When was the last time your father told you he was proud of you?

When was the last time your father told you he was proud of you?

He tells me all the time, but it's shallow. I know I'm behind where I need to be. $10,000 in student loan debt, living with him. It's holding me back but I'm paying off about $2k a month. Soon I'll be done I can move out with my QT3.14 and be a real man.

Never. But to be honest, I've never accomplished anything worthwhile.

Maybe it isn't shallow though because you need to hear it now when you're downtrodden

My father has never told me he was proud of me fuck you dad REEEEEEEE

never he's never even said that he's loved me

>implying there was a first time

i dont think he ever has, but then again he has nothing to say that about. 25 year old kissless virgin who still lives at home, been a shut-in most of my life, have a shit job, and im always upset/angry which comes of to my parents and he hates that

he may be kind of a shitty person who probably deserved getting a worthless loser like me as a son, but i feel sorry for him that he ended up with me as his only child

A year ago before he went to jail

Not long before he died almost two months ago.

I feel empty every day.

Never directly but he shows it in various ways. Right now I haven't done much to make him proud. But I will.

About an hour ago. He was drunk, but eh.

I love my Dad, he's done so much and put up with so much for me.

I'm sorry user

This

But my dad is also a soyboy so he never expected anything nor pushed me as a child

That would be never.

He tells me a lot. Based dad. Though he's a pushy bastard too, so that makes sense.

A few weeks ago he told me he was proud of how I dealt with my 21yo best friend getting diagnosed with cancer and I'm acting like a man about it

>t. Healthy father son relationship

Like a week ago. Shit was cash. Dad rules.

Just curious, how are you acting when you are acting like a man about it?

not ever that i recall. does however show it.
actions speak louder than words, i feel a bond that need not be spoken is stronger than one that need linguistic affirmation

never

never had one

Being understanding of what she needs and not letting anything I'm going through affect that. Before she started chemo we were hanging out nearly daily and in an intense friendship (boardering on nonplatonic) which resurfaced my feelings for her. Then she started chemo and now she's too tired to see anyone really so I've essentially had to drop all contact with her.

She went from the most import person in my life to someone I have to give as much distance as possible in a day or two. That shit hurt breh but I'm trying to do the right thing

it wouldn't mean shit coming from him

Never, my family is too autistic to say things like that.