Be honest

>Be honest
>At this stage of life
>How come you don't have a gf?
>Is it the competition or you just never try?

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>or you just never try?
Yeah that

>want to fix myself before getting a gf
>always find new issues to fix

it is an endless cycle, at least I get the occasional hookup

Have kids, divorcing after a few years separated. Had a gf for a year of that but left her. Idk how to explain to women I have children already without getting blown off.

You're too busy thinking about yourself.

I'm 33 and never had a long term gf. Basically we are the outcasts of society and the cure for us is kys. That is the cure. It's painful when you realize who you are in society status role.

Wasted a lot of time on someone I shouldn't have in 2017.

I feel like when I meet the right girl, I'll know she's the right girl. All I've met these past few years are stuck up girls who have nothing to offer except dull conversations and a massive sense of entitlement. I'm better off alone than I would be with them.

I have a question regarding this and staying single

Would you find a gf who is below you in the social class? Meaning she is still poor from her family upbringing and you are successful?

How do you manage that relationship

I never try, too much trouble. Been in a long term relationship before, not looking for another.
Just hooking up for now. Also, women are fucking broken, but that's my inner incel speaking.

What's with the greentext you stupid nigger

imma get a gf next year.
I've been avoiding girls because I was hairy skinnyfat lanklet with gyno. Had the surgery and been going to the gym now for two years and I'm finally starting to get comfortable with my body. Also started laser hair removal this month. Next year I'm moving out of my parent's house and after that I have no more excuses not to look for a gf.
I been working my ass off and I can feel my smv increasing, while girls my age are already summiting. Feels good man

how old are you? and how did the surgery go? i feel like i'm in a very similar position, but i've only recently started improving myself.

>hooked up with a qt and fucked up during sex
>doesn't like me anymore

Goddammit how do I get good

because my life is in shambles and I have no desire to add more stress to it

I have a fwb but I've never had a gf. Guess I'm just kind of more picky when it comes to dating, plus being introverted

I dumped her lol. Also learn to greentext newfag.

Please develop.

Why do you think having a gf is an accomplishment lmao?

Are you really that sad?

ive NEVER so much as spoken to a women my own age

I am too good at seeing red flags. The girls who I easily attract all have broken minds...like me.
>drugs, cigs, tattoos
All no no for me. Good fuckfriends but no more. I want a partner, not a patient. I'm currently chasing a younger / quieter girl. 2018 will be the year of the gf.

I just want to accomplish money independence. I dont want to work forever or anyone from my family.

Its not about an accomplishment, how do you live with yourself when you figure out to be a normal man in society you have to date and not be sucked into the porn world. When you as a man don;t go outside and talk to women you have failed as a man, how do you move past this and just try to talk to women.

I waited too long to realize this

I've only ever known one (1) girl my entire life, and she just moved back to her own country
20 years old btw
I hate having anxiety issues

>>At this stage of life
>>How come you don't have a gf?
My wife would be pissed if she found out about a gf.

i tried for the first time this year, turned out she has a bf but i dunno she seemed into me

I'm too autistic to talk to women and/or when I find the balls to ask a girl out they ghost me.

Both. I lose interest fast if the convo feels too one sided and I'm a fucking pajeet, so it makes it harder for me because every retarded pajeet online asks for bobs and lasagna.

Only had two gf's in my life, and I've been single for almost 2 years now.

I'm a 27yo kv. The closest I've ever gotten to a gf was cuddling on the couch with an asian female roommate for multiple nights and sleeping in her bed one time. I didn't dare to make a move of course. Also because she said she'd never have sex with a virgin guy because she was a virgin herself and she was convinced a virgin would hurt her.

Our personalities didn't really match so I cut that off. She was really cute though..
Now I spend my life working and gaming. I don't like alcohol and hate going out to bars/clubs, so I don't meet any girls besides online who live 5 countries away.

Tough decision, since previously you wouldn't unless she was really beautiful. Men don't really get a choice to decide now unless you're into fatties. It's all fucked up now with hypergamy though... women who are actually appropriate think themselves worthy of Brad Pitt and won't "settle" so they unfortunately end up lonely cat lady hags or single mothers with Chad's kid. I'd be fine with some trailer trash desu, though I'm upper middle class in terms of income and intelligence. In the hopes that she'd be more greatful... dudes just want to be appreciated for the value they bring... but it's like now a woman is a traitor to her gender if she appreciates a man. Feels bad

>She was convinced a virgin would hurt her
Fucking pussy.

same.

wow this board really is full of fucking dyel redditors when no one fucks on the regular and no one calls out OP for that travesty of a greentext

>have female roommate
>doesn't fuck her
Come on, breh. I wasn't even attracted to my roommate and we still boned every time we drank because it was ezpz

Can you go in detail? You're claiming I have some kind of disability or mental issue?

