>New Years is coming up
>introverted as fuck
>Gf insisting I find us a nice place to go to for new years in Boston
>Can't be fucked to look anything up
Who the fuck cares so much about this shit? Why? I just want to go watch Jim Jefferies at the WIlbur theatre. How do I even "find something to do"? It just seems like a chore.
>New Years Eve Resolution thread general
You sure are a whiny, lazy-ass motherfucker. How do you ever get anything done?
I like how its your responsibility to find something to do, when Youre the one not wanting to.
Find something you want to do and suggest it. Other ise tell her to find something, since she is the one wanting to do something.
hi i am 22 going to a bar in chicago for NYE.
girlfriend bought me a blazer for christmas. should i wear it out?
only concern is that i look like im trying too hard
thx Veeky Forums
stop using "introverted" as an excuse to get out of social arrangements, you're just a dick
This is pretty much the struggle with her. She can't manage on her own or something.
How does this make me a dick at all. Are you a retard who managed to figure out how to use Veeky Forums?
Sounds like youre her dad or something. If she wants to go out on New years so badly, why can't she find a party? Either that or you can go to the show you wanted to see.
You ungrateful fuck. I'd love to have a gf who would force me into social encounters, especially on New Year's. Be happy that you have this opportunity and search for a goddamn party to go, it's not that hard with Google or Facebook.
Stay home comfy AF and play vidya. Send her out with Jamal and Malik. Everyone has good times. Happy New Year
do this, OP
Am back home for summer. Friends here want to travel to a city about 5 hours away for a party, if i go I am pretty sure I could fug a thicc gril but on the other hand I don't know that group of people that well and I don't know them well enough to travel 5 hours for them
Other option is taking my chances in my uni city and maybe getting laid (but not definitely)
Wat do
is the 1st of january always a monday
>Are you a retard who managed to figure out how to use Veeky Forums?
low iq dick detected, sorry mate
Just do what everyone else does on NYE and get a handle of whiskey and a ball of coke , my gf and I have been doing this for the last 5 years and she s never disappointed. Once were drunk and high as fuck we usually end up going to a bar or someone's house party
Yeah mate. Sounds like you're self conscious about what other people think about you.
Dress well. You won't "pull it off" the first night. Should get incrementally better though. You'll feel good doing it.
>tfw wife and I do that literally every Friday
You lame as fuck if you only go all out and party once a year lmao
Go big or go home senpai. bless up
Come to my house
I'm wealthy and live 15 mins outside of Boston. I'll fuck her while you watch. It'll be great
> omg my woman cannot make decisions
> woman
> decisions
> literally doesn't even know what a woman is
look bro... women do not want a fellow human, they want Daddy to dictate life to them and put down their tantrums with spanking followed by disciplinary chokefuck.
You're welcome
I have no internal drive to hang out with other people. I don't get satisfaction at this time in my life from it. So I'm closed off to going out. She's forcing it on me, and worse, wants me to do the leg work to do the thing I don't want to do. This guy gets it.
So exactly what are you picking up on? Or is your high IQ not high enough to articulate it :)
Break up with her
>not in any way shape or form Veeky Forums related
or just KYS
Honestly this senpai. I've been having a hard time coming to terms with having a girlfriend like this. I imagine it comes from myself not being totally independent and self sufficient yet? Like you need to be able to bring order yourself before you can bring order to someone else.
This made me laugh thanks.
That's kinda what having a woman is like 85% of the time.
You need to do most of the work because they're basically functionally retarded and can't make decisions.
no dragonball super episode this weekend, nye already destroyed, i have an invite but i just hate people, fun and eating
I've considered it. This parasitic nature of hers is what most gets in the way of our great chemistry.
WHY MATE, FUCK. HOW DO I LEARN THIS SKILL IN AN EFFICIENT WAY. It's not just to make decisions, but to have initiative, and to think theirs thoughts for them in some subliminal way. It's just parasitic and gets fucking exhausting, detracting from an otherwise great /human/, e.g. equal, relationship.
I'm probably just making it into a bigger deal than it is.
It's not a meme that most women don't know what they want. However they are susceptible to trends/fads/groupthink (men are too just not the same). Figure out what her friends are doing and copy them or watch some chick romance movie and copy that. Or tell her to fuck off and wait for her to suck down chads load in a few months.
You're stupid.
You're going to look really out of place in a bar. Likely your girlfriend knows this already. Just wear a nice jacket dawg.
I'm gonna go Steve Pavlina's route and stop focusing on women, my girlfriend, as much as I do altogether. He argues that we should live for ourselves, for our Purpose, and women, or relationships, are secondary to that purpose.
Thus if I have a women, great. If I don't, not my focus either way.
So if she wants to go out and I don't, she should figure it out. It's not my responsibility.
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Maybe this is why women are such cunts nowerdays. Because men aren't focusing on themselves, on their growth, whatever their purpose is. Like giving a child too much attention, you spoil them.
Brainlet pls go
Stop going to the gym and focus on advanced calisthenics. I'd rather keep my money for food and porn, especially bc California basically decriminalized knowingly giving someone aids... So sex is not safe anymore
You're stupid.
Gf is taking me out to dinner because I took us out last weekend. Feels good man
Depends on how long you've known her. If you've been together for several months now, just wear the blazer and an outfit that matches. You'll look nice, she'll see that you like the gift, and you're not trying too hard because you already have a gf...