Fit/feel/

>23
>Just had my last day of college
>Landed a good paying job with a lot of opportunity to move up in my career
>Gym results finally getting noticable
>Juggling a couple tinder girls and I think the office hottie is into me
>Still miss my christian ex-girlfriend so much none of that even matters to me

Why do I have to feel

in the past year i've stopped smoking, drinking and snorting completely and picked up the piano as a past time

also started getting paid, no GF tho, 6/10 its ok

where are you going?

>25
>never bought a christmas gift for another person

because

>no friends
>no gf ever
>small extended family i rarely see and know nothing about and they are all old, like 60s+
>no siblings
>buying gits for parents in past went poorly (mom never uses gifts we get her, dad gets angry when he doesnt understand how to use something which is most things especially technology)

hearing people talk about christmas shopping saddens me. i never participate in any of it. if anyone like coworkers ever asked me how my shopping went and i said i bought nothing i would be even more ostracized

also hearing people say how their families will get angry with them if they "only" get them a few gifts disgusts me

Just out to the pubs in town. Christmas Eve Eve is a big night here, lads normally do a run of 12 pubs.

This :(

Same user,hope things will get better next year,we are all gonna make it.

She's just using you as a beta provider for gibs. There is therefore zero chance for genuine attraction.

A bullshit blogpost feel thread? Sure I'll bite
>tfw even the other fucking losers from my high school are normies now and getting laid regularly and I don't even have one girl on my contacts that I talk to that isn't work related
>tfw just wasted $250 on something I don't really want
>tfw my "friends" who are incredibly casual lifters can still outperform me in everything but cardio
>tfw home for holidays and parents wont stop yelling which is actually making me genuinely angry (when I'm at my appartment I feel lonliness but never anger)
>tfw can't enjoy LoL which is the only thing my m8s ever play
I'm considering just living in the back of my pickup truck by myself and going on a lifting spree across the country.

Left on read...

bretty gud
made out with a girl aka friend of mine after seeing her a week ago after years of not doing so
slept at her place yesterday after another party

shit has gotten my ex right out of my head
and said girl is a beast in bed
god damn is this a nice feel

>tfw she feels up your biceps
thanks

Not so good. I've been working out for 2 and a half years now, went from 175 to 225 at 6'3. Girls tell me I'm big but I still look like shit and hate my body. I'm gonna start my first cycle next year and I'll probably hop on mast or tren within the next 3 years.

I just don't give a fuck anymore.

Physically I'm doing well, beginner gains have arrived so I'm just trying to keep eating and lifting hard to keep it up. School is not going well, I have a lot of issues with memory, disorganization, and focusing. I'll probably be on suspension with my frat for this semesters grades. Trying to get an appointment with a psychiatrist over break to see if I have adhd but I'm not really sure where to start with that.

> Had to move town for new job and gf had to stay behind to finish the last year of her degree
> Its been 2 weeks since the move.
> Been trying to cope by lifting and cycling, aiming to lose last 20lbs body fat so she wont leave me.
> Hold me Veeky Forums

Shitty as always, thanks for asking

>oh you’re not going out
I hate that shit so much. I’m 22 and I spent the whole summer fucking strange women on tinder in my parents living room. My dad hates that I used tinder and is happy I’m off it but now wants me to go to hard to meet slutty girls and even asked his female employees where the sluts drink. I fuckin hate it. I’m done with tinder because I hate those women, and I barely want to spend money on booze for me let alone some dumb skank who isn’t worth more than nut. When I was 18, 21, and when I graduated college he kept trying to get me to go with him and my uncles to a nudie bar but he didn’t get why I thought that was weird and not ok.

I know my dad just wants to help me but I neither want or require it. Where he goes to watch tv every night I have soiled with my bare, sweaty ass and the bodies of various nasty whores.

I don't know if they even try to hide their emotion when they say it, breaks me up a bit to know what they really mean by it.

> I barely want to spend money on booze for me
iktf, why would I spend €5+ on a drink when I can buy a bottle of the exact same drink for €17 in the shop.

I know it sounds like it's shit but honestly? The dollas you're saving is insane

>cashier girl at the store said "Merry Christmas!" to the guy in front of me when he was leaving
>she also said it to the guy behind me
>she didn't say it to me

i dont care about the money. having a good family and a gf/friends is worth way more than the couple hundred dollars a year

>enlisted in june
>cardio went up but lifts dropped horrifically in basic
>now im on a real base
>cardio has dropped
>lifts fell to the floor
>am now fat
I'll cut in January I swear.....

Also, everyone has gone off for leave, so it's just me in the barrack blocks. I think the base is just me and the guards. I don't want to see my family tomorrow because it will only lead to fights. I hope my mum got me just socks and underwear like I asked, but I am sure she didn't.

