I'm engaged at 23, how fucked am I?

I'm engaged at 23, how fucked am I?

Also, fitness goals:
One arm chin, full side splits, lean until abs show at any lighting.

>engaged at 23

that's nothing op I g ot engaged at 20

>engaged at 23
Bruh, why?

This is the voice of experience, break it off now. Women change when they get married and it is not for the better.

>vai encarar?

kkkkkk fldp

Thanks for your retarded redpill advice. Women don't immediately become fat and lazy instantly after getting married.

You were warned, user.

Not at all. You've (I assume) found true love and you have the balls to stick with it

There is absolutely no reason a man should want to be married in 2018. Good luck when you get divorced and lose everything you own and potentially have a leech on your income for life. Give me 3 reasons why getting married is a good idea and ill give you 3 dozen why its not.

>muh tru wuv

I was married at 21. It's nice if your wife is cool but every woman is different. 95% of the people saying marriage is inherently bad will jerk off to trap porn alone tonight

Only a good idea if she was a virgin with strong family and traditional values otherwise you're cucked for lyfe.

Tell me about your wife user. How did you know she was good marriage material?

We had gone to school together and had been friends since kindergarten. We knew everything about each other and by high school we had really grown together. We have the same goals and ambitions, which is probably the most important part of a marriage

Plus she's 5'9 so I'm almost guaranteed longboi children

sad that you'll only realize that after the divorce

Some additional info from OP:

She's kind of a traditional small town farm raised girl, she is unintentionally a little redpilled and once said "feminists and communists are the same thing", she is also very submissive in bed and horny for me, and will do whatever I want. She cooks well and often, sleeps early, and doesn't like parties.

She is also a little bit of a loner and kind of an aspie socially. Roman Catholic, not really that practicing though. Petite and sort of skinny fat with nice tits and green eyes and a very pretty face. She once competed in track and soccer but now is kinda sedentary, will weight train if we're together and I'm pushing her.

So what's your 2 cents?

So basically, you're saying that you got married to a girl that you've known literally your entire life. And you're trashing on the rest of us for not trusting random thots?

>"feminists and communists are the same thing"

this is such a retarded statement, i hope you educate your illiterate woman a little bit.

She's Catholic and can cook what more do you need, lock that up asap

20s is too young for a guy to be getting married or having children. You’re still a fucking kid yourself. Just don’t do it.

Are you a lesbian? I was certain you were a girl based on your fitness goals

I'm trashing the virgins who don't even try to find a wife and the retards who target thots and wonder why it didn't work out. You don't need to be high school sweethearts if you're compatible.

Damn. That's a tough one.

She has many qualities that indicate that she's a potentially good woman with self respect and standards of dignity, but at the same time, rather than redpill she seems to have experienced life through others peoples' perspectives (her family for example.

user, if you feel like she's good material to raise a familiy, and her dreams and aspirations in life are more or less on par with yours. I'd say go for it.

I'm assuming not everyone on here is a NEET or college fag. Some of us have been making big boy decisions since 18 user

you literally hit the jackpot and you're trying to give advice to others, just stfu. The older you get the harder is to connect with people, you out of all people is the last one to be listened when it comes to any form of relationship advice.

But in the America it is the same thing, user.

Catholic girls are good, she sounds nice.

>Wow it didn't work out between us, she really is horrible
>I guess it's all because we married
>She'd be the perfect angel she was before the marriage otherwise, wouldn't have changed at all

You realize that all this fucking "hurr durr marriage destroys everything" is just confirmation bias? When you don't marry and just break up, it's not seen as such a big deal. When you marry and break up it's BECAUSE YOU MARRIED!!!111

Fucking teenagers and 30 year old bitter virgins on this board.

Sounds like wife material and the Catholic part is good for avoiding a divorce when she'll inevitably gets a midlife crisis and decides to get out of her aspie shell.

Make sure you earn more money than her and you're set.

Congrats. You made it. All the good ones are taken by 25.

My 2 cents is that you're a pretty lucky guy user. I hope you two will have a long happy marriage.

