How to be more charming?

Practice. Don't be afraid to take risks or say something that might offend someone, it's how you figure out what works and what doesn't. People are attracted to other peoples rough edges, making a bad joke and taking it in stride humanizes you as well as providing a good lesson of what not to do. Force yourself into more social situations and actually engage with people, even if it seems awkward or disjointed at first, with time you'll start to pick up on subtle cues and hints on what you should do (connecting the dots, as you put it). Also, pay attention to other people, look at them when you talk, this is incredibly important, you can't gauge how people feel about you if you aren't directly looking at them when you speak. Even something as subtle as a slight movement in lips can communicate worlds. And above all, don't take yourself too seriously, again don't be afraid to make mistakes or say something stupid, that guy had to be a fool for a long time before he developed that charm, same for anyone else.

(((Goldblum)))

10/10

Wat

Suited up? Did you mean black tie or subfusc? I hate it when my classmates invite the plebs to my university.

Realise you don’t have to. Some people are social, some people aren’t. Why do you wanna be some monkey dancing around and entertaining people? Some people enjoy it, some don’t. You obviously don’t if you’re overthinking. You just want people’s validation don’t you? Who gives a fuck. Just input in conversations her and there or however much you’re comfortable. Most important thing is be confident. It’s the difference between appearing awkward/nervous vs chilled laid back guy.

Coach Corey Wayne. Pretty blue pilled but still points dudes in the right direction. His ex back strategy is simply the best.

Don’t listen to someone like Corey Wayne or most you tubers who are trying to sell you shit. They’re doing it for he money. Listen to advice from people who aren’t trying to sell you shit. Someone like joe Delaney for example

what's the point of that pic? What did author mean by this?

While you read the books, he understood them

Jews gonna jew

It's from an elementary school book of the third reich. It showed the kids how the jews behaved and why they were expelled from germany. One of the reasons is they manage prostitution and are known for raping women

I haven't given Corey Wayne a dime. His principles and basics are really easy to remember and I recommend them to anyone.

truly the chadest race, while we failed for equal rights meme jews treat women as they should

Funny because their women invented the equality meme to begin with

My dick...uh...uhh.. finds a way

That’s not the point. He still sells books or boot camps which his videos are basically ads for. I’m glad if it’s helping you be more confident but there’s better information out there. Why do you wanna listen to some bald old guy telling you how to be social? Listen to someone you relate with. Maybe you’re a lot older and more similar to Corey Wayne? I just assume you’re 16-21 like most guys here

I'm 27. I return to 'pickup' sources and other stuff every now and again when I break up with a girl or am having other issues. I guess I can't really argue that he is selling his products and is profit driven. I like him because he is slightly blue pilled and none of what he says about women ever pisses me off. I think my problem is that I hate women but still wanna fuck them.

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>you don't have to

False. Socializing is the only place in which you can actually get objectively "mogged."

fucking kikes man

feminism for OTHER RACES
not for jewish women!

How the fuck do you know if that's not just some /pol/ autist who was on wiki editing spree adding only nationality to jewish feminists?

Ah alright buddy, it makes sense then. Whatever works for you. Just don’t turn into a pussy begging simp. Women just ain’t worth it. Most of PUA content is a cancerous scam

What is your point? Are you dumb? You sound like one of those tryhard guys who thinks everyone likes you but in reality everyone is talking shit behind your back.

Yeah, just take a look at "Category:Feminists by nationality" to see how off are these numbers comparing to feminists without any specified religion.
Inb4 go away Shlomo. /pol/ please leave this board.

Dunno where the animosity is coming from. I'm saying that as someone who recognizes how much more humiliating it is to get upstaged in conversation than in any other way because I've been there. Chill out bro

>Like you’re hanging out with a bratty kid sister
this actually seems like really good advice

Idk your comment russled my jimmies a bit. I don’t know what you were trying to say. You’re humiliated because for some reason you think because you’re not the centre of attention that’s somehow embarrassing. That’s all in your head. I’ve known guys who really don’t say much in a conversation but they’re smiling and engaged, being positive and this brings good vibes and you like having them around. Most important thing is feeling comfortable.

me on the left

Just be straight forward. That's all there is to it. It's only creepy if a skelly or neckbeard does. You just have to be attractive and its considered charming.

You're really underestimating how bad it can look to be too quiet or out of the loop at the wrong time. Sure, you can be comfortable through it all but people (read, women) WILL think less of you if they ever catch you looking like an outsider.

