Veeky Forums feels new year edition

No, I read my ban reason, and it said that I posted in a relationship/mental health thread. That was all. ...so apparently there is to be no thread such as these on Veeky Forums. It's off-topic. Go baww somewhere else.

>blunt answers from Oneitis

>waiting ban hammer
>if i can't talk about my feels here, i don't have no one
>feelsbadman.png

There's hope. Apparently there's this site where you can talk about lots of topics, other than fitness. I forgot what it's called, but it apparently has about a hundred boards that you can visit and talk to anonymous people on, just like on this board.

I honestly wish I could just be asexual desu. Girls fucking hurt.

Take the pain, bro. Evolve with it. The sooner you learn to live without caring for women in a non-sexual fashion, the better.

I didn't had friends until I was 16. And many of them were really close and good ones, but everything I could think was how stupid human being I was and I couldn't understand why they want be with me. So when I graduate I just ghosted them all. I mean I know it's not what normal person do but after being sixteen years alone it's hard to trust people.

I keep telling myself I won't even try until I'm at my peak potential. Well, I think I'm reaching the apex, and I won't have any more excuses then.

This is me

I lost 10lbs over night from drinking. I new was dehydrated and jump on the scale just for kicks this morning. It's crazy you can lose so much water weight unintentionally.

What kind of wine user?

Good one m8
>but lucky me, I found bottle of jägermeister from my cabinet
>good morning 2018

Wise, learned 27 year old sage here. It can get better user. I felt similarly when I was 25. I sometimes feel the same now. 25-28 is a horrifically turbulent time. Take time to be kind to yourself and go after you love, even in the smallest forms - go to a concert you like (even by yourself, it's not comfortable but I did it a few times and met some people), go read a book you always wanted to, take a day trip some place new. Little things like that add up and make it easier.

It may take awhile to notice the difference, but the people I count as my closest friends and have had the most fun with are people I've met over the past 2 years. You are worthy and it will get better. Your worth is not measured by the number of people around you on NYE.

Or just stop being a pussy and deadlift 500lbs. Either of those work.

You need to make the effort to find new ones. Which means some sort of social hobby where you interact with others in person.
>Group fitness (yeah it isn't Veeky Forumss idea of a good time but the cardio is still good and you get to meet other people that are at least putting some effort into their health. Lots of qt3.14s in my spin class)
>Gun club
>Run club
>Adult sports club football, baseball, soccer, etc
>Archery club
>LARP club or whatever it is called
>D&D group
>Drone or Model plane club
>Bowling club
>Religious club like knights of Columbus or something

Many options

You are a man of taste, I wish you a happy and fulfilling 2018.

I hope you found happiness and joy for your life. Have fun year, brother.

Stay home reading a book. You're not the only one senpai....

>they do it for free

> My gf who cheated on me tried to kill herself because I moved on.

All my friends, her family hate me because I didn't give her a chance. 5 years relationship ruined. Love does exist user but it's just a feeling that has an expiry date from woman to woman.

Are you a man or a woman bruh

Can you go into detail exactly how you met your friends?

Anyone else stupidly neurotic? I keep obsessing over and playing up minor flaws and it's killing me. Also there's no social interaction outside of my family so that might be why but I'm so anxious around strangers. Fucking hell there's just no way to win.

>woke up feeling like shit
>worked out to relieve the feeling
>midday felt like shit
>worked out to relieve the feeling
>before dinner feel like shit
>worked out to relieve the feeling
now I'm too tired to make it stop

I like take cock in my butt, bruh

you loser. You obviously don't understand potential. The whole point is that you *could* do something great. Nobody gives a shit about potential, they care if you actually do it. You need to work very hard to fulfill it properly and completely.

I am alone for the second year in a row. At least I have you guys

Anyway Im 24 and dont really grow hair on my cheeks. Is there anything I can do?

seriously these fit feels and mental health threads need to go on /adv/ anons.

>ex gf and I are both 30
>she's now dating a guy who's about to turn 50

Idk how to feel about this

daddy issues are real

so are pension pilferers

>21
>still living in parents house
>mom just asked why arent i going out
>dont you have any friends user ?

