How to be more charming?

A few years ago I was a complete skelly looser who was afraid to talk to people. I'm rather ripped now, feel better about myself and became more confident. It made a huge difference in my life, I have plenty of friends, don't have problems with getting women etc etc.
Last week I was visiting my friend at Oxford. We went to a formal dinner in his college. Harry Potter like shit with medieval hall, paintings on walls and everyone suited up if you know what I mean. I still remember the one guy sitting near us who was entertaining everyone around for the whole time, he was cracking a joke from time to time or engaged everyone saying something more serious. People were all over him. While we had fun time too with my friend, I must admit that I still feel dull in comparison to this guy. I have my shit together, autist interests in my youth payed off in finishing uni with a good degree, I travel from time to time and read plenty of books. Nothing the guy was saying was particularly out of my league, however it seems to me that in social situations I can't connect really dots and be genuinely charming like this guy. It's not like I'm socially awkward any more, I can do fine in almost every situation but I'd like to jump onto next level. How to become more charming Veeky Forums? I'm not jealous of this lad, he really seemed like a nice dude, just want to improve.

Also: what's your favorite exercise?

Why is Jeff strangling that woman?

He’s flexing on these hoes

Because she likes it.

I like Jeff.

I'm happy she's happy.

Don’t take your interactions very seriously. Act aloof (I don’t mean stoic per se, more like you genuinely don’t give a fuck what she thinks) and entertained. That’s the heart of charm. Like you’re hanging out with a bratty kid sister.

Thanks coach wayne

>everyone suited up if you know what I mean

Wow I'm not sure if you could sound more like a prole.


Anyways a lot of it is in how you say things. But honestly so much of situational stuff with groups is hard to predict and comes down to how much people liked you before. If they're good friends with you already they'll listen more intently and laugh more.

History repeats itself