It's literally get fit, make two times minimal wage, live alone, not be an asocial autist, know how to sustain a conversation, get good haircut, dress properly and take a shower daily, maybe learn to play a musical instrument, speak several languages and just have hobbies to be interesting and you'll be like in the top 20 of the top 2% of your country males.
Am I missing something? Why there's so much depressive post.
Unless you're like genetic trash, is not hard to reach Chad status.
Cameron Phillips
*Applicable to 6'2+ men only
David Gray
>there aren't women that are 5"5
Matthew Brown
>miimal wage >live alone
thats not applied to people who doesnt live in america or occidental europe
the rest is probably easier but if you are ugly you are fucked no haircut/dressing will hide that
Ian Lee
>get too big, start to become unattractive >get too big, face looks moon face >where is too big? >need to balance muscles to have good posture >get better job but is high stress, health decreases >get injured >get fired >die
Caleb Sanchez
>2xminimal wage >Live alone What in, a tent?
Hunter Anderson
>just be yourself bro
Oliver Nelson
>>there aren't women that are 5"5 They steel prefer 6' + men
Alexander Murphy
But user don't you know that beauty is subjective
Nolan Harris
I agree partially because I live like that and even with higher standards but I'm not feeling like Chad yet. Maybe just humility or being aware that no matter how high you go there will be always someone even higher or lower than you meaning that the only competition is with yourself... Good thread also
David Young
thats depending where you live, in central and southamerica you are literally a giant
Jaxon Stewart
>Am I missing something?
I've never seen a 5'5 Chad, have you?
Carter Morgan
you don't need any of the musical instrument or several languages part, that shit's actually really hard. the only people i know who actually learn a foreign language either do it for a job or spent a year or more overseas. imo it's better to just have an easier hobby than fuck around with something really hard
Carson Morales
more liked
>get JACKED >get RICH AF
amirite guys?
Austin King
Why would anyone in their right mind settle for spics or sopa de macaco freaks
Daniel Sullivan
>average male is the same as genetically deformed trash kek, this board is retarded.
this board is so retarded they think all countries have european height.
then they travel to non european countries and can't even fit in the cars.
>having hobbies is hard lmao brainlet
Michael Bailey
people that live in a spic country or brazil, fucking retard?
>but this website is only used by whites
you do realize 95% of women seek a male of their same race?
Daniel Torres
fucking around in assimil or rosetta stone once or twice a week isn't hard, but actually reaching fluency in a foreign language is pretty hard unless you are in that environment
Dominic Roberts
Why would anyone in their right mind settle for school shooting freaks ?
not only that, but being tall unless you are
>elite athlete >genetic freak
is nothing but unhealthy, many will disagree on this and call me a manlet, but i have never seen people over 6 feet who doesnt have at least one postural problem
Michael Peterson
chads are born you idiot
James Butler
lamo are you fucking retarded? Do you not know what "chad" means? It's literally a 17 year old football quarterback with good genetics. There is no money, language, or hobby component you fucking autist. It's not even "get fit", it's literally FACE, HEIGHT, FRAME, while not being obese. Cope more you dumb faggot. You pine to be an archetypal high school football player. Reevaluate your life
Jack Nguyen
>watching youtubes in said language and shitposting on their regional chan is too hard ???
any male that ins't genetically deformed (the average male) can reach top 20% of males.
I say average because you fags always post deformed guy as evidence of average guys not being chad.
retards.
>Let me post some deformed genetic losers to prove the average guy is fucked and can't become attractive
Angel Morgan
Naive normie
Xavier Wood
Yeah, but what hobbies will make me interesting as I don't think going to the gym, video games and playing the violin poorly cut it.
Owen Gonzalez
the average guy can't become """chad""" without genetics, loser. You're misconstruing the definition of "chad" and/or "average". No matter how fashionable you dress or cut your hair, you can't grow a jaw. You can't get rid of bug eyes, nor can you regrow your hairline. Yes, a 5/10 can become a 6/10, but a 5/10, can't become an 8/10. You don't even realize that """chads""" don't do any of the shit you describe, they literally don't even know there exists a concept of chaddom. It's all genetics, deal with it
Connor Gonzalez
>the average male is the same as genetic losers >if you're not a Chad you can't improve your looks >but Chad didn't have to work out, let me compare a Chad with a genetic freak to prove my point an average male is fucked
He's right. You can't become a Chad unless you're willing to get plastic surgery. Even then you have to be six feet tall or over and have good hair.