I dont want the girls that want me and the girls I want dont want me

I play life in veteran mode, I aim for above my league, I'm a 6/10 but shamelessly aim for 9/10 girls. I have scored a 9/10 before.

Idgaf, not settling yet.

every girl i find worthy of dating has a long term bf or a kid

>tfw 28

>I have scored a 9/10 before.
You've done nothing unless she starts spitting out your spawn.

I'm aware of that, I'm refining my game and improving myself to scale leagues.

Looking for the one to impregnate.

Honestly im a rocker and i want to get a rocker gf that isnt a whore. The only way i can think of getting a gf like that is going to concerts since i just work. Any tips?

Just got a gf
Feels good brehs

She told me all this shit after she knew I was a virgin, so I felt like a gay bff at that point.

It was more a housemate I guess. We were 16 people in a student house in total. Each our own room.

>We were 16 people in a student house in total
Fuark
Yeah it was just me and her in a 2x2

>girl has been interested in me for 2 years
>5/10 but seems nice
>only personality flaw is using emojis all the time
>today find out that she's single
I'm gonna do it, lads. Next time I see her irl I'm talking to her. Been tfwnogf for 3 years and might be ready to give this another shot

same

Fucked for 1st time in 2017, so it was gud.

well dubs... but why kys, not everything is about women

I don't like alcohol and hate going out to bars/clubs, so I don't meet any girls besides online who live 5 countries away.

ma nugga, I do go out but I never see anything worthy of my attention there. Its just girls with noses in the sky.

Id rate myself high, but I never been with a 9 and I do go after them since getting blown off by 9 hurts less than when a mediocre girl rejects u. Always go for 9s and 10s and I love it. Cant be bothered with anything less now, havent seen a 9 in ages so I havent approached for some time now.
God bless u for being a man not a pussy "buuilding his" whatever.

hahaha similar situ, many girls I knew or approached have been in relations for ages.

when I see a body and face solid like hers, BUT TATTOOS, then I wonder why did she shat on herself...

Girls ruin themselves with smoking cigs and tattoos, both of which are rampant today.

Man, I AM SO ANGRY WOMEN DONT RECOGNIZE how awesome they could be if the had dignity and self respect...

>rocker gf
>not a whore
I have bad news for you my friend. T. Guy who fucks rocker whores.

just make sure you don't just settle.
if you still don't feel any sparks flying after a couple weeks you're better off just staying friends and so on.

I'm sorry I laughed at your comment, but you made me feel better

>well dubs... but why kys, not everything is about women

It really is all about women and men coming together

If you are single in society you are a literal failure and you are nothing to society

>rocker gf
>not a whore
nigga be out there looking for cryptids

do it fag

The foundation of my insecurities go so far back, and is so fucked up i won't even explain it.

Let's just say
>be gay
>be dating cute guy who left gf to be more with me
>Girl from cafeteria seeked me out and starts spamming me
>girl starts popping up together with him all out of a fucking sudden
>he starts ditching me for her
>they break up
>i'm fucking torn how someone i love can just drop me stone cold like that
>turns out she was fucking him to make ME jealous of him so i'd date her.
>literally get so pissed i fullon ignore him even though we're in the same class at that point
>this bitch started avoiding me once i started threatening her.
>the dude kept chasing me for 3 years telling me how much he missed me and how much he looked up to me.

You just can't make this shit up.
Fast forward a couple years and i'm in a similar situation.

lol keep believing that if it helps u

>gf
>not a whore
wew

Well can you share some actual wisdom with me?

You think being single is alright and even if you are a social outcast it doesn't matter? You realize in public, when you are alone you are the failure in the room no matter what else you have accomplished you are always alone

23 got the surgery at 21. Should've had it asap, but I was embarrassed by it so I kept putting it off

It sounds like chaos, but it was actually rather doable. If anyone made too much noise after midnight, others would tell them to stfu.

But yeah I should've just tried to get laid. This was the first time I cuddled with a girl watching a movie though. Wasn't prepared for a sleepover

>pic related

If you are under 30 don't even bother getting a serious gf. Just be a fuckboi. Bang and bail. (Even if you gotta lie and deceive to do it)

Emotional investment is the worst thing you can put yourself through unless you are going for the long haul and slowly work out the problems/differences in the relationship in order to live with them the rest of your life.

If you focus on yourself and your career by the time you are 30 you can have enough money to get whatever young qt to support and just have her as your permanent fuck toy.

