>be me
>meet a gym qt and become work out buddies
>have great chemistry and really feeling the connection
>seeing eachother for 4 months
>her friends tease me to seal the deal
>other day she tells me she has bf for 3 yrs
im not even angry or sad bruhs i just feel cold
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>just feel cold
Embrace the empiness.
>im not even angry or sad bruhs i just feel cold
boy you just summarized how i have been feeling the last year, be strong bruh
you're her backup dude, every woman has them
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>girl has guy friends while in a relationship
end it
What's the problem? You obviously weren't making a move anyway.
Newsflash: You can still be friends with women without fucking them. You might _want_ to fuck them, but that's on you.
Mever works out, either I fuck them in the end or they fall in love with me which is fucked.
>>seeing eachother for 4 months
wtf dude, get the number within 10 minutes
call/text that day just to say hi blah blah
date that night or next
probably bone that night as well, only hold off til 3rd date if you think there might be some actual feelings and possibility of a relationship
Came here to post this. You're basically the guy she's courting to replace her current guy once she gets bored of him.
Then when you get in with her and start grilling her over the stupid shit she constantly does, she'll start courting another guy to replace you.
i have a few girl friends but its diff when you feel like you were led on
He's probably the type of guy who's always a "friend" and doesn't really get how it works.
youre right i dont get it user how do i change
Dont worry , a shoulder to cry on
quickly becomes a cock to ride on
If you're friend zoned constantly then odds are you're ugly and the best you can do is lift some weights and stop being a fucking doorstep.
>Cat missing for 5 days. He's never been gone more than 2 hours before
>BF of 2+ years moving out and breaking up next week
>On the verge of crying constantly
>Just trying to keep it together
>Have runway gig in 2 months so have pretty much tunnel-vision with only that in mind so I don't go crazy
>Keep pushing myself with my morning routines and so motivated to have my diet go well
>Feel like it's the only thing I have under control at the moment
>When everything around me feels like it's falling apart I just try to keep myself strong, rational and mature
>So I haven't been very touchy feely, just really stoic and logical about everything
>Get accused of being a heartless bitch because I just don't have any emotional sympathy to spare rn
>Just so fucking sad
>But even more so just really fucking sick of feeling sad
>I just wanna be my happy self again
>Can't wait for this fucked week to be over
she saw you as a friend since the first day, what made you think she wanted to ride your dick
seriously /fit ego is too damn high
tits or gtfo
if no tits:
Lads how do I flirt using snapchat? I've got my dream girl snapping me but how do I make sure not to fuck up
>good life on paper
>good job
>good friends
>hobbies and fitness going well, still a dyel faggot but I exercise 2 hrs a day 6 days a week
>contemplate suicide daily
>feel like I'm not doing enough and have no motivation to do things, just mindlessly go through motions of self improvement
>broke up with manipulative and emotionally abusive ex-fiance 10 months ago, still unraveling the damage she did to my self esteem
>porn addiction back in full force, really fucked up shit
>happy and social on the outside, unfeeling and dead on the inside
I have the emotional state of an edgy teen. All I want is a wholesome qt to connect and be happy with. At the same time I can't complain because I literally have the best life out of everyone I know. It takes everything I've got not to drink myself to death every night - the only thing stopping me is the fact that I need to work the next day. I know that the only thing stopping me from finding a qt is the fact that I'm dyel, this keeps me motivated to get big.
I actually got a girl's number from the gym, what the fuck do I do. I sent her a snapchat request and she didn't respond
Snap her interesting shit from your life every now and then and when you're free invite her to hang out.
I have a positive/negative feel combo
>have an athletic decathlon of sorts in order to establish pick priorities in a draft league I'm in with my friends
>despite having a history of sporting as well as my dad representing the country in cricket(I know), a few of the other guys are the "front runners"
>end up throwing a ball the furthest, kicking a ball the furthest, hitting a ball the furthest, saving more penalty kicks etc etc. and coming in first
>later on a few of the guys gf's say "wow I wouldn't have expected you to win at all"
feels good winning as the underdog, feels bad being seen as the underdog though
>Snap her interesting shit from your life every now and then
>interesting shit from your life
....yeah, let me get on that...
Tbh this sounds like a guy who can have girl friends and girlfriends but sometimes you’re get wired crossed. Happens OP, dw bout it, keep at it, sorry it sucks :/
Why did it surprise you that she has a BF?
It be like that sometimes user
she never mentioned it before and her friends were telling me to make it official with her thanks kind user
pets
cooking
parks
errands (while boring, they show you handle chores)
what you're reading
any non-chain restaurants you go to for lunch
NEVER anything gym related UNLESS she sends you a snap of her at the gym first
>>/b/
>talk with my dad
>tells me I need therapy since I'm so self-destructive
>start up car to drive around
>need an oil change
>won't start at all
>can't drive back home this weekend to see friends
>try 10 times
>give up and head back to dorm
>check around looking for phone charger
>ants are now in my dorm
>live in my own mess
>was almost out of this shitty place
>could've been back at my comfy job and working full time to save up money
>that would've forced my parents to accept that their son isn't fit for their uppity liberal arts school
>wouldn't be ruining my body with shitty food that comforts me during stressful periods
>would be lifting and working on those financial gainz
>mfw I'm at this shithole for another 10 weeks
Yes, I know that I allow this shit to perpetuate and that I'm a spineless faggot with no discipline. Sometimes shit just fucks with me like you wouldn't imagine.
