Have any of you had a girlfriend that takes offense to everything you say unless you use kid gloves constantly? Is this just all girls? Every girl I've been with has been like this
Have any of you had a girlfriend that takes offense to everything you say...
Fuaark sauce ma nigga
have trap gf
she understands me completely
Haha looser you feel for the cis girl meme
Last gf was very much like this.
Current gf is not at all like this. Much, much better.
So your gay? Have you told your family? Do they support you?
No not really. We joke about most things together, or if we have differing views just talk about whatever it is and try to come to an agreement somehow. Stop dating soft women
Yeah dude, at first I didnt even read your post cause the pic almost made my dick explode. But yes.
My girlfriend is very sensitive to what I say, she gets very upset when I joke around with her as I do with my friends.
All other girls I know are like this too.
Women have a very fragile ego so theyre always defensive, you gotta know this when you deal with them.
Still, dont take shit when she gets mad, you meant no harm so she can fuck off.
When my gf gets mad because she got offended and I was just fucking around I send her to eat shit at the speed of light, same with most women.
Yes to all 3
Say it and don't flinch. But understand that women live for compliments
you will end un getting aids, trans and gays are incredibly promiscuous and he will pass it to you
Oh well at least I'm happy
what does that mean?
girlfriend says about going swimming soon
later that day we are shopping
she tries on a dress in her size but it is too small for her butt
'i guess we really do need to go swimming' she says
....'are you laughing at me?'
'you think it's funny? why is it funny. tell me.'
i wasn't laughing at you
'you were laughing and you can't explain why, you were laughing at me swimming. well fuck you, we aren't going. You are so horrible.'
I did the only thing I could do as she was getting hysterical, which is walk out of the store and go to Burger King to get lunch
The only thing I could do when this bitch went crazy was go eat at burger king
Are you jason genova?
Damn, you can't break this man's spirit.
The Burger King bit isn't important, the walking away bit is. I just fancied a BK nigga
I've never had a girlfriend and this isn't fitness related so go away
Dump her, that is pure female immaturity and you shouldn't have to deal with that shit. Guys can be stupid fucking idiots too, but not like that.
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doesn't know about our lord Janoy Cresva
how fucking new are you faggot?
The proper response is "I'm laughing because swimming isn't going to do anything for your ass you dumb cunt."
I'm happy for you user
She's shit testing you. Stop falling for the bait. if you learn to dgaf she will stop pretending to be so ermagerdi'mmayad
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I did until it got too annoying and I left her right before Christmas so that I didn't have to buy her anything. I have been seeing another girl who is almost just as bad but talks shit herself all the time... jokes on them though, I'm just killing time until I die.
Dont do this, this makes mustard gas
I went from KHV to having a trap gf
Gotta say it makes me really happy
nah dude I love swimming I'll let her believe she's doing exercise by splashing round in the shallow end if it means a free trip to the pool
Last girlfriend was a SJW that was only with me because we had good chemistry in bed
She avoided any political conversation with me because she knew she couldn't win and would end up triggered
We break up after 6 months
I've met another girl with neo-liberal ideals that crumble as easily as a sand castle. We've already argued about wage-gap inequality and gender, and immigration (even though I'm an immigrant myself).
We're ending every date we arrange with her feeling bitter about not changing my mind.
tfw the conservative cute girl is a myth
I'm not even right wing, but people from the right are the only ones using comon sense nowadays
What to do, Veeky Forums?
God damn I can't believe some women are like that. My wife used to take offense in a similar way, but never so extreme. Either way, I handled it by just saying something like, "look at yourself right now, you're way overreacting and reading into something that isn't there." I never yelled and didn't ignore her or walk away. Just stated the facts bluntly.
Now I can't even remember the last time she pulled something like that.
Is your gf tommy from goodfellas?
Broads say shit like this to bait you, either into complimenting them or (more likely) starting an argument. This lets her justify backing out of something that was her fucking idea in the first place, while hanging it on you.
You aren't in the wrong here. Broom this cunt.
My ex was like this to some degree.
On the one hand, I can be kind of an asshole so I didn't mind reining it in a bit when talking to her, but you can't totally chop off your nuts.
