Hey anons

Hey anons.

>be me, 23 yo khhv
>only ever had online """"relationships"""" with crazy older women
>went from fat permavirgin to 8/10 megautist
>match with cute girl on tinder a few days ago
>she comes over to 'watch the game', i'm awkward as fuck but she fucks me anyway
>get ed and just give her oral and manage to fuck her a bit with a half chub
>we cuddled and walked for a while but i could tell she pity fucked me and we're done

I dont feel like a man right now anons. I didnt fap for a week beforehand. Had 1 light beer before. I seriously hate myself and want to die

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its just nerves bro, happened to me too. Just fuck more and you'll get better at it. also congratz on losing the khv card

Anxiety.
its your first time with not only a real human bean but also a cute one
you invisioned something far above what you are used to do, so not doing it fucks your moral and in turns fucks your current performance and outlook, like a soy snowball

Ask yourself, do you want pussy or the woman owning it?
For the first you get over this fear by normalizing and trivializing it, fuck whores, drunk sluts, who cares just get your dick wet until it feels like an ordinary interaction like brushing your teeth
For the second one, slow but constant touching and intimacy build-up, scaling it up in a way you feel comfortable with yourself and what you can do, and reducing the anxiety by knowing she likes and feels comfortable in your presence and your touch
Dont be pic related and it will work out

thanks anons. I will keep lifting and talking to girls

Yeah i didnt expect sex to be so different from fapping. i think that was the problem

I would try to fuck that same girl again. You comfortable with her now so next time it will be better. Just message her and be honest, say you really like her but you where just nervous.

We’re you even sexually attracted to this girl?

me too bro. I lost my vcard last night to a qt chinese girl I matched with on tinder. Fucked for like 30 mins and I couldn't cum and could barely keep it up. Brehs stop fapping with deathgrip and watching porn that shit is poison for your mind.

I texted her right after saying i had fun and she said she did too and we said good night. should i double text tomorrow?

Yes, she has a really cute face and her body was very attractive to me, i just couldnt keep it up. maybe i should mention i did this on my small dorm bed with roommates outside so...

Just nerves OP, I believe in you pal

You're gonna make it. Make yourself laugh a little and relax, nature will take over for you eventually

tomorrow is a better day user. nerves have got in my way too. you'll make it

Nah mate wait a week, otherwise you might come over as needy.

This

And don't listen to this malicious autistic no-life idiotic fatfuck

He is right though.

Dude it’s your first your literally learning relax you got a lot of life left.

I am gonna txt her today i think, the waiting a week shit sounds dumb

Everyone's first try, especially later in life, sucks. Follow up with her if you enjoyed her presence and genuinely want to see her again otherwise grats on the EXP and you're now a lvl 2 pipe layer.

>giving oral to a girl you meet for the first time

enjoy your aids

Idc desu

idiot

I never had problems with getting hard ever in my life. Usually had 4 times sex on weekends with gf.

Then I went to this tinder hookup and I got semi hard, fucked her and finished in like 2 minutes because I knew I'm gonna lose it soon.

Her body was stunning but there was no connection. She had kind of a bitchy attitude that turned me off and I felt like a fuck boy.
Did not enjoy it.
Later in life I found out the best part about sex is that the girl actually is attracted/in love with you and therefore desires your cock.
That mental mindset is what gets me hard.
Not fucking tinder sluts.

You were thinking way to hard man. Next time just relax and enjoy the fact that your actually having sex. If your fucking thots who gives a shit how they feel. Just get,yours and leave

This.
I never had issues getting hard either but at the end of my last long term relationship when I was already pretty sure I wanted to break up with her I lost my erection fast just because I didn't feel the connection anymore.
Just yesterday kissed new qt for the first time and got a raging hard on from just that which wouldn't go down for like 10 minutes after.
The good parts of sex are all about connection.

>but at the end of my last long term relationship when I was already pretty sure I wanted to break up with her

>tfw in the same boat rn :(
How did you figure it out?

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I don't think it's that bc I have lots of muscle mass and don't have other symptoms of that. I think i was just nervous/porn addiction maybe

> turned 22 today
> kissless, handholdless virgin

Every year is a new low fuck

>had total performance anxiety ED the last time i hooked up

right now im dating a girl and were spoonin n shit and what not. dick always gets hard and precums like a bitch.

what are the chances ill ED again if we go for it?

im a khhv and an ugly subhuman. sometimes i think ill never amount to anything in life because im so dumb and ugly feelsbadman.jpg

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Are you sure it's not PIED?
Yes it's real. You have to give up porn and maybe even masturbation entirely to get your boner back.

Op here looks like she wants to meet up tmrw night. Wish me luck lads

No wonder you had issues, that doesn't sound like a comfy environment.

I was in a sorta similar situation and also couldn't keep it up. But me and the girl met a few more times and I fucked her good. It takes practice user. Congrats on your progress

My first time was when I was 19. I was drunk after a party and haven't had sleep for that day and already fapped twice. Sexy time at 2 AM went like it was a dream night user. I'm seriously considering dedicating a storybook for that fucking day because of how good everything went. Something's wrong with you.

HAHAHA
I don't understand, are you people are you so genetically inferior that your body itself is cock blocking you?? It's like your brain knows that you are genetic garbage so it flips the kill switch on your dick. I have literally never had a problem with my dick and don't know how you fellas manage it.

How many of you had inactive childhoods and are currently fatasfatass? You probably have shit hearts too that can handle reallocation a little bit of blood somewhere else.

Maybe i should try getting smashed then. idk

All you have to do is be confident. Even if you're not used to having sex, imagine it as if it was the purpose of your life and you're fulfilling it. You wanted sex more than anything, and now you have it, so enjoy it and don't think much about anything else. I really didn't care how she felt I just enjoyed myself and I asked stupid questions and laughed a lot and she kept being annoying about it but I just didn't care. Next day she tells me it was the best night of her life. Enjoy yourself and do whatever you want. If you're okay with awkward silence, so be it, if you wanna talk during sex, so be it. If you enjoy it, she'll enjoy it because you enjoying it means she's enjoying it. I know I'm rambling but this is the kind of thing you want to get going while having sex with her. No fear, only pleasure, good luck!

Don't know how I'm still here fellas, I am socially retarded and literally never ever make a move. Not ugly, middling body, went to a very good university and doing a masters in September, always smell good have lots of frags. Yet I have never picked up on any girls signs

I was in your situation once, user.
It really fucked me up for weeks.

The solution? You need more pussy. be the same, or other pussy. Keep going. Each time you'll know more and more what to expect. And you'll feel in control.

gl user, we're all gonna make it