Lads I need some unqualified advice.
My gf spends the night 3-4 times per week and I'd like more time to myself. Is there a polite way to say "I want to see less of you"? It's a difficult conversation to have.
>snapchat
Text her, better yet phone her and move fast before she forgets.
>fugged thot at her uni dorm when away for a weekend
>gave me her number beforehand
>had to get her to let me out of dorm to check out
>haven't texted or anything for two weeks
>going back to same city next week
>other plates potentially need checking too
When do i message her? On the Fri/Sat night later on at night or try and get her to meet up beforehand?
Go watch Dr. Peterson's lectures, faggot.
No fucking dick pics
Dude you gotta think like them. Just say "I'm busy these nights". Make up an excuse.
Like just say "hey, just come over on weekends and Sunday night, sometimes I can't sleep during work week".
Something like that. It's magic you gotta really think about your spell casting.
and so OP began his slow decent into becoming a faggot.
Who else is /miserable/ here and Lifting can’t help?
>be socially autistic, fat, and depressed most of my life
>start lifting in high school
>lifting fixes all of this for me
>get to the point where I’m a high tier normie in college
>nearly a chad
>date girls but don’t feel a real emotional connection with any of them
>Meet a girl and fall hard for her like no one else.
>things are going well seems she’s into to me.
>Drops on me today that because she’s Pakistani Muslim and since I’m not we could never actually be together.
>she’s probably gonna have an arranged marriage to some shit head muslim dude
> can’t lift my way out of this one
I don’t want to go back to tinder sluts bros. I want her.
However on a happier note, I’m switching to StrongLifts 5x5 so I can try to break my plateaus so I got that going for me. Is it as good as people say it is?
>hey I've got a couple of rough weeks/months ahead of me at work, and I really want to give it my all. Why don't you spend the night here on Friday and Saturday and let me tackle my work week.
There, you've got her for two nights when you should be itching to do something. Also schedule a couple lunch dates a week just to see her.
>inb4 unemployed
then you should just kys
>paki
>muslim
How desperate do you have to be to want to be in a relationship with that.
What are you ethnically and religiously?
Thanks! I'm bad at this sort of thing.
I broke up with my ex nearly 3 years ago and still haven't dated anyone or even met a qt that I could see myself with. I'll be 30 later this year and am starting to give up hope. I have a job that I hate where I haven't received a significant raise in 4 years, and lifting is really the only thing keeping me hopeful and keeping me from putting a 12 ga. slug through my brain. Or would buckshot do the job better?
neither
keep lifting
turn in your two weeks tomorrow, start your new job search this weekend
ignore the whores, try your damnedest to forget your ex
get two new hobbies and get a pet
focus on improving yourself
I dunno just kind of happened I guess. I don’t care about race all that much unlike a lot of Veeky Forums.
White and raised Catholic, I don’t practice though.
Ask her out you faggot. Don’t even waste your time talking to her over the internet.
underage pls go
men and women cannot be friends without one of them being in unrequited love you phaggot
>oneitis in a failing relationship with a fuccboi
>tells me she's had a lot of boyfriends and they've all lied or cheated or what have you
Girls like her make me jaded and this whole situation makes me uncomfortable.
Women are like monkeys. They don't let go of a branch until they have a firm grip around a new branch.
and yet she's still your oneitis?
I'll be 28 later this year and I am still a KV so I am hoping I shed the cowardice and become an hero by the time I am 30. lostallhope.com is interesting
bro, turn your heart into stone and make your body into a Greek sculpture
She's literally the most relatable human being I have ever met, when I don't connect to 99% of anybody I meet. It's a shit situation, yes.
>bday party tomorrow
>worried it might be disappointing
this is what I do personally but I dont know if it works for others. Dont think about not fucking up and dont talk with dating in mind. You'll try to appear your best but you might mess up then. Just take a deep breath and be the calm, normal you
>underageb& worried about his birthday party nearly kills the thread
christ almighty
then they aren't your friends you dumbass.
This guy knows exactly what the fuck he is talking about and has obviously had experience with women.
Met a girl at Uni a month ago, no same classes, we just started talking a lunch.
We hit it off, got her number, I asked her out, and she said she wasn't interested in dating but wanted to be friends.
Weirdest shit in the world.
>plates
consider suicide
Do you guys enjoy what you do for a living or are you just doing it so you can get by in life?
>plates
I don't understand
I feel like either time moves to fast or I move too slow. Don't know but it's hard to stay on top of everything
I've been dealing with some pretty gnarly nightmares that have been fucking with my sleep lately and may have roots from my time in the service. They're never related or have anything to do with the military, they just spook the living shit out of me and I can't sleep afterwards. Apparently a new malaria drug we took when we were on deployment may have something to do with it, my friends are all telling me they're experiencing the same thing.