Once you start going out with a girl, you become part of her image, and so she will try to project those insecurities and anxieties onto you and suggest changes here and there. Some of them will be to your benefit, but you always have to keep your true values alive.
I have almost no filter around my GF. I say almost cause I won't say much about other girls (like if I'd do them or whatever) but we joke a lot.
It's better to find someone you're comfortable around.
in my experience the key is ridiculing her for being upset.
is your gf italian by any chance?
casual anorexia/body dysmorphia
can't stop her Sicilian genetics though, so ass for days
swears up and down that she's a 0 or 00, brags to her girlfriends about it.
legs fit into 0 jeans, but her ass doesn't
tugs and tugs and tugs, uncomfortable gets them over but now they're all stretched out and wavy in the waist
starts buying new jeans and cutting the back pockets so it's easier for her butt
say once "do you want me to get the 2?"
DO I LOOK LIKE A FUCKING 2? WHAT THE FUCK WOULD YOU SAY THAT
literally screaming in Abercrombie
don't get the 2
don't get auntie annes because now she's all self-conscious
hold her hair while she spends the entire night binging and purging vodka sodas
still got hatefucked by her
That happened every weekend, in different contexts, until summer when she was wearing more dresses than pants. Then leggings became her uniform and life got easier...until she cheated on me.
ex-ballerina, full-blown anorexia and extreme body dysmorphia
85lbs at her lowest (at 5'10)
steady diet of teatoxes and adderall
cursed with fat Persian butt
only wears leggings because of sizing
always thought I was skinnier than her (kek) because I'm a runnerfag and not really bulky
never have sex because vagene was messed up or something
vagene wasn't messed up, it was getting filled with some asian wang instead.
I don't date anymore.
yeah that makes sense too.
She's an English country girl. Its a shame, her sister has the perfect 'english rose' temperament but is not attractive
NOOOOOOOOO PEOPLE ARE FUCKING HATING BRO
OP here, sounds like my gf. I know i can be harsh sometimes and when thats the case I apologize. On the other hand, about 80% of it is her twisting what i said into something offensive
*people from the far left who are anti idpol are the only ones using comon sense nowadays
still got hatefucked by her
that story makes it seem like you should've been the one to do the hatefucking desu
Wow those are some shitty humans.
How much did you try to vet those girls before dating them?
trans gf banter is off the charts
99% of women are like this because they have the mentality of children, and they are only being used to being told nice things by men I.E people who want to fuck them, so any valid criticism or non positive comment is seen as an insult, because they dont know what insults are.
Please keep lying to yourself
My ex was chill af, and would often vent to me about her SJW friends.
Just gotta filter out the grils who can't handle the bants desu.
i remember the first time I saw this picture
it was the most beautiful woman
now she isnt that attractive to me
those blue spots under the yee
Ex was very chill and on the same wavelength.
Except she'd randomly come out mid conversation with some cruel remark as if it were a joke.
call her out on it every time
"I don't know why I said that I'm sorry"
The fuck is wrong with women?
Why u let her go user
kek I know a girl like this too - shes insecure and is trying to make you seem less valuable with insults so she feels less insecure around you
depends, what does she take offense to?
All the time. But since I am not a whiney little faggot, I don't care. I say what I want regardless of what she says/feels. Goddamn are you guys seriously this pathetic? They are freaking women. Not worth your respect or concern.
Had some exes like that. What it boils down to is that they are insecure. Dump them if they can't handle the bantz, it leads to far greater issues down the road.
The 10/10 I wifed isn't like that. Rolls with the punches and dishes it back out, much like your bros do. Get one like this if your alpha. If you aren't, this type will dump you instead (assuming she gives you the time of day to begin with). Confidence, both male and female, is key.
i know that feel
A lot of women are hyper-conscious of their body, in this situation if you wanted to be most rational you could say something about vanity sizing, thicc being in, etc.
You decided to walk out like an autist.
You don't need to follow ever tenet of The Red Pill, but you should consider giving it a look and seeing what appeals to you. Honestly, life is a lot easier when you treat women like the inconsequential and irresponsible people that they are.
It's saved me a lot of time and energy, at least.
i shitpost to ignore my hunger from fasting so BRAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAP
Women like that don't respond to rationality. You don't argue with a child. You do something to show their behaviour is unacceptable and you won't put up with it.
