamina issues and slapped on a anticlimax condom, now I can go for however long. When I'm ready to cum I just take the condom off and fuck her without it.

This is good advice I think pretty sure all the very plenty me time I've spent doing this when bored (always) has helped me too

Kek that is beta as fuck, sex with condom is trash. If you can't go again right after, might want to get your hormones checked low t brahs

Lasting for a ridiculously long time is a curse, user. My first time having sex at 14 lasted for 1,5 hours and then I just got tired and gave up. I'm 21 now, and I still don't know what the fuck is wrong with me. I'm uncircumcised, my dick is rock solid the entire time and yet I orgasm 1 out of 5 times when having sex. It's only fun for the first time for a new girl and then it just becomes annoying as nobody has time to fuck for hours in a relationship.

DELET

Who fucking cares if you last long? Seriously. If she wants to cum, let her fucking do it herself. A mans nature is to spread their seed as far and wide as possible. Nutting fast is all about efficiency. I can cum in 4 pumps or less. She wants to cum? She better learn to get off in the bathroom while crying.

You know how I know you're a virgin?

Get circumcised and jack off multiple times a day for a 8 years. I wish I didn’t last so long

Arginine and Lecithin.

Seriously replying to this bait thread as I'm shocked Veeky Forums doesn't have a constant sexual gains thread

jk it would be as terrible as the rest of the advice on here

>drink a cup of water before having sex (but not too much), because bladder activity has been shown to decrease prostate activity
>remember to fucking breathe
>use lube
>if you feel yourself getting close, switch positions. Or even just pause for a few seconds. I usually do missionary variations to woman on top to doggy.
>Alcohol helps a little but it might diminish the strength of your erection
> is good along with a few second pause for bringing yourself down from the edge
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this is what I do. when i masturbate i generally get myself close a few times before I finish

If you have the problem where you cum immediately when you put it in, just let yourself relax a little bit immediately before starting sex

don't squeeze it so hard when you jack off

Edging killed my sex life. Makes women insecure when you can't cum during sex. Not even bjs do it for me.

>I usually do missionary variations
Are there positions where you come early vs others where you can last longer? When I jerk off I imagine I'd nut in seconds with some super hot women if I were to do them in the classic missionary or some other positions with a lot of body contact.

..what if i'm already going super slow and still reaching the edge in seconds

Death grip nigga
>tfw you've taken it all the way to the other end of the spectrum and can't get off from fucking alone

how's that buddy?

Long multiplication in my head until I get to the point where the feeling of my dick leaves my brain.

I also have a set routine of stages: fingering and/then eating out hopefully until she comes, then her riding but slowly, then doggy at whatever speed you like then when I want to come I flip her on to her back and pound her as hard as I can until my dick falls out of her and can't get back in. When you break it into stages it's easier on your brain, you don't have to last forever, you just have to last until the next position. If things get bad, pull out, finger or lick, then move to the next one. This gives you time to calm down. It's all mental really, I've had girls tap out and ask for a break before because I've gone so long using this strategy.

And don't listen to people who say not to use a condom. Coming right against her cervix is how it's supposed to be done and she can actually feel your dick pumping it into her which drives her nuts. Then you have the practical reasons, like the fact that you won't catch anything off a poison pussy (be wary of this the first time you sleep with a new girl, I recommend skipping the oral at this point until you become sure she's clean). Also, having to pay 18 years of child support is worth £1 and a barely different experience. I've raw dogged plenty and it's not really noticeable to me. For the same reasons, always take your condoms with you when you leave and dump them in a bin on the street, NEVER leave them at her place or somewhere in your place she would think to look for them.

t. virgin

B-but my phimosis

>NEVER leave them at her place or somewhere in your place she would think to look for them.
some chicks are fucking insane

Bingo drink some jack and you'll be layin pipe all night

In all likelihood you might either nut immediately your first time or not come at all. Sex is a skill to develop like any other skill.

To actually answer your question, though, I generally don't come from classic missionary because I'm more focused on how I'm working my hips than how my dick feels. I use a few different leg positions to work out which angles the chick likes more - this applies to both our legs, as it's a different angle for her if I'm on my knees vs if my legs are extended out, or if her legs are wrapped around me or up in the air, etc.

The only missionary variation I have trouble lasting in is when I'm on my knees on the floor and I'm fucking her off the edge of the bed. Get the height and angle right and you'll understand why.