Nathan Johnson
Learning an instrument or a new language can be a fun hobby, but I'd also recommend throwing in some hobbies that involve physicality like martial arts or rock climbing. Basically anything other than smoking weed and playing video games like most other guys.
Bentley Bell
an average male IS a "genetic loser"
you CAN improve your looks, but you can't "transform" into chad by getting a haircut unless you already have the bone structure. You overestimate how much significance a haircut or fashion have. FACE overrides everything, and I am not exaggerating. I used to buzz my hair, now its longer and I get the same exact attention. I used to dress "fashionably" but now im lazy and wear joggers/sweats and well fitted t shirts, same attention. I model and im talking you from MY OWN EXPERIENCE, that FACE is king in attraction. 90% of your perceived attraction comes from it. the other 10% is the "customization" shit like hair, fashion, muscles, etc.
Nathan Torres
How?
>was THE most quiet in middle school >played maplestory all of middle school >worked my way up the social anxiety ladder through high school, it was tough >almost fell into robot trap, all I had was social anxiety >now lifting >now getting my real estate sales license
I know how to deal
Caleb Watson
>if you're not genetically blessed you need a surgery >here let me show another pic of another genetic loser to prove my point
>average is the same as genetic loser >meanwhile most average guys still get wife/gf
Jonathan James
Being a "Chad" is 90% mindset imo. The guys that are saying you have to be 6'+ and jacked are too insecure to make it. Natural confidence and being comfortable in your own skin is a massive part of being a Chad.
Andrew Cruz
>not be an asocial autistic Please tell me how? I'm tall, Veeky Forums, and good looking but I'm so painfully awkward. Girls show interest all the time but I fuck it up my autism
Hunter Collins
Practice, practice, practice. The more you put yourself into social situations, the more natural it will feels. No other way to do it I'm afraid.
Isaac Williams
>grow grow grow
Ian Wright
>It's literally get fit, make two times minimal wage, live alone, not be an asocial autist, know how to sustain a conversation, get good haircut, dress properly and take a shower daily, maybe learn to play a musical instrument, speak several languages and just have hobbies to be interesting and you'll be like in the top 20 of the top 2% of your country males. All that just to get whores with meatholes. That's what's depressing.
Michael Ramirez
>average is the same as genetic loser
the entire discussion of how "good" genetics are is based on the effort required to reproduce with a mate. If you struggle to get girls you have bad genetics, this is the most basic and fundamental understanding of it
>meanwhile most average guys still get wife/gf
How much of it is carnal desire and how much of it is based on societal norms and expectations? If you took away the average family mans ability to provide, stability, or security (none of which are genetic traits), how many women with stay with him instead of the more attractive "chads"? Ever hear of the idea that women mess around with "chads" then settle down for security when they get older? Yeah, they don't settle down because they suddenly stop finding good genetics attractive, they have to for their survival
Don't delude yourself, if genetics were the only marker for mating/relationships, 90% of men below 6/10 would be single
Jonathan Russell
I was in the same spot, I literally was shaking of fear whenever I tried to talk to girls.
What it help me like big time was forcing myself to go in college and start talking to girls trying to get their phones.
Trying to get 30 phones solved it in like two days.
>how do I learn to ride a bike without having to ride one
Carter Hall
...
Kevin Brooks
No idea what that means. Anyway, I'm sure every single one of you have seen a chubby, not that attractive dude out at a bar with his sexy gf and wondered how the fuck he managed to pull that off. So many of us on this board are now fit but are having a really hard time shaking off that inner beta-ness. Feeling confident and good about yourself is much harder to accomplish than achieving a nice body.
Christian Turner
Okay How do I deal with feeling insecure about myself? I used to be an ugly fat kid so in my mind I still am one
Logan Jones
>Do anyone feel the path to Chad is fucking easy? >It's literally get fit, make two times minimal wage, live alone, not be an asocial autist, know how to sustain a conversation, get good haircut, dress properly and take a shower daily, maybe learn to play a musical instrument, speak several languages and just have hobbies to be interesting and you'll be like in the top 20 of the top 2% of your country males. But you aren't capable of doing any of that. You are a loser and an autist who will never be a chad.
