2018 - How's it going?

nice, why aren't you moving in sooner?

shits good dude, best self defence imo

>24
>fat (230lbs need to lose about 60)
>work part time stacking shelves
>miserable as fuck

>starting to eat better
>home studying an accounting qualification
>started lifting again
>started reading again

Last year was so bad it made me legit never want to be in that position again; we're all gonna make it

>girlfriend overseas travelling
how do you deal? If she's over a 7 I would be a ball of anxiety.

It's still being built

First couple weeks was weird, but good trust and honestly shes with the most un-slutty friends so thats a bonus

she's about a 7-8

...

I guess this is my problem. I trust my girlfriend, but her friends suck. They have all cheated in the past, with one STILL consistently fucking around on her boyfriend. They're also way too in to the coke scene. Luckily she tends to stay in with me rather than go out all that much, but I don't like thinking about what she may or may not have done before me.

sorry for blogpsot bros. I was told getting Veeky Forums and getting a gf would make me happy but now I am more anxious than before and just needed to get it out in to words.

I use to be like this bro, but i love going out and getting on it (drugs etc) with mates and her and her friends would always come so it was a good time. I gained a fuck load of trust when i went out with her friends and her and had a bunch of really deep drug chats with her friends actually got to know them.

I just focus on myself first and by doing that it just makes everything easier desu

In saying that, currently laying in bed on a saturday night researching different cyrptos and watching the tennis.. excited to actually relax together when she gets back

Maybe I should make more of an effort with them. Try to get to know them better before making judgements.

>I just focus on myself first and by doing that it just makes everything easier desu
true words friend

I only got Veeky Forums recently, and sometimes I get hung up on the amount of girls I have banged (like four) when my GF has slept with like 10 people. I didn't have the ability to pull girls before, but now I feel like I have found a girl I like without having sown my wild oats - but she has. Makes me uncomfortable and idk why

The amount of girls you've fucked means nothing dude, completely know where you're coming from though.

on paper it shouldn't, but in my mind it does. I also don't know if I am uncomfortable with her banging that many dudes, or me having banged so many less girls. idk.

I'm lucky to have find a girl who also likes me for like personality/sense of humour etc.. I'm a good looking guy, 6'4 and ex rugby player but to find someone who likes you for you and actually click its a good feeling dude.

How long have you been with your girlfriend for?

I felt like that last year with another girl, she had sex with way more people than me and it made me a little uncomfortable but you have to see past like it's only sex in the end.. in saying that thinking about my girlfriend have sex with someone else instantly makes me uncomfortable

Nearly a year now. Still going strong.

Same with me - similar sense of humour, similar interests. She's the quiet one of her friends group, which is probably why we mesh well.

Honestly I can see now why grills list 'sense of humour' as a top trait for men.

it's only sex, but maybe I have put sex on a pedestal

>in saying that thinking about my girlfriend have sex with someone else instantly makes me uncomfortable

I get pretty bad. Sometimes the visuals are too real in my head. desu it makes me sad because I enjoy sex with my gf, but then I think 'well she had this with all those other dudes, I am not special'

Congrats on the nearly a year mate.
I started seeing this girl at the end of september, We were friends for about a year prior and i was told she just wanted to have sex from a close friend that was a girl so i just went for it.. started hanging out and it's been great ever since. Her mum has cancer so we had a tiny break since it got way to full on at one point and wasn't easy to see each other much but still talked daily and had feelings, I'm at a good point in my life.

Sense of humour is really high up i swear.. I know this because i have a dad bod with broad shoulders lmao

Completely understand, the visuals are disturbing but all men would do this at one point dude.. i doubt you'll even think of something like this within the next 3 months bro

>Went to work friends 21st last night
>The girl that I like was there as well
>Talked for a bit
>All of us went to dance and shit

Should I add her on facebook or would it look creepy? We all work together but she only has one other friend from work

How did you guys meet?

I'd add her, it's harmless and a good show of confidence imo as corny as that sounds haha

Glad for you pal. Feeling secure is the hardest thing for me right now. So are you still with her then or still on a break?

as for the visuals, they have faded since the beginning but still come up if I read anything about cheating. hate to use the word but even reading cuck jokes on Veeky Forums triggers me.

