20 yo

>inb4 grammar police

Go back to /pol/, you ressentiment-fueled loser.

Those kind of people who judge others by color.

Good luck with life, man. You'r going to need.

>samefag

Drop out if college, get a union job, educate yourself on financial management, quit all chemical vice, get yourself fixed.

i'm not resentful, if i want to have a family i need to be able to support them, i'm just not going to feel guilty that some illiterate trash has to raise his kids in poverty..."30% of children in [my city] are live in poverty, boohoo, so unfair", sorry, not my problem. moreover, if i talk about how much money i make i bet you will come with some resentful shit about me being a "wagecuck" and how i've been "spooked" or something, stay wackin' it in ur mom's basement, nerd

I'm going to read more about it, thanks user.

And you dont think its wrong for me to kill myself and left the child and my gf alone?

blame women and blacks, white brother.

Be proud to be white and masculine

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oh i see, when women and blacks blame me for the fact that they're poor, i'm blaming them? cool, that makes sense, i bet you're still trying to figure out why madame presidente lost, stay cucked, nerd...also i never mentioned anything about "blacks" or race at all, but it's interesting that in your leftist mind u associate illiteracy and poverty with people of african descent, very revealing.

I say this with sincerity:

Marry the woman you're having a child with. Move in together, and make the most of it.

Married men with children make twice as much as their bachelor counterparts. Whatever you are doing you will have a serious drive and motivation to perform better than your peers.

This newfound responsibility is a blessing. Accept it. You will never be "ready" to have a child. Have one now, and adapt, like everyone else does in your situation.

Don't abort it. That's your child in there user.

>Don't abort it. That's your child in there user.

>not aborting and/or abandoning your child

check ur privilege whitey

My kids are the best things in my life. Only self hating anti-natalist materialistic bachelors would tell younot to keep it.

Just think, you'll have a 20 year old at 40. Young and done.

I'm redpilled kid. I'm anything but cucked. I'm a REAL man.

>Young and done.

Yeah, you're definitely life-affirming

Abort that shit bruh, unless you want to dedicate the rest of your youth to raising a shit machine. Also realize that no self-respecting non-white trash girls will want to fuck you if you have a child.

eh, maybe, and people will without doubt think of you as selfish after you are gone. But you'll be dead, and quite incapable of knowing about any of that

being a liberal feminist seems cool now, but you should read Red Pill Women, before u end up a bitter old lady who has to resort to putting on yoga pants and walking past packs of black guys on the corner to get any male attention...get back to me when u hit 30 and see if ur still so smug about have a vag

>And you dont think its wrong for me to kill myself and left the child and my gf alone?

If you were to leave and not provide anything for them there wouldn't be much difference, but yes depending on your point of view it would be wrong.

I was in, and still am, in the same situation. I had a gf I was kinda meh about and she got pregnant. Couldn't bring herself to have an abortion so now I have a kid that I didn't want and I resent the girl, the kid sometimes unfortunately, and I resent myself most of all sometimes. Contemplating suicide was a constant for me, it sounds crazy but it was one of the only things that kept me sane. If I didn't not think suicide was there as an option I probably would have done something really stupid like seriously hurt the girl, or leave them both high and dry. There are healthy ways to consider suicide and there are un-healthy ways. I chose the un-healthy method, but later I discovered Stoicism and life is much more bearable

>self-respecting female

Doesn't exist

This.

White brethren, unite!

True kek

What don't you understand? I'm redpilled. I abhor women and nonwhites.

>Also realize that no self-respecting non-white trash girls will want to fuck you if you have a child.

lol it's so easy to find the woman in this thread...no one cares if a MAN has a kid, but once ur stuck raising Tyrone's kid while he does a 3-5 update, you're not gonna have many options, but you can always blame the white man or something

>Any books to help me right now?

No, but I'd advise you to take a parenting seminar. You're really too young to be fathering a child. You don't want to screw up this kid's life irreparably.