True. I get the point you’re trying to make. Don’t worry so much about how it looks to the outside though. You sound quite neurotic, just try to relax. You don’t have to talk a lot to be charismatic or charming or whatever, just have to make others feel good around you. You do this by being positive

Jeff uh uh finds a way

Poser

>you sound quite neurotic

Funny, I was thinking the same about you. I'm just trying to give the young lads some advice and you come out swinging.

fucking jews

>False. Socializing is the only place in which you can actually get objectively "mogged”

You call that giving advice/being helpful? Refute what I said, tell me what you disagree with. Don’t come at me telling me what I’m saying is incorrect with no point, just use of a meme word. It’s like now I make a point, you ignore it and come back with nothing constructive just belligerence.

i am like that guy you mentioned except i cant seal the deal with chicks. i'm cursed m8s tho i hope to make it one day

He probably knew the people he was engaging with. Being familiar with people, ie years of friendship, develops a level of rapport that can't be simulated.

My advice is this: cultivate your friendships, put in effort into knowing the people around you, be honest, be vulnerable, enjoy their company and they'll return the favor

Women arent charmed by someone repeating an action or phrase they read about on Veeky Forums. They are charmed by legitimate, deliberate acts that are "you."

Maybe, but let's assume that you are at a party where you know barely anyone.

its a skill you have to learn. you were too busy being a weird faggot to learn it. its not too late, but youre probably too much of a pussy to get there.

just be attractive 2bh

Lol. But that’s just not true in the real world

i know that type,combine that charming personality with a pretty face and you get Chad.
The only people who can achieve that level of confidence and charm are those who have no insecurities and they are relaxed all the time,they dont remember what feeling nervous is like.
Chad gets to that level because he is super handsome and smart and cool,non chads get there by not giving a fuck but having self awareness

>asking Veeky Forums how to be charming

that's like asking x how to be thing that is opposite of x

They just show up tbqh. Like 5 daughters by just going to the beach.

lel. How does something like pic related happen? Like what does chad say to make it happen?

I've observed in life that women will lose interest in men who they notice looking like an outsider in a social situation, even if they were into the guy before, and that this is magnified if they've been drinking. I can do nothing else but repeat myself since this is all anecdotal.

>meme word
Yeah it's called speaking the dialect. Mark Twain would be disappointed.

Have you met current Jews? Jewish millennials fell for the memes their parents made harder than anyone. I've never met a Jewish girl that wasn't an absolute whore.

Yet your use of the word has no meaning in this context, so go easy on the word play Shakespeare.

What has women got to do with anything that’s been said here? You’re projecting the fact that your entire life revolves around getting women onto OP and desu that makes me feel quite bad for you. I can’t imagine being at a social event walking on my tiptoes because I don’t want some Stacy to think I’m uncool. You even said that you speak from experience so I’m guessing you’re not very competent socially or at least weren’t. Like I said in the other post just relax and it will all be fine.

This is the last (you) you’re getting from me.

The weak must fear the strong.

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We don't do that. There is no need since National Socialism is built around the truth and evidence proving it. We've never had to lie unlike you others.

charisma does not equal social skills. charm is mental speed. smart people are simply more interesting even if they dont try and are bad at socializing. most people are dumb and uninteresting.

Read books
Find a hobby or two, dedicate yourself to them
Read books about PUA but don't believe it all, form your own opinion and try certain things out, whatever fits your natural personality (I.e I am naturally shy/quiet so when I would go out and hit on chicks I would play closer to my elements rather than fake the loud outgoing type)
Most of all, never be afraid of your opinion but also be open and consider when you're wrong

Charm is just caring about what other people say. The difference is that when you interact with people you are just doing it to move the conversation along

I'm a narcissist and have been told by numerous girls that I'm "charming", it's because I care enough (for their supply). Once you begin to care you can make connections and aren't afraid to share

What a brainlet.

I'm not funny anymore.

I college the only way I got anywhere with girls was making them laugh. But my job basically just consists of mindless data entry and reading about nuclear payloads. I just can't summon the humor anymore.

>tfw doing PhD and hence doing long hours every day
>tfw organized enough to find time for boxing or lifting every day in week
>tfw spending the scarce remaining amount of time to get into investing and quantitative research in the case I won't get a job in academia after my PhD
>tfw would fucking love to read more and find more social hobbies but idk I'd need to start doing coke or nootropics to do so
>tfw feeling dull at every social interaction since I don't won't to bore ppl with my work or my outcast hobbies so I just listen to them or talk general nonsense

Tell me Veeky Forums is there more to life? It seems like I have my shit together and do everything right, however I'm getting depressed more and more with all of that. I have a feeling that I'm postponing my life to non-existent future and someday I will woke up just understand that "that was it, the life is over". Is there any life for a men after his twenties? Were these cool kids who didn't go to college after high school and instead travelled around the world living often shitty but seemingly exciting life right from the beginning? Was I memed into some middle class aspirations? Feelsbadman brothers 2bh :^(.

pic related, I daydream more and more these days about a war to drop all that shit

Don't say and do things that turn her off

I don't think he's blue-pilled, he just says things in such a way to not offend people's sensibilities.

I just dropped out of a masters program to be a Marine officer. The only thing I'm worried about is losing time on starting a family. I'd wanted to do that before I was 30.