Walking away and letting her get triggered is a good move
Yeah, it seems like the best way to go. As much as I do value romance and the feeling of love and companionship, I've been through the ringer enough times to know that love for a woman is never what it is for a man.
No, you've embraced identity politics, you've only justified it to yourself by calling it something else.
what's love to a woman and what is it to a man? feels like my gf loves me way more than i do her currently
Her love is conditional. If you slip up, get lazy, if she starts to think your status is lower than hers or you fail to keep her excited and interested, not only will she not love you but you will disgust her.
First gf was a little like that maybe but fiancee not at all. I wouldn't put up with that shit but thanks for taking one for team, brah.
no because I don't lower my standards for the sake of having relationship
Used to be with a girl like that. It’s not all girls, just the hyper liberal ones.
"No, I'm laughing because your ass is incredible and shouldn't be changed."
Even if you don't believe it, that's how you dodge the fight.
Fly away dude. You were laughing at her joke bc the dress was too small for her butt. That’s on her.
Yeah if you're a little bitch who let's women walk over them to avoid arguments.
I need to insult my girlfriend and get into a shouting match in the mall over nothing
You're going to end up very alone if you don't learn to pick your battles. Sometimes it's best to just let shit go, especially something like her trying to bait you into an argument.
Who insulted her? Who shouted? Who argued? I just walked away cos i know from experience that there's no bringing her back after she's lost her temper and she has to deal with it herself
the "bro you can fuck" meme is real
Dude, you're missing my point here. Women are fucking insane, so you're gonna want to learn red flags (like calling themselves fat, etc.) if you want to avoid those kinds of temper tantrums.
No but for some reason I get offended over everything. I fucking hate it. I was never like this before.
Sounds like you have low T
I left her right before Christmas so that I didn't have to buy her anything.
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Same, except she also gets pissed when I use kids gloves. There's no winning
kinda. my girlfriend is very independent even though she'd do pretty much everything for me. nevertheless, my biggest problem with her are still her attitudes
isn't afraid of raising her voice when I'm shopping with her and I anger her
tends to raise her voice in general because of unimportant shit like me taking the wrong (dirty) towel to clean the dishes at her place
doesn't like to address things that piss her off immediately but annoys me by being passive aggressive a few days later
I've been together with her for five years now but I have made sure to tell her that especially her getting loud is a huge problem I have. once I find a job (just finished university), I'll start being more critical of her because somewhere down the line, I'll want to move in with her and I'm definitely not going to accept that shit if I have to hear it on a daily basis. I have no problem breaking up with her if she isn't willing to constrain herself
sounds plausible, everything was great until i lost 20kg and found a couple of friends. her problem with "us" is we don't really share any major interests and she got kinda bummed out when i started going out to play dnd and train with my new friends(one is a cute grill so she's jealous of her to boot)
what bothers me is i like being with her despite the fact we mostly just sit huddled together watcing some cancer on the telly. i enjoy that a lot but it feels like at some point it won't be enough for either of us to love eachother
The girls that are fine with 'offensive' talk also tend to be less ladylike and shittier people in general. They aren't like guys who can seamlessly switch between being mature and being juvenile as the situation requires. I'd rather have a more feminine but sensitive gf over a one-of-the-guys kind of girl who can't act her age when she needs to.
Yes I'm sure that girls who can be feminine and not sensitive exist. Just haven't met one yet.
how can you brap if you didnt eat any food to create the brapping gas?
My exgf got so mad once she didnt talk to me for 3yrs. One day she calls me and says wtf you didnt call me first after all this time, youre the worst bf ever but i forgive you.
I told her to never call me again
I tell my girlfriend shes a fat bitch and to shut her mouth all the time.
She dont seem to care much she just puts her head down and looks a little sad.
Go to church. Meet a girl there.
Guaranteed that she has a tumblr where she posts updates of her abusive relationship. Not that she'll do anything to change her situation though.