I'd probably steer clear of parenting books. Too many of them are politically or religiously agenda-laden and will probably fuck up your child's psyche far worse than you know. Parenting seminars (as long as you're going through state programs) tend to be more in alignment with modern psychology.

As a 33-year-old man who comes from a rather shitty household, let me impart my three Golden Rules of Parenting:

1.) Never hit your kid. If hitting your kid seems like the only option, then your child is either a clinical psychopath and you should consider having them committed, or you're a massive failure as a human being who's already fucked up their psyche and you need to consider surrendering your child to state custody before you can do any more harm.

2.) "Children want boundaries" isn't a meme. They do want a structured lifestyle. Just don't go overboard and regulate everything they try to take an interest in. My parents were super religious and wouldn't let me listen to any music that wasn't gospel, wouldn't allow me to have friends who didn't attend the same church, etc. I don't speak to my parents anymore.

Although children need structure, they also need room to make mistakes so they can learn from them and develop practical standards. You don't want your kid to hang with a certain class of people? Then let them find out first-hand why that's a bad idea. But also accept that your biases could be totally wrong and you could be misjudging the things you want to avert your child from.

3.) This kind of ties in with number two, but kids also need room to develop their individuality and interests. There's nothing wrong with bringing your child to your church, or into whatever beliefs or practices you might want to engage in as a family. Just don't mandate it.

You'll probably be fine so long as you take things calmly and you love the mother, if you're close to finishing a degree you'd probably be best off doing so otherwise just get some cash in so that you can live in reasonable comfort once it's born.
Read Stoner?
Zen and the art of motorcycle maintenance is fairly uplifting and based around father-son interaction so that might be okay, it's not as beautiful as Stoner.

4 golden rules you should follow religiously
thelastpsychiatrist.com/2009/05/four_things_not_to_do_to_your.html

That's not red-pilled you idiot, that is the literal definition of blue-pilled. You're still caught up in the game of black and white, and I'm not referring to race. Being red-pilled means that you've taken yourself outside the system and seen it for the game that it is. If you hate others for being different from you then you're still trapped. Every individual is 'the unique', just potential. I'm not saying take aggression or oppression up the ass like the people you call 'cucks', but fearing and hating 'the other' is part of the game.

The game of society is mainly divide and conquer, it always has been, it just so happens to work because it's a flaw in our minds that was once a useful trait for survival. If we want to get outside that game and be red-pilled as you call it then we need to leave that shit behind.

child>momentary pleasure of roasties

Also, I'm sorry I called you an idiot, it just frustrates me to have to constantly repeat the message. I honestly just want to help people get unstuck. I fucking care about you user.

>I fucking care about you user.
>caring about a white person

take this alt-right bullshit to /pol/ u fascist fuck

I fucking care about the white race. I don't give a shit about your 'we're all unique' cuckery.

I'm a white male too user.

Another blog post asking for book reccomendations in an attempt to justify itself. Fuck off to /adv/.

You should be proud. You are born inherently superior to nonwhites and women. Take pride in that and let no one keep you down, brother

1. Go to your local community college
2. look up their STEM certification programs (1-3 semesters to get certified at a skill [AutoCAD, machining, welding, autoshop, etc. all have certifications within the programs] to ensure you'll be making well over minimum)
3. Talk to a counselor about and sign up for the classes. It's never more than one or two per semester.
4. Find an entry level job within the industry you're trying to get certified in.
5. Work hard at both until you're offspring goes full human
6. earn your cert before it's first birthday
7. move up within the industry to make a comfortable living
8. go back to school to expand your credentials

i'm currently in a few of those programs and a lot of people are in your position. humanities guys can banter all day with STEM guys, but at the end if it they have nothing to offer in terms of immediacy and security.

well since everything in the world that is unfair and bad is directly his fault, white men must be pretty fucking alpha! everywhere u go all u hear is how everything bad is due to white males, if muslim terrorists blow up a bunch of kids, white males should apologize since they probably did something unfair to the muslims, or if a black guy goes to jail for shooting someone and so his kids grow up in poverty, it's actually all due to white males creating the ingenious system known as the prison-industrial-complex and the school-to-prison-pipeline, i mean anyone who can create such complex and nefarious systems of oppression must be pretty god damn dominant! amirite?

