Hello all. I'm interested in trying to lucid dream, but have heard that it requires many hours of dedication and meditation. And that you must have a guide, or book, in order to successfully lucid dream.
Can anyone give some recs? I've downloaded this on amazon, but am wondering if there are better alternatives.
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Don't jack off when you lay down to sleep. You should be able to dream again
i lucid dream all the time and never dedicated any time to learning how. what happens in my lucid dreams is i run around & try to find women to have sex with. mostly i become lucid in a suburban neighborhood, and i have to go from house to house to house checking all the rooms & running up and down stairs to try to find a hot woman. i should mention up front that the reason im running around is that in my experience i have (what feels in the dream like) about 15 minutes before i pass off into normal unconscious sleep again, so my lucid dreams are really frantic, like im on a timed shopping spree, trying to do everything i want to do in a limited amt of time. anyway, so im in this neighborhood. all the front doors are always unlocked, and nobody really minds that im running around their house. sometimes i get some resistance and all i have to say is 'sorry, just looking for something' or some other lame excuse. sometimes it's a complete bust and there are no women to be found at all. other times there are women, but they're very unattractive and i dont want them. most of the time, though, i do find an attractive woman, and they require almost no convincing at all to have sex with. i just go up to them and say 'hey, you wanna... you know?' or something, and they always want to. sometimes there are entire families in these houses, though, and that's when things get tricky, when there's a husband in the house. because even though it's a dream & you know it's a dream, family members can still pose a problem to you. luckily everyone in my lucid dreams is very credulous, and i can tell her son like 'hey, maybe you should go downstairs, i have to talk to your mom about something' and he nods and goes away. the sex isnt that great because all sorts of weird dream stuff can happen like body parts rearrange themselves or your bodies melt together or her vagina looks like a balloon knot. in any case lucid dreaming is one of my favorite things ever and i guess if you can learn how to do it, i recommend it.
OP here, this is why I want to learn how to lucid dream.
>no weed
>no bedtime fap
>dream journal (read before bed, write when you wake)
>reality checks (try to breathe through pinched nose, push finger through palm)
Shit same experience here except sometimes they just disappear on me and I'm left humping thin air. It's pretty trippy.
what can happen to me though is that sometimes i become lucid and begin to think i *might* be in a dream, but i dont know for sure, in which case im hesitant to do anything outrageous. so for example i often become lucid in the house i grew up in, and i know theres a hot mom on the block, and if its a lucid dream i can run down to her house, let myself in, and have sex with her. but if its not a dream, i obviously cant do any of that. so then i waste a bunch of time trying to figure out if its a lucid dream or if its real. then if i havent come to a conclusion one way or the other, what i do is i go down the block to the hot mom's house, but i dont do anything that could get me in trouble like just barging in, which if i knew for certain it was a dream, i would. instead i go down there and knock on the door. and so on and so forth until im satisfied that its a dream and i make a move.
how legit does the sex feel when dreaming? asking for a friend
in my experience, not very legit - i mean, i described all the weird shit that can happen above
and that guy who said sometimes the woman just disappears is right, that's happened to me too
its not amazing for me, but maybe it is for others
Yeah but I mean like, can you feel it on your dingaling? or is it all numb and dreamy, like drunk sex or something