>years of having no gf >finally get a hot gf >unlimited sex >comes to the gym with me regularly >im fa with basically no friends >got used to seeing her almost every day and having tons of fun with her >lately shes been blowing me off and making plans with other people
im probably just acting autistic but shouldn't she prioritize seeing her boyfriend over anyone else?
i saw her twice this week and the past 2 days she's said that shes busy and now im stuck browsing Veeky Forums on a saturday night
so my question is.. for those of you that do have a girlfriend how often do you normally see them in a week?
Jace Anderson
>BRRRRRAAAAAAAAAAAAPPPPPPPPPPPPPFFTTTT
Hudson White
Did you ever think that she may need a break from you? Ill tell you what bro, if you dont give her space from time to time...it wont end well.
Austin Anderson
post pictures of both of you
also it sounds like you're being clingy
Samuel Rogers
She should still get the time to see her friends, as should you, if you don't have any friends you should work on getting some, don't scare her away by being a clingy faggot, it's good to both have a bit of space to breathe
Eli Cox
this
OP you both need time apart to do your own things
Henry Williams
if you stick around a girl too much (or anyone) chances are they'll get bored/annoyed its fine give her some space, youre prob being too clingy
Lincoln Howard
Bruh it's not gonna end well. You'll end up seeing her less and less. Have to get a life and make friends or she will lose respect for you and leave you. Happened to me. Being always available and needy is the biggest turn off to women in the world.
Jackson Russell
Everyone else is right I just wanted to add she's probably cheating on u with a co-worker
Jacob Reed
She's probably deep throating chad right this second while ignoring your texts and calls.
woman can't stay with one person. They see every attractive male as a challenge they need to beat and once they've made sure they have you wrapped around their finger they get bored and go find another "challenge".
The only way you can keep a woman interested is by showing her that you don't need her and that at any second she can be replaced by someone better.
once women get comfortable they either start denying you sex, get fat, or cheat.
Evan Edwards
we have only been dating for a month though
plus i hate having friends desu. I like playing vidya and working out thats about it. gyming with her is fun as fuck though
Jack Johnson
>it's an autistic clingy retard drives away his gril into Chad's dick episode
Jose Young
Who hurt you user
Nolan Garcia
she's already fucking another guy with more friends and a bigger dick than you
Christian Jenkins
ur mome lul
[spoiler doesn't work on fit]A girl I loved[/spoiler]
Isaac Davis
>i saw her twice this week and the past 2 days she's said that shes busy and now im stuck browsing Veeky Forums on a saturday night
at this point all you can do is be a good cuck and offer to eat her out after jamal's done railing her.
Angel Powell
not an argument
Jaxson Hernandez
You are going through whats called the "Honey moon" months. Well...you are , not her. Just give her some time to herself when she needs it. BELIEVE me, if you over think this and say something stupid to her...it will be over soon.
Zachary Perry
>>unlimited sex enjoy those first few months
Asher Anderson
dump the whore before she dumps you
Jonathan Cooper
See her daily because I live with her
Isaiah Howard
Telling you my shitty experience here.
We saw each other everyday and when we stopped hanging out as much, it all went downhill. Ended REALLY shittily about a month later. I wasn't the one who stopped planning dates. Whatever you do, don't be clingy and don't be cold. Stick to what she does and what you hear.
You forgot life's n*1 rule, don't get attached.
Jason Moore
I have a male friend that is the same way. He has no friends but me. It annoys me and makes me lose respect for him.
David Wright
Maybe you should introduce him to some of your friends if you're not a stupid faggot
Camden Hughes
U need to get friends famalam
Nicholas Cook
Here's my personal experience op
>had good group of friends who I would go out with regularly before meeting my gf >meet gf >spend all time with her >really felt I loved her >blew off my friends many many times when they were trying to hang out to be with gf >she dumped me >my friend group has kind of drifted apart >they all have girlfriends now >haven't hung out with them since gf dumped me 7 months ago >only contact with them is in our group text message >crippling loneliness now
Basically if I could do it again I would have been a better friend. Bitches ain't shit but hoes and tricks as the saying goes
Brody Perry
You need to shut the fuck up niggerfaggot
Jordan Rivera
Why the fuck are you against getting friends?