>me back when I was a 20 yo virgin
>girl with the biggest ass at the gym eyefucks me
>a couple of weeks later I talk to her and eventually take her for a date
>after a few more dates she takes me home to her place
>start to panic, do not know what to do
>she stands next to her bed and looks at me
>I get into bed
>from nowhere she turns cold and sleeps at a distance away from me with her back facing me
>I try escalate but she dismisses me

>the day after she turns real cold
>I try to invite her over but she wasn't having it
>I tell her I fucked up over text
>she basically says she has no idea what I am talking about and that I need to come to her place for a talk
>fuck, its over

>drive to her house after finishing the graveyard shift
>she gets into my car and basically says she didn't want to see me anymore
>I just go "yeah me neither"
>she asks why
>”I don’t have to explain shit to you”
>she asks if there is anything I want to say
>"no are we done here?"

>She gets out of my car and I drive home and delete her from social media.

I fucking suck.

not a cashier but I don't say merry christmas to everyone either

>can't recharge care to sound slightly genuine fast enough
>just say the normal sentences automatically sometimes

Investments are going up, I feel good even thought my Holiday is ruined and I wont have anyone to spend this week with

>The loner rich guy here

Stay strong, user. I mean really, there's nothing special about this time of the year at all. It's equal to every other month, but people still choose to gorge themselves. Be better. Stay strong.

If you are living alone and staying home, keep your focus. But if you are going to your relatives for Christmas, indulge. That's what I'll do tomorrow.

How do I get over the fact that any girl I like is likely not a virgin? I know I have no rights for her and her past but nevertheless that makes me jealous in a strange way, I don't want this feel. It's not like I've never had a girlfriend, but the feeling that for her I might be just another guy/boyfriend makes me sick. Also I make myself sick because of these thoughts. Any tips?

Thank you user

In my country we greet men with a handshake and women with two kisses.

Yesterday I wished a merry christmas and a happy new year to all my workmates, one by one.

>mfw I kissed or shaked hands with more than 30 people so I could kiss the girl I like.

I'm not even on vacation next week.

>Any tips?

Take a shower, hit the weights, have sex, get a clue

Spend it on me user, I'll buy some more gym gear for the home gym and do you proud.

been sick for a week now, kinda sucks but slowly getting better

Also I think some qt from work likes me but I sperg like a retard when near her, but I have nearly chad level confidence around the married women there. How do I stop this?

It's impossible for me to cut this month.

Broke up with my girl yesterday. I guess my feelings for her faded but I still feel intense guilt for ever making her feel bad. I was holding on while she was crying her eyes out, but then she kissed me on the cheek and called me the sweetest guy ever. That's when I broke down. I didn't deserve her boys

Are you from alberto barbosa land?

I'm starting to think I don't love my wife any more. I kinda hate our life together and I've started drinking a lot more.

My grandad pass away today, one day before chirstmas eve (my father's side)
My grandmom passed away past spirng (my mother's side) and here husband is still pretty depressed about it (and not really ealthy too)
So my parents and the whole family is pretty fucking depressed
My uni is going to shit too, all in all a pretty horrible year.

Almost

Found a old picture of my ex on my old home computer. Just started to think about all the possibilities we could of had, but then I remember she was a giant piece of shit. Just got to keep moving bros.

>could of had
kys

Serious question, how do you people get into drinking too much? I mean, doing Veeky Forums activities requires minimal self-discipline, that seems to be contrary to mindset that opens one to degenerate activities like alcoholism and gambling.

I don't know, I don't drink during the week, I go to the gym 4 days a week, and on weekends I relax myself and get as wasted as I can. What's so strange or difficult about it?

Getting wasted regularly leads to alcoholism, similar to how getting full of junk food regularly leads to obesity. You are capable of understanding the latter, but not the former? That's what I find peculiar.

How many weeks into your workout are you supposed to see gains?

She hasnt replied to my snapchat
Its been over 24 hours
This is why I hate snapchat :(

For me, it went from enjoying a beer or two on date night, to stocking the house with beer & liquor so I have at least 1 thing to enjoy in my day.

Should I drink tonight? I haven't drunk in a month and I've been holding in a lot of anxiety. I'm on a good spree with my lifts but I just want to get shitfaced and watch some funny stuff. Good idea or no?

I am sorry user. Time heals wounds

Iktf - its terrible, try and move on.

I have fucking huge body dysmorphia...

yeah, be safe please don't drive.

>be there or be square

Nah I’mjust gonna be a faggot in my room since none of my college mates live near me and I was a total loser in HS so I get no invites to local parties

He cant spend it. Its all in crypto.

Have course you think about stuff like what could of been when you see stuff that reminds you have something, especially a pic have you're ex. Its completely natural. But than you have too realize that your only remembering the good times rather then both the good and bad ones. It will only of an affect on you if you let it effect you. Me get feelings like that, to, when me see a photo have my dog. It's death really shook me, it was like loosing an family member. That was probably my pique sadness of all time. Anyway, me glad that you are feeling OK about cutting her lose. Try not too peak at the old photos to often. Me sure its will help alot. The farther you get in life, the less you remember.

