Books on women who have lost the ability to feel sexual pleasure?

Not sure of the exact brain chemistry involved, but if you keep repeating something that's immensely pleasurable your brain becomes accustomed to it, so you need to then continue to heighten the sensation in order to feel anything. This happens to guys who masturbate a lot: they need to keep moving on to more and more disgusting porn in order to keep it interesting, and eventually they just get erectile dysfunction. It's the same process with drug addiction.

Yes byt taking a long break from masturbation has not helped :( Im stuck like this

Lol it really isnt, masturbation doesnt work either its nothing to do with being afraid or anxious around another person

Yeah a similar thing happened to me

Im sorry OP itll get better soon

When is soon? Ive been suffering like this for years

There must be some book about it

What about anal stuff? Not trying to be a pervert here, legitimately curious if it's just your vagina that is broken or you can't any sexual pleasure at all.

>have girlfriend
>madly in love with her
>we're both rather conservative when it comes to sex
>the issue comes up quite a few times while we're fooling around
>she just mumbles and refuses to go any further
>a few times after this happens and I bring it up she goes really defensive
>later after we break up I learn that she was basically asexual and the mere notion of having sex gave her slight panic attacks
>go through a sexual crysis myself
>lose my libido completely

I wish to learn more about this myself, but all of this just brings back really bad memories and I'm not sure how to climb over myself and these associations.

sex is for betas (for the competition) and women (for the pleasure)

compared to women, men are not meant to have pleasure, so your situation is normal. take pride out of sex, not pleasure.

OP is a girl I think.

Reminder that catholic girls
-get anal
-love to get anal
-love to feel bad about loving to get anal

Ive tried anal stuff

Its hopeless

I just want another story about a woman in my situation, its the only thing that comforts me

>>When is soon? Ive been suffering like this for years
what makes you suffer ?

how do you relate?. i always saw the movie like artificial and with too Little penetration in the mind of protagonist.

>There must be some book about it

You should probably see a doctor or a psychiatrist. What you're describing seems pathological and you're obviously experiencing distress.

The inability to feel sexual pleasure, especially if it's not by choice, could have some serious consequences in the long run.

Nah, don't listen to this guy (guy!). It's much better to ask a bunch of strangers on the internet.

>some serious consequences in the long run
Like fucking what?

Not my diary desu but I spent most of my college years as an asexual. I had women in my bed at several points but no sexual interest in them. It's like I enjoyed the thrill of the chase more than the big bang at the end.

Seems really weird looking back.

The despair that joe expresses at not being able to enjoy sex

The promiscuity from trying to fix yourself

Beating yourself up

Early childhood discovery of sexuality, only for it to be taken away after only a fleeting moment

mishima wrote a book about some hysterical bitch who couldn't feel shit in the pussy

Doctors and therapists think theres nothing wrong with me

Theres nothing they can do for me

Im stuck like this

en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Female_hysteria

Omg that sounds perfect

Whats the name of it

Have you tried MDMA?

>Early childhood discovery of sexuality, only for it to be taken away after only a fleeting moment
i should say i only see part one.
i didn´t see she´s not being able to enjoy sex. she was maybe sad but, why she search for sex if she don´t feel nothing?. i separate the two things.
in one part her despair and in other part her atracttion/not atraction for sex.
maybe i dont get the movie.

See it's weird because I feel romantically interested in women, but I just don't get sexually aroused.
I don't masturbate and when I eventually do just to see whether maybe it'll make me feel something, but it's just mindless hedonism.
It sounds like you were able to get aroused, though.
How'd you break out of that whole sexuality?

>Doctors and therapists think theres nothing wrong with me
I doubt that, given that the inabilty to orgasm is considered an illness in of itself.

Are you on SSRI's

Assuming this isn't bait

I don't think she's being hysterical, lads. I've met women like this before.

Probably some physical defect yet to be properly categorised or treated by the medical community.

Watch part 2 and youll understand

Yes

I overdosed on mdma because I was desperate to feel pleasure

imo your sexual issues are probably punishment for lesbianism

God must be really confused then because I'm male.

No im no on any medication

I can stimulate myself until I get a pleasureless orgasm, its just strong muscular contractions no dopamine or whatever

Ive been to two doctors and a sex therapist, they all told me there was nothing they could do and to have more realistic expectations

Sorry man, thought you were OP haha

and all the rationalizations about love and shit?. they disappear in the second part?.
because is a very well articulated discurse (maybe too much) between she and the guy in the apartment. it´s not only action, they express the idea behind. or try it.
in what exactly you identify with her. psychologically?.
what are the main reason of the conflict?

>See it's weird because I feel romantically interested in women, but I just don't get sexually aroused.

It just sort of happened. I think being in a relationship helped me link feelings of romance with sex. I remember though not being interested in my ex sexually until we fucked a few times.

My perception of girls is a lot lower these days and it's what leads me to wonder now if I had an idealised image of women that stopped me from wanting to commit to them sexually. A kind of unwanted repression.

I don't know if you've got anything like that?

nice repeating digits senpai

And... nothing? I'm sorry.

>btw I'm a gril

>Ive been to two doctors and a sex therapist, they all told me there was nothing they could do and to have more realistic expectations
what country do you live in?

To be honest I'm just afraid of sex at this point because it'd end up with me getting a panic attack when I'd be unable to perform.

Ideal situation is me getting a girlfriend who's comfortable with how I am and would be willing to try stuff untill we can make it work.

I know it's psychological, because sometimes when exposed to sexual material I get uncomfortable and it's not pathological, because the morning sun pitches the tent.