Get an abortion man. The fetus in your gf is not a fucking person, but it will be if you allow her to give birth, and it sounds like it will be one with a severe disadvantage to begin its life

Absolutely.

And we deserve to be on top, because we created Western civilization. But sadly there's a plot against whiteness that have taken control of the West.

>You are born inherently superior to nonwhites and women.

I don't feel that way, and I don't feel inferior either. I don't see other people as my competition, as a means. I see other people as the end. I take pride in who and what I am, but not at the expense of others.

This is good advice. Get started on your education soon so that you have it well underway before the baby arrives.

How do you feel about the mother OP?

This /pol/ LARP'ing has to stop.

Congrats, you've been brainwashed by cultural marxism

Remember there is Advice (literature...) on EVERYTHING.

There is no shame in asking someone more experienced.

(Derived indirectly from "The Art of Manliness"-Blog-Article about the existence of literature that taught young man how to be perfect gentlemen.)

IMO A child should have both parents at its disposal.

You really need someone to teach you about being a father. (Should apply to mother too.)

The bare minimum should be brushing up your skills related to running a household (Financials included).

Op here.

I didn't want this thread to become about /pol/ shit so I'm sorry. I am really looking for some kind of help since now I'll have to take care of someone.

Books help people so... I thought it was a good idea

>The fetus in your gf is not a fucking person, but it will be if you allow her to give birth

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yeah, it's so obvious it's some rich white girl taking out her frustration on madame presidente's loss, it was HER turn but the white males ruined it all! not fair!

lol you're going to get absolutely mown down by women and non-whites in college.

Asking a leftist cesspool how to 'be a man'. These cucks will convince you to abort the child and have a black breed with your girlfriend instead so you can take care of it for the benefit of 'equality' and evil whiteness.

Ask /pol/ next time.

We do love each other for real. So child care will not be a problem.

No I haven't been. Marxism is shit and always has been. I believe in truth.

Do you have a say in the matter? If you aren't prepared financially or emotionally ready for the responsibility a child comes with, then back out.

get a load of this patriarchal asshole thinking the unborn have rights! kill that fucking foetus, being a father is a "spook", stick to playing video games and fucking skanks, oh and don't forget to vote democrat in 2020

You are so despicable, dude

Thank you for atomizing yourself according to the individual-liberal Temple of Market Forces and Consumers. You belong to nothing but yourself.

We are considering abortion. But if doesn't want I'll not force her to do anything. So I'm trying to be prepares for everything

>t. libcuck roastwhore

>You belong to nothing but yourself.

That's exactly what I'm trying to get across to YOU. Being what you were born does not make you superior to others who were simply born as they are.

Kill her and the kid and become a Bohemian.

You belong to WHITENESS, to your NATION, to MASCULINITY, to your FOREFATHERS and HERITAGE, and to the CHRISTIAN tradition

when did Veeky Forums get so /pol/ed out? we probably deserve to get deleted by hiro if we can't talk about books without the superiority of white people or cultural marxism being brought up, t b h

Do you love your mother as much as a stranger?

/r/socialism is falseflagging you idiot

And you call yourself redpilled

Just abort it.

This. It's a conspiracy against us. No one could genuinely oppose /pol/ views.

That is murder.

It has no right to live

crazy

My god, could the faggotry of this poster get any worse?

This is what makes me believe timetravel is real, some crazy nazi-scientist went back to the fucking dingdong pudfucking middle ages and brought back your average peasant and gave him a crash course in modern verbage and just let him go for the the lulz

What gives you the privilege to decide?