Life sucks when you're life is starting to look like the plot of Jacob's Ladder, anyways here's a nightmare I recently had
>be innadream
>only remember being in a familiar apartment
>mom and bro are there, everything is dimly lit
>walk up to coffee table, see a Polaroid picture there
>pic it up, its a picture of my cousin (and best friend when we were kids) as a toddler
>except there's some demonic as fuck face with glowing eyes and teeth floating behind him
>feel this horrible feeling of pure fear looking at it
>feel sick to my stomach with fear looking at it
>drop it, remember mom picks it up and shrugs before putting it down
>mumbles something about my cousin and me worrying about him again
> look at it on the table, paralyzed with fear again
>look up see dad walk in, look at picture again and feel the fear again
>wake up, can't sleep thinking about that fucking face
What do you guys think?
>my friends are all telling me they're experiencing the same thing
youtube.com
probably not true, its probably just chance and most people will be relatable if you are exposed to them enough and in the right way. although what do I know.
>hurt my sternum
>tfw just lift edging on Veeky Forums
Bitch shut up.
if anyone is following her bf and her and broken up in the summer and i was just the inbetween guy from then until now
why are women so cruel
Fucking hell bro, you waited that fucking long? You were better off asking her out after like a few weeks max so the pain would be less severe.
But yeah, that sucks. Chin up and move on brother.
Go for it.
Snap her and say “let’s go out.” And then make plans don’t ask what she wants to do. Sometimes I wonder how you people function in there world.
I'm glad you're suffering, I hope it gets worse
>her friends tease me to seal the deal
>other day she tells me she has bf for 3 yrs
user.........
Why do women get so attached to cats? Seriously my mom went apeshit when the cat escaped for like one hour
Small time. I died in 2010. Lifting is the only thing that ignites the fire in my belly. I lift to Wagner as I envision Ragnarok.
You're probably just making excuses to justify having a fixation on this absolutely unremarkable female.
Owned.
Toxoplasmosis parasite.
>me and gym buddy hanging out few days ago
>talking about how much you’d need to lift to take “x animal” in a fight
>buddy makes a joke about cougars being the most dangerous animal
>I nudge his shoulder and say “like your mom” and laugh
>he laughs it off but says his brother would bury me for saying that
He hasn’t talked to me in a few days, and recently kicked me from his clans in multiple vidya games. I don’t think I have a gym buddy anymore lol, worst part is I deserve these feels. Just end me brehs.
>find a good boyfriend, everything is going great
>question the relationship in the beginning but grow to like him more and more
>things going well
>meet his brother
>instant chemistry and fireworks
>insane crush on boyfriend's brother, find myself distancing myself from my bf and thinking about his brother all the time.
JUST.
>He hasn’t talked to me in a few days, and recently kicked me from his clans in multiple vidya games
Mate it doesn't sound like a great loss... he can't even take a little bit of banter.
Fuck his mum, you've got nothing to lose mate
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Kys roastie
>gets salty about a "your mom" joke
What a fag
I've been making jokes like this to my childhood friends for years, constantly talk about how we want to shag certain peoples parents because they're fit and they just laugh it off
>talk with a girl a couple of days ago
>before that we've really talked only two times
>have a crush on her
>"Let's go for a coffee on Friday or Saturday. What do you think?" I ask her
>"I'll think about it", she says
How bad is this? Does is mean "I wanna say no, but don't want to sound too harsh", or "I'm genuinely assessing the situation and making up my mind about going out with the guy I don't know too well"? Is there still hope?
I squatted 2pl8x5 for the first time today and I feel like I could actually make it someday
Move on breh.
But - fucking good job for having the balls to ask. Move onto the next girl. Good luck.
>be me 20 yo college junior
>haven't had friends since freshman year
>doesn't mater don't need them, just have to get stronger
>been lifting for 3 years
>over winter break when i was back at home my little brother who is kinda chuby and completely unathletic (8th grade) wanted to go to the gym with me
>thought it would be funny to put him on my routine knowing he wouldn't be able to do a 3 hour arm day
>the little guy does it (light weights of course)
>he goes with me for the rest of winter break
>constantly correcting his form giving him tips on diet ect
>he continues and is now the most popular kid in middle school he tells me
>im back at college now and he got a gf and is joining the weight lifting club when he goes to highschool
I'm so proud of him, he's gonna be the me I should have been
>have cute girl into me
>i can never think of anything interesting to talk to her about so just ignore her
every bloody time, lads
Similar happened to me at umass amherst. Started watching Peterson lectures.
>Worrying about fucking up
You have already failed
Ask her to tell interesting things about herself, inquire further about whatever she brings up that interests you.
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Thanks for posting, this inspired me to message a girl that's into me. I can't count the amount of times I've ignored girls who've showed interest in me just because I'm shy and can't make a move, enough so that my friends call this "pulling an user". Can't give you any real advice but good luck man.
fuck his mom