>she most likely knows you're not very socially intelligent or dominant
i think so too
>practice with other people
who can i practice with, i don't have friends in the first place.
>What you do and how it looks are drastically different to other people. You probably look like a weirdo who just stands and listens to peoples conversations when he isnt welcome.
that is what it feels like... th-thanks
>i don't have friends in the first place.
Here's your problem, reread it until you find the answer.
>th-thanks
Youre going to make it user. Well as long as you can learn to talk to people.
>Here's your problem, reread it until you find the answer.
i know i don't have friends, but how do i get them? especially when i don't have the social skills to keep them in the first place
Im not a miracle worker and this isnt the board for this. Asking anons to try and solve your problems wont work forever. Ffs just try and make 1 friend, literally anyone. Find another autist like yourself and become friends. Talk to regulars at the gym too. Just start by saying "hey man" when you see a guy there a lot and then one day ask him about his workout is going. Dont try to hard at thinking after that point just think about what you want to know about the guy and just go from there by asking questions and responding to his. Dont make it 20 questions, say hi, ask him how his workouts going, what program hes doing, maybe something else and then let him get on with it. Keep at it and eventually hell probably try talking to you more.
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you're fugged lul
>not very socially intelligent or dominant
this is my fucking problem. sometimes i'm on fire and i'm confident and shit, other times when i feel more nervous all my natural social skill seems to suddenly become inaccessible.
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Join recreational sports groups man. I picked up volleyball and its actually so much fun. Making mad social gainz too.
you can't
just trying doing better with other people
also you can't really become funny, and trying too hard is bad for your social gains