Feels Thread

I posted this in the other thread but my absolute most rock bottom moment was dropping off the girl that I had been orbiting at some baseball playing Chad's house. This was almost a decade ago and I still break into a cold sweat thinking about it. That was the moment I decided to make some changes in my life and I've never fallen into the beta orbiter trap since.

I'm 25 and have beta moments that haunt me from when I was 13-17.

If it weren't for those moments nothing would be pushing me towards a lmao6pl8 diddly.

Pretty sure he was complimenting your kicks. Do you wear black people sneakers?

Yeah, pretty much. Guess we need those experiences in life in order to harden us.

>tfw tendonitis hasn't healed
>tfw so does your feelings for your oneitis

Brehs I have a lovely gf, but I can't get my oneitis out of my head. Sure, my gf and I have problems, but we're working on it.

We've been on a long dry spell. I most nights thinking about my gf. I just don't know if I'm attracted to my gf anymore. Sometimes when she leans in to kiss me, I just feel like it's wrong. And i've known my oneitis for a while. I dream about her.

I dreamt about the feeling of her head resting on my shoulder, the way her hair feels on my cheek, and the way she holds onto my arm.

Fuck

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I'm the idiot always asking girls on tinder if they want massages. One of them actually said yes, telling me she was very horny, but I didn't check it until like 6 hours later. Opportunity quite possibly blown.

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Honestly user, if you were dating your oneitis right now, you'd probably have similar feelings after a while. You've idealized her in your mind but if you were to actually date her you'd realize she has flaws just like everyone else.

So what would be the best course of action in your opinion?

lol

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I like to take a possibly more negative viewpoint: 100% self confidence makes people lazy.

There's a quote from Scrubs (fuck that gay show), Dr. Cocks regarding the gym: "once you look in the mirror and are happy, that's when you've lost"

If I was happy with a 4pl8 deadlift I would never push hard enough to get to 4 or 6 plates. If I was happy with 16" arms I'd never push hard enough to get to 18".

>feels thread
ok.
broke up with gf of 3 years about an hour ago.
sad, but overall fine.
I half cried for a second but that was it.

Not really sure what to tell you but it doesn't sound like you're compatible with your current girlfriend. The best thing to do would be to break things off because it seems pretty obvious that staying in a relationship is a waste of time for both of you.

>be third wheel all the time growing up
>with parents
>with brother and his girl
>with friends and they all have girls
>coworker wants to hang out
>"oh hey mind if my wife comes?"
>cancel plans
>he gets butt hurt
Never again

Maybe you'll be okay but my reaction to my breakup was similar... until a few months down the line when I would break into tears at random times and felt completely empty inside.

That's a hard pill to swallow, user. Thank you though. I have no idea what I'm going to do rn but I'll take your advice into consideration.

Thanks man

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well
let's hope that doesn't happen to me.

>not jerking yourself off to fit in
Lmao no wonder they didnt like you

Didn't tip someone

Its starting to bother me since they really wanted a tip

>bear and tiger are friends
We are fucked.

We're all g-gonna m-make it bros

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>housemate/best friend has had girlfriend for a few months
>she's here almost every fucking day
I really need a woman of my own. It gets to the point where I don't wanna hang out in my living room anymore because they're always out there. It's a small complaint, but sometimes I hate that they make me feel like a third wheel in my own home.

I didn't have a car in high school, nor a gf

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>be in high school
>at a party
>met this chick
>get on really well
>shes bretty cute
>we're sitting out the back talking
>fall into silence
>she strokes me leg while staring into my eyes
>my m8 comes out and tells us he found his dad's vodka
>i go inside with him
I was so fucking dumb.

idk that feel but i knew it a long time ago
life ends at 22

This is right. If you don't love her now, waiting another year isn't going to help. You're just wasting your own time, as well as hers, being less than happy in a relationship. Cut it off, and start moving on.