If you're that smart, no one will judge you for fucking off out of academia and living however you want.

>I think my problem is that I hate women but still wanna fuck them.

Welcome to the male condition. Even when I don't hate them I still don't like them. Women are easy to love but extremely hard to like.

Aren't you afraid that after a few months, once the initial excitement will pass, being a Marine officer will also become just a mundane, dull job?

Ah, I believe now that I misread your post. I'm not from US. My country is not involved in any conflict, so army seems really like another 7-15 job.

>bratty sister
Only child, please help
>aloof but not stoic
Does that mean smile more or keep up the smile even after they’ve turned away?

Go to Oxford, or better yet, Cambridge.
That’s basically what you learn to do over 3-4 years

t. incel loser who transitioned into social butterfly

The Kurds are always looking for fresh, Veeky Forums bodies. As long as you don't mind supporting a weird inbred communo-tribal ethnic sect, you can be part of the foundation of a new country and get all the associated perks. Or you could end up a smear on a sidewalk. Either way, you can be the new Hemingway.

If you are thinking of some elaborate chaddery or some top tier "game", then you are going down the wrong path with it.

Most women default to submissive. In most environments, a woman will react in compliance as a default when being told what to do by a man, or somebody they perceive as authoritative or strong. Generally speaking, if a woman likes a man, she'll do pretty much anything he asks with a smile, as long as she feels appreciated or gets the attention she needs.

Add in alcohol, social status and looks and I bet you all he had to say was something along the lines of "Hey. Stacy, Becky, come here and bend over in the sand I'm about to take a sick photo"

Oh FFS.

Treat women like walking punchlines basically. Give off a vibe of “Aww, the retard is trying to act like an adult”. But not in a malicious way.

Take a genuine interest in people. Even a full person has some strange experiences. A good rule is to follow FORM. Family, occupation, recreation, message (purpose, life goals, etc.).

You need to develop a magnetic personality if you want to connect with and attract people to you. Go layer by later. I'll give you an example of how most conversations go when I'm meeting new people:

>"Hi, I'm user, what's your name?"
They'll respond
>"Do you work in the area?" Or "Are you from around here?" Or "Have family in the area?"
Be engaged and interested in what people tell you and they will think you're magnanimous and interesting yourself
>"What do you do for fun?"
>"How long have you been doing that?"

People like talking about themselves and they like being complimented about their own decisions and interests. You'll find that once you've connected with someone, they'll laugh at your jokes more easily, they'll be interested in what you have to say, and they'll defer to you because to them, you will appear not only confident, but someone who has influence.

Not sure if this helped or made sense but I wish you luck my friend

start flirting with older women, learn all the women tricks and apply them to the younger girls, and if that fails at least you get home cooked meals and made a woman geniuenly happy

isn't everyone already do this automatically to someone they find interesting?
is the real red pill that you can't be charming to everyone?

Jeff Goldblum is the only Jew I like. He has transcended what it means to be human.

Jeff Goldblum is not only a genius, but fearless and charismatic. I wish I could be too.

Girls were probably trying to make a pyramid like girls like to do at this age chad wanted to play too so he just laid across them and did this pose. Not that crazy desu

I have nothing in my bio

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pls post your profile, i need to see what you have that i don't

Why do you think you're such a high achiever?
What motivates you?

i think im starting to become chad charming. but i still choke sometimes. happens very seldom now though
only ottermode, 5'10

charm isn`t about being smart. it`s about being relentless.

think of the dumb people you know who say the stupidest shit, even their friends know they`re dumb but somehow PEOPLE STILL LIKE THEM. every workplace has a fag or two who is dumb as a brick, but the simple fact he talks non-stop works in his favor.

being able to talk without gaps is a helpful skill but you can be charming while talking very little, you just have to be congruent and consistent. I struggle with this, as I often drop back into worrying and second-guessing.

as an aside, I know two guys who are the chadiest of chads at work. women love them so much they take pictures of them secretly and post on instagram (not even joking). those two guys are the type who will talk about random subjects with ease and women will eat it all up. one of them dates the hottest girl at work. and yet, both of them are very reverential to me and often talk about how other guys are too buddy-buddy with them and how fags try to become friends with them and they hate it.

one of them (picture brian from fast & furious)was telling me how when I look at their friends they actually get scared of me. he was telling me he tries to look `tough` but people still approach him to chat anyway. I try to have a `jason statham` look, talk a lot less than they do and I lift more than they do, so I obviously look imposing to them. but man I have a hard time balacing that persona with dating and approaching women. the quiet type only works on older women around here. I get lots of daddy`s girls hovering around but they can`t deal with anything but talkative guys who get drunk at 3 bars in a row. it`s weird, like they don`t know what they want.

actual good advice

wrong

Fake it till you make it, retards on here are too scared to even try

>fake it
>will fail, obviously
>traumatised and get even more anxious
KYS

>be shut-in virgin for his whole life
ok good strat