How to lose my virginity

Can someone please tell me how I can maybe utilize hookup culture to lose my virginity as a 21 year old without looking/being/sounding like a total fucking aspie? I've been hitting the gym consistently for a year now and finally look like a halfway decent human, and am getting matches on tinder and shit with attractive girls, but I really have no sexual experience, at all.

Is it just something you have to embarrass yourself with a few times before you start to get the hang of it? Is it worth trying to find an understanding girl who would let me practice or teach me? Just jump into a hookup and lie with no experience at all?

Post your stories and any help you may have, thanks

its just like the gym

you cant go in and diddly 4 plates on the first session

start from the bottom, dont give up, work your way up

There's nothing to worry about as long as you keep things simple. Do NOT think about your weird fetishes during your first experiences. Play it safe, just get a blowjob and fuck that girl for a while. It should be enough to insure that she will invite you again for "private classes".

How to get there in the first place ? Watch a movie at her place. Just make sure to sit close to her on the couch from the very beginning. If she's remotely into you the rest will be easy mode.

This is pretty fucking autistic, but to get used to talking to women I made a fake account on a bunch of dating sites with some chads pics. It completely took away the fear of fucking up, because theyd always keep talking because they thought I was a chad just a little weird. Now I can talk to them E-Z P-Z in real life situations. Also helped to get rid of social autism

Oh shit wrong thread

I hired hookers and told them I was a virgin. They taught me how to fuck normally, one even taught me how to kiss (for free) because she was comfortable with me. She’s a friend now

The first time i put my penis into a vagina, i came in under 10 seconds. Not everyone is this bad, but it would be pretty hard to lie about that.

I'd recommend seeing an escort to get it out of the way, or with luck you will find a girl who doesn't care. 21 isnt wizard territory but it's definitely not ideal.

Plane ticket to eastern europe, find a young girl to be your "tour guide" around the country, fuck her daily. cheaper than prostitute too, if you are considering price per hour. plus you get to see yurup.

read the book of pook and models by mark manson

To you and every virgo here, don't get a hooker, it's not worth it. I'm 19 and fucked one today and finally lost my virginity. I wasn't a khv, had a gf but it was a short summer thing and didn't manage to fuck her. Let me tell you virgin bros, sex is really overhyped. I literally felt nothing, emotionally and physically maybe because I'm circumcised and it was with a condom.

Just making out with the girl I liked and feeling her close to me, knowing she is so into me, that's the real deal. I imagine having sex with her would be even better. Hookers won't ever let you truly experience that. A hooker won't hold you hand, a hooker won't look you in the eyes like that, you won't wake up with her wrapped around you, you won't gently caress her hair. It's literally just fucking a hole. But there's one thing a hooker will help you with - getting pussy of the pedestal. You will realize that it's nothing special. I know I'm talking like an old dude here while I've only just lost my v, but this really is true. Focus on getting a real gf. It doesn't matter that she will eventually leave you or cheat on you, that shit is inevitable, just accept that and find the girl. It really is worth it, if only for some time, but it is worth it with the right girl.

1. google '[name of your city] escorts'
2. look at the ads on one of the following sites: backpages, cityvibe, aampmaps, eros, skipthegames
3. find one that you can afford
4. google the phone number on the ad and make sure it's legit
5. withdraw cash, set up appointment
6. boom you're not a virgin anymore and can get on with your shitty life

>Let me tell you virgin bros, sex is really overhyped. I literally felt nothing
I think you might be gay m8

OP here, not quite understanding the hooker narrative here

Would it not just be worth it to message any of these tinder girls and just hook up with them and endure the embarrassment? I'm sure I could find at least one understanding girl who would be willing to put up with it

I'm a 30yo khv and you may have a point but man is it hard starting all this shit at my age. It's a special kind of lonely.

You guys over here on Veeky Forums are literally the only people in the world I can really open up to about this problem. Thanks for being here fellas, even if the only answers I'll get to this post are 'ky' or something like that.

I was just offering you an easy solution. Go on Tinder if you want to challenge yourself. You'll get lots of practice talking to women, going on dates, escalating intimacy, etc. You have to really work at it though. These girls are easy but not if you don't know how to talk to girls. It could take you months of rejections before you find a girl to sleep with.

and yes you will say embarrassing shit. embrace it. that's how you develop these skills, just like the pain of lifting develops your muscles

We’re all gonna make it brah

had the opposite problem couldnt cum and got soft pretty fast dont know what is worse

Step 1: lower your standards.
Step 2: install tinder on your phone

user are you me

>not a khv
>19
>had a girl I loved in the summer, had to break up
>fucked a hooker for the first time a month ago
>disappointed
>circumcised as well
>dig making out with a girl I love more than fucking a slut

What's your fucking name

The first time or two that I fucked hookers I felt the same way, it wasn’t too enjoyable, lack of emotion and what not.

Then I realised I don’t give a fuck about all that crap and I just want to bust a nut. Up until recently I regularly fucked prostitutes

Funny. Of all the people, I find someone who finally knows exactly how I feel on an anonymous messaging board. My name is user, and we are all gonna make it brah.

Didn't lose mine until 21, just find a chick and do it. Don't have to tell them shit about it and the sex part is honestly easy as shit, just gotta go for it and don't overthink it

This.

And I think you're a teenager.

> don't overthink it
this is the hard part for me

>tfw lost my virginity 2 days ago with the girl i love

fucked 1st in late 20s . I was celibate since I wanted to find a woman Id love, for my first time. It never happened. So I fucked a girl who liked me and my dick liked her. She was a solid person and break up was mutual for reasons I wont go into here.

As other anons say, its overhyped. I throatfucked her, I tied her up, I did all I wanted with her and it was NICE AND COOL BUT it wasnt worth all the worry and stress that YOU feel right now.

I know. I went trough that. And If I could tell one thing to past me it would be - relax, love yourself, walk like you own the world, smile like u got no troubles at all AND CONSUME WOMEN THAT YOU LIKE DONT EVER POSTPONE CONTACT OR SEX BE A BEAST JUST GO 4 IT AND NEVER EVER APOLOGIZE.

Now that I have all the experience fucking and a lot approaching and seducing (100s of approaches) I literally dont have desire to go out and meet women.
As soon as I see a woman I know from her "vibe" if she is good 4 me, and most are empty headed sluts who would devalue me as human bean if I were with them. So I effort to control my urges via noporn and nofap with letting off steam here and there.

When I see a woman I dig, I absolutely approach and talk to her, but that shit happens on a few-monthly basis, few times a year, and clubbing etc is not a place I feel comfy meeting women. Too narcissistic.

But daylight and on the street - I AM KING. I love it that way. Get more mires too.
And u can see the true beauty not the "club edition" thots.

Basically: go for women u like not for uggos
read Manual - how to give women what they want - by W. Anton it will clarify everything.
never apologize
in sex use woman for your pleasure
and enjoy life


I went trough lot of pain of not finding the One which I wanted to be my 1st, and finally in my late 20s I said FUCK IT, and fucked. But if u feel the FEEL and know the PAIN, I want u to know - its not worth it. No woman can be worth that pain, so just stop hurting urself. Its all gonna be alright.