>just broke up with high school gf
>invite slightly less attractive girl from my school to a "teens only" night at a night club downtown
>she's completely in love with me but idrc
>mom drops us off at night club (lol)
>start dancing with thicc wavy haired pale white girl, 5'7"ish in booty shorts
>prolly like 15, starts twerkin on my dick
>make out with her from behind, she grabs my dick over my pants
>new song comes on, she tells me her friend wants to dance with me
>5'2" with a tan and straight black hair, thin
>make out with her also
>songs ends and I whisper something in her ear and go get a red bull at the bar
>thinking to myself how alpha I am for making out with two chicks in one night, haha fuck you, ex-gf
>her and her friend pass me on the way to the bathrooms, im leaning with my back against the bar
>they both stroke my dick and smile at me as they pass
>they pause at the entrance to the bathrooms
>pat myself on the back for getting mired so clearly
>one year later realize they wanted to have a threesome in the bathroom
>mfw could have slayed two prime high school thots in a bathroom but was too retarded to know what was going on
>girl I came with tries to dance with me all night, ignore her too

why am I such a fucking retard

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>29yo virgin now
>always shyed away from potential relationships our of fear that my mother or my self would ruin it
>started a long distance relationship (HAH) with a girl I met online when highschool ended
>made a promise to see her
>then punked out at every chance I had
>justt to make my mother 'happy'
>after 4 years, LDGF stops talking to me
>I turned into a weeping, bitter faggot
>dodging more potential relationships
>just to 'figure it out'
>this goes on for 2 more years
>then I clicked on Veeky Forums

If you think I'm sad, you'd be wrong. I'm still fucking furious at myself. I don't know what the next step is, but I've been fighting myself and my imagination not to talk to that girl. And the anger towards my mother has slowly turned into contempt, wearing pity as a mask.

>25 degrees
Fucking pathetic. You southerners are an absolute stain on this earth. 25 degrees is fucking shorts weather you thin skinned inbred manlet. 25 degrees is barbeque and picnic weather. Call me when you get below -20°F and maybe just maybe we can start to talk.

Op is so autistic it makes me wanna cry

I had a car obviously. No gf. I never even knew her name, it just happened.

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im in love

Fucking brutal wow holy shit. But if it makes you feel any better user this reminded me of one time I almost did the same thing but with another guy on a girl (girl’s idea) my freshman year of college. My one gift is my huge dick so I mostly regret not being able to btfo the girl’s bf. feels GARBAGE man

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>tfw never had a real girlfriend
>tfw turning 20 yr old virgin
>tfw i dont even get likes on tinder
>tfw lost contact with friends from secondary school
>tfw no direction in life and dont know what i want

at least im progressing in the gym for once

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Weird... I also do those retarded things. Everything in how the girl acts tells me "I want to fuck" and I'm like, "yeah I find you hot too" and go on with whatever I stupidly decided to do.

Worst thing is when you realize 5 mins later and wonder if you are not properly retarded.

Trying really hard to suppress whatever is making me do that.

>go to the night club every weekend.
>Go by myself cause none of my friends or family says its their thing, But i like to dance so fuck it.
>im not a bad looking guy, but im chubby fat (was Veeky Forums approved but feel into depression after a messy divorce and gained 50 lbs. BUT THATS ANOTHER FUCKING STORY)
>girls on the level i used to talk to now give me the "shes a lesbian" or another shitty excuse.
>basic bitches give me some attention but i have shit for confidence now cause i gained so much weight
>mostly end up dancing alone every night while i watch chads and nigs hook up with all the girls.
>so fucking sick of being rejected. especially knowing what i used to be.

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You are in the spiral, man. Whatever place you go to is not working for how you are currently.
The only way out is to get out of it and find another hunting ground. Fuck the dancing, do it when you have a girl to do it with.

Go to festivals? Or food meetups? A place where you'd have better odd?

> also, I'm that nig hooking up while you are dancing alone

aint none of that where i live honestly and if it is then i dont know about it. Where i live we have a few casinos and a beach and thats where everyone my age goes to hang out. If not then its redneck bars and shit. Been out of my home town for 10 years and now just coming back cause i got out of the military.

I agree with you though. im in a spiral. Im just getting back on Veeky Forums to try to pull me out of it.
Fell out of working out as much cause around the military that shit is a meme, people only go to the gym for social status reasons aside from stay fit for duty.

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You will find a proper hunting ground, one is probably looking at you right under your noise. Just have to open your eyes and properly look.

work on your career, your body, etc. you'll turn it around