how do i motivate my gf to become fit?
how do you deal with the fact your gf has been with other men before you?
serious question. i hate thinking about this shit and just want to be able to have mental peace and accept it but i don't know how. i know it's stupid because i've slept with other women before her too so obviously neither of us are virgins but yeah
What the hell is wrong with you?
not sure
How insecure are you kek
stop thinking about it.
yw op glad I could help
alt response: work on your self esteem so you're less insecure
mildly
come on man
Do you think she's ever been creampied by something else? Or just with a condom?
>gf was a virgin before I met her
Feels great man
i dont know
Humans are sexual naturally.
Were you with anyone before her?
Most likely.
It's like you being upset at someone cooking her a meal before you have.
Basically you are being a dufus.
Jealousy can get us all.
Just don't let it wreck what you have.
Do you ever think about it?
Yeah, cooked her a meal with cum in it.
>how do i motivate my gf to become fit?
You DON'T. She either wants to or doesn't, and you have to respect her decision.
>how do you deal with the fact your gf has been with other men before you?
You realize you're thinking like a manchild and not an adult.
Have you been with other women before her? Yes? Then why is that okay but it's not okay for her?
Blessed
Lmao stop being a faggot and get over it. How old are you lol
>Have you been with other women before her? Yes?
Not OP but what if the answer is no?
>Not OP but what if the answer is no?
Then you're obviously young, inexperienced, and likely emotionally immature, which explains the irrational emotional reaction.
If I hold a standard to myself am I not allowed to hold it to others?
If you decide in the middle of a relationship that you're not okay with it then your only choice is to break up with that person immediately -- and accept that they'll hate you forever because you're basically a judgemental asshole.
Found the roastie
>roastie
LOL adult male old enough to be your DAD (52) and some of you are just ridiculous how immature and idiotic you can be. No wonder none of you can get girlfriends, who'd want to put up with your childish nonsense?
>claims to be mature
>throw a tantrum on a Bengali embroidery site
When you are laying in bed, just start playing with her fat. Pinch it, roll it up, then when she says "Am I fat?" say "Maybe a little bit."
This is a great time of year for it too because of the NYR mindset.
Why would you admit to being 52 on Veeky Forums. That's just sad.
user, do you think shes ever had a threeway with black guys?
>all those cuckolds ITT saying its okay that their gf sucked another dick before
you dump her
>i know it's stupid because i've slept with other women before her too
Idiot. Men and women aren't the same.
>not dating virgins
you're not gonna make it kiddo
>how do I motivate
you don't, she either wants to or doesn't simple as that. Women are a pain in the ass to get to the gym.
t. current gf loves the gym, ex gf hated the gym and wouldnt go
>how do you deal
by just not caring, ive been with more girls than she has guys and it doesnt bother her so why would i let it bother me?
Just focus on giving her the most pleasure so that even if you do break up the next faggot wouldnt be able to stack up against you
Aim to fuck better. Go online and find new positions and shit and introduce a domination rp where you tie her up, smack/bite/tease. Have a half assed jerk beforehand so you aren't carrying an easily excitable weapon. Nibble and lick her clit as you dildo her and stop before she orgasms. Smack her if she does without your permission. I guarantee you when she looks at you and says its the best shes had, her wide eyes will tell the truth and that should hopefully put your mind at ease.
As for the workout thing, "I respect my body and you should too. Fairs fair and it seems like I'm the only one putting in the effort to look good for my partner."
>some of you are just ridiculous how immature and idiotic you can be
Says the 52 y/o still on Veeky Forums, lmao.
>how do i motivate my gf to become fit?
Just tell her that thin girls are more your type and you want her to be healthier. Then invite her to the gym or outdoors with you.
My first gf was a little chubby, I was honest about the fact she'd be hotter losing a bit of weight and so she did. Squats for days until she was a THICC qt. She also started purging, cutting and ended up in hospital after leaving me so ymmv.
