My friend could probably manage to lose weight but he's got a lot more problems than just being fat. He's a fucking slob and I legitimately hate going over to his place. Dishes overflowing in the sink, garbage stinks, cat litter all over the ground, fridge is fucking disgusting, and there are stains all over the carpet.
He's the reason our movie group split up when I moved states; no one wanted to go to his place anymore.
it's none of your fucking business. it won't fill your life with purpose. it won't distract you from whatever problem inside yourself you're avoiding by thinking about this. no one asked you for help. take care of your own body, and if someone asks you for help then help them.
fucking kids man
why are you so butthurt
My friend said he wanted to come to the gym with me so he could get strong.
For 5 days, I've said I'm going, you should come, and he's come out with excuses.
He was literally the one that initiated it, yet still weasels around going to the fucking gym. It's perplexing.
In short: you can't.
Sometimes I just type like I'm yelling at someone.
Fuck you if you got something to say.
Just tell them to
TRAIN UNTAMMMMEEEDDDDDGDHSSTSHAHADA
I'm the same. I want to be around people who inspire, not impair.
>How do you motivate fat and lazy friends to come lift with you?
You don't, if they look bad you look better by comparison.
This. If they see you having a great life doing what you do and don't follow, then that's on them. But you have to have a great life or it doesn't work. Does your life suck, OP? Would people describe you as a joy to be around?
This.
Time to move on. Get new friends.
Visit them as a reminder to keep moving forward. If they do not stimulate you or motivate you to become a better person, leave them.