Relax, breathe. Get used to touching yourself and try to minimize the arousal

uh oh

i've been fucking a chick in the third world and we've been using her condoms

fuckkkkkk

If you are worrying about lasting a ridiculously long time in bed, you are going to suffer from premature ejaculation caused by anxiety.

Change pace, change positions, get her going for a while first.
But above all, stop fucking worrying about it

if you wanna fuck yourself up sexually do what i did. jerk it daily really hard to raunchy porn, bonus points for death grip

wouldn't recommend it tho

the mind can really fuck your shit up in bed huh

i had the same cause of the complete opposite problem. straight up couldn't cum because of premie anxiety

It'll come with practice. Take your time, make breaks, talk to your girl that you're actually practicing lasting longer, she'll understand and will enjoy it, stop trying to hide it and stress, it makes things worse.
Then you'll have years where you can actually last as long as you want and still be young enough to have hard erections. Life is easy mode when you reach that point.

Most girls don't actually enjoy sex that's too long, 20 minutes of penetration should be enough and sometimes even 10 or 5 when they're not 100% horny.

It took me a few months from lasting 10 seconds to control myself totally but I was only having sex max once a week and was an emotional mess of 16 years old.
If you fuck 3-4 times a week and know yourself it should be done in max 1 month.

Benadryl. Went from 8-10 minutes to 4 hours.

Because you've never had sex.

How are you good enough to seduce to woman to sleep with you but then fail at the last step

This. Also a lot of it depends on the girl. Some like it to last a long long time, but women who produce less moisture will begin to chafe if it goes on too long. Lube is of course an option, but in my experience some women want those marathon sessions and some like to have it last more like 30-40 mins. The "up all night" having sex thing is mostly a meme though. Even with lube your dick will chafe after a while, simple friction.

>Most girls don't actually enjoy sex that's too long
Agreed. Though the trick is actually getting each girl to come that fast.

just think of your dead grandma

very true

the actual good advice makes this
10/10

girls who have an easy time cumming from penetration like it

non stop orgasm train

Change positions when you feel like you won't last much longer.
Or just take it out for a few seconds and tell her, jfc.
Position that I found that allows for a long fuck (fucke gf some 30minutes before even thinking about cumming) is her on bed o sofa, doggy style, and me standing behind, or with one leg on the sofa. Changing legs allows for different angles of penetraton, so tht's cool too.
Another one is her on top and let her do the work. Maybe it's just me being dominant and this position being more male-submissive (unless approached right), but I can last a long time like this.

I had the same problem, eventually found out that me moving the woman around can get me to come. Kinda like a fuckdoll. As it is now, I usually have one hand on my gfs throat and the other on her tit and move her up and down on my dick to come.

cowgirl when you're fully horizontal is less stimulating too, it's a great position for lasting

Hasn't given me any trouble. Every girl I get with is fascinated.

> All that comments about changing positions

If you've ever fucked a woman, you would know changing positions (or even sometimes moving in a different way) when she is ready to go is like pressing a reset button.

I usually tense the muscles of my back until I get a cramp. Then, I just keep going along with the pain.

>vasectomy

Doggy style. Jack off an hour earlier.

When do you take it? Directly before sex?

Just watch more porn and fap more often. I cannot cum inside a girl no matter what position we try.

Man, doggystyle makes me bust instantly.

I've said this many times on Veeky Forums. The best way to last longer is to focus on getting her off. That may sound sort of cucky but it works.

When your jerking off, you're only thinking about getting yourself to cum, so you can be done in a few minutes. When you focus on her it becomes more of a task. Your mind is focused on something else than just what is feeling good on your dick. When you're confident that she's satisfied you go back to focusing on you, just like when you're jacking off. Then you can come in a few mins or she can jerk you off.

trust me I had the same problems before I learned this one simple trick!

Why would being circumsized make you last longer?
t. circumsized virgin

Start to practice hands free (no stimulation) orgasms.

Edging is good for duration but hands free is good mental practice for controlling when you ejac.

Why tf would you want to go "ridiculously long"? 15 or 20 minutes is plenty of time to make her cum buckets if you do it right and also do foreplay and shit. Also having a short refractory period so you can get back at it without waiting forever

Non meme answer

Cardio my man. It opens everything up. Ive simply added just 3 30 minute cardio sessions per week and its like a whole new ball game down there.