What a life lads

i personally take it more seriously because there are people here who are working to make their lives better. when someone vents without doing anything about their problems they come off as shallow and pathetic.

Move out as soon as possible. I think I had been waiting for too long.

> 22 year old khv
> back home from university for 2 weeks
> studying for exam on NYE while watching black pill videos
> bought minoxidil to help as my hairline has just started to recede
> self esteem lower than ever, feel like crying and hitting shit when I look at my ugly fucking face
> another year as an incel
> if only I had a few different genes my life wouldn't this miserable and I could live a happy non ugly life

feelsbadman

Realised the reason I fucked things up with my oneitis is because I was in the process of a mental breakdown without realising. Think it was because of hypomania or something. Now I'm riding a serious high though and plan to use it to dance in the New Year and then get up at the crack of dawn to lift, then go buy gear for sprinting. Gonna ask the oneitis for one more singular date to see how things are. Maybe around Valentine's. Luckily my head's in a much better place so even if she says no, I'll be okay.

Sure. I met a lot of music festival friends when I asked a coworker I was friendly with if I could go to a music festival for the first time with her a few years back. I'm not close with her any more but I met 30 solid people there out of that.

I also started going to more local electronic shows. I had to go by myself because I didn't know anyone else into that scene. The first few shows were ok but also scary/awkward because I was alone and didn't meet anyone. But it's like learning a langauge by immersion - you slowly get more comfortable as time goes on. Maybe only 1 out of 20 people you approach will be receptive (odds are usually better than that) but after 5 or 6 shows you'll know a couple people to rage with at future events.

Local activist causes and political events are always great too. Go to events and meetings about things you're passionate about or want to learn more about, and show up with an open mind ready to really listen. You may find it's not for you, but you will definitely meet like minded people there.

Even dating apps can work. Make a profile about who you truly are, not one designed to be inoffensive or attract the most people. Maybe you get a date. Maybe you meet people who you don't have a romantic vibe with but can do cool shit with.

That's been my recent journey. It's a slow process, and things don't feel like they've changed until you look back and see dramatic results. Keep your head up user, you'll find your place.

Also, there was another festival I wanted to go to but knew literally 0 people going. So I just made a reddit post asking if I could join anyone's group. After a month or so of reaching out to people I found a decent guy to go with. Turned out we didn't get along all that well (polite but not friends) but we camped next to an epic group that I'm still very close with. I would have never met those people if I didn't reach out by chance. Take a chance and reach out to strangers. It's a numbers game, so you need to really put yourself out there to find the few people you click with. But I guarantee the feeling of finding a connection is 100x better than the rejections you'll face along the way.

How can you say there's no way to win if you haven't even tried something different than what you did since you were a baby?

Maybe start with talking to people outside of your immediate family to see how little they give a shit about your flaws. That way you can begin to understand what you like and dislike about social interaction with them. From there, you can decide whether you can change the paradigm of the interactions or cease contributing to them. Then again, I'm just plain sad more often than I'm neurotic.

The sooner you move out the sooner your life chanegs and you start becoming a man

Living at home is a sin if you're not mentally ready to be an alpha male

I started changing to be a better man after I moved out of my parents house

thats some stupid shit, how can they hold you responsible? unless youre skipping some details, they're out of line.

What dating apps do you recommend? And thanks for the reply

I went to the gym from 10pm to 11pm. No one there but me, some middle-aged dyel and a swole nig regular. Then I cycled back home, bought a microwave on the internet and now I'm drinking guween tii and hoping my favorite Twitch streamer will be on tonight (he probably will, because he's a sad and ronery gym rat too for what little there's to deduct from his stream).

M8 stop blaming your fucking genes, there are people out there with much less genetic potential than you, wheather they're physically disabled mentally disabled or just plain ugly they're happy with what they got.
So keep your head up and keep fighting, we all deserve to be happy as long as we put the effort into it.
I believe in you man, don't disapoint me.

