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Kind of. You're not always gonna go balls to the walls but in that instance it sounds like she wanted it.

OH NO NO NO

>top zoz
jesus

>"treat me like a whore!"
>give her $50 and leave promising I'll recommend her to my friends
>she dumps me
What did I do wrong here?

>having fun with slow strokes
Beta as fuck, lay off the soy

This is true and it makes me feel bad because respecting women is number one

Yeah gotta go like an animal my man. I still spend plenty time doing oral and fingering tho cause seeing girls cum is my favourite thing in life. It's like another way of dominating them, making them feel shit they've never felt

When girls say this they don't want you to do what you want. They mean they want you to use them and be more unhinged, robust and sexy.

Basically she asked you to rail her and you said no.

>Basically she asked you to rail her and you said no.
Lmao. Alpha as fuck. She should be glad she wasn't sent to the kitchen to make a sandwich.

must be fun having a regular sized dick

if I "pound the shit out of" a woman that's going to be the last time I have sex with her, guaranteed

It's not exactly Chad behaviour. He didn't understand this so he wasn't refusing per se. Not only does he not understand women, not only does he have a beta taste in sex, he also sounds sexually incompatible with his girl.

>choke hair

>caring about what hoes want
Found the beta

Honestly this is the best thing to do, sometimes because most women don't exactly know what they want out of sex

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I don't find my girlfriend sexually attractive anymore. She's pretty fat. She said something like this to me. Wanting railed like a whore. But I don't feel motivated to anymore.

I love her and want to give her the world but I also want to fuck women I actually find attractive. What do I do guys. I can't talk to anyone about this irl or I'll alienate the few friends and family I have.

It's not just my relationship that's fucked but every pursuit feels meaningless. Life is just a fucking joke. Why be alive if we will never be happy when we are aware of this. I could kms and skip the inevitable. What do I do.

Tell her to lose weight because you can't get it up.

Tried. She doesn't care. Doesn't try hard enough. Sneaks snacks. Has all sorts of unknown medical issues that complicate it. I wanna fucking die my man. I even took her for a run and she almost fucking died. She feels like a weight on my life. But I felt empty spending Christmas without her.

I never got this, I literally told one of my exes that if she gets fat it wont get and she never got fat. Things did not work out because she had to move away due to uni but she still msgs me regularly about wanting to meet me. Literally just act like a man and be honest.

Stop being weak.

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I have. She won't move. She claims I should love her for who she is. Even with a girlfriend I constantly feel depressed and suicidal. It's bad. I can't take a break from work or school or faking shit. I have to keep going so I have a home, money, and future career. My entire life is based around making money because no one wants to hear how I want to die.

How. Don't be the fsggot that points at people's problems without a proposed solution.

How many of you itt are larping about having a gf or any female contact, ever?

wow have a big dick must be such a curse, also post dick

Dump her then. Y'all aren't married.

>beta taste in sex
is your dick so numb you have to jackhammer pound your slampig to feel anything? slow strokes like OP said have their place and it feels great

So we kind of almost broke up before she went up north to see her doctors. We are technically together right now and I love her. I care about her. But she doesn't make my life better. I just like the feeling of loving her and protecting her. But then when I do that she gets in the way of me ever having the life I want. Idk what I even want. I know i would be happier dead.

get a thicc braphog

>I don't find my girlfriend attractive and want to break up with her
Then break up with her

you don't have to believe me. not worth the hassle nor the unsolicited criticism upon my person.

it's just not all that it's cracked up to be.

Isn't it immoral to fuck a side thot so I'm happy and then I still have to pretend to like sex with my gf? Christ what a fucking nightmare. Someone send me a helium exit kit.

then how big are you friend and why are you saying its not all that great?

no. Thats just society forcing its values on you. In the past, men would have multiple wives, simultaneously.

Goddamn, I don't like you. You said it yourself, "she doesn't make my life better." She's a negative drain on your life. You feel trapped by the sunken cost fallacy, but she's stopping/hindering you from reaching your potential and living your best life.

