Been lifitng for a few years now and chicks all of a sudden want something to do with me...

Been lifitng for a few years now and chicks all of a sudden want something to do with me. Problem is I couldn't give less of a fuck, all I want to do is shoot the shit with the lads and lift. The fucks wrong with me Veeky Forums?

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Same

Might you be gay? Seriously, have you considered it?
Otherwise, see a doctor if it bothers you.

fuck dude honestly i don't know. I keep telling myself it's something else. It's hard to explain, but even when I look at objectively beautiful women I just feel nothing, an emptiness even. I don't feel attraction at all. It's only like that with women though, but it isn't sexual with men either. I Honestly don't know what I am at this point

>thought 3 year breakup would be hard on me
>only cared for about a month
>probably going to be alone forever because i like lifting and working more than i like investing time in to the relationship
unless i get a gf who also likes to lift and go backpacking i just can't see it working out

i was a late bloomer and finally made it
now girls pay attention to me but i don't really care because the decades of bullying, abuse, and neglect evaporated my soul and pretty much all i think about every day is killing myself lmao haha xD

I'm the same way and I think it's because I wasn't considered a sexual being to women my whole life and now I have no clue what to do now that they take interest

You have ascended to a plane beyond the needs of mortal men.

Doesn't everyone want to kill themself? I couldn't imagine living a life that I actually didn't mine waking up to everyday

I'd go see a doc. It's probably nothing, but if it is something then it could be very bad.
Do you still jerk off? Have a sex drive or is that gone as well?

idk but most people seem to act as though they don't want to kill themselves
i work at a coffee shop with a bunch of staceys and chads and the things that excite them to happiness are absurdly out of proportion to their reactions
though sometimes i suspect it's all an act and they're even more nihilistic than i

transcendence is a deadly meme to those with autism because we are liable to take it seriously
the bitter truth is that a human can't transcend being human

You’ve made it bro

The average person has got to be putting on an act, life fucking sucks there is nothing to be happy about being alive

Same. I just feel put off by them, and I've never felt more happy hanging with the bros than I do now. I slept around for a while early in my lifting career but after a while I just grew more disgusted by the behavior of some girls. Which is rather ironic because just a couple years ago I thought women were these perfect intelligent and pure beings and men were dumb and sexual. I wasn't very bright for thinking that way. Nowadays I'd rather be alone with my friends forever. But I know that even friends will come and go so I just accept life for what it is.

This

When you're ignored by women for 25+ years you kind of learn to hate them and want nothing to do with them

same happened to me since started lifting

My test levels came back average, I should have the results of a full hormone panel back on monday. As far as jerking off goes It's definitely not a necessity for me, I do it maybe twice a week not even really because I want to but because its just something to do I guess. When I see an attractive women I just acknowledge it, but I never feel any sexual urge.

girls are only good as friends, find the one that makes a best friend and wife her.

what's your test? i'm 23 y/o 290 and don't think i've ever been aroused in public

That might be it for me. I was invisible to women my whole life up until relatively recently and now all of a sudden literally the exact same women who I would have done anything to be with want me I'm just indifferent.

Yeah

>be ignored by women my whole life
>get swole
>women all of a sudden looking at me and trying to talk to me
>show no interest in them because of the way I was treated until now

fuck them I want nothing to do with them

573 at the end of the day one month into a cut, so not exactly optimal circumstances for testosterone production. But given those circumstances my normal test is likely above average even.

Don't give them what they want just ignore them it gets them furious just like it did when they'd ignore me my whole life

stop watching porn

If he stops watching porn he would probably give them attention and when you ignore them it makes women feel like shit which is what you want

>want to ask out girl that works at grocery store
>every time I go to checkout her line is long and the others are empty
>don't want to look weird so I go to someone else
>we have flirted before and I am sure she likes me

What do fellas?

You know she is into you, so if you want it take it bro.

Nothing. You've ascended

This user is pretty based

shut the fuck up kid
you want to fuck them and they know it

i mean, man up and go to her line, and when its your turn ask her out or her number, you will only look weird if you dont ask her out

You’re damaged user. You’re not beyond help, but you definitely need to get your ahit together. The one good thing is that by lifting consistently, you’re proving that you are willing to do what it takes to change.
You need to go out more. Talk to women. Even if it’s a quick “hello” at a grocery store or bar. Keep talking to random women until you find one who is interested in a back-and-forth conversation. Then, depending on your skill/ autism level, find a way to keep talking to her. Either ask her out, or keep going back to that location and find her. Hopefully, you’ll become friends, and you’ll learn to love her.
The thing is, every person is different. Some, if not most men, want sex. They don’t necessarily care about friendship. Not until they get older, anyways. But there’s some guys out there, like you, who have been hurt by woman so many times, that they’re disgusted with them. Every pretty face just brings in the memories of rejection. But I guarantee that once you find a woman who you can call a friend, then you will become overwhelmed with sexual desire and emotion.

Nothing.
If something isn't in your life's agenda then don't do it, don't worry about it, and focus on your priorities.

Nothing wrong, probably ideal. Most women are trash anyway. Just try to find one who you really do click with and enjoy spending time with. I'm sure you will feel attracted to her.

what is the deal with this board always thinking that if someone doesnt care about sexual stuff it means they are gay?

it would make perfect sense if he was the kinda guy who was a loser and girls never gave attention to for a long time (say into his 20s) then when they do he wouldnt know what to do so he just ignored them completely. doesnt make him gay.

Don’t be gay, user.

>Every pretty face just brings in the memories of rejection
Fuck, this is what happened to me a week ago. Pretty girl start talking to me and suddenly I started to answer her with OK and just looking at her like I was annoyed, I didn't think about that until I saw what you wrote there
>Tfw you are so damaged that turn down grills before getting close because fearing the rejection

This, I'm exactly like op but unlike him in not that fit but I have definitely better my look, and I can tell you before I was fukin Mr invisible for girls and when I changed some things in me they suddenly started to get interested in me and not just physically but in others aspect too. So when a girl try to get closer to me I tend to not trust her because no one try to talk to me when I looked like shit so I get what are you saying and how op feels, it sucks

I know that feel. I really only can get in touch with girls when blackout drunk, otherwise i expect every girl being nice to me as just trying to make fun of me and become defensive as fuck.

Yeah, I guess you are as broken as I am.
I'm not even fit or good looking but I have hard time trusting in girls.
It all happened after a relationship with a girl, she was the best but she was broken in her own way too, in the beginning she cried because she was so happy I was in her life to fast forward a few months when she just got bored of me and just leave, shit was hard considering that she's my classmate and I see her everyday

life might be more happy with the act, enjoying little pleasures, than being a sad cunt but it depends why you are a sad cunt (loss? unfullfilled lifestyle? crushing debt?)

joe rogan had a talk with some brit fag who wrote a book on depression its a good listen if you aren't a kneejerk pussy when they talk about if its a chemical cause or situational/experience cause
youtube.com/watch?v=DQUgd9GQtoQ

You're gay now. Sorry to see you go

Stop fapping and watching porn for a week. If you don't get aroused by hot girls after a week then you're a faggot.

user be glad, for love is 100% guaranteed to cause pain
>Breakup
>Divorce
>Infidelity
>Lying
and if you make it all the way through to the end with somebody who's perfect for you???
>death

just live it, user
sometimes complete lack of emotions is better than them tearing you apart

I was this way until I got a gf. She filled all the emptiness inside. Basically you just want someone to love and care for. Our modern society tells us if you don't want to fuck staceys and spend $200 at the bar every weekend you're a faggot.