>how do you deal with the fact your gf has been with other men before you?
Can't help you there. The only three serious gfs I've had have been virgins. I wouldn't want anything longterm with someone who's slept around.
I would rather sleep with someone with tons of experience, that's just my preference though.
Feels good to be with a girl who lost her virginity to you desu. I couldn't go back to those used up cunts again
I've slept for 25 years. Your welcome in my racecar bed
Listen fella, i know you were just looking to try out your Veeky Forums paraphrase (which was passable, but not quite alliterative as i prefer), but i think theres a distinction to be made between calling someone out on their shit and throwing a tantrum.
I took some chick's virginity last year. She kept fucking biting my face during sex, dunno what her deal was but I had to break it off.
24 year old virgin girls, never again. Obviously something wrong with them if they can't get laid.
wew lad wtf
I took a 28 yr old korean girl's virginity in barcelona and she kept biting my face during sex too.
wtffff
ROASTIE / SOY BOY DETECTED.
It's pure, unadulterated bliss. My wife was 25 when we met and we were both virgins, and she kept trying to bite me too.
No fucking way. Glad I'm not alone in being bitten in the face. I just bit her nose back really hard and she got upset, but then she did it again the next day. Dunno what the fuck is up.
> how do i motivate my gf to become fit?
If she doesn't have the internal desire to be fit, it's going to be an uphill battle and you might be better off trading her in for one that does. If you can't/don't want to do that, the most effective way would probably be to leave browser windows open with fit bikini-clad chicks. Nothing pornographic, just find a woman with an ideal body and indirectly make her aware that this is what you desire. If she's scared she's not good enough, she will get on that treadmill. If this doesn't scare her, she doesn't really care that much about your relationship and you should find a girl who will.
> how do you deal with the fact your gf has been with other men before you?
By looking at history and realizing that the vast majority of men have lived lives of hardship and struggle, often dying early in brutal ways via war, etc. With that perspective, you will realize that the cross you are being asked to bear is manageable. The alternative is to check out of dating completely and end your genetic line. Would your ancestors, who were ten times the man you are, have thrown in the towel over this kind of bitch shit? No (sane) man prefers a sexually experienced woman over an inexperienced one, but you have to learn to make your peace with things in life.
I have a little figurine of a medieval knight next to my computer to remind me of the above, even though I think collecting figurines as a hobby is for beta faggots.
My last girl told me she'd been with like 20 guys and she was only my 2nd and I told her that. It turned out a good idea because after we fucked she accused me of being a liar Because of how good I was
I realized it doesn't matter how many men they've been with if she tells you that you were one of the best if not the best
>I realized it doesn't matter how many men they've been with if she tells you that you were one of the best if not the best
Yep. That year is only for guys who suck in bed, and honestly, their wives will end up cheating on them anyway.
does anybody have the heart to break it to this guy?
> Yep. That year is only for guys who suck in bed, and honestly, their wives will end up cheating on them anyway.
That year?
fear
I guess we will just kek softly to ourselves
>52 yr old dad
>calling anyone else immature and idiotic on a kangaroo taxidermy internet pawn shop forum
>how do you deal with the fact your gf has been with other men before you?
People worry about this shit? I'd be less worried about that and more worried about her finding out you're a jelous chode.
It's incredible how good Jennifer Aniston still looks
if the thought of some sweaty dude (let alone 20 of them) gorilla-fucking your girl and blowing a load inside her while she moans with pleasure doesn't make you jealous, there's something wrong with you. Or you're unironically a mentally ill cuck.
she probably stayed true to her eating habits and does less drugs than the rest. Also, dem A1 genetics
I think Courteney Cox would have held up pretty well if she hadn't mutilated her face with all that ridiculous plastic surgery.
Okay lol
I don't really think about that at all though. It's just not something that I visualize ever.
