Letter to Veeky Forums

(25, Male, USA, Gentile) I used this board for about ten years but when some external forces improved my life somehow this and video games kinda just faded out without trying or caring. Specifically the way it was improved was through accidentally falling into a group and gaining social standing but being myself and not trying so hard. I randomly think of it sometimes because I think perhaps most guys who come here of some internal light inside them because they ended up on this particular board on this particular site because they’re seeking to better themselves in some kind of way. You see potential, things as they could and perhaps should be, not simply as they are.

Anyways I'm way more fit now, but that wasn't after a few years of going up and down, often following the trajectory of the rest of my life (love self/be fit or hate self/not be fit). Correlation doesn’t equal causation, but I do think my social needs (you have them if your physiologically human, even chad does, you aren’t outsmarting millions of years of evolution) were maybe filled more healthily with real and meaningful social interaction. So it just kinda withered and fell off.
idk what the state of the board is on fitness or the new memes its been years. I'll make it fit related real quick,

>Lifestyle choices
ADF and consistent morning cardio are keys to a better life. Ketones are real, ketogenic/lo carb is stupid. Your body evolved to have periods of fast.

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(2/5)
Don’t eat so much fake shit and don’t drink soda. Don’t hit snooze ever and stay hydrated. If they ever told you you were hyper or got adhd or some shit, go download headspace on your phone or read a meditation guide and do it religiously for 2 weeks. Even just to prove me wrong. In fact do that with like any of the shit in my post. You can even fuckin email me to tell me I’m fucking wrong and your life was designed to suck dick by god and you’ll never be chad. [email protected]
I am NOT advocating this to replace lifting weights in any way in order to add mass or that its one or the other. IDK what the echoing view is in regards to these currently but that’s just my experience. When I was last here, Scooby was making puzzles, lean gains was gaining acceptance, zzyz death deniers were starting to accept he really died, etc. And if you’re gonna call me a jew conspirator, you should no thats a huge nigger trait actually, if you’ve only ever seen black people online and never met one. They love and believe all conspiracy theories lol. (sorry if these pics are really testing some of you who are trying to quit, but focus on letting it only test you, and if you give in be mindful of your emotional and physical state the whole time. Its okay to fail if you learn from it. You'll make it.)

(3/5)
>Nofap
Do it if your porn is out of control. Some people can use porn unaffected and some people can't. If you play video games and masturbate to porn with prejudice (meaning you have some sort of fetish or some internal threshold of how nasty/unrealistic the porn must be), your porn use may actually be an addiction. Some people have problems with food, some people have problems with money, some people have problems with drugs or alcohol, cigarettes, etc… but everyone has something. You either got too much of or not enough of something as a kid and you try to fill it with something. For me, I fulfilled an emotional void that sex couldn’t with porn use, and my daily need was to get my sex drive quenched before it could ever ache at me, in an almost medical fashion. It was the only thing I really made sure to get done e v e r y d a y and it was always extreme deep throat porn where the girl is pretending to enjoy getting ramrodded and made to gag on a group of guys dicks, often black men so its even more taboo and defacing to the girl. Regular porn was not enough and I always leaned towards novel behavior, often spending large pools of untracked time just looking for new videos. I’m still deciphering what exactly I’m so afraid of or hurt by that i’d rather numb it with porn than accept.
My pic was the star that for some reason always seemed to leave me feeling the most full and satiated. I think it was how much she pretended to enjoy it. I have a couple hunches as to why, maybe, but its not the point. I figure if you have read this much, you can probably relate at some level to a lot of this.
Anyways fixing that made everything else way easier. I randomly have days where my brain seems to think a lot about porn (these days I’m extra careful I can’t find a way to trick myself into using again), but no longer the same yearning to get lost in the trance of jumping between tabs and videos, to check out of life self medicate.

(4/5)
After doing that lots of shit has just sort fallen into place apart from some big decisions I’ve made that were pretty binary. Mostly its a bunch of shit not to do. So all of that was kinda preface for the thought that gave me the idea to write this for all of you guys. This is for everyone here but I really wanna kinda target and let white men between 19-23 years take some shit in:
>contempt
A lot of you hold some weird contempt about women. If you use porn (like most men who have internet access) you probably hold some sort of contempt against women. And some of it is actually pretty well founded. Its pretty one-sided up until you are about my age. Then things start to shift preeeeetty quick. See life is a lot longer than you think its gonna be and it lasts as long as it should at every part.
Yes, women get the final say in who gets to procreate or not. They also don’t have to work or hold responsibilities in order to be smiled upon by society. It’s easier and we have to pretend its the same in polite company. Its annoying and when they wield their power cruelly it creates a lot of suffering for men.