Ryder Cox
>get fit Not "easy" but will come with time and consistency >make 2x min wage Easy unless you're a brainlet >live alone easy >not be an asocial autist/sustain conversation Hard for a lot of people on Veeky Forums >good haircut/fashion/hygeine easy >musical instrument and several languages HARD
Justin Clark
Like we both said, seeing the positive attention you're getting from girls will be a huge confidence booster. Basically you're getting to see the fruits of your labor and it'll make you feel good about yourself.
Sebastian Lee
>the average girl is a crack whore who has 100 dicks >there are no conservative girls, ugly girls, fat girls, girls with low self steem, weeb girls, nerd girls >girls don't have fetishes and is impossible for a girl to be into fat or bald or ugly dudes but males clearly have fetishes for ugly, black girls and other undesirable girls >all girls are clearly roastie whores who seek Chad this is your mind of r9k.
You need to start thinking objectivelly, you need to look at the mirror and see yourself for what you are, not r9k dumb memes.
Sure, ugly people still have it hard, but they can settle for a low self steem or ugly girl.
I recommend you to try self steem hypnosis audios on youtube and watching motivational speeches. The more archievements you get, the more confidence you have.
You need to stop worrying about what society expects you to be and just live life to your Max potential.
you gain confidence to girls if you force yourself to try to talk to girls without worry.
Ethan Scott
First you get the power, then you get the money, then you get the bitches.
Andrew Edwards
Just join the hardest branch of your military. The Marines for example. Focud on callistetic exercises to get mad ripped like Bruce Lee and get a sexy ass uniform. You got the chance to go overseas and learn a new language. On top of that you’re gonna be mad interesting and appealing. Government money can pay for acne scar removal, cystic bump removal, eye surgery, etc. Being Chad is simple af that way, that’s what I’m doing.
Nicholas Jackson
>girls are all very different, just like guys Except that they aren't, there is much less difference in females than in males. Most of them just want a stereotypical Chad, while saying that they don't.
Daniel Hernandez
So much this. I can't stress enough how important it is to not get sucked into that /r9k/ mindset. That board is about as toxic as you can get on Veeky Forums.
Tyler Johnson
>I have never interacted with real girls beyond r9k memes kek
>there are not girls with low self steem that settle for anyone who gives them attention >there are not girls that settle with ugly guys because they don't want their bf to be picked up by other girls
>all girls are clearly the same
Jaxon Reed
No shit OP, all of that is easy. Most people on Veeky Forums (the one that lift at least) are near there. The hardest part is being socially awkward/socially anxious. I can carry a conversation just fine most of the time, but I've NEVER been able to approach a person. Not even a dude. I had no friends in college until sophomore year, just because I did a group job with some dude that happened to be pretty cool and we started to hang out. I love when people approach me to talk, in fact I fucking love just talking with random people but I'd never, ever talk to someone just for the hell of it. I've never even asked someone for directions because I'm that shy, and ended up lost in the city various times because of this. It's fucking stupid, makes no sense and I'm aware of it but I'm terrified of bothering someone or being an annoyance. It's deeply ingrained in my subconscious. Now I have it easy, because I'm able to socialize just fine otherwise. Just imagine the actually autistic people in this sub, people that don't even leave their house out of fear. Or people that can't read facial cues for shit (I can't most of the time, I just say shit and hope it works) Developing social skills is easy IN THEORY (just talk to everyone breh) but some people just can't do it.
Jacob Taylor
>this is your mind of r9k.
girls are not the same as guys you dumb mongoloid. Guys can choose a less physically attractive female, girls don't, and its EVOLUTIONARY that way. Even your most socially retarded girl will choose a more physically attractive man over a less physically attractive one. I love how dudes call r9k on anything they find uncomfortable now. I legit bang more chicks in a month than you do in a year and im telling you that they ARE as shallow as you think they are. Nothing is wrong with that, but I can tell you're one of those dudes that bangs a girl once every 6 months because you obviously don't know how they operate yet
Jason Gonzalez
Consider ashwaganda ksm or phenibut user.
Brayden Ross
They still all want Chad while settling down for a beta who they have no honest desire for.
Lincoln Wilson
>I love when people approach me to talk, in fact I fucking love just talking with random people but I'd never, ever talk to someone just for the hell of it. I've never even asked someone for directions because I'm that shy
Fucking this, man. I'm the exact same way and I've been working on getting better. I actually ended up taking some acting and improv classes and it helped immensely. Even hooked up with a qt theater chick from one of the classes.
