Tips to DM an ERP

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So, a regular campaign and let the sex flows. It was something I was crispy about because enemy encounters ala Corruption of Champion was too much "in your face", even for my taste.

Is there some light rules system do you suggest me? I could use D&D somewhat distilled in rules but, maybe, there is some more interedting option.

>Lastly, remember there's always a distinction between what people say they want, and what they really want. Think long and hard on this.

Please, explain a little more.

Phone posting right now, so I cant give the list in details but, mainly, is something like this:

>YES
Yuri
Straight sex
BDSM
Master/Pet Relationship
Exhibitionism
Vouyerism
Incest
Fantasy Races in general (specially those draconians from D&D, she has tons of porn of them and any anthro dragon)
Maids
Yaoi
Pegging
Vanilla sex
Forced sex (not sure if just meaning rough o rape)
>NO
Filthiness (sweat, excesive cum, blood, mud, urine, feces, and all that crap).

Big genitals (I guess she means she doesn't like macro stuff, I guess)

Receiving anal sex (which made me feel a little awkard because she let me have it in her butt a lot of times)

Sub males

Ambiguous gender people (traps and androginy). She wants manly males and feminine females. Shemales and herms are ok.

>Is there some light rules system do you suggest me?
Barbarians of Lemuria would be great you're into swords & sorcery.

>Phone posting right now, so I cant give the list in details but, mainly, is something like this:
Regardless of what system you use, consider giving her some kind of fate points she can use to either influence rolls (spend one and get a big bonus) or outright determine (or even retroactively change) the course of events (spend two to tell you how a fight turns out, how a person reactions, or to undo something that happened that she didn't like). Make sure she always has some points to spend, but make sure she's not drowning in them, or she may just start writing the story for you, which probably won't end up being as fun for either of you (there's no sense of tension and less sense of immersion if you're just deciding how shit goes as a player). These points can be a big help in zeroing in on what she enjoys.

Additionally, I'd recommend hand signals. Thumbs up if she's really enjoying what you're doing at the moment. A so-so shake of the hand to indicate that this isn't really the sort of thing she's into, or that you're close to going into something she definitely dislikes. Also, a time-out T (or she could just say "time out") to indicate she'd like you to pause things at the next convenient moment to discuss shit. And yes, she should definitely be able to put the game on pause and have a meta-talk with you about how things are going. If she starts getting a bit too pushy, just remind her that while you want to give her what she wants, you still need enough autonomy to run things, and that it's not going to be very fun for you if you're just following her orders all the time.

That list makes it sound really easy, honestly. Just do an ordinary fantasy campaign with a lot of pervy villains and charmingly dominant heroes. When defeated in combat, her character isn't killed but rather taken captive, stripped down, tied up, and spanked and or tickled or whatever her preference is, maybe throw in some actual rape if she's ok with that. She may be taken to some evil baron's harem where she's subjected to even more of the same and then has to escape, and so on.

>Yuri
Noblewomen fuck their female servants when their husbands are off at war.

>Straight sex
Christianity dosn't exist so having sex for pleasure isn't considered sinful. Instead the main religion revolves around the divine feminine and the divine masculine principles engaging in sacred marrage to create the universe. The priestly caste is doing all sorts of ritual sex magic. Literally just look up various eastern religions. Both the Taoists and the Hindus did shit like this before Christians Buddhists and Muslims pruded everything up.

>BDSM
Slavery exists.

>Master/Pet Relationship
Interspecies slavery exists, Elves and Dragons consider humans to be animals that somehow know how to talk rather than people, and will treat their slaves as such.

>Exhibitionism
Adventurer types dress flamboyantly to prove they aren't cowards. Magical weapons and armor mean that heavy armor is more or less dead weight. Full plate won't protect you from spells, and enchanted plate dosn't have to cover your skin to work.
Aristocrats wear jewelery instead of clothes to show off their wealth, and peasants wear loincloths or sarongs because they can't afford jewelery. The setting is tropical enough that pants never got invented.

>Vouyerism
Wizards and rogues both spy on people.

>Incest
Common among the peasant types because they don't have to worry about arranged marriages. People learn sex from their parents and marry their sisters. Some aristocrats also like to keep their bloodlines pure, but they always end up missing out on important alliances. In both cases the effect inbreeding is minimized by gene flow from prostitutes and slaves who "Don't count" when it comes to bloodlines.

...cont.

Don't.

Ask for specifics on all the ones you have questions on. Better some awkwardness now than later in the midst of other fuckers.

>Fantasy Races in general (specially those draconians from D&D, she has tons of porn of them and any anthro dragon)
See master/pet relationships. I could start a whole thread on this.

>Maids
This is the most common job for an unmarried woman who dosn't want to work on a farm or on a street corner. It's a step above slavery, but involves lots of sex you can't say no too from the master or mistress of the house.

>Yaoi
Manly warrior types like to engage in manly bonding. Because public schools do not exist, pederasty is the socially accepted way for young aristocrats to receive their education. Look up ancient Greece.

>Pegging
Amazons wear carved wooden double ended didoes, and very little else.

>Vanilla sex

>Forced sex (not sure if just meaning rough o rape)
The accepted reality of war is that any non combatants who are unable to escape will be taken as sex slaves by the victorious attackers.

>No Filthiness (sweat, excesive cum, blood, mud, urine, feces, and all that crap).
The worshipers of the goddess of Hygiene operate bathouses which everyone uses at least once a week, if for no reason other than that the priestesses scrub you with their naked soapy bodies.

ITT: The DM's girlfriend is That Guy.
Without fail.

>Please, explain a little more.
What I mean is, certain things sound attractive and sexy in our heads and in reality or in the heat of the moment play out differently. Your gf might be into more extreme things than what she cares to admit to and puts on the list, or she may not actually find all those things on the list quite as hot as she claims. Some people are embarrassed by what they're into, but just remind her, taste is just a thing, and everyone's tastes are different.

So just play by ear, take things step by step and pay attention to what turns her on.