SELF ESTEEM THREAD

aww cmon bud, i'm sure you've got plenty of pros

Pros
>6'4
>not hideous at least
>managed to mildly recover social skills from years of hermit mode

Cons
>serious procrastination problems
>brain shat itself after hard night of drinking 2 years ago, treatment is questionable
>massive sperg

Even if it's kilos he weighs like 120 so 100 bench is not even bodyweight

Dude, you're not strong if it's not even bodyweight bench

veins on your muscles are aesthetic as fuck you fucking turbo nigger

okay i guess im not naturally strong. but a lot of people start benching with just the bar

what are you talking about, 375pounds is 170 kilos. I wouldn't expect a bodyweight bench from a fatass because of all the useless lard, but starting at 2pl8 is really impressive for anyone who's untrained regardless of weight.

that's really only true for women and skellies. most men start benching between 80-140 pounds. It's aight though, just keep lifting and you'll make fast progress.

nah matey I don't bench 2pl8, wish I could though!

pros
>6'1
>thick blonde hair
>broad shoulders
>naturally good traps
>good cook
>good paint
cons
>overbite (slowly getting better)
>mild turkey neck (slowly getting better)
>pencil neck (almost fixed)
>wide pelvis

Pros:
my mother loves me
Injury free

Cons:
Ugly manlet
Virgin

Pros
>good looking
>blood test confirmed high test
>smart

Cons
>5'10
>mental illness since I was 12 (now 21
>I'm a cunt- aggressive (especially when I drink), cheat on gf, brutally honest

>pros
>cons
183cm
A fucking chink
Small eyes with nose bridge
Shit skin
Fat
No flexibility
No friends

>Great facials
do you mean giving or taking?

Pros
>6'2
>thick, solid, tight build
>decently intelligent

Cons
>introverted hermit, 25 khhv, slight gyno

Most your cons can easily be turned into pros user

have u tried being with boys? legit question

It's Veeky Forums user, you already know the answer

Pros
>very happy with my facial aesthetics
>relatively smart
>went from insecure nice guy to genuine guy who's not even close to being a pushover

Con
> a lot of ambition that I dont act fully on or execute poorly and end up wasting years of my life. I really have to work on getting my dreams to stop being memes or half assed executed nightmares

Thanks for the 'steem thread user

Pros
>Good jawline, facial structure
>Good hair
>Smart
>6'0
>Happy with my progress in life

Cons
>Recovering from acne (accutane 3rd month)
>DYEL mode body
>Struggle to regulate diet

Any of you anons been on accutane? My acne has gotten so much better but there are still loads of red marks, even though they aren't actual spots, just marks. It's like all my spots sunk under my skin.

No, you lost your gf because you either don't have self-control or didn't value your gf over the other person/people you slept with.

Pros
>6'1,5
>Im always decent at sports i do
>Im not ugly idk if im attractive but im not ugly
>Im strongest out of my friends despite being tallest and around same weight
cons
>Im introvert but i make myself talk to people
>started skelly now im still skelly but with some muscle and fat

Pros
>6'2"
>Huge Frame
>Great Facial Structure

Cons
>Face stores a lot of fat, so it doesn't even matter that I have a great facial structure
>Insomnia

Pros
>Not autistic
>Well read
>Decent frame
>Italian
Cons
>5'6
>Still fat (18%)
>No job, still living with parents
>Italian

You need to disregard the diagnosis and start being nice to people..
REPENT.

Pros
> Likeable
> Good face (not for everyone but thats ok)
> Career is going perfectly
Cons
> 5'8" re
> Semi-low self-esteem
> Terrible time management has wrecked three relationships

Pros
>handsome
>blond hair, blue eyes
>smart
>Veeky Forums

cons
>180cm (not that bad but I wish I was taller)
>mildly autistic
>face gets bloated and fat too fast
>always remain in the 13-16% bf range

>Naturally Strong, 100 bench
>375 pounds
You're not naturally strong, you're just fat.

I was a cunt well before any diagnosis
Legitimately considering joining a church to change myself

IKTFB. We all have dreams that we fuck with by wasting time, but some of us it hurts especially bad.

