So then your answer is, nothing matters - and what you want is basically stupid and impossible and i should just distract myself with an endless series of objectives until i die. I mean, thats basically what i was doing. I worked my butt off for a few years working 3 jobs to get a home and some land. Everytime i felt bad about being male or whatever, i just pushed those thoughts away and watched work out videos and tried to be manly. Only after getting everything i set out for, did i break up with my gf and see how empty living this lie was. Im tired of not doing what i want. Im tired trying to live a life i don't enjoy.
What if gender identity really is a spectrum?
Adrian Howard
Ethan Peterson
>Although, whether user wants to distributes his genes is his own business.
not asking him to have kids. just trying to dissuade him from going full pain-olympics on his weener.
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Nathan Evans
>i just pushed those thoughts away and watched work out videos and tried to be manly.
that's absolutely not how you do CBT. you don't push the thoughts away. it's hard to describe, but you should look into it.
Wyatt Morris
I see. Are there advantages in doing that?
Kayden Diaz
if i told you im not interested in cutting off my dick, your saying you'd be ok with it? SRS is honestly disgusting as fuck.
Hypothetically, lets say we met and i looked like a girl, and sounded like a girl, and for all intents and purposes, was a girl (minus having a dick). AND lets say, i told you i was a male. Would you be able to accept my existence?
Alexander Evans
without getting too wishy-washy, it's something like meditation. you don't push thoughts away, but you don't "think" about them either. after a few weeks, they don't bother you anymore.
if you're not a larping faggot, humor me and give it a try.
Gabriel Lopez
buddy i don't give a fuck. i just think you'd be a healthier person with a few adjustments upstairs.
Christopher Moore
well what im saying is, your idea of being healthy and how i should act is pointless - so im doing what i want. I wouldn't expect you to understand though, you sciency types are all logic and no feeling. I mean, what do you even want from life? You know what i want, whats your end game?
I did use to meditate, read all about the benefits of clearing your mind and letting go of all your attachments in reality. Getting rid of your desires. But it only cemented to me that this was the right choice in my life. The one desire that keeps coming back. Ill definatly look into all of this, just for you
Levi Howard
>clearing your mind and letting go of all your attachments in reality
again, wrong. it's not trying to clear your mind. i wish there was an easier way to describe the technique.
>well what im saying is, your idea of being healthy and how i should act is pointless - so im doing what i want.
you aren't. someone with gender dysphoria is just that, dysphoric. there will always be something in their mind nagging at them regardless of how well they can impersonate a woman.