Matt LeBlanc aged into a fine-looking silverback.
courtney cox was the most beautiful one out of them, she was stunning. at some point she started getting surgery and botox :(
women think a lack of wrinkles will make them look more beautiful in old age... but wrinkles is not the only thing shows your age so it looks creepy and uncanny
now he will
I used be like you op, hated that my gf slept with other guys. It's called retroactive jealousy and its beta as fuck bro. 99% of people on this site don't even have a gf lol so be happy that you have something that many people do not
>even though i think collecting figurines as a hobby is for beta faggots
Whew thank god Mr. Insecure I almost thought you were a huge faggot for a second there
Non virgins are forever tainted
Enjoy spending your live with another mans cumdumpster
She will think about her exs cock all day
>how do i motivate my gf to become fit?
Explain what lifting has done for you and show her pictures like related
>how do you deal with the fact your gf has been with other men before you?
Get a better gf
...
>you have to respect her decision.
>you're thinking like a manchild
Nice SRS tactics soyboy
Cheeks no matter how much testosterone you inject into your ass, you'll never have the same psychology as a man. You are wired to be attracted to men who fuck a lot, because it shows them to be a desirable partner. Whereas we are wired to look for virgin girls because it means the offspring will be ours, its just biology mate.
What if the grill was in a long-term relationship and truly thought she would marry the guy? There's a difference between whore who goes around the clubs and a girl who is in a relationship
>grill was in a long-term relationship and truly thought she would marry the guy
She would have a 52% change on a successful marriage. Still much less than a virgin wedding
>whore who goes around the clubs
She would have a 25% chance of a succesful marriage
>how do i motivate my gf to become fit?
Leave her for somebody fit.
...and if you can't find a fit girl who wants you, then guess what: She's fit enough for you.
>how do you deal with the fact your gf has been with other men before you?
Call her a disgusting slut. Then see my first answer.
>i know it's stupid because i've slept with other women before her too so obviously neither of us are virgins but yeah
It's different for men. Men have resources like intelligence and education. Women have their chastity. Without that, they're worthless. Why be faithful with somebody whom you can get for free a friday night? Just stop treating her like something valuable when she's not. Is it because you can't get anyone else? In that case, see my first answer: Maybe you're such a lowly man that you deserve trash. In that case, be grateful for what you can get, and lift to become somebody better.
>a virgin wedding
What country was the study done in? Or countries? That success rate is probably from shame of divorce or religion forcing you to stay in the marriage.
What the fuck kind of man waits years without sex until he's ready to get married to a woman anyway
how is that related
>What country was the study done in? Or countries?
Literally just Google the full title and you get 2000 results
socialpathology.blogspot.nl
citeseerx.ist.psu.edu
wrongplanet.net
racemixing is wrong and antievolution,democracy does not work and hitler was right.
>What the fuck kind of man waits years without sex until he's ready to get married to a woman anyway
Nice shaming tactics tho
> he doesn't date virgins who enjoy working out
you and all others like you are cucks. "OMG INSECURE" is leftist lingo. Die.
Its men like them that we have this problem with women. Seriously women would dump them in a heartbeat for a rich guy but men arent allowed to want a virgin woman to have for themselves
When your gf has gotten with guys in the past, is there a term for being cucked through time?
Not shaming, just wondering. No one does that anymore. The second he hears it, 99.99% of men would stop trying and just break up or cheat on the girl. Guys don't want to wait 3+ years without sex, and if you're getting married before being with someone for a few years that's just rushing into it.
>ho do i motivate my gf to become fit?
If she's very unfit/fat/ugly then just leave her and get a better gf. You can't change someone...
If she's genuinely good looking and just get out of shape a little, which happens to us all at some point then fair enough. Here's what worked for me (6 year relationship, we've both got a bit out of shape a couple of times throughout)
>admit to her that you've been slacking but have decided to make a change
This works even if untrue. It lets her feel more equal to you and less pressured to succeed (which is difficult if you're a girl and your bf is Veeky Forums
>praise her for the simplest of accomplishments
Women have much shorter term goals than men do. That's why women fall into the trap of random fitness gadgets and weird diets. They want to see small, consistent rewards... Feeling like someone is proud of you is a good reward.