I know that feel mate. my girlfriend changes her mind all the time. hate that shit
for some people it's normal but as much as I love fun and shit talking, I don't like disrespecting one another. literally hate when someone says stuff like "shut the fuck up" to me. told my gf that I hated it and she managed to say it provokingly to me. told her that I was only going to take it one more time after a while. she said it provokingly somewhere down the line and I just left her home and didn't answer her for a day. told her that I would literally not contact her for a week next time. she hasn't done it since
I tell my girlfriend shes a fat bitch and to shut her mouth all the time
i really hope you don't really do that. that's just flat out hurtful, you dick
I hate it when girls say they're fat though. just the other day
my gf tells me "I'm too fat for every jeans I put on" while shopping
she started working out and now has bigger legs because of it
I tell her that's pretty normal
her: "no, you don't have a clue. my ass is too fat in every single pants I try on"
me: "well, then lose some fucking weight"
her: "so you think I'm fat?"
me: "no, you just told me that you're fat"
her: "and you are confirming that"
me: "not really. I had literally two options: confirm what you said or say it ain't so. first I said it wasn't so and you said I was talking crap. then I agree with you and you don't like it. fuck that, that's literal proof that there is no pleasing women"
Have any of you had a girlfriend
she was fishing for compliment by using self depricating humor. When women do this they arent trying to be funny they are trying to get validation that there is nothing wrong with their insecurity.
tfw no comfortably chubby gf
do not argue with /r9k/
wanna know how I know youre average AT BEST?
Living the lyfee
Man can I pat your gf's head and give her treats? Just wanna see her smile again
Is it possible to date a hot girl and still have peace of mind?
As in she isn't a headache herself and you don't worry about the army of men trying to slide into her inbox
These weren't problems I factored in when going for my goal girls
The reason i started lifting was so i could leverage myself in these situations.
el goblino negro...
your ass is incredible and shouldn't be changed."
pure beta response, you even wrote this in a cringey beta way not unlike one of those incels you see on reddit complimenting some chick in the comments section
the alpha thing would be to grab her ass and kiss her right then
good luck bro. Sounds like you have your head sorted at least.
Damn that sounds like a tricky situation
perhaps im heartless but why dont you smash the qt you share hobbies with?
It may be painful but if you two dont share enough in common to get on OK it could be a real issue especially in the far future
My only gf was a college/university age girl who wasn't full blown tumblr would get buttblasted by anything right wing. It was annoying, she was annoying. Glad I got to fuck and experience a relationship but glad I'm done.
Yes, my ex. She was mentally ill and breaking up with her was the best decision of my life.
Now days I spit /pol/ level degeneracy in front of girls I date. Helps filter out the garbage. Surprisingly most girls don't mind or they even find it funny or agree with me.
have normal 10/10 hot as fuck getting mired in public all the time gf
she understands me completely
I love generation Z, I wouldn't see m*Llenial girls acting like this desu
I'm on nofap and traps keep looking better and better pls stop theres this trannie in my math class who always makes eyes at me I might take him into the bathroom and rape his little boipucci
This is a sad true but also at the same time a necessary truth. Men aren't forged by being lazy and remaining insecure into adulthood. If you want to make something out of your life you gotta have the qualities to keep a woman interested in you.
Having a woman love you for displaying such characteristics is basically just a byproduct of being successful in life regardless. Problem is that many guys nowadays believe in the stupid "hurr durr love is 5eva" meme and are WAAAAY to quick to stay in their comfort zone.
Also ask yourself: would you REALLY be happy in a relationship knowing that you're fucking up and slipping?
Never seen an attractive girl at church and I've been going for 22 years
Sign of low int and/or pretty girl coddling. Just stop dating Stacy’s user, get a nerd gf or a girl who isn’t conventionally attractive. Currently dating 6’ 9/10 qt, never been a huge dude magnet because height was either a deal breaker or too intimidating. Either way she’s unusually grateful and I actually like talking to her, plus the height seems like she’d be physically dominant but really she’s an ordinary girl, just as supplicant as you’d expect someone half her height to be.