It's annoying because I am so resilient towards so many other aspects of life, but this one just breaks me. probably because of the ex that cheated on me.

tinder

Cheers mate, feels good!

Probably should've added the break was more of seeing eachother everyday and only on weekends.

Sorry to hear about the cheating dude, she genuinely wasn't worth your time, money or anything else. That would've been crushing but also explains why you might get triggered by shit like that i'd probably be the same bro

So really, all your thoughts are pretty normal and expected with what you went through

Where you from anyway my dude

>Girlfriend overseas travelling

girlfriend overseas getting fucked day and night by random dudes

i dont even know this dude and i love him

Hope he comes back though im about to sleep and wanna say goodnight

>23
>no job
>tired of uni
>little to no hope for future
>no gf
>don't even care about lifting anymore
>life is 2/5 at best, closer to 1/5

idk i just wish i was carefree 18-20 yo but pressure about future is constantly stacking up.

i stress and im 20

If my boy comes back let him know i said good chat, know your worth bro and take care of yourself, putting yourself first is essential to being happy love OP

I don't understand how can you make bucks with crypto.
Well how can we do it OP?

>finally accepted that my squat is weak and holding me back
>deloaded and cleaned up the movement
>doing ATG instead of powerlifitng style

took me way too long to accept this but it cant be denied any longer things need to change in this regard.

Im just about to sleep bro but just youtube what you need

Bitcoin Wallet: I use Coinjar
Bitcoin Exchange with alt coins: I use Binance

and just do research, im making small sums of money weekly and its easy as fuck.. night boys

>>Girlfriend overseas travelling
Yes, she sure is "travelling" alright.

do you still live at home ? if so try to move out because it really holds you back in your developement. I lost a few years of mental developement because I was too comfortable living at home and being a manchild instead of getting on with life.

Yeah understandable, she needed space then. That was a mature move.

I guess. It makes sense. Still gives me a twang of guilt.

Uk bruh

Thank you man. Take care.

>Girlfriend overseas travelling
>a positive thing

either you're a cuck or you don't really like your gf

>Got the girl of my dreams
>Knew her for years from Church but never asked her out before
>Never kissed a guy
>Never been on a date
>Very shy
>Doesn't drink
>Hates the prospect of clubbing and has never been
>Hates the state of society today
>Big Irish Catholic family
>Prioritises family over everything else
>Works an office job in accounts

I feel like I won the fucking lottery. She's gorgeous and was a semi-professional Irish dancer too so she's in great shape. Meanwhile I'm making great progress on my cut and I'm on the verge of getting my dream job. Unironically turning out to be one of the best years of my life

>25
>Had to move back in with parents due to fucking up financially while in the Army
>In college now on gi bill
>No fap and no porn since year started
>Down 34lbs with about 40lbs to go
>Slowly crawling out debt hole

Situation seemed dire, but I feel like I'm moving in the right direction. I think I'm gonna make it

You're gonna make it bro, keep moving forward. Thank you for your service.

>have a class with qt from last semester I never spoke to
>like me she is also planning on law school
>overhear her talking about law school
>ask her how she did on the LSAT
>she starts talking to me about it and I think I'm in love
>says she's willing to tutor me
>she only got a 158 but I'm thinking of asking her for help anyway as an excuse to spend time with her

Do I do it lads?

Fuck bro.
>ywn have pic related destroy your boi pussy
Feelsbad

Enjoy trying to fuck a girl who has the worlds worst gag reflex, only wants to fuck in the missionary position and doesn’t know how to get herself to cum.

Last chick I was dating had a cuck queening fetish and would masterbate while I fucked her friends.