It won't actually.
Being circumcised is the leading cause of both ED and Premature Ejaculation.
It also makes sex feel terrible for women.

>caring about your partner off is cucky

i hate this red pill meme

w-will they notice?

My gf is on anti anxiety meds that make it difficult/impossible for her to orgasm. She doesnt care because she's literally never had an orgasm. But it frustrates me because that's how I measure myself sexually, by the girls satisfaction. Once I gave her what we think was an orgasm but it's ambiguous. Her legs were shaking. I just don't know what to do with this.

Have you done oral/involved a toy like a little rabbit vibe for her while you guys go at it?

>foreskin in responsible for better bloodflow
I know you're memeing but still.

SSRIs. I have to furiously masturbate for an hour to cum.

fuck her from the front while she masturbates

This is the real fucking curse. When I lost my virginity, we fucked for two straight hours before I just gave up unfinished. I've since then come to the conclusion that three things help. 1. Fucking a girl you feel emotionally close with. As gay as that sounds, you'll experience less anxiety and get off quicker. 2. Stop watching porn and minimizing masturbation. It's a lot easier to get off when you haven't nutted in a week. 3. The most important advice is to stop keeping track of trying to nut. Instead just experience the sex as a whole. You never consciously think about trying to nut while masturbating, yet you do it during sex. IMO that right there gives performance anxiety and makes it even harder to get off.

Assuming you can't just viciously deathgrip masturbate three times daily until it's numb, the best trick is to focus on stimulating her with your pubic bone rather than your dick. Keeps the rhythm and focuses your mind away from your own feelings onto hers, but still feels good.

Drink whisky, if you do the only thing that will make you gym is a finger up the bum

Talked about getting the toy, and she enjoys oral but doesn't cum
Yep. Didn't work.
The only time that got close I just was turned on as fuck and went as deep as possible with he on top. Just hit the right spot.

Same, I'm usually good for a good 15 to 20 minutes, but doggy I'm done in about 2.

Breath and get into a rhytmh. Also don't get too into it because that really helps. If you allow yourself to get super fucking horny and be like ''OH MY GOD THIS BITCH IS SO HOT I'M GONNA FUCK YOU SO HARD YOU DIRTY CUNT, TAKE IT ALL BITCH'' then you're gonna bust quicker. Just zone yourself out and don't think about the sex.

When you feel like you're close pull out and start using your hands and mouth again. Bitches love it when they're super wet and you pull out and give them oral some more

Saaaame. Its weird because I like it when she's on top, I grab her hair, pull her head beside mine and absolute ram the fuck out of her for ages but as soon as we go doggy I feel like I'm gonna bust in no time

>mfw my tolerance is so low that reading this gave me chubs

>finger up the bum
>gym

Something you'd like to tell us, user?

and me. watching my gf contort as she cums is possibly the best thing in life

>how to last longer

To do that, you have to start, something most of us haven't even done yet

>hold me Veeky Forums

DELETE!!!!!!

Masterbate more, especially dry with a tight grip. Do it within a couple hours of sex to really make you last longer.

>better sensitivity and arousal leads to stronger erections.

There's a reason why America and Israel are the largest using countries of viagra on the planet. Your dry mutilated cutdick has 1/10th the sensitivity as it did naturally before the jew doctor mutilated you.

Best tip is to be comfortable with that person.

lold

I'm having a giggle m8

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squat, deadlift, bench, ohp;
eat bacon;
cardio once or twice a week

FUCKING, THIS.

>21

It gets worse. I'm 25, every girl I fuck I can't cum at all. It just leaks out in the shower the next day...

Just fuck my shit up

>Any tips on how to go for a ridiculously long time in bed?
Go once, go fast, get it over with. Go to town on her, wait until you can round 2. Seriously you're a fucking man, you can jerk off 5 times in a row easily, you will be able to get it up multiple times a night.

Jesus if you dont believe me test it. Jerk off and wait 10 minutes and go again. You can easily do it.

masturbate 3 times a day.
masturbate 1 hour before sex.

Don't get to crazy though, i am at the point i can't actually cum without masturbating.

I got a mad secret but I'm hesitant to share it cause I wanna keep it for myself cause as soon as I release it everyone is gonna know about it cause it actually works, should I release or nah?

Phenibut and wear a condom