take your blog and shove it up your ass

what Im good that I like doing, is not what I want to do in life
at this moment the only thing Im very consistent and disciplined in is diet and lifting
I need to find something I want to do, but I cant

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But just don’t let it get to you, relax. Long run, if you just let go of your contempt, its so much better being a man. Even if you’re not even Chad. Look as soon as you get to my age, (as long as your fit and if youre really ugly or too short, just get a high earning job and be lavish with wealth, same shit) the market is all yours. Women know they need you. Their biological clocks are ticking. They’ve had dreams of weddings and falling in love since they were girls. And their dad probably fucked em up in some way and need you to step into where he fucked up and be a man. Not to mention, they all need dick. Don’t say it out loud ever. They know it, you know it. Single men that are rich or chad are much higher commodities than the women once you get a bit older. And women’s goes down every year after 25. Let em make laws. It’s in our physiology, we know the power isn’t going anywhere. We lived for millions of years in groups of 50-200. It shaped us. What is of less value to the tribe than unskilled young men? And what is more value to the tribe than fertile young women?
When you hit my points all the girls younger than you get wet and are easy as fuck to sweep off their feet. And all the girls your age are going crazy trying to find someone that will say they matter and give em attention (side note: don’t read game theory, check out patrice oneal and read the 48 laws of power. Your sex life will improve or start with a year and it will be fuckin lit). They’re also jealous of the girls younger than them. Women value wholeness in their lives (maintaining and nurturing a lot of things @ 60% peak level) where as men value perfection (pushing there one thing @ 100% past its previous threshold constantly).

Tldr

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I hope that all makes sense I just smoke weed for the first time in 3 years and felt very compelled to write this. Im saving to see it when I’m sober in case its actually not shit. You can email me at that email or comment while im here if I gotta clarify anything or got any questions. I just wanted to help some people like me.

>previous threshold constantly).
stopped reading right there

>its an unsolicited advice thread
eat shit faggot, nobody wants and nobody needs your help

I would, but I don't want recognition. I'd rather not be associated with my previous porn use. Also, as much as it pains me to say, this is the audience I wanted to hear this. Take it for what its worth. If you're happy with the way things are, I'd tell you not to change a thing.

you need art in your life. Try music or something visual first and go from there. Everything is gonna be automated that can be so don't bother with learning a technical skill.
Why do you say "I can't" ?
Its so final, and you really have no idea. Don't defeat yourself. Stand up straight.

I kind of enjoyed reading this user.

then sage it.
something about it struck a nerve though, you couldn't just ignore it. Thats a weakness. When you get older people are gonna use it to get over on you.

lol you think women are typically geared towards self development? or you don't think men engineered for problem solving?

What do you recommend by Patrice?

This user's made it. Proud of you dude

the thing that Im good at is in the creative field, and Im honestly not being delusional, but I am very, very good at it
maybe Im demotivated because nowadays quantity is over quality and I cant go down to that level to be more consistent because I have a standard for myself
maybe ill figure it out, maybe not, whatever man, good thread anyway, Veeky Forums has bee invaded by reddit recently and its garbage 99% of the times, summer being edgy

Thanks OP, this spoke to me somehow

thanks man, I wrote it for you

all his specials (not that many he died young and they are hilarious). More importantly listen to the black phillip show on youtube. It was a show he did with pie and anthony where he was uncensored giving call in men dating advice and what he really thought of women. He does his best to be scientific about it and he's never a dry story teller.

the biggest thing to take from him is this
>women control men with sex. Men control women with attention.

Giving girls attention easy is the Male version of being a slutty girl. Slutty girls have no female friends unless they're sluts too. Beta pussies only have friends that are girls who want fuck em and other beta friends.

Also if all your friends are beta and don't wanna change, get new friends.

lol I usually hear the big memes from some friends that still come here all the time. they have a snapchat group chat an repost pepe and shit all the time. They're both losers. Never grew from where they were @ 18. 26 now. When they kept talking about cuckoldry excessively i knew i made the right decision. Its not healthy to focus on that all the time.

What is creative skill?

>bro just be yourself

I'm glad, I meant it all

lol, see your argument, but it doesn't really hold water. Pictures are one thing. But in real life, if she see homie on the right wield some power (demonstrate his influence or show off his wealth) he can easily have better footing. Women are not nearly as visual as men. I feel much more sorry for homely women. Not as much they can do unless they can get someone to pay for plastic surgery (increasingly accepted nowadays, so worth mentioning).

One of the things I struggle with is connecting with women in a deep and vulnerable way. After taking time to clean up my life, the people I meet I feel are less understanding of my past. Tl;dr how do i open up about drug use and kink with girls I meet in wholesome ways that don't seem down but have cool personalities?

