Life Goals Thread

Debts on track to be paid
Visible abs
A chin (no neck fat)
IRL friends

Can work just fine if you advertise it enough and make artisanal products from the animals

Sounds like you guys are really trying to sort yourselves out.

get mad poorfag

Lived with my parents for almost two years from 2014-2016. Fucking sucked, but I couldn't get myself to move out. Finally became motivated enough to do it last May and moved into a studio downtown. Started lifting again that month and it's almost a full year of lifting now. My stats aren't anywhere near where I'd want them to (especially since I started fucking around with lifting back in 2012), but I'm hopeful for the future.

I've got a meh job, no career, no college degree, no gf, a handful of friends (who I'm starting to see more often), and I'm not as strong as I want to be.

In five years, I hope to have hit 1000 lb. total between bench/squat/deadlift. I know that's not much for a lot of people, but it is for me. It's an arbitrary goal that I want to reach before I stop lifting for strength and instead focus on exercising and eating for health (along with moving to vegetarianism). I hope that I have a career and if not that, that I at least have a better job and some hobby on the side where I create rather than just consume. I'd like for a gf, but just being able to get laid would be fine. Building up a better group of friends would be nice, but as I leave my 20s, I don't see that getting any easier.

A few reasons. For one, I'm closer in personality to Nightwing (love me some quips and bants) and my personal trauma/inspiration to take up a mantle like that hasn't led me to be withdrawn from the normie world like Bruce is often depicted these days. Nightwing is basically Batman sans almost crippling angst, and that's more my perspective.

Second, you work with what ya got. I'm a 5'7 manlet, so I'm arguably more suited for gymnastics and acrobatic type shit than attempting to imitate Batman's intimidating wall of muscle.

Third is logistic feasibility, but that would require delving deeply into my autistic planning pieces which neither you nor I have the time for.

right now
>very lonely
>quit smoking weed
>enrolled in classes
>losing sanity
>handling professional and academic life
>miss girl
>very lonely
>very very fit
>good friends

hope to be in 5 years
>see girl again
>graduated with acc degree
>comfy small firm job
>speak 3 languages
>girl
>girl
>more fit, more mass
>small house or apartment
>pet dog and 2 rats
>get a short story picked up by quarterly publication or something small
>books and movies
>girl
>family stop being retarded
>good friends
>sane enough
>girl
>plenty of other good intentions

Things are really looking up at the moment and I'm starting to feel happy again, a bit of back story:

4 years ago, 22 years old
>working shitty retail job
>have falling out with parents
>whole family stops speaking to me
>haven't spoken to a blood relative in 4 years
>depression sets in
>gain weight, get up to 134kg (6'2)

Now, 26 years old
>married
>hitting gym 4 times a week
>lost almost 20kg in 5 months, down to 115kg
>working in financial planning
>putting in effort
>50 hour weeks
>boss just agreed to pay for my degree to become a financial planner
>wife and I building a house this year

The goal at this stage is to be a financial planner by 30 making around $80k pa and be able to travel overseas once a year. Also want to keep working on my fitness, aiming for strong as fuck /thicc/ mode.

i just want a gf

Any luck reconnecting with family?
Mine has always been really close (in fact im rooming with my brother after my last flatmate went mental and pulled a knife on me) and the thought of a fallout like that is terrible to me. But everyone's family is different, you may well be better off.
Gratz on the other progress brah, we're all gonna make it.