Am I fucked Veeky Forums?

This This fucking guy has successfully experienced grade school in the US.

Nigger save up some cash and get a fucking cosmetic surgery. Shit isn't even that expensive and well worth it if you're truly fugly.

That's honestly the issue. You're closed off and no one really knows you. It seems like if you were trying to talk to a girl you would make them the "fucking partner" in your life.

Don't die having never felt love

how do I open up more to people?
like what am I doing wrong

jesus go back to r9k you pathetic cuck

not the user you replied to but it is so hard to open up to people. the only friends I have are from school/university because I know them for so long that they got to know my true self eventually. whenever I hang out with new people and especially girls I find attractive I always try to present myself in the best possible light, and consequently leave out anything that could even remotely be interpreted as negative. I guess that is why I come off to people as closed off because I am very selective about the stuff I share with them and overthink it too much. People like me as "the guy from the gym" or "that guy from work" but there is no emotional connection because I dont really share my personality with them. I only share the part of my personality with them that I know they approve of, which sounds like the kind of thing a psychopath would say.

Not the guy you're responding to but it might be well worth it for you to read ''how to make friends and influence people'' by Dale Carnegie.

You seem like the kind of autist who doesn't understand how friendships work. Read the book, it'll teach you everything you need to know.

When I talk to girls I keep it real. I don't leave out all negatives about myself, being a little self critical makes you seem relatable. Like damn this guy isnt afraid to point out his own faults.

I obviously dont go into crazy inappropriate to share to strangers stuff but you dont have to present yourself as some perfect do no wrong type. That will just put you on edge constantly and any time someone points out one of your imperfections or failures you will take it super personally which isnt a good look

Nah I do the same thing at work. It's a religious hospital so I don't want anyone to know what a fucked up asshole I am. Ironically everyone now just thinks I'm an anti social asshole.

Oh well the trick is to not let it bother you. If you stop letting the way other people think about you matter, you will eventually feel more comfortable opening up.