Resist games and leisure user. Force yourself to do the things you know you should do. Let your little voice dominate the situation once in a while. I can recall moments, specifically, where I have literally walked towards my work and then away from it several times before I finally mustered the strength to begin work. Those little internal battles... fight them and try to win. Even one victory can be huge.

Life is short and your time is almost up but it's not up yet. Let's both get up and handle our responsibilities user!

Pros
>Good facial aesthetics, genetics breddy gud
>fairly smart, do cybersec
>not a floormat anymore - got my confidence up and I stand up for myself

Cons
>5'6 (genetics were good but not that good)
>can't stop getting into political in discussions on the internet, will most likely slip up eventually and lose my job or some shit

>Body looking pretty good
>Nice hair and facial aesthetics
>blue eyes

Cons
>Chronic masturbator

What's your job user?
Also fav vidya?

Pros
>Great face
>Good shoulders
>Amazing gf

Cons
>Introverted as fuck
>5'8
>Can't do interviews for shit

Seriously how do I do an interview and not fucking choke or panic, phone or in person

Pros:
>Ottermode, but still impressive lifts considering age
>Mildly handsome
>Very social, easy-going, ladies man

Cons:
>Lazy as all hell
>Not that smart
>Low self-esteem cuz ex skelly

Pros
>6'3
>decent angular face
>mussels
>somewhat socially involved
>have job and go to school

Cons
>only had 1 gf and hated her
>haven't had sex in over a year
>angsty 19 year old who hates everyone
>known as the kid who threw up in a vase at a party

Dude 192-193 is seriously GOAT.

Proof: Michael Phelps is 193

t. 189 lanknave

suicide

Going to multiple interviews eventually made me stop putting them on such a pedestal. Eventually you kind of learn how to talk to them like they want you as bad as you want the job. You gotta mindfuck them so they think they're missing out if they don't hire you and that you'll take your skills and usefulness to a competitor

become a narcissist

Yeah I've been off accutane for 3 months now. The blemishes left over from acne is natural and will fade over time as long as you don't get anymore break outs. I suggest trying exfoliating to speed up the process.

You won't regret it.

Just remember people are hipocrytes, you are there for God. Disregard churchgoer drama.

How old are you?

pros
>6'3"
>look like literal chad
>154 iq
cons
>no ability to socialize without hard drugs

Pros
>I look handsome

Cons
>shitty habits
>boring character
>lanky
>no life direction
>porn addict

Pros:
>Eyes so beautiful I get lost in them
>Thunder thighs in the good way because track for years
>Easily motivated
>Great face
Cons:
>weak arms because only did track
>lost most of my gains after hs because depression
>anti social as fuck

Pros
>about to graduate college
>have a good job already and it might become full-time this year
>have a small set of really good friends

Cons
>khv at 24, literally don't know what to do about it anymore

Pros
> 6 foot 2
> buff
> above avg face structure and decent jawline
> nice hair can be styled any way
> my family is rich as fuck (8 figures rich)
> high IQ

Cons
> high IQ
> autistic
> nice girls never show interest in me
> avg cheekbones

>Pro 1
6'2"
>Pro 2
Actually relatively smart, usually do pretty well at anything I try (work, uni, etc...)
>Pro 3
I think I have a decent face, and never had trouble with acne or anything

>Con
None of this matters, as I legit am a harmless soyboy with no self confidence. I'm underpaid and a khv at 24.

I really have wondered why I turned out this way --i had a good upbringing, my parents are still together, I was never poor.

Sorry, I can't help but to toss out blackpills.

Thanks user!
It worked for you?
How long were you on it in total?

Pros
>Good at academics in general
>Handsome
>Built like a Fridge
>Good at making people laugh
>Strong
Cons
>5'10
>Virgin
>Horrible at talking to people
>Have piriformis syndrome which fucking blows
>Constant Depression and Anxiety issues leading to outbursts

Pros:
>6'2" for some reason this is a advantage for Veeky Forums
Cons
>neurotic
>dumb as brick
>fuck up a lot of things
>more feminine than masculine as a male
>make shit decisions
>currently fat
>has nothing to offer to girls to hook up
>things take forever to accomplish and sometimes they are discarded

I won't make it guys. I must live fucking 200 years to even finish the college and earn decent money. Not to mention be likeable to get a puss or get into something. I must be really retarded or have some syndrome.