Not sure why virgins with no experience are so sought after.

yea bro she'll prolly bring her boyfriend along

if shes going out without you and/or abroad with a bunch of slutty friends it's almost 99% sure that she's cheated on you, i absolutely guarantee it

when you find out in a couple of months/years you will remember this post

>Police recruit
>5th week of academy
>1/3rd the class is incompetent and keeps fucking up
>constantly getting smoked like it’s still week 1
Pic related, MFW hearing we’re doing 50 burpees for the 3rd time today because some retard forgot his equipment

I'm pretty vanilla when it comes to sex myself. I've only slept with three women, one of whom was my ex and wanted to do all kinds of crazy shit when I just wanted to do missionary and doggy and that's it. The new girl I'm with is a virgin and wants to wait until marriage (as I do now also, independently of her).

>The new girl I'm with is a virgin and wants to wait until marriage

hope you don't really believe this

unless she's like 17-18

>things going good with ex
>find out she's on tinder
>things going good with new girl
>starts replying once per day and ghosting me in between

All I've got is gym right now. How sad.

>pursuing thots
Getting your heart broke won’t make you bigger user

Are you me? Because it sounds awfully familiar
>struggle to pass exam at uni
>zero will to do the next
>anxiety kick in last week and i more or less manage to do something
>repeat

did you post purposefully to bait people?
>Girlfriend overseas travelling
you can't be serious

>24
>graduated in Jule and no job
>making ok gains I guess but just got injured
>made gains on crypto
>no gf ever
>don't fly anywhere, I want to travel the world one day but I need to at least pretend to start a 'career' and a normal life before
>life's fucking shit and I have no idea what the fuck to do while everyone else apparrently has great jobs, girlfriends and other crap

>All I've got is gym right now. How sad.

No, all you have is yourself, and this will never change. For anyone. Ever.

idk though, he's probably right.

Where can I obtain Mommy gf? What do they look for in a guy

is that 10 boyfriends or 10 dudes? either way its a massive number for a girl.
if its the latter you gf is a whore and will cheat on you,maybe she already did

>have only gone to the gym twice this year
>can feel the gains slipping away
>going to signup for one today and get other shit done
>internship just started, going well so far
Today is the day I get some shit done lads, I finished all my anime last night

>injured my side 6 days ago.
>Haven't lifted since
>Feel weaker and I'm sure I'm losing my gains
>Worried I'll have to go down in weight when I start lifting again in a few days

Been out on dates with two different women so far, one I stayed the night at. So not a bad start.

most girls just want a guy that makes them feel safe. just pretend to be secure and dependable

>Just turned 24
>Last week in factory job
>Got accepted at new job in IT company
>Great relationship with gf
>Steady gains
>Gonna party with friends tonight

So far:
>started a new job about 2 weeks ago that's going pretty well
>"totaled my car" yesterday. Body shop quoted 5-6k to fix it. I'll fix it on my own for under 1k soon as my parts get in
>Messed up with one girl, but got another one waiting
>now on year 4 of trying to fix my shoulder which has stymied my lifting career
>making a big effort to read and learn more this year

If studied you can get a consulting job at somewhere like Accenture or slalom. Get to travel around the us and all your expenses are paid by the company.

There's probably other kinds of consulting jobs fir other fields as well.

>21
>Looking for work but job market is absolute cancer high youth unemployment rate in country
>Fuck all money
>Single ATM but don't really give a fuck
>Hitting PR after PR though in the gym and body is coming along nice.
>Life is absolutely cancer

she dumped me the day after xmas and i keep thinking of her with the other guy

when will the dreams stop

i think of her literally every day

fuck

>Returned from an 18 month expat thing in the UK
>Decent job with good starting pay
>real perk is the company is big, lots of room to move around
>Aim to finish my Masters in business this year
>Hit 3/4/5,5 again
>Meeting interesting chicks all the time, looking for a long term relationship
>Starting Jiu-jitsu, ice swimming and fishing again
>Life is really good right now

Can't complain.

>Made gains on crypto
>2018

ok

Your girlfriend is 100% getting blacked

Nip that right in the bud you fool, you need to split with her when they go traveling

>had a concussion due to a fall in NYE
>recovered
>cutting, losing 2 lbs a week
>tfw your lifts are beginning to get weaker and weaker

T-this is worth it right Veeky Forums?

>you will never be him
>he will never be your bf
why even live?