>I'm engaged at 23, how fucked am I?

Not fucked at all. If your woman is your age or younger, her eggs won't be all dusty by the time you're married and start having kids. Don't fall for the "don't settle down" meme.

>brazilian
Not at all, it's a normal age

It might not be relevant to you but some anons might give up an opportunity like mine to chase strange, I'm just trying to give some perspective into why that's a terrible idea

Man, if you live in a fucking city it is VERY difficult to find a girl that can think outside of the box.

You see, when people live around each other in mass concentration, the sense of "self" disappears. Everyone is too concerned hidding their insecurites and fears, and don't know shit about what a real problem look like.
For fuck's sake we live in societies where the toughest thing people have ever done in their lives is raising their children.

Also this
If you come from a tough different background, connecting with "normal" people is so fucking tough. Understanding their "problems", either present or past traumas, is just a fucking joke.

Like this guy says you hit the fucking jackpot. Good for you (not even sarcasm). But understand that the rest of us still have to climb that mountain.

I don't know how you could tell I'm not from the city but it sounds like a nightmare. I didn't realize city mentality was that different

I got married at 19.

I'm 30 now, married for 11 years. Things may go just fine. Decide here and now that you don't want to be a statistic.

Oh fuck off, you bitter sad cunt.

And it gets fucking worse. There's no real human interaction, no real friendships and emotions, there's not even a single bit of gratitude for having all they need in their lives to keep growing up with dignity and self-respect.

Instead, they chose to throw it all away because bitches and hoes, and bling bling, and mah fashion trends, etc... and the list of goes on.

I had to work my way up to be where I am right now. And I have to admit that the first few years, all of this got to my fucking nerves almost every second of my life; until I eventually learned to ignore it and just care about myself. In other words, I am now a fucking 1st world citizen.

Communist detected

How's married life husbandanons?

Really good. Our budget is on point, thanks to the Mrs. I'm drinking my morning coffee while my toddler listens to Dragon Ball music. She's 2 and she sings Head Cha La, it's pretty adorable.

I've got a living room full of Legos and a DVD shelf that needs to be assembled. It can be a challenge fitting in work hours (I work from home), but I make it work.

Do you find time to work out regularly? How's the progress of a married man? Care to share pics?

Pretty good. We both got raises at our jobs so we're not poorfags anymore

>Dragon ball music

Raising your child to be autistic.

Currently 23. Majority of people from my high school are starting to pop out kids and getting married while I went to college and still party on the weekends. No gf but still hook up occasionally. Still wonder if marriage is a meme or not. Don't think I will but might keep a long time gf and make her pop out some kids about 29 or so

Will from Inbetweeners looks different

Yep. 5 days a week. I get up at 3:40 AM to work out before the wife and kiddo wake up. That way, I can be home when they're awake and need help from/time with Dad/hubby. It's tough, but the discipline gains are worth it. Some days are a grind, no lie. I had a tough squat session yesterday where I contemplated giving up everything. I've been in enough cbt to know my physique wouldn't impress anyone, but I impress myself and my wife with my progress.

Worth it.

>small town farm raised girl
aka white trash
Enjoy dealing with her retarded trash family

>"feminists and communists are the same thing"
bluepilled and and low iq as fuck, getting bad vibes bro. If you have the same low iq to match hers (very likely if you look at what your posts), the marriage might work out fine.

>implying there's any difference between these lunatics
trannies, feminists, cucks, communists, all go in the same loony bin

You're an idiot, your brain isn't even physically don't developing yet-yet you want to commit your remaining 50+ years to the exact same person at this point in time

Who could be behind this post?

btw op, expect some more buttblasted commies, after the new year we got a batch full of vegans shitting on every thread

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Boa tarde, anão.

If you're engaged at 23 I assume she's the one, don't listen to this incel board.

Eh, I wouldn't recommend getting married before 26 because people still tend to change a lot in their early 20s.

But hey, if you and your homosexual life partner have your priorities and plans sorted out, go for it. I hope you'll be happy.