Ask a girl out for the first time in 22 years of existence

> Ask a girl out for the first time in 22 years of existence
> Girl sitting in the library, reading manga
> Kinda plain, but cute
> Creep around her for half an hour from a safe distance, acting like I'm looking for a book
> I really was, but still
> Finally muster up courage,approach and ask her if she's free sometime in the near future
> *giggle* "Ugh...nah thanks"
> She quickly stands up and leaves
> Librarian saw it happen
> mfw

Don't fall for the "YOU HAVE NOTHING TO LOSE BRO!" meme. My self esteem is at an all time low. That's what I get for being born ugly.
Never again.

>"ask her if she's free sometime in the near future"

wtf does that even mean?
did you even try to talk to her?
yeesh

>asking out a stranger in a library
Fucking creep.

What was wrong with that? That's a perfectly reasonable question to ask someone who you're trying to meet. It's ten times more polite than what some guys say. You did what you could OP nobody should knock you for trying.

it's only creepy if you're not attractive

literature

So you used to think you were some kind of blond Menelaus before this happened?

nope, just stating facts

If the first thing you say to someone is "are you free sometime in the near future" then yes it is pretty fucking weird.

Wrong.