>female client starts crying at their first weigh in
My autism failed me. I did the pat-and-nod, there-there response out of helplessness. I have no idea how to handle this. Do I tell her we're all gonna make it brah? Do i call her a sick kunt? What is the response to this situation?
Connor Gutierrez
desperate self bump
Zachary Ward
Tell her its her first weigh in so not to worry about it. If ahe really wants change she'll get it if she continues on this path. Say nice hopeful things user.
Ethan Thompson
that's what I basically did, so that puts my mind at ease
Thanks man
Ryder Nguyen
idk, tell her not to worry because you're gonna help her fix it and get her to where she needs to be. That her situation is easily fixable and you've already sorted out dozens of people in worse shape than she is. Something like that.
That seems to me to be the right thing to do. But when I was about 7 a female classmate sat down next to me crying her eyes out and I put my arm around her shoulder and said "it's okay" and she screamed "don't touch me!" so ever since then I pretty much walk away when women start crying and let other women deal with it, so take my advice with a pinch of salt. Good luck breh
Benjamin Lee
fucking kek
Yeah I'm a massive autist with crying people, I just don't really get it. My instinct is to leave them alone to sort their shit out and then give them the logical path forward: lift, manage your calories, and it will get better in time but you need to stay committed
I asked some female PT's I know and they said that this, plus essentially just telling them they're doing great etc, was all you can really do
Thanks for the advice you lovely faggots
Ethan Rodriguez
>Do i call her a sick kunt?
Always cracks me up hearing that
Jordan Lewis
Feed her a bowl of eggs.
Easton Wood
>a-user I'm a fat mess, this has really depressed me >w-what? A-all of them? Is this like a food diary thing? Is - >user what are you doing >user NO
Ian Garcia
have you told her about the veggies yet?
Nicholas Adams
heh
you just flex a 'cep user
come on man
Caleb Cruz
>The average fitizen gets a job as a pt
It's really not hard though, just say something like don't worry we all start somewhere.
It's really all about relating with people
Adrian Stewart
Women generally need the compliment sandwich to deal with tough love or any kind of criticism. In fact a lot of people who haven’t really tried anything hard before/have never really experienced failure or setbacks need this. It’s only once they’ve toughened themselves up a little that you can afford to be harsher.
>hey don’t cry, you’ve made progress, that’s a GOOD thing >I know you wanted more but you need to just be patient and stick with it, you’ll be where you want to be soon enough and I’ll help you get there >but this is a great start and anyone here will tell you the same thing
Goes miles further for the testicularly challenged than
>shut ur fgt mouf n try harder bishtitz
Camden Fisher
This is ironically even more autsitic than op
Carson Gonzalez
Tell her that number is a challenge, and she has the power to accept that challenge and defeat that number or do nothing and let the number beat her.
Teach her defiance. Teach her how to be angry at something properly and want nothing more than to smash through it, to defeat it.
Or give her a shot of test.
Oliver Bennett
>give client a shot of test >she throws me through a plate glass window and benches 4plate before anyone can stop her
Dylan Carter
From what I know about the differences between men and women it makes perfect sense. I would just say don't go overboard with the compliments.
Gavin Sanchez
women are fucking pathetic and this right here is why
Parker Robinson
hit her as hard as you humanly possible can. trust me, she won't cry again. ever. fuuck. i hate crying humans.
Liam Cooper
fucking kek almighty
Thomas Williams
You're thinking into it way too much was my point
Jack Hughes
She has two choices; cry about it and give up, or look back at this moment in a few months and remember it as her start.
Ian Cooper
I wonder who is behind this post
Wyatt Roberts
I'm a physician, I fucking hate when women cry and tell me about their problems, I'm just here to fucking cure you, i don't care what youdo with your shitty life.
Easton Powell
He’s coaching this person, it’s a legitimate tactic for dealing with insecure people.