This is the most beta shit ever, holy fuck.

bro, dump her fat ass

8"

as I said you can't go hard with most women because you'll be hammering into her cervix and she is NOT going to like that.

missionary it's like only half your dick goes inside and that's literally frustrating. imagine blue balls WHILST fucking. fucking from behind is much better because the thighs also wrap around your dick but you can't be doing that all the time.

also you have to be careful with switching positions but AFAIK that might be a problem for everyone. I haven't exactly consulted anybody else on the matter.

some girls like to keep their own condoms at their place just in case. but you can't use those. that's arguably minor but I did cockblock myself that way once. stores close at midnight here.

on the other hand, that's one insecurity I don't have to deal with, and it's one common humiliation tactic women can't use against me either.

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wow the exact meaning of both a blessing and a curse, i envy you user.

>isn't it immoral to be happy and also make one of my life partners happy
No, user. It isn't.

As long as she knows you're cucking her, and is also satisfied everything is fine. If that means fucking her too, so be it, just treat it like housework that needs to be done.

Hell, if she likes it let her watch and get herself off at the same time. Two birds with one stone.

I don't care if you don't like me. I do appreciate you giving me one of the most constructive and insightful comments to date. Thanks user. But I have to go deeper.

What is my best life? Right now it looks like a fucking nightmare no matter where I go. How can I predict my best life? I just want to live on the beach and have sex and smoke weed all day without feeling bad about it cuz of society frowning upon my degenerate behavior. That and being fit while doing it and driving an Audi RS7.

Where do I start? I'm gonna need a lot of money.

My friend did this with a chick he met on tinder, and then they met on a night out.

>do what you want with me
>okay
>starts sticking it in her ass
>she says no no!
>you said whatever i wanted to do
>o-ok then..

And then she started crying a little, so he pulled out and fucked her normally.
Chicks say that shit, but never Mean it. She also let immediately after, so i dont think she liked it that much.

>And she started crying a llittle

Roasties are definitely broken inside.

This is something to be careful, instead of just crying she could have gone apeshit and report him for rape

Nah, he was staying at me and My roommates place and I was asleep in My own room next door. Our other friend was also there, and he chatted up her friend.
She could say he did, but there would be a lot of witnesses that would say its complet bullshit.

Dude stop worrying and do it. I know what it feels like, and that shroud will lift when you break up with her and you drive home. Then it will be Hard, but you will work out your life and become more independent. Live on your own terms.
"love me for who I am", i hear this all the time with women. Do you know what she is user? She is a fat leech, and you should dump her. If she is such a drain on your life as you say, she must be a bitch anyways.

Also stop feeling sorry for yourself. Take action like a man and go live life.

>Stopping/hindering you from reaching your potential
>potential
potential of what? He sounds depressed, and not just by his relationship with her. Leaving her wont guaranteed make him happy. If he makes her happy by being with her he is creating a net positive.

>have gf that i love very much
>fuck her like a whore, hard pounding and choking, finish on her face even though she doesn't want it
>best sex i ever had
>instantly loose all respect for her and resent her for acting all educated and classy and shit when i know i'm not the first one to fuck her like a whore

How do i deal with this, this happened to me multipe times. Whenever i love a girl i cannot dominate her in bed because it ruins the picture of my pure princess that made me fall in love in the first place.

I really don't know what to do except finding a good wife who is ok with me fucking whores on the side and good luck with that in germany of the 21th century

You re retarded

do it to a virgin

good job user

“I know I would be happier if she were dead.”
Fixed the sentence for ya.

This is highly degenerate. If you are not attracted to your girlfriend you need to leave her.

Women are not meant to be princessess in bed.

She must respect you and act formal outside the bedroom, and be your total slave within the bed.

Also, go on YouTube and listen to some lectures by Jordan Peterson. He’s basically that uncle every boy needed to hear tell them “grow up” at some point in their lives.