I want to call home and talk to my family, ask them how its going and wish them well wishes

I'm waking up from depression or something, i want to talk to people and treat them as people

>tfw
>nofap day 3
>Just found my absolute fetish
>Have been eating onions and garlic with cruciferous vegetables healthy fats and red meat
>Im ready to explode

Fuck that tough, next time I cum will be in a real vagina.

My man, call them and let your family know you love them. You can end 2017 and start 2018 in a great way

FUCK BRAHS

Link bruh

I too need to find some new friends because I've basically holed up in my NEETbox since I moved back to my hometown a year ago. Just sucks that this is a relatively small town and I don't have much spare income to do anything expensive. I'm thinking about joining a local HAM radio club, because I nearly took the exam in college before flunking out and it might help me with connections in my field (gonna be an electrician). It's just that the vice president of the club is my former school bully, but I guess twenty years is long enough for the wounds to have mended.

I cant call them

They'll know I woke up and my depression is gone right now i see life for what it truly is

I cant tell them, they are going out tonight and I'm alone in another state

Just input GLADIATOR in pornhub

Living with your parents is POISON.

>be me 24
>say fuck it, joined the army
>20k bonus
>3 year contract
>free school
>live far far away from home
>have army friends
>have to be atleast somewhat Veeky Forums

LIFE GOOD MANG.
>visit home for 2 week christmas vacation
>everyone has kids or their getting old and their lives are spiraling out of control
>stay with parents
>become super depressed overnight
>this whole place reminds me of so many bad memories and wasted years

I WANNA GO HOME. RIDE THE PINK CLOUD ANONS. JOIN THE MILITARY IF U WANT OUT

>>drinking vine from the bottle

Not gonna make it

Quit the alch and hit the gym early tomorrow faggot.

Yeah it's difficult as shit to make friends once you're out of school. I wish I had advice for you, but I'm in the same boat. Moved halfway across the country for work and haven't been able to make friends in the past 2 years

Mine was online two hours ago and it's already 2018 here. And you know what? Screw her, world has more for me and for you too, friend.

I use Bumble and Tinder. 99% of it is a garbage fire, don't take it too seriously. But it is a possible way to meet people.

Every time some fag pulls the "join the military" card, I die a little inside, because they won't take me back anymore, because of endless supply of conscripts. All they offer is an active reserve thingy that still leaves me responsible for my everyday life. I back in the adult daycare again reeeee.

spending it at my computer with parents in the same house. my father is mad at my mother for not wanting to go anywhere this year. I'm not going to sit in front of tv with them. listening to music, shitposting and downloading textbooks, occassionaly petting my dog to remind him everything is fine and those loud bangs outside will not hurt anybody in the house. honestly I'm just waiting for midnight to come (Eurofag here) so I can take a shower and go to sleep.

I'm quite optimistic about the future to be honest, despite being a 30 year old khv. We're all gonna make it one way or another, anons. Maybe we'll be like Zyzz, maybe we'll be a better version of ourselves. But it's gonna be good.

the online get-together sites like events & adventures, meetup, etc. are actually surprisingly good for this kind of thing

sometimes you just end up with existing friend groups that are trying to get laid, but most of the time it's a good way of meeting new people

My OCD is driving me mad. Right after the clock strikes midnight I'll have to pray to tell God I won't be praying in my mind in 2018. Otherwise, I'll keep thinking I've started a prayer and have to end it before I say something vulgar or see something sexual.

If i lift hard enough someone will love me, right?

Turned 30 this year. Spending my new years working. I'm slowly losing touch with all my old friends due to everyone getting married and having kids.

I'm still single and feel like I have lost connection with everyone, every girl I've dated this year has kind of fizzled out. The little friends I have, I have nothing in common with. They are either married or like to play video games or smoke weed all damn day.

Falling into a deep depression but I'm hoping this will pass with time.

partially tore a muscle/ligament in my elbow.
Hadn't lifted in almost a month
hold me Veeky Forums

This. I have like 2 friends from school but many more through sports.