Sorry for blogposting, I was just surprised to find a thread talking about asexuality and sexual pleasure uncapabilities while I'm suffering from stuff like that as well.

>more realistic expectations
what they mean with this?, what expectations do you have?

>Ideal situation is me getting a girlfriend who's comfortable with how I am and would be willing to try stuff until we can make it work.

Good luck with that.

To be happy with pleasureless orgasms

Yeah, I'm not sure what to say but I can sympathise feeling uncomfortable when exposed to sexual material.

I guess the good thing is that you're aware of it. Do you meet girls easily? Could you convince yourself to ironically try to hook up with girls just to make yourself feel more comfortable about getting exposed to the stimuli while knowing you're in control (you know, so you don't inadvertently have a panic attack)??

I know this feel.
It is the worst feel.

you want to attain a total happiness through orgasms?, why?. you can if you want anyway, but you have to define yourself totally and entirely in relation to sex. something that you obviously are not doing.

not every catholic girl is nora

What about sexual pleasure for women who have lost the ability to feel books?

I don't have high hopes.

I meet girls fairly easily and all humbleness aside could probably grab a one night stand if I wanted to, but that just doesn't feel like the right solution.
On the other hand, becoming really attached to someone and associating romantic feelings with sexual arousal can lead to disaster once the person dumps me, as has already happened before.

I'm sure I'll get out of this situation, it's just that stuff like this weighs heavy on one's mind y'know. I've told some close friends that I think I'm asexual and they just thought I was joking.

On a lighter note, I remember a situation where a girl thought I must be gay because I didn't want to have sex with her even though I was single. I don't want to sound like a dick, but it's kind of entertaining shutting down women who're used to getting sex from anyone because they're attractive.

Could i ask how you meet girls? How do you introduce yourself to them?

As a person would meet another person.
If I had any libido maybe I'd feel inclined to hit on them from the very start or something or grab them by the pussy or whatever an alpha male is supposed to do.
I have no problems talking to them but I just don't have any sexual motive behind any interaction.
Some don't like me, some do and I like entertaining flirting, but it never leads anywhere because of my nature. I like making friends with interesting women and I get crushes sometimes, but they rarely ever involve appearance.

i usually crash from an helicopter through her bedroom window

you could search for Wetlands. a german movie

>To be honest I'm just afraid of sex at this point because it'd end up with me getting a panic attack when I'd be unable to perform.

Dude, don't overthink it, especially not the mechanical part.
Even if you have tons of prior experience you'll still have to adapt to every new girl and find out what she likes.

read about psychology OP
CG Jung is cool af
why do you want to feel sexual pleasure?
how do you try to get it?
relax
take it easy
i'm pretty sur the issue at hand is that somehow you want to fit in this oversexualized contemporary society
know yourself

which is the best part, imho

Sure but once you have sex a few times there is a basic understanding and practice that enables you to not be an awkward mess when you first bed a girl, no matter what she likes.

I feel like im missing out on the best part of life

And I want to satisfy my sex drive

>find out what she likes

I wish I liked something in bed :(

>not liking cuddles and rubbing toes and tickling each other only to end in passionate kisses

>get gf
>great love life
>get married
>great love life
>have baby
>love life gone
>baby becomes kid
>love life still gone
>rotating excuses
>bodily pain
>anger at me over perceived slights
>anger at me over misplaced household item
>anger at me over missing condiment
>anger at me over discussing sex
>tells me she is a mother now and cannot discuss this any further

OP/others, if you guys are interested, r/deadbedrooms. its the only reddit i have ever read, and is black killself tier

Veeky Forums - Sex Life

>No Sex Life

ftfy

Ok, but what it have to do with Buddha?

It's not that women have lost the ability to feel pleasure, but that boredom has encroached into sexuality.

You now have sex simply to have sex, rather than reproduction or love. Because you are bored with life and simply "going with the flow" no longer derive pleasure from the ordinary.

He was an extremely rich guy who owned a haram and got laid constantly, who then realized that it didn't make him happy

The book to the movie is "on Women" by Schopi

That sub is some seriously depressing shit.

Have you and your wife tried therapy

An absent sex life is the quickest path to divorce, don't let it end that way for the sake of your kid, honestly bro.

Pretty sure he realized that hedonism doesn't make him happy rather than losing the sense of pleasure out of excess.

this is the sign of the hubby becoming a cuckold

if you have no pleasure nor pain towards sex, then how do you suffer from lack of sex ?

also, not caring about sex is a good step towards meditation (because there is nothing else to do)

Because I cannot satisfy my sex drive, to the point where I want to scream in frustration

>prostate
>the strongest pleasure ever
>men are not meant to have pleasure

Just get off birth control.

Have you ever tried to go i a doctor, em a gynecologist?

Am I the only person who read that and found it to have a positive effect? It honestly made me realise how dumb I'd been for being so idealistic.

youtu.be/OpHCsNEyWm4

this

100% sure she's cheating or will cheat.

if you need to go to your prostate, then no, they are not meant for pleasure
With The body of a woman it is easier to get pleasure without needing much work.

also, the strongest pleasure is gotten through meditation. it is the strongest because it is precisely not through the 5 senses.

No woman will respect a man that likes something in his anus.

>hasn't had his booty tonguepunched by a subservient girl

gay

Rimming is fine, actual penetration and she will see you as a fag.

Try going on a site like babycenter and typing "dont want sex"

This isnt uncommon.

what are you waiting for eating pussy?

Cheating isn't uncommon either.

>Try going on a site like babycenter and typing "dont want sex"
This is hormonal and goes away 6-12 months after birth.

>goes away 6-12 months after birth
like you'll ever find time for sex once you have kids

maybe you should write one OP