Don't forget to make your bed and brush your teeth user.
PAY ME 5$

Some people actually need to be told this advice.

that wouldn't change the fact that i cannot stop myself from thinking "shut the fuck up whore" whenever a girl speaks up for herself after i totally dominated her in bed. Idk man judge all you want but after i've done this with a girl i just cannot respect her anymore and just want her to shut up and complie with everything i say and do i don't even care if she's happy after that point.

It is called madonna/whore complex in psychology if anyone happens to care

I don't care what works for other people i want a princess on the outside and the inside and if i can't find that then alas, relationships that last 3 months until i break up it is, just like the years till now.

It is sad, but it is how it is.

>I am!
keked and checked

Some people actually need to be told this advice.

Love can be developed in any relationship

This sort of affection is no reason to hang on

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I have no clue what I want nor where to start. I understand this board is all about trying to be a Chad and shit. But seriously you'd help me so much more if you could just point me in the right direction as to where finding yourself and what actions to take can be discovered.

How does one go live their life as a man when they have no clue what they want?

yep, some of us do...

"You like that you fucking retard!?"

Start by writing something down. Take a blank piece of paper and write something that you want at the top. Then, one line below, an action that you can take to achieve it. Then below that, another action to achieve that second step. And on and on.

Half of life is just showing up and trying, whether it be the gym, education, career, girls whatever. You'll fail sometimes, and that's totally normal and fine, it's not something to be afraid of. Learn from it and better yourself.

Also, I was mean to you before when I said I didn't like you, I was frustrated. I believe it you user, and I want you to succeed. You can make it.

You can't convince her to get thin, if she declines your invitation of working out together and doesn't want to be attractive to you there are no reasons why you should be in a unhappy relationship, just dump her.

mike get the fuck outta here

Lol im 9x6 and have no problem pounding the shit out of random sloots

Ur probably just ugly so that the girls dont get aroused enough lmfao sry bruh

Like this?

Audi RS7. $1500/month
Beach Condo $5000/month
Home gym $500
1/2/3/4 Go to Gym.
Run a 5k. Run everyday.
Sex. Tinder and escorts.
Counseling. Schedule an appointment.
Xbox. $350

Yeah life looks expensive and impossible.

>live in pattaya, thailand $50/month
>AS a ladybody escort, starting as a streetwalker and then going higher and higher class until I have implants, a smooth, hairless body and banging AAA american actors that come vacationing like Charlie Sheen level +$25,000/month

not gonna make it

Hey those aren't bad goals. Although I do feel empty and depressed.

>$7000 a month in expenses and u haven't eaten or put gas in ur car yet

how do i know you aren't 18?

Throwing up your hands and declaring it impossible guarantees you won't achieve whatever you're striving for. Something that may be helpful is guiding yourself from a passive mindset where things happen and your react to them to an active one, where you are proactively helping yourself.

I'm just going to pick the first two I saw:

Counseling: Schedule an appt. Ok, where? List three options, names/numbers. What's your availability? What do you want to get out of it? Thinking about these things may help you make a decision and make your goals clearer.

Run a 5k: Ok, do you have proper shoes? A recommended/helpful program? Where are you going to run, a school track or a neighborhood? Plan out some routes. Research some upcoming 5k races and sign up for one. Once you've signed up, you have a target to work towards. Get your nutrition right (I'm not going to go into this, there are tons of helpful resources in the sticky, on Veeky Forums, and online).

Good. Now set steps as how to achieve this.
Running could start as if now if you wanted. Also dont focus on material shit only. But just start My man, keep yourself busy and happy. This is what most people do until they die. And the one who dont do that are sad cunts.

Also try the future authoring program by Jordan Peterson. I heard it can change lives.

