Can't cum through human contact

low sex drive so you probably have low free test level and healthy total test levels

time to pin

didnt know there was different types of test, that makes sense though since there is 2 different types of cholesterol and such ill check it out, thanks

0 desire for sex usually translates into a deeply internalized shame surrounding the act. Often times that shame we have about being sexual and approaching the opposite sex manifests as a "shut-down" response where you don't allow yourself the necessary vulnerability to become intimate.

My advice - strange as it sounds - is to start a daily journaling practice. Every morning when you wake up, write freehand for three pages. Just let whatever you're feeling spill out onto the page. Within a few weeks you will likely start having revelations about your personal relationships, experiences (traumatic or otherwise) or whatever. Sometimes you will surprise yourself with what you find, but it's important to write without censoring yourself at all. Inhibition kills sexuality so you need to learn to weaken it. My $0.02

I've also been to Japan, it's really not that hard to get laid, you don't need to be Chad thundercock. You just have to be willing to approach girls, as in every east Asian country, they will never approach you unless they want a pic with you because you're foreign or they're a hooker.

I dont think the type of things i write are legal to be said in any country, like my deep internalised feelings towards the state and people around me especially family could have a really bad backlash if someone found it, but it makes sense to let it out, i might make a diary out of a notepad i stole from a hotel or just scream my emotions and feelings out into a pillow

Yeah i never was much for approaching girls since i moved around allot as a kid and never really developed into any dating scene, so whenever i apporached girls they would almost always reject me. But i really dont have the balls to approach someone in Japan, i think its because of the language barrier and because i think im always ugly and never the best that i can be so why should she see me as a potential partner . Doesnt matter anyway im getting allot of girls on FB talking with me and some dates and im also leaving japan in like 15hrs

This post from eight chan is VERY RELATED and I suggest you read it. Might shed some light on what has happened to you and why.

Oh since you're leaving, I have no advice, but using tinder, okc, or any dating site there is a good way to find women that can speak English and are willing to date a foreign guy. Even if you're socially awkward, they probably won't pick up on it that much.

I tried tinder but alas no one replied after a bit of small talk, and usually takes them a day to respond. Got like 10 matches in 3 days so I think some are interested, doesn't matter now since I'm going back to Australia where there are as Manny Asian girls as here

I'll be honest this is really hard to read rn but I'll check it out on my flight back home

I was in tokyo for 5 days and got laid twice, I'm a better man than you OP

>tl;dr
>Basically, society has been engineered to shut down our biological responses towards bonding and touch. From the food we eat to things like Feminism and Single-Parent homes.

how?

Can someone redpill me on Asian girls?
What makes them special/different?

I've met guys of Veeky Forums who where in their 20s where successful and still never had a gf, one of them worked for CD project red and took us out to dinner but has no gf but they all go to soapland, I don't really think you are better then me in anything other then enjoying the contact of other people, you are joking but the constant back and forward from the collective on this sub Reddit on subjective and objective characteristics and metrics of what define a successful man are tearing my world view apart little tiny piece at a time, since this is the board that made me more like a man and got me lifting

I guess I just like the idea of Asian girls being a sort of fuck thing that also has some emotions, I want to show her a good time by being nice to her cuddling her and brushing through her hair with my hand. I want her to feel safe with me, I feel it's easiest to achieve this manipulation on Asians since they are usually made to feel threatened by their male parent and siblings, but I really can't put it in words more elegantly since I never really think about it

>Asian
There is a huge difference between Japs, Chinks, and Koreans user. The one thing they have in common though is their disgusting piss colored skin.

Find yourself a nice white girl. Thats the ultimate red-pill on asians.

True love (this is coming from a 18 year old "incel") seems more complicated then just having the same race and ethnicity as your partner, I want a clone of myself just so I can relate to someone without my programmed responses telling me there is an angle to this whole relationship and that they aren't truelly attracted to me because of who I am

user, stop trying to find the perfect woman, and just find a woman. This is how women become cat ladys, they are always searching for the "perfect man" on the cock carousel, but he never comes because nobody is perfect. Just start meeting people, get your heart broken like a faggot a few times, but eventually you will find someone who you can get along well enough to be a partner in life with you.

I used to get performance anxiety with one of my ex’s when I was a lot younger, literally would barely ever cum, fucked one of her friends nutted in her, realised I just didn’t like the bitch.

I never expected anyone else to have this problem besides myself. Thanks anons, at least we know we suffer together.

pls respond. did you go on tinder or approached girls or bars/clubs?

Stop watching porn, don't masturbate for 5 days

Dude, I never said I was. I'm literally doing a project with my gay nigga friend who is coaching me on how to talk to girls on FB. I literally have 4 FB tabs open with them filled with women I'm talking to. Im doing the million monkeys and a typewriter method of eventually it's going to happen. I don't care to actively look for a good match especially since I don't particularly think it's very likely, I'm just looking for a warm hole that I can talk to

Do either man, it's hard but if you get the day prior you get a courage boost and feel more open to women, at least Ido .

I've tasted for 5 days with nothing but water, I think I've not only gone more then 5 days without masturbating but I don't actually do it for pleasure but just as a chore

Which SSRI and what dose?

*Get drunk the day prior

Bj's normally cost around 15 dollar or less so she pretty much scammed you.

Also don't fap for a couple of days and you will be cured.

How was your relationship with your mother?

Well if theres a gay nigger that changes everything

I have a thing for making people feel bad about not being nice to me, she was the first person i remmember doing that too by making her think she hurt me but i wasnt really hurt, i kept denying aid from her and she i think she cried. I do this from time to time only when im sort of bored now though. I love my mother desu but i cant imagine my self carrying too much if either her or my dad passed

Gas Panic?

Strange thing is, i cant cum if someone else is jacking my cock and no chance in hell from bjs

I used to be NEET loser. I finally started hitting gym, built up my confidence, got a good job and started doin normie things like goin out for drinks after work etc. My whole life changed and I started gettin a lot of female attention.
Eventually it led to sex one night and I couldn't cum at all... BUT.. the girl was seriously impressed. She was like "oh you must be a pro, you are lasting ages"
This happened for a while until I got comfortable and then I could cum when I wanted.
Dont worry user, its just nerves, use it to your advantage and impress some chicks with your long lasting stamina

>i literally dont ever jerk off
>last time was 2 days ago

It's due to fapping and porn

Been through it before

150mg Venlafaxine

yeah as i said i came to japan for the whole sex thing, i bought a toy recently and only jerked off because i got it, i did it because i wanted to test out the object not because i needed too - i never feel the need to