The reason i started lifting was so i could leverage myself in these situations.
literally how? it's not your body that does the entire discussion thing, it's your head. I am literally too nice to my girlfriend because I was being an asshole to my ex. I was all kinds of jealous and even calling her a flat out bitch at the end of our relationship. at this point, even though my gf likes to get loud, I try to leave her to it. whenever I get loud though, she shuts the fuck up in no time because she's not used to me losing my shit
discussing problems is the best thing you can do. I literally tell my girlfriend that she has to be less loud about unimportant shit and talk more about the things that matter. you have to give them ultimatums somewhere down the line because if you let them fuck with you too much, it becomes a habit for them. I let my gf off the hook too often so I have to deal with it now. women are like children though (as are most men), if you give them a good incentive, they behave the way you want to
This means she got dicked down good but also abused by her ex. Leave her because you will never be enough
if ALL girls are this way, you're probably doing something wrong OP
Here's how this should have gone:
"I guess we really do need to go swimming"
"Are you laughing at me."
"Little bit, yeah."
Handle the convo with enough of a smirk on your face and it gets shut down instantly.
Whoever cares the least in any relationship holds the power. So stop caring about what she thinks.
I'll take "Reverse Image Searches" for $200, Alex.
This firey actress was one of two stars featured in "Cute Lovely Teen Girls Play On Camera #28."
What is "Ruby Sparx."
That's correct for $200.
normans not realizing the everyday fight between real left and liberals
we truly have lost the ideological war
lmao what about her ? can she keep being a useless fuckhole ?
Not in the AM, bro. PLEASE!
Apologee assepted, send 15 buck paypal for early birfday pressen.
No, I had a friend who would always laugh at the more offensive jokes and stuff. Made her my gf.
puts our relationship on public display on all thinkable social medias
breaks up with me after a week with a text
I was even being the bigger man about it until she tried to make it look like I was the bad guy, fucked a thot with a divine body 2 days after and I sent her 2 snaps of me giving said thot the ride of her life.
??? I've never had this experience. Maybe it's cause i'm still young but I feel like the only girls that get mad when I joke around are the really bitchy unlikable/unpopular girls. Most girls are really nice and take any sort of banter in good fun. Maybe its the approach you guys take? I don't really joke around with them in the same way but i don't really think about it, just do what comes naturally and be friendly and most girls probably won't get offended.
Oh sweet lord my sides @ imagining this
They're all either already engaged, and the single ones are sjw's in desguise.
From my personal experience, if you're attractive, people will have more patience with you instead of fucking you off right away.
But you still have to fight the battle. There's no escape.
He evidently doesn't care, what are you talking about?
You're probably just an asshole.
What do you mean by this? Because I've seen this term applied to any and all political positions.
....'are you laughing at me?'
You lied. You laughed to her face then said you didn't. When she knows you just did. Why were you laughing? Because it was funny that she thought swimming would do anything about her big ass? Just admit you're laughing and say why it's funny. That's what pissed her off. Now she's paranoid, you're laughing AT her and not WITH her and you compounded it by walking out on her, abandoning her to stew in her paranoid ideations.
10 years ago I'd have agreed, but looking at the way things are now...
You're gonna have to try harder than that but you might get at least one /pol/ivian to reply.
I've only dated women with serious mental illness manifested in the form of body dysmorphia and disordered eating. Now I'm done with women.
That's when you don't say anything and instead tongue her asshole and quickie fuck her in the changing rooms.
Or she's going to go find the validation in getting some other dude's dick to ride.
It’s because you fags don’t own it you immediately appease them and say I’m sosososososososorry etc. you have to mean what you say and back it up. They’ll salivate over you. It never happens without an alpha male and you should assert yourself as one. We hunt their pussy, they hunt our manhood and being offended is one of the first punk tests against you as a partner or boyfriend or friend whatever the relationship is, if you hold your ground you prove you’re better than her and that’s alll they ever want don’t listen to anyone who says women want equal footing and being understood. That’s all a romanticisation what men want to think women think like but it’s so far from reality it really is a crime that men don’t clue younger men in on this fact. But this is only the case because we all learn at different speeds with women. The sooner you treat them like the destroyers of your sexual attraction that they are, you’ll never ever be caught out by them and will always understand their somehow universal goofiness that cross cultures, why? How? Because they’re girls and it’s there job to be offended and as such it’s our job to be confident enough in ourselves not to care what they think.
Laughing then being too much of a coward to own what gave you the giggles is very cuckish.