Zachary Fisher
Does this apply the other way around, also? I love sex, and during the 'honeymoon phase' my bf was very sexual and up for it a lot of times, to the point where I was so happy I found someone to match my libido. Right now, 7 months in he is turning me down sometimes and I've started to not ask/initiate as much because of this.
Jace Hughes
You two probably need some space.
Look up Coach Corey Wayne. Just type in your girl question on youtube and it will be answer
Camden Cox
tits or gtfo whore
Parker Rodriguez
wear a wig
Dominic Davis
>I love sex, and during the 'honeymoon phase' my bf was very sexual and up for it a lot of times, to the point where I was so happy I found someone to match my libido. >Right now, 7 months in he is turning me down sometimes and I've started to not ask/initiate as much because of this.
Guys love the challenge.
Get a GF, fuck brains out, then she becomes 'too easy' and thus 'boring'.
Male biology is wired for conquest.
Start playing hard to get and/or interested in other things/other people. Say no to sex occasionally.
It's a stupid/shitty game, but it is the game that's being played. Master it, or continue to have bf's get uninterested in tapping your ass (which is fucking stupid, but hey).
Joseph Brown
Yea it does. My advice is to tell him how you feel about it and if he continues, bail. Easier said than done but will be the best thing you can ever do.
Aiden Long
Don't reply to fags or whores
William Gray
>Guys love the challenge. this been with a feminine nonbinary person for a year but fuck i miss playing tinder and going on coffee dates i want to tell my partner to get picker about how they groom and carry themselves more feminine to get me interested but they're fucking moody everytime i bring it up
Kayden Hernandez
she's fucking me
Gabriel Young
>Feminine nonbinary
Grayson Roberts
Tfw I had a fat ass gf like this and she dumped me
I think this is why people kill themselves
Matthew Gutierrez
sage for non-fit thread robotfaggot
Jordan Cox
>shouldn't she prioritize seeing her boyfriend over anyone else? 100% absolutely not. ffs you shouldn't even do this to your husband. get a life dude, you're smothering her. also you have a warped idea of what relationships should be
Eli Rogers
>implying your friends wouldn't have ignored you once they got their gfs anyways you would've ended up lonely one way or another, blaming a girl will only stunt your ability to rectify the situation in the future
Wyatt King
yeah
Jason Williams
>'honeymoon phase' >bf
This generation is going straight to hell. I weep for Millennials everywhere.
Elijah Cruz
Just let her text first from here on out. Next time she invites you out, make other plans. She's either wanting to leave you, or testing you for clinginess.
Logan Campbell
You can't be surprised about a generation with very little understanding of social structure when society, specifically focusing on how people socialize and learn to do so, has been ridiculously disrupted by technology.
This generation simply isn't learning how to properly make sense of a social situation. It's leading to a lot of poor, albeit hilarious, choices.
Charles Wright
you're being needy and clingy. Once the honeymoon is over, it's time to get back to your usual life or they will smell desperation and be over you.
Also she left honeymoon slightly before you which means obviously you're the slightly shittier catch,
Also you're too young to be expecting marriage out of this shit
Lincoln Peterson
what's fa?
Brandon Thomas
Thanks for the answers! I'm trying to improve myself in the physical aspect (lost an extra 20lbs I had, and still cutting), which is why it sometimes felt shitty to realize that even though many other guys want to be with me right now, he is rather 'meh' when I suggest sex. But I guess natural instincts win. And having me readily available might not be the most enticing thing...
Jaxson White
What?
I'm not blaming my ex, I am blaming myself. How did you miss that
Jordan Parker
>what's fa?
I'm guess fa = FULL AUTIST
Samuel Stewart
I can provide the pleasure you deserve, sweetie. ring me
Jack Butler
She's bangin chad. Sry bro, get back on Tinder.