>Buy her fitness clothes like gymshark or whatever. Tight leggings work best (won't work for new relationships)
When you're on the computer one day, say you're ordering yourself a new gym shirt or hoodie or something and ask if she wants anything in with the same delivery while the sale is on blah blah blah... She'll feel good that you bought her something, will think you've done it out of niceness and convenience (no pressure) and will feel better next time she does some squats or goes for a run or something.
That's about all you can do. Apart from leading by example in a positive way.
Next one.
>how do you deal with the fact your gf has been with other men before you?
When you realize you "beat" them. You've got the girl that they weren't good enough to keep, etc... You also are/will be more aesthetic than them and they'll always be under the impression that you've got a bigger dick.
Really. Think about any of your ex's current boyfriends. Do you automatically assume they have smaller dicks than you and the other boyfriends before? No. You assume they have the biggest dick out them all
imagine sticking your dick inside a pussy that's been creampied. Her walls are graffitied all over. And anons in this thread marry them.
Cucks
>if the thought of
That's the point. Some people are confident enough in themselves that this kind of thing doesn't enter our minds. Sure, we COULD imagine it and it would be uncomfortable. But that's not what you're talking about.
You're talking about insecure boyfriends who don't really know if their dick is big enough or if he even gives his gf 'real' orgasms. These insecurities manifest themselves as thoughts about their gfs enjoying other mens dicks better, and it being HER fault, rather than his own.
He would rather be disgusted by his girlfriends previous actions than feel bad about his own current and future actions.
It's simple psychology. It's the kind of shit you guys complain about when you talk about females being crazy and emotionally driven.
Well tell them to cut that shit out
One girl bit my lower lip and if she had let go a tenth of a second later I would've punched her face
No user, I am the sweaty man gorilla fucking the girl
"Insecure" is a Jew parasite meme that tells the host people to be shitty. If you're satisfied with your shittiness, congrats, you get a Secure Star. You want better, sorry, you must be sick inside.
Fuck that. Always be "insecure." Keep wanting more.
A fat chick is less attractive, a slutty chick is less emotionally bonded to you. Duh. Don't fall for lies, never adopt the upside-down worldview. Trust your instincts. Stay strong.
>being this insecure and possessive
Have you ever met or fucked a female virgin over 18? They're all either ugly as sin or completely insane.
If you can't handle the fact that another man has had sex with your gf in the past then you just come off as intimidated by other men. Total Muslim tier thinking as well. Pathetic
Striving for success is one thing. Being driven by jealousy is something else entirely.
1) if she's unmotivated in terms of her health she's unmotivated in life, get rid she's a gainz goblin
2) You've been with girls before her, stop havign double standards
>You've got the girl that they weren't good enough to keep, etc...
You've got the older and the more worn out girl than them.
Same here. Feels so fkin good.
Gullible faggots lmao
Started dating a chick, she asked me to go to the gym with me. Got her on a routine with some cardio in between
1. Just get her into fitness classes
2. Find a virgin or treat her badly so at least she's not getting a free ride.
Godmode, wish you all the best
> being judgemental is bad
It appears you took the shit brain pill
>something else
>something
>thing
like a dog?
I have answers to both of these: first get her into activities you can do together like climbing, or fitness classes for girls.
Then as for the sex part: its natural to dislike it, biologically virgins are better for offspring and marriage. I was once in a near sexual relationship with a girl who was a massive slut and it made me so unhappy. I didnt want to have sex with her because of it so i cut the rope (in a messy way) and then was alone for about a year until i luckily met a virgin at 21. We both had sex for the first time a few months later and are married now. Been married for 2 years, going out 7 all in all and it is just bliss. If you arent happy with the girl then leave her, dont make up for her mistakes.
Trust me, it's easy to know if she's virgin ole not.
no it isn't