"them" only refers to girls I want to hit on, not every single female. It is logical to be nervous when you feel judged, like someone is expecting something of you, like when you have to pass the test of "make this girl like me".
I am pretty certain I am making things worse for me by talking in that way, but that's not how I feel, it's how it is. It's the same whenever you meet a girl. You judge her appearance and way she talks, and if she ticks all the right boxes, you proceed to do your thing (making out, asking her out, whatever).
Not being nervous means either rejection doesn't affect you, or that you have studied a lot and acquired a lot of experience for the "test"
Although I'm sure I could use other words to sound less autistic.
By the way, give me a break. That was like 3 years ago. I am slightly better now.
Xavier Howard
No. It made them more nervous around me, or at least that's what I like to think.
Elijah Allen
No. They assume I'm gay because I take care of myself.
Hunter Price
Nope. My social skills arent even that bad, i can easily make friends with new people inluding girls. But i have zero idea how to escalate from there or get them into bed. The whole concept is beyond me
Michael Martinez
>if she ticks all the right boxes, you proceed to do your thing
>implying people have standards
Landon Cooper
You should, user. No amount of virginity or dry spell warrants fucking crazy, fat, slut or whatever else would normally be a turn off
Justin Torres
Sure it does. get your rocks off, and move on. You'll be less fixated on finding the "perfect" girl. Oneitis is a bitch.
Ethan Adams
But I like crazy
Elijah Kelly
>Sure it does. get your rocks off, and move on. You'll be less fixated on finding the "perfect" girl. Oneitis is a bitch. The bane of my existence. How do i become more insensitive against girls? I would very much like to bone and dump. It is unhealthy to become attached and feel feels over every girl I "do something" with.
Ryan Garcia
>dyel friend who does nothing but do speed all day has a gf >I can't even get one after lifting for over a year
Why is life so unfair? I just want the loneliness to go away