Brain shat story, brainbro?

Why did you put Italian in the pros list m8?

he can make a mean sphaghet

Pros
>I'm getting better, my diet and workouts aren't perfect but it's definitely better
>finally hit lmao2pl8 diddly
>making decent social gains, people like spending time with me

cons
>my discipline is shit. it's getting better and i can usually keep it together but i can't stop myself from eating out on weekends
>I have no idea how to actually make social gains, or actually start being friends with people

Pros:
>somewhat extrovert, I make friends and talk to people easily
>finally down to 200 lbs from 310-ish and happy with my progress.
>extremely motivated to get 100 lbs more muscle.

Cons
>tfw no gf.

Pros
>6’4”
>above average facial features
>average 7 incher
>recently lost a tonne of weight so women are starting to notice me
Cons
>wide as fuck hips
>legs are too long

Nofap

Pros
>Good grades, will be making good money in the future
>People consider me funny

Cons
>Ugly face
>5'8
>OCD, Anxiety, Depression
>Non-existent self esteem
>KHV

Life is truly suffering when you lost the genetic lottery.

Pros
>having a job
>opened The Teal Man
>gay, no need for thots

Cons
>anxiety, depression, low self-esteem, can't keep social relationships, doesn't care about sex

What life to live
>kill me pls

Dude i benched 115lbs for couple reps first time i benched and deadlifted 265 lbs x 2 pretty much first time ever doing it at 145lbs myself when i was 15-16

Pros

> Great facial aesthetic, 9/10 thick hair everything
>6'0 GOAT height for aesthetic athelic look
> Gonna get shredded to summer, sick motivation

Cons
> No personality, cant keep a girl interested to save my life, looks fucking my life up the reverse way

Pros

>Not Awful Face
>Anglo-Saxon
> 7.75 inch cock
>Fast Sprints

Cons

>5,10
>6,2 Wingspan
>146 pounds
>Can barely bench 120
> Depressive tendencies

Pros:
>non-lanklet 6'8
>Proportional (Wide shoulders, Thin Waist)
>280~ lbs. 20-23% bodyfat
>pretty darn handsome not gonna lie
>Extremely loyal and generous fiance

Cons:
>Dead broke
>history of drug abuse and violence
>dick doesn't look proportional but its over 7 in. and >thick.
>Guilt. I have moments of impulsivity from drug abuse i think and act on T H O T S basically trying to rape me.

I work in NYC at a pretty well-known hedge fund

Battlefront II is all-time fav vidya, lately been playing a lot of TES, Witcher, etc.

Pros:
>6'7
>Good looking
>Good writer

Cons:
>Heavy into BDSM even though I don't want to be. Women just like being pushed around in bed.
>Broke
>Anxiety and Depression keep me in my room most days

Pros
>handsome
>good at a lot of things
>good at conversations

Cons
>pretty sure I have autism or some other mental deficiency that keeps me from seeing signals that girls give

Pros
>195cm, blond, good face
>smart, own 2 companies, still in law school, 24 yo
>confident

Cons
>terrible concentration/attention span/discipline

Not the dude u replied to but literally made a screenshot of your reply. Really struggle with this.

Pros
>6'2
>Good face (mostly)
>manual labor job, able to use my gainz
>Not an autist

Cons
>jew nose
>lanky
>waist too small, making my hips look big (shoulders are still broad though)
>can't grow beard
>get greasy way too easily if i don't wash frequently
>tfw no gf

Pros
>Straight teeth (Bong)
>The Big Penis
>>>Funny

Cons
>No discipline
>Just started lifting, finding it hard to keep routine

accurate for literally anyone who starts out thin and then gets into weightlifting.

