Convincing someone to lift

i dont want my bf turning into lenny but thanks

like what? i go to the gym on the regular and talk about how good i feel to try and help it along

Kek sounds like you have doubts if you actually love him and are contemplating cheating anyway. Just do it you slut, you'll get a real man inside you, and hopefully it'll push him to actually stop being a fucking soyboy.

Your bf sounds like a faggot. Just start putting pics of Arnold and Columbo on your walls and look at them when y'all make love. But nah, at least put up the pictures and start referencing how much you admire that physique. Maybe he'll wake up and reach his potential

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*Fucking Columbu goddamn mobile posting sucks

Former biker here. Biking is more fun when you’re thin. Going up hills sucks when you’re big. Get him to switch to downhill mountain biking where weight doesn’t matter so much.

Just tell him how you feel, if you have a properly functioning relationship he should listen to you. Are attracted to the underweight manlet dyel look? Probably not. I'm assuming you already go to the gym. Take him with you.
>my arms will be heavier
Lamest fucking excuse. And maintaining more muscle absolutely does not have to cost more, just eat properly and sleep more. You know how to make gains, it can be cheap. And don't listen to he sounds like a cunt. Disloyalty deserves death.

you sound like you get friendzoned a lot bud

i don't mind him biking if he enjoys it, and i don't want him to become a 200 lbs pile of muscle, i'm talking like 20-30 lbs muscle gain, that shouldn't get too much in the way of it

>Disloyalty deserves death
very true

and I just don't want to be harsh bringing it up. i like him for who he is so it doesn't bother me to an extreme extent, but it's upsetting, ngl. i appreciate the advice

30 lbs will get in the way of being a roadie or cross country mountain biker. Especially if any of it goes into his upper body.

One way to get him to switch to downhill is to tell him you want to do it and see if he can coach you.

Or you could just accept him for who he is.

Dump him. If he doesn't want to, you're just going to piss him off nagging. It won't make him lift. Being dumped is a great motivator. That might make him lift, it might not. Nagging won't help shit.

You can't. People who like endurance sports will never be convinced to gain weight by someone else, they value their performance in their sport too much. Dump him for a huge guy, he'll start lifting then, most likely, if he ever cared about you.

Bring up the subject of workin out and fitness and shit. Then at some point mention that lifting is tons of fun for you. Tell him you want him to try something new with you cuz its fun. If he complains about the expense and "pointless muscles", tell him having fun with you isnt pointless. If he refuses, say "Oh dont be a baby, cmon, you might just like it" and drag him to a gym as a guest.

Guys I hope you know this is bait theres literally no way this is happening

>I don't want my boyfriend turning into lenny
This isn't the board for you

Let him catch you watching trap porn and say you like that they have the same figure as him.
Watch sport of some kind and point out how the muscly guys are hot.
Say you want something soft but firm to hug not something bony and fat.
Tell him to lift because you think it's hot.

>former faggot here
No shit

Break his heart and dump him . Best way to get someone to lift lololol

Then when he's jacked, take him back.

Profit

If you're stronger than him, that might motivate him.

Or you could ask him to go to the gym with you, assuming you lift.

he is what motivates me to keep lifting, no gf needed

tell your man pipe up, i repeat, tell that nigga to pipe up

>If I build muscle my arms are going to be heavier

Why would you insist on being a stick mode DYEL? Tell him he would be sexier if he were more muscular.

Just blow him when he comes back from the gym

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This post is quite true. Honour, respect, and commitment are male ideals that are alien concepts to women.

You should do what is natural to you and ignore those concepts and do what you want for your own personal pleasure, because is that not what is most important to you?

how fat are you that you're insecure about your bfs weight?

>trying to change your boyfriend's lifestyle to fit your ideals
probably should have just picked someone bigger if his lack of size bothers you so much

>pleb workouts like pushups and pullups
Reeeeee begone whore

Say you will reward him with a bj after every workout

>pushups, pullups and cycling
well it sounds like your bf has a healthy interest in his own fitness and doesn't have crippling body dismorphia like fit (the half of fit that lifts, anyway) so maybe just stop being a thot and accept that he's perfectly healthy as he is?

Break his arm, call him a pussy a lot, maybe he will see how much of a faggot he is, then again maybe he will just cry

He isnt getting fat, so i dont see your problem. Never expect to enter a relationship with a non fitness person and then get them into fitness.

You could workout upper body for a month, and then try and arm wrestle him. When you nearly win he will be so bothered, he needs to start working out.

start lifting user

Ask him to open a jar of pickles that he won't be able to open, if you catch my drift ;)