I've been sick since last Wednesday, gym has been closed so I've just been at my house since then. I got significantly better today and I thought about hitting up my one friend that I usually go drinking with and then I asked myself what's the fucking point. More than half the time I wanna hang out he's doing some other bullshit and never gets back to me. Other friends have either moved away or have girlfriends and are doing shit on their own. And while part of me is curious of what could happen and what kind of night I might have, the honest part of me admits that I just don't wanna fucking do it. It's cold as fuck outside and I still have a lingering cough that I would just spread to other people and I don't want to go out and deal with a bunch of manlet twinks and thots when I could be warm and drinking on my couch instead without people fucking bothering me, listening to music I actually like. It's not like I ever get laid because I'm far too ugly and autistic for that to ever work out. It's not even that I would rather be out and doing these things, I'm genuine about enjoying my night in, but I feel guilty about enjoying it because normalfags have planted these ideas in my head about how even if you're a fucking sperg you should still be out there approaching women so they can have the privilege of laughing in your face when you fail.

Fuck I just want to lift heavy things and be left alone

I've somehow managed to have fallen ill again to where I'm house-ridden on the same day. So I get to be home for the rest of the evening and night.

Not him but reading a book's a good idea, senpai, I'm gonna take that

>urticaria when exposed to extreme temperatures
>can’t even excercise for 10 minutes without breaking out in hives
FUCKFUCKFUCKUFKCIJXKXKJ
Wtf did I do to be cursed like this?

Yes, you will.

2017 was a better year than average for me, it started off shitty but got better, but I'm already in a bad mood about 2018 and something tells me it's going to be another absolute dogshit year for me. Yes yes I know it's all about attitude but even during times where my I've kept a positive outlook my instinct has been right, and vice versa. There seems to be a pattern too based on previous years.

>2010- bretty gud
>2011- kinda shitty
>2012- little better
>2013- absolute dogshit
>2014- bretty gud
>2015- decent then dogshit
>2016- complete garbage heap of a year aside from the election

I feel like I exhausted the grace period and we're back to the usual next year.

Your life sucks lol nothing like visiting my mother for a month or two in her husband house up in the mountain, fresh air, my little brother, and my mom, I feels like a king eating best meals in this planet, no shit to bother with, running up the mountain, lifting in the grass, beach is very close so I have that too...it's great.

Setting goals and achieving them will build confidence and women love confidence

>Go to a NYE festival.
>Get a few mires here and there
>realize that I am disgusted and they look like my ex who was a huge degenerate
>realize that most of them are like that
>one woman starts shaking her ass into my direction
>ignore it and a literal nigger goes to her
>she tries to ignore him first to see how I respond, I dont
>she continues on dancing with a nigger
>most other women have a variation of "LOOK AT MY EYE LASHES IM PRETTY, PLS FUCK ME"

and not a single one of them tried to be cute.

Same, sucks so bad. Pic attached is me after literally 5 minutes of walking from my bus to the first building on campus in the cold :( had to undress in the bathroom just to deal with the pain.

Taking allergy medication and sticking to short interval exercise like HIIT helps.

You shave your legs? I mean I take cock in my ass and even I don't do that. Fucking faggot.

I'm a girl.

Oh.

>get shitfaces with buddies
>steal green plastic shark from public park because it looked like pepe
this year seems promising lads, hope u have good time too lads
w-we are gonna make it

Do you like to take cock in your butt?

no step pon grammar cuz im half dead

So let me be clear, yes you're a faggot?

yeah, actually.

no, actually.

>I'm a girl.

>>Do you like to take cock in your butt?
>yeah, actually.
>>So let me be clear, yes you're a faggot?
>no, actually.
I'm so fucking confused bro

>return from visiting family for 2 weeks
>sticc gf has a gained a little weight
>it all went to her ass
Im pretty happy

t. heterosexual, non-tranny girl who's into anal.

Is it better when you take cock in your shithall or in your babyhole?

Fuark thanks breh

pls respond

checked
I think you may need to find that out yourself user

But how, m8

Trial and error user, see how she likes it.