But user I want a woman I can have a conversation with. Read books faggot.

Woman WANT to be supported and led by a male. Darwinian evolution

thinking like that only creates anxiety

you define success for urself. Mainly the problem with guys is they make women their mission in life, where women are just a company u keep while being on your mission.

Of all those "guys in the room who arent single" how many are happy? How many are in relationships that benefit them? smaller part. And the more defined u are as a man, the more u seek in a woman. And that has to be taken into account. Some of us were virgins for long since we didnt meet an equal. And we wanted.

You gotta believe in things that make u be productive. beliefs create habits and behavior, if u keep bad beliefs, u will just spiral until u kys or just be sad entire life.

>u will just spiral until u kys or just be sad entire life.

I'm starting to feel it now. I've had a bad week with women and social shit and now I'm having a hard time coming back to being myself. I am single, and actually successful. Turning 30 next year, feel like my whole life is fucked up now

I feel like its over for me so I want to know what else is there for someone like me

All I do is work, shitpost and use Veeky Forums/forums
I need to step outside more often and get a dog. I need to start living again, I also have some major investments going great right now so I dont know what to do anymore

Anyway thanks for listening, I'm going to head out for a few hours. I need to try and clean up my life today

I've been spiraling downward pretty badly

i had a buddy i haven't talked to since high school (we're 27 now)

seen him go through 2 serious relationships on fb and has a kid with both. both white chicks with huge tits

he randomly messaged me one day saying he wishes he had my life after i posted pics of my new motorcycle

>tfw no gf or kids
>haven't had sex in 2 years

YOu can improve it man, just take small steps every day. Read Power of YOur Subconscious mind, by Joseph Murphy. It will change your life. It did mine and many others.

Remember, hapiness is habit, for 30 days do something that is conducing to your happiness, that is healthy and good, and watch ur world change.

the grass always seems greener on other side, but that is just the way light reflects hahahaha

Many guys are in dead end marriages, mgtow channels have stories upon stories about ex players or regular men who fucked themselves royally.

I know 2 players who made a kid and are now married to a woman, if you knew the type youd know they will never change. Its only a matter of time be4 they cheat or divorce.

Trust me Ive seen a lot and heard a lot of those stories, being single and without debt is the new royalty.

> or you just never try?
Pretty this desu...

No hobbies where I meet women. Been hanging out with the same group of friends for like 8 years. Honestly, just not a lot of opportunities to meet one.

There's a really cute chick at work that I'm askin out when I get another job. Not really getting the vibe that she's into me like that, but we've hung out outside of work a couple times and she's fun. So, i'll just go for it anyway.

>being single and without debt is the new royalty.

I'm worth millions and not even 30 yet, I feel like a failure for tfw no gf. You sure living alone is so great

Because I never try, even when I know the girl likes me.

I'm scared of failure.

Also I don't even feel the drive to do so. I met "the right girl" once and I nailed everything. Broke up after a year.

Haven't met a single girl like her since.

...it's been 3 years. All my friends laugh at me because they go from girl to girl, when they break up with "the love of their life" they find a new one in a week.

What the fuck is wrong with me

I got my first gf recently, but she's just way too independent for me

Because in my old city I had two FWB set up. That shit was so tight. Having two sources of pussy on the reg beats a gf any day.

Now that I've moved states I want to set up a FWB situation with three girls. I'd feel like such a pimp if I could fuck a rotation of three women on the regular.

I'm 31 and madly in love with my ex gf from 8 years ago. We were together for little over one year and from my perspective she was perfect.
Exactly my type of girl, short, dark hair, dark eyes, almond shaped face, freckles, super cute with bubbly personality.

She broke up with me because I was immature and cold I guess. I had no job, but being from a quite rich family my parents paid for my flat, car and basically everything else which allowed me to basically jerk off and vegetate.
I still think of her everyday and get the same fucking void in stomach like on the day she broke up with me. I had a few short term gf's since then but I just can't live a lie.

I had one until three days ago.But don't worry I'm doing fine.

>has a kid
Don't be a cuck. Don't raise another man's children. If she has kids, don't even talk to her.

Exactly this

I only ever think about gf when I see threads about them
pls don't make these threads

/thread desu

I know what i want, and lack the gumption to get it.

ya i'm 19 prob gonna try to get it by the time im 20. how much did it cost you? $5k-ish?

24. My priorities make it so that I must improve myself as much as possible before I look for a mate. Between work, bands and staying Veeky Forums, I don’t need to wast time with these vapid 2017 thots. I’ve had a couple long term gfs in the past and I’m still recovering from the last one who left me like 2 years ago. We’re all gonna make it. I believe in this board.