Nathaniel Gray
and this dude had like 50 kids with 30 women because he was a natural Chad, even if he was ugly as fuck because he was a popular singer.
>literally believing incel propaganda kek
Benjamin Mitchell
Based Tony montana
Jaxon Cook
>Just imagine the actually autistic people in this sub, people that don't even leave their house out of fear. Or hearing problems all through the childhood, without wearing a hearing aid. This shit fucks you up socially.
Asher Collins
>natural Chad >popular because of something non-physical that you do Pick one.
Isaac Reyes
Damn cool to see someone else knows that feel Being extraverted but socially anxious is literally hell lol One of my best friends from childhood can talk to literally any person out of nowhere for no reason and girls love him, dude gets laid a lot and is the coolest guy I know Improv classes sound cool, maybe someday I'll stop being autistic and try that lol, you're gonna make it breh
Dominic Powell
>discussion about genetics and attraction >posts an example of attraction NOT based on genetics
Like I said, remove stability, wealth, security, and 90% of men below 6/10 would die alone. Women settle down with """average dudes""" not because they want to, but because they NEED to, for their survivals sake
Hudson Butler
1/6 of asians are his offspring, I guess he was the most chad in history.
retards.
acording to fit logic he was super chad if he had like 50 kids with dozen of women.
Colton Barnes
>status, money, personality has not effect on male attraction to women >like I said, remove 90% of what women consider attractive in a male
Owen Anderson
>remove modern society and men below 6/10 would die alone what an amazing observation user, it would suuuck to live in 2000 BC!
Grayson James
>Being extraverted but socially anxious is literally hell lol
It really fucking is bro. Like I know for sure that I've missed out on so many opportunities with hot girls because I'm too shy to make that initial approach. Just having the confidence to go up and start a conversation with an attractive girl gets you so far.
Ian Watson
do you have reading comprehension problems or is the IQ from your shitty genes just that low?
>a-anybody can become chad!! look at all the 4-5/10s in the US married with families!!! There's hope for all of us!!!
It's FACE, HEIGHT, FRAME, sexual attraction is based 90% on this, cope more uggos
Alexander Harris
>cope more uggos >literally the only people that believe in lookism meme are bitter ugly incels
Ethan Brooks
This post is a textbook example of . Spending too much time on /r9k/ will make you feel like absolute shit about yourself. Avoid that board like the plague if you already have self confidence issues.
John Lopez
You deserve your pathetic life, pussy
Cameron Hill
>remove 90% of what women consider attractive that isn't based on genetics and males are ugly >status, money, personality has not effect on sexual selection of males >women don't seek males with money or status as partners >let me use my narrow definition that doesn't work in reality because women also seek strong providers to breed and evolved to do it >one of the most popular fap material for women erotica is werewolfs >women don't seek males based on courtship rituals like most other species
Julian Flores
it's honestly adorable how naive you guys are about women. I've literally never been to r9k and base everything I post entirely on my experience with girls. Im an 8/10 so I've seen a lot of shit, but on the other hand I totally understand your idealization of females when you only hook up with girls once every couple of months and you feel like its a huge accomplishment. Whatever works for you, just don't end it all when you don't get that girl you obsess about by being a "nice guy"
Zachary Scott
>idealization of females Who the fuck is idealizing women here? You're the only babbling about muh sexual attraction when any normal person that get laids frequently doesn't give two fucks about. Not being an autistic lookism incel doesn't equal "being a nice guy". Holy shit you people are literal brainlets, it's like talking to a wall. If you go to r9k you'll feel right at home, you're past salvation.
Ayden Fisher
>I get my info from r9k >all women are chad whores >I know because I'm a chad cope more faggot.
>is impossible for an average male to get girls even while 98% of males have sexual partners
Grayson Rogers
You're welcome to think whatever you want but I'm not wrong about going to /r9k/. That board is full of horribly negative reinforcement that will only make you feel even more shitty about yourself and feel like it's not worth bothering to seek self improvement.
Juan Hughes
>the british phenotype
Tyler Ortiz
>learning an instrument is hard
Fucking dexlet. Learning an instrument is challenging, but not hard, and it is extremely fun and rewarding and can be one of the best outlets for your autism.
Liam Kelly
You're retarded. A 5/10 can sometimes become an 8/10. Not a 10/10, but definitely an 8.