Jack Young
>I'm trying to improve myself in the physical aspect (lost an extra 20lbs I had, and still cutting), which is why it sometimes felt shitty to realize that even though many other guys want to be with me right now, he is rather 'meh' when I suggest sex.
As long as you're easy/available/conquered, he'll be 'meh'. The moment you start looking around for other dick, the moment his 'conquest' is at risk or in doubt, his biology will go 'hey what the fuck I WANT that'.
>But I guess natural instincts win.
Yep. Understand that, master that, don't be 100% available even if you are.
>And having me readily available might not be the most enticing thing...
It's hot at first, then, some fucking how, it become boring/unenticing. You have to/would be wise to learn how to create some 'chase'. Meaning, design it such that he has to chase/hunt/reach for you.
Lincoln Powell
Hi autists. The term honeymoon phase doesn't refer to an actual honeymoon, it's talking about when two people first fall in love they want to be around each other all the time and can't keep their hands off each other. It's very common.
Michael Rogers
They have never felt those feels before.
Bentley Harris
I miss those feels desu.
Josiah Lewis
>I hate having friends You will never have a satisfying relationship. Your gf probably realized you're a loser is sucking off Chad right now.
Hudson Green
fuck off back to /soc/
Wyatt Ward
It's probably been said, but get some friends. Get some other people. It's not great to be the only other person in someone else's life.
Sooner or later people notice and it doesn't do good things for respect. If you can find a good time with her, you can find a good time with other people.
Understand and be honest with yourself if you have personal issues to deal with that might be pushing people away.
Julian Allen
>dude just get sum friends lmao good advice
Aaron Long
one day you will look back and say..."They were right"...
I forgive you user
Sebastian Foster
>getting this mad you were called out for not knowing what love is It's okay bro. We're here for you.
Henry Barnes
I would read entire posts before replying.
I said to be honest with yourself and see if you have some personal issues that push people away. The hardest one to get rid of is bitterness, and many people can spot it very well. Nobody wants to be friends with a bitter person. Sometimes it's just practice, just like asking out women. Other times it's being bitter.
Aiden Sanchez
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Adrian Lopez
Veeky Forums is an imageboard for weightlifting and fitness related topics, not your blog where you can feel smug and superior from your ivory tower Discussion about cunts and whores belong on /r9k/ and /soc/
Nathan Thomas
>i hate having friends desu. Once she discovers you're a fucking autist it will soon end
Anthony Powell
One thing I learned from my past relationships is that do not allow your happiness to depend on other people.
Chase Diaz
This is absolute garbage. Seriously some of the worst shit ive ever heard.
Dont listen to this idiots. Youre bf just isnt attracted to you anymore. Has nothing to do with your aggressiveness.
Colton Ross
not Veeky Forums related fuck off cunt
Jacob Perez
That rugged exterior....who will be the one to break through that. Whoever it is, im sure she will be great.
Joseph Lewis
I want to see you in 40% of threads on this board then. Did you just start browsing?
Liam Perry
You're being needy and clingy
If you don't find something sick to do this saturday night, she's going to leave you. Not trying to be a dick or a memer
Go out and have a good time without your girlfriend. Your relationship will be much much better for it.
She wants to be along for the ride, she doesn't want to BE the ride.
Carson Sanchez
> female non-binary
Bentley Clark
lol at sage. This isn't /b/ faggot
Jose Lopez
edgy
Ethan Gray
>female non-binary
Ethan Robinson
>just keep asking out women, surely you won't be arrested
Levi Green
They're giving you bad advice. Trying to make your bf jealous will push him away unless he's an emotional child, he'll think you're immature, and he might straight up dump you if he's not interested in that flavor of bullshit.
Just tell him you want to fuck more often instead of playing mind games.
Nicholas Richardson
you should be having fun with or without her, she is not the source of your fun: you are. instead of thinking: im having so much fun with her, you welcome her to YOUR world of fun and let her have fun with YOU.
Caleb Kelly
First mistake. Never let a woman move in with you.