Does most of the shit women do come from a deep seated insecurity?
this is likely. This was a shit test and the correct answer is never backing down. Ignoring it sometimes works
Legit have a solid 7/10 gf who is conservative and very family-oriented and nice. The dream is real.
before i was Veeky Forums i thought having a girlfriend was going to be so great. With experience i can now say i significantly misjudged what relationships with females would be like. I'm just filled with stress, bitches always getting mad about something. It doesnt even matter what girl it is, they are all the fucking same and its really sad actually.
I don't know how to do this. Mentally, I'm convinced that they are like children, but I can't act on it. I'm still intimidated by pretty girls.
You've already made it known to her that she can have these kinds of reactions and you won't stand your ground. Women aren't much different than toddlers, they know who they can walk on and who they can't. At this point, if you stand up for yourself, she's going to leave you. Just leave her. Make sure that she knows how awful she is but stay calm about it.
This is how you fucking look. Try using paragraphs and better separation next time.
My ex was ULTRA sensitive. Would cry and fight over the slightest joke I made and try to cause scenes in public, either with me or random strangers.
My current gf is hella chill and doesn’t let any degree of banter get to her.
But my ex was way hotter so guess how I feel.
Are you retarded or something? That's what a fucking paragraph looks like, he used a paragraph. Just because you're too much of a brainlet to hold your attention to a coherent thoughy for more than a line doesn't mean everyone is.
That's what a fucking paragraph looks like
That's why I wrote paragraphs in plural you illiterate sack of shit.
This. They are around and do exist (i've or two in my FWB categories) it's getting the balls to put yourself about, deal with the enviable rejections and wrong turns that hurt the ego and others' till you find one you can actually be comfortable around, the search continues..
As much as I hate the TRP and PUA faggotry, they have coined some terms that are very easy to regurgitate.
Get rid of oneitis, make women an afterthought in your life, focus on yourself, focus on your career, focus on your pet/s, focus on your family, focus on your living situation.
Once these things become your priority you'll be able to start weeding out the shit females, the ones that bring stress to your life instead of complimenting it will become work, why would you want to come home to more work?
I had 4 hunnies hanging off me recently, I was able to single it down to one over the course of 3 months because the other 3 would be demanding, nagging, selfish cunts whereas this one girl, she sucks my dick, gives me massages, pets my head to sleep. She makes sure my balls are empty and I can dive into the next week with lower stress levels.
She's also not constantly shittesting me, I get so fucking tired of stupid women compelled to do this shit, you're not sneaky doing this you dumb cunt, I know exactly what you're up to. I always throw it back in their face and own what I say, I don't give a fuck about your feelings, I got more important shit to worry about.
Most women are a chore, they make themselves that way, find the one girl who isn't a chore.
long letters make grug mad!
This thread id full of good case studies on cuntology.
Please be alive until I get home...
Have any of you had a girlfriend that takes offense to everything you say unless you use kid gloves constantly?
For 12 years. She pretended to be on the Pill, got pregnant after two weeks of hooking up and i married her for the kids' sake ("user! I don't want our child to be a bastard!" "Wedlock REEEEEE'").
If you wont to take advice from a idiot who put up with it for that long, say you kinda like her, she's hot af, but she's a fucking mentalist at the same time then listen up. Always have another option. Go out of your way to find another option, doesn't matter if it's someone at work, next town, 6k miles away on Skype whatever, have a option, if it drops get another one - she'll know deep down, women have ways and faculties way above the male perception but most importantly she'll secretly like it. Be prepared for the worse though, a marriage/long relationship with someone you aren't comfortable being (mostly) honest with isn't going to last. You can only hold the frame for so long before the damn bursts and you end up a some sort of raging alcoholic or lose all your hair, become a full blown nice guy DYEL who has to virtually beg for sex.
Always keep options.
30+ year olds are just cooler, especially if non-white. They're just more chill and down to fuck without too many questions. Also fun ball busters.
Young girls are too spoiled and haven't been trampled by life yet. I highly recommend pumping and dumping them until they build a personality.
Nah every girl I dont date unless I can be totally autism level blunt with them
luckily I have an autistic GF who gives it right back to me
I literally get erections from her saying
"I understand your point of view, but you are biased and Ill need to research it before forming a view myself"