I can't find any worthy bitch, all of them are so stupid and they care about such retarded things that i know it will be a pain in the ass to give them attention.
I can hear my brother talking to his gf via phone and all they do is talk about series on netflix or the last shit they ate, i find that it is just a waste of time, i have to study and enjoy my life while i don't need to work.

Good height
Average bod
Decent face, but completely fucked up by acne and blemishes

But really it boils down to me being autistic, depressed, anxious, and paranoid

I'm just not even remotely a desirable person and have pretty much nothing to offer another person

>meet great girl
>she has bf currently long distance
>am still beta
It pains me bros, we've gotten along and she's the only grill I've been able to "bee urself" around and she gets my humor. fuk

Being in your 20's with zero experience in pursuing women and not knowing how anything works is 10/10

Stop complaining. Get some hobbies it starts with hobbies.

then why don't you do something about it? Doesn't sound like it'd take much work. You're already on a self-help board anyways.

if i had the money or a place for my self i would fuck hookers like crazy

What the fuck is this thread you all need to kill yourselves wtf

I dont know where I went wrong user but at this point I have gone so far down that path it really doesnt matter anymore. when you are constantly wearing a hoodie, go to the gym at 3AM at night and people cross the street when they come home from the club I dont know what there is to say at this point. I go to the gym in the middle of the night with my hood covering my face moving heavy ass weight and people avoid me. I am in pain both physically and mentally but how would they know ? they only acknowledge my presence in the brief moment when I move the weight that is the only time I am visible for these normies. As soon as I enter the gym they are in my world and they are just visitors they arent living it and how could they. Yesterday I unironically listened to the Requiem for a Dream soundtrack while lifting and it felt like the soundtrack leading me down my path of self destruction. I even once had a qt girl wanting to talk to me but I am so far removed from this world it felt like she was talking to me from another plane of existance.

youtube.com/watch?v=CgUbpCH37bU

>Decent face, but completely fucked up by acne and blemishes
Easily fixable. Sleep facing upwards, wash your face everyday starting with hot water to open pores and cold water to close them, and buy a 2.5% salicylic acid astringent to clean out everything. Your self-esteem is very poor bro, you gotta work on that because it's extremely important. Your character is the foundation of absolutely everything. Realize that you are genuinely worth something. Personally I say you should do drugs because they helped me immensely with my anxiety and self-esteem problems. 25 mgs of morphine will change everything for you.

Had me up until the drugs thing
Otherwise, pretty heartfelt advice

I hate the holidays, whenever I am at home sitting in my parents basement and occasionally going out with a few people I feel so useless and get depressed quickly, even if I do something somewhat productive with my free time.

I just wanna get back to work, back to improving myself every single day. fuck christmas and new years I dont wanna sit around with friends and family I wanna go to work and be successfull. this feelgood bullshit wont get me anywhere.

I never thought I would feel this way but fuck videogames, fuck being lazy, fuck sitting in this shitty room, fuck drinking let me free I want to work on my dreams.

There's nothing wrong with venting as long as you're trying to better your situation. If not, you just come off as an insincere attention whore. We're on Veeky Forums so you can at least give the benefit of the doubt to the anons here that they're really attempting something exemplary for themselves.

I never try. I bet I could get me a gf easily if I did tho. It's just too much of a hassle to go out every other night besides school and work and try and chat up girls in hopes that one day one of them will let me smash. If one day I meet a girl I really like I guess I will try. For now I just fap away #tfwnogf and I'm good.

Yeah I can completely understand that. It has a terrible subculture and they're a magnet for irresponsible people just asking for their lives to be ruined but they helped me a lot in my case. Totally silent about the stuff in social situations. Anyways I legit believe you can find your way regardless of whichever path you choose, so start the New Year with a bang. For some reason I have an excellent feeling about 2018. Let's get shit done

How in the fuck do you have a fwb while being an introvert? Shouldn't it be the opposite, shouldn't you have a gf at most? Fwbs are extroverted chad tier.

€2700 wasn't covered by my insurance

got my first girlfriend about a month and a half ago

we started out as college grads, both of us were unemployed and looking for jobs. since we had a lot of time we always went to the gym together, became pretty close.

both got feelings and started dating. this is my first one, i really have no idea what the fuck im doing but i hope i can make it last

I don't find it hard getting a gf, I just don't want just anyone as a gf.
I don't care much about looks, but when it comes to personality, I'm picky as fuck.
Until I find a soulmate, I'd rather remain single, and just get laid whenever the opportunity strikes/when I'm super horny.

what if you have no mission?
life just feels like a never ending cycle of superficial bullshit