Anyways, whose too say you won't find an better girl son?

>"could of"
You need to kill yourself. I dont care if english isnt your native language. Die.

To get over a gf one has to get a new gf. But how does one get over a crush, when she didn't even know some virgin guy exists.

>meet qt
>shes going into the army for six years in a few weeks

>meet qt, hang out at bar, get her number
>she has a bf

>get number from a qt waitress that's been kinda flirty with me
>shes got a bf

>keep running into stunning qt all over town
>shes a (possibly single) mom

>not sure if I should try asking out qt friend because she's a huge pothead and doesn't really have any goals and aspirations
>shes really fucking hot though

>too scared to ask out any girls at my church

>childhood oneitus is in town and not sure if I should ask her out

I should just give up

What are you looking for in a relationship?

This. garuntee that shes such a cunt that she would actually get mad at you for asking her out on a date

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I dont open the app without a notification saying she sent something, so I have not checked if she even opened it yet because I know Im gonna feel worse if she opened it without replying.

>start seeing 6/10 skinny girl
>not super pretty but same kinks
>lets me do anything to her and loves my D
>mentally perfect (same interests and values)

>fuck 8/10 hourglass girl at party
>way more my type physically
>have the best sex of my life
>she's 10/10 physically to me
>only wants a casual relationship because her job is like 18 hours a day

I should love the first girl but I'm obsessed with the second and want to turn the casual into a relationship.

Halp

fo some dick nigga

>come back from campus at 7pm
>straight to Mcdonald to work 7hrs
>com back home at 2am
>do hw for 2hrs
>finally sleep at 4am
>wake up 5hrs later to start slave life again

LIVING THE AMERICAN DREAM

>gf breaks up with me start of novemeber
>still talk all the time
>facetime
>very often replies instantly and keeps conversations going
>saw her just before she went away with family
>arranged to see her just as she arrives back

want her back and i'm hopeful desu. famous last words but this shit is too fucking weird to just be something little.

>she has a bf

Literal non-issue.

yo guys how do you kiss a girl? I am 22 and afraid of the embarrassment of kissing a girl really bad. I am gonna get a hooker but they don't kiss do they.

This It's even an advantage. If a girl is single, your competition is all men. If a girl is taken, your competition is the one guy who was beta enough to commit to one woman.

>tfw no gf

I just want a nice long term gf :(

>normie problems

>tfw gf

Get the fuck out of my thread you degenerate gimp.

cmon guys, you are aiming too high. we need to learn to kiss our future gfs first. Any ideas?

thread theme
youtube.com/watch?v=7wLHNRcd_pE

She sounds like a little cunt mate. Who the fuck agrees to go on multiple dates then throws a tantrum because a bloke isn't experienced in sexual situations instead of just trying to initiate something? Stupid bint.

>tfw gf(male)

i fucking hate christmas

why dude?

Buddy have you never watched a movie? Just copy what they do in movies. Dont kiss a hooker tho, are you retarded? Kiss someone from tinder at the very least

I know how you feel bro
Broke up with my gf of 2 and a half years few weeks ago
It gets better eventually

same. Worst time of the year

>literally a hallmark holiday
>meant to force people to spend money or else they are bad people
>loved ones get upset if you don't buy them "enough stuff" or a "good enough" present
>people in bad financial situations literally make their situations work to buy materialistic presents for people that they don't even need because the holiday dictates to

christmas is by far the worst holiday of the year.

could you break it down - some tips on how to not fuck up.

I know that i should touch her, that's my only experience - I didn't touch the only girl who dared to kiss me. Just stayed like dead fish while she was kissing me. She was also a first timer.
Also when should you use tongue? Is it okay for the first kiss?

This shit is so annoying, you are not a woman if you have a dick you delusional fool.

>go from skeleton to fit
>proud of myself but still need to improve
>get called a DYEL on Veeky Forums
>if not a DYEL everyone just makes pajeet/terrorist jokes
>I just wanted on compliment

oh I completely agree with you. Though you hated the family gatherings. They really suck for my family because it's broken as fuck and we all have to put on a show for all the cousins, uncles, grandparents and etc.

First Christmas without now-ex gf since college. Fuck this, you guys.

You are looking at it through a pessimistic view. A more realistic view is that it's a holiday meant to boost the economy and provide some joy during the most depressing time of the year, winter.

>materialistic presents "provide joy"

you're right, i am looking at is pessimistically.

thanksgiving? now that is a great holiday. families coming together, making and sharing food, etc.

christmas? fuck this abomination. i dont give a fuck if people call me a "scrooge" for it. i still participate in it with buying people stuff because i have to, but its abhorrent.

A lot of Veeky Forums is just insecure assholes, you probably look better than most of them insulting you anyway.