anyone who had a remotely decent bench on starting was fat as hell

How hard are we talking about here

Pros:
> Cute
> Smart
> Good with girls

Cons:
> Manlet
> Potbelly
> Arm injury has been cucking my gains for 10 months
> Legs are different lengths

>>>>Funny
Alri, funny guy. Make me laugh

Pros:
5'11 and have lots of time left to grow
Revising much more frequently now
Good jaw

Cons:
5 word essay due tomorrow
Seriously though my con is that rn I weigh 126 pounds and I'm a DYEL

Pros
>curly hair I used to hate, but now appreciate
>have a job lined up after college
>going to hit the company gym consistently starting in June

Cons
>chubby cheeks that I just can't seem to get rid of, even at skeleton weight

You have the gay

Pros
>good facial aesthetics (strong chin)
>7 inch dick
>got a gf
>good job and dont live with parents
>dad went bald at 18 but I've still got a full head of hair

Cons
>5'8 manlet
>usually good socially but have random bouts of anxiety that make me look autistic
>scared to reveal fringe political views in social situations which ups the autism levels when friends/colleagues are debating

Pros
>intelligent
>good character & sense of humor
>from good families

Con:
>insecure when it comes to handling love and girlfriends, paranoid about them cheating or losing interest

Pros
>190cm
>decent face
>160IQ (according to mensa)
>pretty strong

Cons
>asocial, don't even use facebook
>have a few friends but rarely go out
>sit inside all day

Pros
>have hot and intelligent gf
>high IQ
>legit good person

Cons
>laziness gets in the way of accomplishing anything
>insecurity messes with everything

Pros
>Glorious thick long hair, look like a french sailor from the Napoleonic era (an acquaintance told me that)
>7.5" dick
>Interesting and unique career (oceanography)

Cons
>Will be king of the manlets in a few years time (185 cm)

Pros:
>6'0"
>People say I'm very good looking/big
>Not an aggressive cunt
>Good sense of humor
>Pretty intelligent

Cons:
>Plagued with mental illness: dysmorphia, terrible self esteem, anxiety, hyperactivity, obsessive, overthink and the works
>Sometimes sense if humor is too weird for normies

A girl I was hitting it off with really well for the last two weeks, she even asked me on a date for this weekend last Tuesday, just randomly texted me on Wednesday morning at 2am saying she thinks continuing further with me was a bad idea and would innevitably end badly.

obviously not mensa if you cant even fucking read 3 pros and 1 con

Pros:

>not manlet, but not tall either
>kind of good facial shape and 'pretty' eyes colorwise
>started lifting again after a few months of slacking and it feels fucking amazing

Cons:

>starting to bald at the back of my head and it's killing me, will shave it of in summer i think, had godlike hair from ~16 to 23
>weed addiction is crippling me to the point where i feel im close to a mental breakdown
and it's killing my endurance, i already dread the summer endurance runs
>no gf, ever, and slowly loosing faith that i will ever not end up a lonely fuck browsing imageboards
>very few friends, and the 2 i have are more autistic than I am
>always have dark shades under my eyes, either look tired or like a drug addict but it's genetics
>no active income, live off savings wich are running out rapidly
>slow progression at uni
>starting to suspect i might either be legit autistic or have aspergers
>the front teeth in my lower jaw are kind of crooked, upper jaw is all good so it's not noticable when i smile (which i rarely do)
but it's another thing im insecure about
>from years of smoking my teeth have become noticably more yellowish over the years and it's killing my confidence

So overall it's pretty fucked up.
The only reason i work out because i need to feel the pain.
Mentally it's sort of a punishment for myself, idk i have this inner need to just punish myself because i turned out so fucked up.
It's like everything up to my 21st Birthday was all good and it has been downhill ever since.
I hate myself for becoming such a degenerate low life.

Pros
>legit funny
>intelligent
>experienced in many fields, martial arts sports music filming ex-medic etc

Cons
>5'6

You fucking insolent mongoloid its one con split into 3

Pros

>medical student
>very good looking
>tall
>above average body

Cons

>autistic
>few friends

pros:
>6'4"
>Do BJJ
>Making progress

Cons:
>Virgin at 21, never been in relationship.