Guys like you that make threads like this are ALWAYS GL or at the very least significantly more DOM than average and just don't know it. Literally none of this matters if you were born subhuman.

Be yourself means be comfortable with your surroundings and not scared to be who you are.

The dude in that picture isn't being himself unless he's sitting alone at home looking like he's about to shit his pants out of fright.

"Being yourself" means being calm, collected, and not scared of social interaction because it doesn't matter if someone does or does not accept or like you.

wholesome story dude, nice read.

From what I’ve noticed people saying, fit is becoming more diverse in recent times. A lot more women and lgbt people posting.

But nobody likes ugly people lmao

If I’m a sorta lonely friendless boyfriendless trap, does this thread mean anything for me?

>and stay hydrated.
Just asking, what's your opinion on dry fasting?

So I think the answer to this is easy and hard at the same time. You simply meet girls as normal and drop them as soon as you realize youre not compatible. No shortcuts but it is far from hopeless. But I think this sounds worse in theory than you think.
People are very complex. Humans categorize and simplify things based on patterns. I think in this endeavor you'd find quickly you aren't static and neither will your partners be. Everyone requires effort to love. I've changed a lot recently for a beautiful woman thats fiercely loyal. The benefits outweigh the cons in my life as it stands. But yeah you can't ever have it all.

this leads me to pose a question to you:
>Are you running from pain?

No point in running. Everything hurts. Hurt for a reason.

Quality stuff op, thank you.

Freaks me out when 25 year olds start saying they're old, I'm 24 and wasted a lot of time being afraid and being lazy.

>it doesn't matter if someone does or does not accept or like you.

Learn how to read homeslice.

even after all the cocks she's taken, i'd still marry Gianna Michaels and start a family with her. anyone feel the same way?

i'm 27 and i feel old as shit, my dude. at least i have a college degree and a good job. and a gf

I won't lie to you. Its true some are born with more advantages. Being white isn't that great actually as a young man, but wait till you're not young. Its f u c k i n g l i t . Everyone thinks your good at everything unless you prove them wrong, and the cops never think you did shit. Old rich people see you as more trustworthy. You probably got all your shots and shit. Its fucking badass its just rude to brag about it.
Back to the point, its also never been better to be born "subhuman" as it were. Not my words, but hey. Anyways, man you can make bank and not ever have to demonstrate any physical manhood. People don't say steve wozniak is is a subhuman little bitch and punk him all the time. Cause he has a skill that means something that people with power depend on him for. So the playing field is level. It's the same thing as a gun. Just keep a gun on you, or even a taser(not a fucking a stung a real taser they're like $400, the police use these to put down giant motherfuckers instantly i used to be a firefighter they are legit) if those are illegal in your state. Bam same level again as guys that are bigger and/or more fit than you.
And man porn would make you think your dick matters way more to women. Truth is no girl wants to laugh at your little dick if you got one, they aren't wired like us. They wanna feel taken care of. They'd all just keep vibrators if they didn't need men around. But the get something more with a man doing it for em.

Dropping women who I'm not compatible with is essentially what I've been doing. I might be running away from some pain (we all are in a way), but I would say that I see it more as carving away the unnecessary parts of my lifestyle to ensure that I can reach my fullest potential as soon as possible and maintain it for as long as possible. I'm finding that every time I ask a question about this or that, I get an answer I was already aware of and am left disappointed. Maybe it's a sign that I'm further along than I think. Right now I am craving a deep emotional and sexual connection with another person, but I haven't been able to find a person I feel comfortable opening up to in a long time, and even though the rest of my life is phenomenal by almost every metric, I still feel a little gray at night.

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women are fine, I wouldn't say the stuff if i could be identified in front of them. gay lesbian and trans people are all actually okay with me too, so long as like everyone else they are good people.

If youre an sjw who thinks being other kin or gender queer or non cis or anything is a real thing and youre marginalized fuck you. youre rich white kids. same with jews and japanese/koreans. you're not really marginilized im not gonna pretend.

i appreciate this thread OP, you're a cool guy

just start doing shit now fuck the past. I started my passion at 22 and its finally starting to happen best decision I ever made. We are men we can get bitches and money doing most things until we are like 55. You got your whole 30s and 40s

yea that's what i've been doing. focusing less on the past and my age and more on what i have going on

yeah I know what you mean. Like If I was married with kids and new wife would find out but she was coming onto in public I would probably cuck my wife. For sure actually.

She'd ruin my life and I'd be so happy.