Still KHV. Slowly deteriorating. Constatntly get rejected and instead of shrugging it off I just repeat to myself that I'm a failure and I'll never be happy.
I know it's unhealthy to beat myself down like that but you cant ignore the inevitable

>2017
>Get gf
>FINALLY I MADE IT BREHS
>Broke up with me yesterday

>Made nice gains towards end of year.
>Got seriously ill over winter break, out of shape again.

Hold me.

conflict in my head if I should go ottermode or thick mode as a natty 6'2.

Also still virgin.

>as an excuse
You don't need an excuse. Just ask her out you fag. Never confuse her with your intent.

this.

If you fag your way into spending time with her with a bullshit excuse, you at least HAVE to go offensive the first slight tip she gives you that she likes you. Otherwise, if you use a stupid excuse like this and you spend time with her like a betafag, you will get """"""friendzoned"""""" by your own beta self and will blame her.

either do what you said but make a move, or straight up ask her out.

This. I met a cute girl yesterday and asked her out within 16 hours of meeting her, she said yes.

with a shitty excuse like this, she might do it only because she would feel very bad for saying 'No' to your face, which would only mislead you and it would suck for both of you. If you just ask her out, very likely she will give you a honest answer, which will benefit you

>Got evicted on 31/12/17
>Fuck shit cunt
>No money or job
>Instantly went job hunting, fixed a car to sleep in and sobered up
>Now working a ft job and a pt waiting job
>FT job already told me I got selected for training for a promotion starting in a few weeks. Apparantly I'm good at leading and convincing shit is made of gold
>Already have enough money for a downpayment on an appt
>Going to buy a van instead to sleep in because I love being homeless and am raking in dough because I have no expenses
>Can go andto sleep anywhere and overall happiness grew exponantially
>Actually ezt healthier because I have to buy and eat everything fresh
>Lift more and actually do cardio because I have to go to the gym so I can take a shower and I dont want to appear homeless
>Had first date with qt coworker yesterday and slept at her place
>Asked me if she could come to my place one of these days
>Didn't tell her I'm homeless/free yet

So yeah it started shit but it turned out epic.

>almost 33
>haven't lifted because I think I fucked my spine.
>two weeks until my meds run out and I can't afford more. Withdrawal and crippling depression february, I guess.
>can't afford the gym

On the other side, I work outdoors surrounded by nature and do a lot of exercice at mu job, I might get a raise and I talked a lot with a woman way out of my league and she wants to see me again (first time I actually asked for someone's number too).

Things are looking up. I want to give my back some more rest before lifting again but I'm still motivated.

If you're a normal decent dude, they won't stop for a while. I still love and dream about the girl who left me 14 months ago to be with some random drifter. Girls love the excitement of a new guy and will leave the second something they perceive as interesting or better comes about.
The only thing you have now is yourself. Work on yourself. Read, exercise, hike. Make yourself smarter/stronger because the world is moving at an ever increasing rate and the only thing young neet fuckers like us can do is try to keep up. The dating/relationship culture we live in now is fucked to an impossible degree because of all the social media bullshit. The only thing you can do is become better for yourself. Once you do that and love yourself you won't even remember her name because there will be so many pretty and interesting women knocking on your door. You're going to make it just like me brah.

Awesome user. Do you intend to move into her place if she asks you?

that makes me feel worse

they'll stop bro, all your thoughts are normal.. every guy will go through this shit at least once

Yeah man... things were going great for me at 20 too, until happened.

Good luck, bro.

hey man. i'm 22. just graduated from school in may and got a job in august (3 months of me sitting on my ass being unmotivated as shit)

in november i got a girlfriend

6 months and shit turned around for me. Getting kind of bored of lifting though (i still go). keep ur head up dog

>eating cleaner than ever before
>second week of Nofap
>have been talking to and texting a girl
>giving less of a fuck about what others think
>life seems good

Pretty good so far. On the other hand my skin is shit and I'm getting legit nightmares for the first time in years, but my skin should be within my power to change and nightmares when sleeping are better than living nightmares.

PRs in every lift so far.
2pl bench 3pl front squat by the end of the year guaranteed