Adding to what I said:

Just do something. Inertia is a powerful force, but if you make an effort, a real effort, to make something your routine, you WILL do it. Moving things from abstract concepts to concrete and tangible goals/objects is enormously helpful. To be cheesy, I love hiking. I love the air, I love the exertion, I love everything about it. I don't get to the summit of a high peak instantly, it all starts with putting one foot in front of the other and never stopping. I know that's lame, but it's true.

You can make it user.

respect wamen

Basically a mindset change. Most of the times before I only focused on her pleasure in the act, which would either upset her (because I couldn't get off myself due to concern) or she'd want to do more afterwards. When you focus too often on what she wants it ends up being less passionate sex and becomes more of a chore.

But if you decide to be selfish about it it actually ends up being better sex, regardless of how backwards it sounds. I practically threw her around, choked her, pulled her hair back and teased her neck, etc. Whatever I wanted. And she ate it up. Really focusing on your wants during sex ends up really working in your favor, and leaves her coming back for more.

Remember this next time you have the chance to fuck. You'll see.

I'm 22 fuck head. I spend $100 on groceries and $150 on gas a month. You ever consider that maybe I'm looking at the big picture and I can fill in the small gaps? Not everyone's post here is the end all be all of their mental facilities you dick.

What if material shit and smoking weed while fucking whores is all I want? Women as far as emotions go only try to tear me down. My family is a nightmare. My friends and whores are the only ones I like. I'm from a broken family my man.

Idk what else to pursue besides materialistic goals. They make me happy. People tend not to.

Dude. You need to look after yourself. It's hard to hear, but your mental state defines how you live, and constant depressive symptoms (doesn't necessarily mean actual depression, though it very well could be) will prevent you from really living your life and following the paths YOU want to. As someone who came through the other side, let me tell you: it doesn't have to be this way. It can get better. It's the hardest thing I ever did, but I got help, and applied it in my daily routine, and sloooowwwllyyyy changed things; I saw a behavioural psychologist for 8 sessions over 6 months, and the ACT (Acceptance and Commitment Therapy) principles she taught me have allowed me to manage my growth and recovery without professional supervision. It's clinically proven to improve depression and anxiety, and that is certainly my experience. It's also based in the Greek philosophy of Stoicism, which is the most logical and alpha system I've yet discovered - even if you're not into psychologists, I highly, highly recommend doing your own research into ACT and/or Stoicism. There are plenty of free googleable online resources. It seriously changed my life.

You will feel much better equipped to deal with external issues (like your chubby chick) once you have control over your own mind. I guarantee choices about her will be easier when you don't have to deal with your brain's bullshit on top.

Dump her. Live life you fucking fag. Sounds like a skag

I forgot for while why i love this website. Now i remember why

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this desu, I gave a girl her first vaginal orgasm ever with my finger and she was clearly in ecstasy, when she was done, she said, "I think now I owe you something", climbed on my dick, and we had the best sex of my life. She acted like my slave for the next 20 minutes or so and I came all over her face (something she hadn't let me do till then).

>being this retarded
Then why do you want to fuck her that way? You degenerate whore. You've had that kind of sex with multiple people and you still think your opinion is valid? Shut the fuck up, you worthless slut.

Seriously though, if you don't like that style of sex, why do it? If you do, why is it bad to find a nice girl who shares your interests? Maybe think about why you have these opinions rather than bemoaning the fact that you have no control over your own thoughts and constantly sabotage what sound like great lays, at the very least.

you said later that you're 8" so maybe there's a big jump vs my 7.5" (with proportional girth, not exactly sure on the number), but I've fucked even tiny asian girls pretty hard, you're right that you can't fit it all inside (which is my biggest complaint with having above average length) but I haven't ever had a girl complain about me going too hard. One particularly small girl told me that "normally", she can have sex every 3-4 hours (ie she's recovered enough from the soreness) but with me "I can try". We ended up waiting 8-12 hours between, she had difficulty standing up immediately after sex but that just meant more time laying in bed afterwards.

basically, the girls I've been with have still loved getting pounded, it's just taken them longer to recover between sessions.