Thanks man its for you. I hope it brought you value.

yeah man, crazy shit happens. I just made a couple bands on bitcoin which wouldn't have happened but I just said fuck it and acted on my beliefs. Make your money work and look for interesting problems to solve

Proud of you user

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This is a lie, humans are social creatures and we all need to be liked and loved to function. If you are an ugly low sex appeal beta, nobody likes you by default, so why even try?

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It doesn't matter because there are literally more than 7 billion people on the planet.

Being a small, scared loser might've been a winning strategy when we roamed in like 20 people bands and if you got kicked out because someone didn't like you then you starved to death.

But you can meet thousands of people a day if you wanted to.

You have literally no reason to sit around feeling sorry for yourself because you're "awkward" or "ugly". Go practice your social interaction and stop making up excuses for why you're a loser.

I've always found her to be a disgusting sow.
>sloppy teats
>guy
>she even has a fucking pig's nose
One of the few porn stars that's never done anything at all for me. Different strokes for different folks, though.

>gut*

she's not so good in still images. Her zeal is her appeal.

I'm more of a girl next-door guy, personally.

You do know your favorite pornstar married a black guy right? Its no wonder why she did so many videos with them.

God I love Gianna

Inn a sjw, but I don’t think that means what you think it means. It’s harder for gay and trans people to find employment, and they are often discriminated against by landlords and the like.

Yes and that is wrong. But its never been easier to be them. I'm taking about genderqueer and otherkin and shit. tail wagging the dog

Pretty sure those people only exist on the internet. I’m a trans girl and I face some discrimination in the workplace.

But anyway you were talking to the guys here about things like female privilege and the like, so it just struck me as strange that you’d harp on sjws.

Living in a very conservative area it feels impossible to find a real boyfriend. Guys won’t date you because of what their friends and family might think. You’re basically just a sex doll to them :/

If men here can complain about women ruling the world or whatever I wonder what that means for me :P

namefagging

blog posting

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letter to (You)
Me? i born leader never leave the block without my heater got two big pits i call them my bitch nigga eaters

thats my favorite tupac song.

PLEEEEEEASE RECONSIDER FO YOU DIE

What dieting method worked best for you?

-when cutting weight

its just a fucking intro faggot if this is your favorite 2pacs song you have no clue,kys

how far up your own ass do you have to be to unironically write this much generic self-help shit

makavelli is really underrated desu hail mary comes after that shit its a song lol

enough to get you to respond in anger.

alternate day fasting, cut out added sugars, fake sugars, flour and corn syrup. Breakfast is for gaining weight, just eat nuts and fruit and cheese when your hungry. Drink a lot of water. Calories are bullshit, your body doesn't do anything unless hormones tell it to. Don't eat foods that tell your body to store fat. AKA don't spike your insulin. Insulin directly corresponds to weight gain. so do the opposite.

whatever dude,read more,work hard,get your money,disregar hoes and be loyal to those who are loyal to you

Yo OP I appreciate you bro, I can see a lot of my own trajectory in your story and your post gives me hope that we'll all leave this shithole and make it

hope doubles chances of everything.

thanks for the advice op. definitely opened my eyes. so as an 18 y/o whos halfway through first year of college, how do i make good friends? and how to meet new people and get gf? i struggle with getting out there, and once out there, im a total sperg. i can't seem to find many interesting clubs, and those that i find im just a total sperg in. halp. i just wanna make long-lasting and deep relationships.

as a sophomore who was a chad in high school but fucked up my freshmen year and is just getting it back together -

put yourself out there. Try and get into 'exclusive' organizations, whether those are social frats or professional organizations that relate to your major. that gives a reason for people to identify with you and they'll have to interact with you.

people in college want to be around energy, they have shared objectives of graduating and still have dreams themselves. don't be a ball of stress, be on your purpose.

Theres no way out of pain first of all so immediately start with accepting that. Now. What kinds of pain do you want? Is it gonna hurt more if you do the things you have urges to do? or to not do them?

It sounds like your current principles and ideas are not serving you well. So the scientific method would tell you to alter the factors and take not of the changes.

I'd start with trying a club or activity that usually frightens or intimidates you but something inside says that you may like it or would enjoy being skilled at it. For me this was music, and it started a long twisty road that finally going somewhere three years and a lot of trial and error later. I also really enjoyed boxing and it helped me build a lot of confidence over time.

So start there, maybe for you its so some sort of art that may make you feel exposed? Maybe you could try a team sport where you are depended on? Maybe its completely unrelated to your major, and maybe it seems to have no bearing on any skill or tactic in the "real world."

As for friends, just make sure that the people you surround yourself with want you to succeed. Make the tribe stronger, and you'll accrue power and everyone will value your company.

Women: accrue more power and be frugal with the attention you give women. Make them earn it. Treat it kinda like they treat sex (if they're smart).

this is really good advice